We as Subs and Masters see a collar as an outward sign of a commitment. To those who don’t understand the depth and meaning of a collar, they may say “why not just get married” well, I have been married and yes I was committed to my husband, but that pales simply pales in comparison to the commitment I have pledged to My Master by accepting his collar.
Let me explain….. A collar is a symbol and let me be clear a collar is not necessarily a large leather choker worn around the neck with a big silver ring attached, for some people that is the case, but for others it can be as simple as a rubber band…. The significance is no less.
So the meaning of the collar for me, is more than “for better for worse, for richer for poorer in sickness and in health” the collar means I give you my everything, My heart…. It’s yours, you now hold the power I trust you enough to cherish it for the gift that it is. My body…. It’s yours to use as you see fit, knowing that the Trust we have between each other keeps me safe at all times. My mind…. I will be open to you at all times, I will answer all that is asked of me, and My spirit…. The essence of who I am is now also yours.
With the collar comes an understanding between Sub and Master that the Master will at all times put his Sub first, that her needs are the most important part of his being, including guidance to a better person. And that the Sub allows and enables the Master to do exactly that.
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