[billandteds]

tag yourself, i’m dumb-ass thot and edgy bastard

[fxposecentral]

[hustleinatrap]

watch and memorize

[brutestyle]

…. iconic

[simon-is-one-confused-boi]

Questions to ask instead of “Am I trans?”

Because, tbh the question itself is so hard to answer, mostly because of the way it is phrased. Same with “Am I a boy, girl, or non-binary?” Here I present you some other questions to navigate your gender questioning journey:

Do I like to be reffered to/seen as/treated as a boy/girl/non-binary?

Do I dislike being treated in other ways?

What are my feelings relating my gender assigned at birth?

What are my feelings regarding the gender I think I may be?

Is there a certain gender you lean towards more than others? (For example, it never crossed my head that i may be unaligned non-binary. I would think i was a demigirl, then bigender, then demiboy, leaning away from girlhood and closer to boyhood with time, but I never thought I could be something other than a guy)

One of the moments when I feel the most euphoria is when I see femenine guys. Masculine guys are too far away from me to relate. Does it feel better to see a guy who acts like you, a girl who acts like you, or a non-binary person who acts like you?

How do you feel when you see yourself in clothes of the gender you think you may be?

Do you not want to change your clothes back to the ones socially fitting to the gender you were assigned at birth? Do you tell yourself “just five more minutes” or something like that?

When you see yourself in the mirror with clothes of the gender you think you may be, does that look like you, or a stranger?

Does it look “strange” just because you’re not used to it, or is it so uncomfortable you want to take the clothes off?

Are you scared of this “”“”“trans phase”“”“” being over? Are you scared of going back to identifying as your gender assigned at birth?

What is the main reason why you think you may be trans? Is it related to gender roles? (Ex: liking more the clothes of the opposite gender)

What is the main reason why you think you may not be trans? Is it related to gender roles? (Ex: liking more the clothes of your sex)

Do you think you want to be certain gender because of the “Aesthetic”? (This could be either about the gender you think you may be or the gender you were assigned at birth)

Can you explain why you “want” to be certain gender? Is there a logical reason?

Would you rather get rid of your questioning by having you mind change to fit your body, or have your body change to fit your mind?

If a magic being came to you right now and offered to give you the body that socially fits the gender you think you may be, knowing that you wont regret it, what would you say?

Based on the evidence, what do you think is more likely? That you are cis or that you’re trans?

[yvessaintlesbienne]

[dynastylnoire]

Kill Challa

[letsolgasidorova-deactivated201]

[blackberryshawty]

Of course I live in constant fear of disappointing my mother like… I’m gay?

[blackberryshawty]

Also I’m ethnic???????

[superheatedplastic-blog]

[m3rryg4m]

I’m a hopeless bromantic, high five me in the rain, fistbump me gently as the sun sets.

[bluehome91]

[foxtrot77777]

One of my favorite things from the McElroy fam is the story about how Justin taught his daughter how to say “I’m gonna kick your ass” to Travis.

She literally followed him around, looked him dead in the eyes, and told him, “I’m gonna kick your ass.”

[youwerefromohioandimissyou]

What does your farm produce?

anxiety

[youwerefromohioandimissyou]

butchback mountain 

they/them

X X

[aclockworkorange]

Rohr Altar, a masterwork by the Asam brothers

[sharkpositive-moved-deactivated]

obscure asks

what’s your favorite way to dress?

if you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?

what movie/game/etc. helps you calm down?

what does your room smell like?

do you like to organize?

what kind of music would you listen to if you could only choose one?

what song is your aesthetic?

what color do you think goes best with your personality?

do you believe in auras?

what do you wish you hated, but actually like?

vague about your crush(es)

is there someone you have mixed feelings towards?

talk about an au or story you came up with

do you like makeup?

do you prefer space or the ocean?

if you could pick any planet besides earth, where would you live?

what form of government do you like the most? (capitalism, socialism, etc.)

what animal would you keep as a pet, if you could?

what do you think our purpose is in the universe?

do you believe in god(s)?

is there a song you can’t handle listening to, even though you like it?

what ex do you miss the most, if you have one?

do you like soft, fluffy blankets or rough/smooth blankets?

what is your favorite thing to learn about?

what country’s history do you find the most interesting?

what do you think about genderbent ____ (insert someone here)

what breakup was the hardest, if you had one?

do you have someone where you can’t decide if you like them romantically or just as a friend?

what do you think about tumblr discourse?

what instrument do you wish you could master?

how easy is it for you to be honest?

do you have any strange interests?

do you have any strange fears?

what food do you binge on when you’re lazy?

when you get angry, how do you show it?

do you have any impulsive movements? (twitches, ticks, flapping, etc.)

what do you listen to music on?

are you left brained or right brained?

earbuds or headphones?

do you like light blankets or heavy blankets? 

[blackmen]

[leflambeur]

by Jack Davison for AnOther Magazine