Dr. Helen Wong

She/Her, licensed professional therapist.

[drhelenwong]

I am a licensed profesional who specializes in Family, Couple, and Personal Therapy, alongside Coprophagia Recovery.

I believe in the effects of talk therapy and urge my clients to be honest with me as I will be with them. If you book with me, I can promise to give as much as I am allowed, as therapy only works when both parties are willing to try.

I am always willing and ready to help families and couples and whoever else is looking for a source to vent out their frustrations and take guidance for their recovery.

I take insurance providers but I also accept out of pocket payments. When in doubt, please contact your insurance company.

You can find my credentials listed here and my IMs are open during office hours

check out @presidentpawn !! thats my other blog

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im sleepy, he/they 18, nsfw and adult themes are to be expected due to the shows nature, interact with caution if thats not your jam

[drhelenwong]

Hey uh, something happened to a couple friends of mine and-

Do you have any tips on controlling anger issues?

- @birdtrick

Of course, I wish your friends the best.

Anger issues can be hard to minimize, and trouble may stem from multiple areas. My best advice is to begin to understand where the issues stem from, as they most commonly arise from a lack of control. Finding other outlets for strong emotions is another helpful coping mechanism, as most things are easier to get through if you are not holding onto anything more in the first place.

[drhelenwong]

Huh, didn't expect to find you on here...

- @t0x1cr1ck (Healthy Rick)

Good afternoon.

Yes, I do have my own account, and I do tend to get similar comments. That isn't to say that I mind, I hope this was a pleasant surprise for you, rather than one that may have been negative.

[t0x1cr1ck]

Well I only really met you once, so I don't really have much of an impression of you. And that was when I was a pickle and toxic so...

[drhelenwong]

I haven't met you, and despite my interactions with other Ricks, I prefer to treat everyone like their own person, because that is the way I see it. I am sure you are a lovely person, despite toxicity you have mentioned.

[t0x1cr1ck]

Ah, y-you're right. I guess you wouldn't be the same therapist I met in my dimension. Everyone in my dimension turned into toxins so...

[drhelenwong]

Ah, that sounds quite unfortunate. How did that happen, if I may ask?

[drhelenwong]

Huh, didn't expect to find you on here...

- @t0x1cr1ck (Healthy Rick)

Good afternoon.

Yes, I do have my own account, and I do tend to get similar comments. That isn't to say that I mind, I hope this was a pleasant surprise for you, rather than one that may have been negative.

[t0x1cr1ck]

Well I only really met you once, so I don't really have much of an impression of you. And that was when I was a pickle and toxic so...

[drhelenwong]

I haven't met you, and despite my interactions with other Ricks, I prefer to treat everyone like their own person, because that is the way I see it. I am sure you are a lovely person, despite toxicity you have mentioned.

[drhelenwong]

Huh, didn't expect to find you on here...

- @t0x1cr1ck (Healthy Rick)

Good afternoon.

Yes, I do have my own account, and I do tend to get similar comments. That isn't to say that I mind, I hope this was a pleasant surprise for you, rather than one that may have been negative.

[drhelenwong]

"You seem to have unusual success with Rick c-clients... never got to t-try therapy before my world went t-to shit. I'm surprised listening t-to all the bu-ugh-llshit Ricks bring hasn't driven you mad yet."

I'm more than happy to help those who are willing to try things out. I see "Ricks" the same I do every other person, and I respect them as much as I do every other person.

I hope you're willing to give therapy a shot, whether that be with myself or another provider that you think will work for you. ❤️

[drhelenwong]

Can the embodiment of toxicity ever be redeemed?

That depends on your definition of redemption, the state of this toxicity, and the willingness to change.

To be redeemable is to change and give yourself for others to judge. What does it mean to be toxic, and what makes that irredeemable? Can thoughts truly be separated into two categories, and will you allow those confinements to hold as barriers?

Personally, I don't think redemption is what one should search for, that other matters lie ahead of considering how to be better in the eyes of peers.

Do you think the embodiment of toxicity could ever be redeemed?

[drhelenwong]

So, there's a version of you on this site.

There is a you where I'm from, she is the only human from my dimension I ever speak to, the only one that actually says things that are worth listening to.

I wonder, are you worth listening to as well?

- @h-a-t-r-e-d

Thank you for telling me that you think highly of me, even if it's in a different reality (for lack of a better term).

As for your question, I am a professional talk-therapy specialist, and my job is based entirely on my ability to guide people through their lives. I like to think that along with my profession, my friends and coworkers like talking to me.

Was there something in detail you'd like to speak about? Or just general conversation? I'm happy to help and point you to the right directions for help if that's necessary.

[h-a-t-r-e-d]

The you from my dimension is a therapist too...

If I told you about my problems, we'd be here all day long! So just general conversation is fine.

I'd like to know, does listening to other people's life struggles ever get tiring? I've heard it can be quite the emotionally taxing job.

[drhelenwong]

If you ever change your mind about that, please let me know. My schedule is usually pretty flexible. ^^

As for my job, it can take a toll, but an important role on my job is to not take that out on my patients. I have a counselor of my own so that when my personal problems get in the way of my profession, I have an outlet. It's important that I continue being a safe space where it's needed.

Are you interested in a profession in the mental health field?

[drhelenwong]

So, there's a version of you on this site.

There is a you where I'm from, she is the only human from my dimension I ever speak to, the only one that actually says things that are worth listening to.

I wonder, are you worth listening to as well?

- @h-a-t-r-e-d

Thank you for telling me that you think highly of me, even if it's in a different reality (for lack of a better term).

As for your question, I am a professional talk-therapy specialist, and my job is based entirely on my ability to guide people through their lives. I like to think that along with my profession, my friends and coworkers like talking to me.

Was there something in detail you'd like to speak about? Or just general conversation? I'm happy to help and point you to the right directions for help if that's necessary.

[drhelenwong]

Hi. Do I have to schedule an appointment if I'm just asking for some advice? Sorry I'm new here. Still figuring things out.

Hi, thank you for reaching out. If you have any troubles, shoot me a message here. I will always help with what I can, and try to give worthwhile advice in most cases.

[drhelenwong]

Don't think you have much experience with sea creatures?

What do I do with my grandson? He's extremely jealous of other Mortys that get to adventure no matter how many times I tell him that he'd dry up and die on dry land.

I'm already working on something to fix that, but he's impatient and getting on my nerves.

— @notatentaclemonster

First I want to say thank you for reaching out despite worries that I may not understand. Deciding you need help is an important step, and can be an extra tough one when you have differences in noteworthy areas. While I may not be familiar, I can try my best to empathize and give advice from a professional standpoint.

As for your grandson, I can see how he may feel jealousy when compared to others who I'm told have many similarities to him. Kids are very social creatures, they work by mirroring everything around them, so diversity is an important aspect of this.

I suggest taking your grandson on your own adventures, focus on what he can do rather than what he can't. You need to show him that there are perks to his life as much as there is anybody else, and it should be because you care.

[drhelenwong]

Hey, Dr. Wong. Any ideas on what to do about a mostly estranged son?

Hi, Beth, lovely to see you back in my office again.

As for your son, if you're looking to get back into contact, what I recommend doing is reaching out without force. If you were an Earthbound family, I would suggest phone numbers or Facebook, but I'm unsure of what you use out there.

Make your presence known and show that you're willing to connect and waiting if the opportunity ever presents itself, but it's important to allow him to make the choice. Your actions should only be based on your control, and you are doing your part by making yourself clear.

[intergalacticbeth]

Thanks for the advice. We're still in contact, but it's pretty strained. He visits once every six months. I just let Dad do most of the talking. I don't know what to do. Why does he keep taking his father's side?

[drhelenwong]

Of course, my job is to listen and provide help when I can.

If you don't mind, could you tell me more about your relationship with your son? What sort of situation made it so he needed to pick sides? For children (I'm assuming your son is young), when it comes to divorce and things of a similar sort, their decisions are their way of impacting the world around them. It is the one thing they have control over, so they take it very seriously.

[drhelenwong]

Hey, Dr. Wong. Any ideas on what to do about a mostly estranged son?

Hi, Beth, lovely to see you back in my office again.

As for your son, if you're looking to get back into contact, what I recommend doing is reaching out without force. If you were an Earthbound family, I would suggest phone numbers or Facebook, but I'm unsure of what you use out there.

Make your presence known and show that you're willing to connect and waiting if the opportunity ever presents itself, but it's important to allow him to make the choice. Your actions should only be based on your control, and you are doing your part by making yourself clear.

[drhelenwong]

Thank GOD you're here. I hope you've got time and patience for everyone. I don't know your pay rate but you need to be paid so much more. Thank you for existing 🙏

- @b1rdr1ck

I have time and patience for anybody and everybody that needs it, anybody that needs to reach out can always do so. As for my pay rate, that is something I don't share too often with my clients, but the sentiment is kind.

[drhelenwong]

THANK GOD, WE NEED A THERAPIST HERE

Happy to be of service. I think that mental health treatment is needed everywhere, but I can see how this particular group would need it more than others.