i love the cure, she wants revenge, dazey and the scouts and jack off jill the absolute most music-wise!!
i also love mlp, monster high, living dead dolls, crystals, bleeding edge begoths, politics, facism (the rise, fall and threat of reoccurrence like idk extremism so interesting the patterns tickle my brain), the x files, yellowjackets, but im a cheerleader, the addams family, philosophy, bratzillas and goth as a whole (almost eeevery subculture, the music, fashion, politics rahhhds i love it all!!)
buttttt above all i love my werewolf puppy girl butch boyfriend so much!!!! shes so beautiful!!
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table of contents: books; anthologies, history, novels, erotica, photography. films; movies, documentaries, shorts. miscellaneous; dissertations, articles, etc.
note: everything (minus a few) has a link to access the media! if i am able to find the missing links i will attach them along with adding new content. there are some things that are not specifically butchfemme, but i kept them because i feel that they fit. enjoy!
ąØą§ The Femme's Guide To The Universe by Shar Rednour
ąØą§ The Lesbian Erotic Dance: Butch, Femme, Androgyny, and Other Rhythms by JoAnn Loulan
ąØą§ The Little Butch Book by Leslea Newman
ąØą§ The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader by Joan Nestle
ąØą§ Tomboys!: Tales of Dyke Derring-Do by Lynne Y. Fletcher, Karen Barber
ąØą§ Tomboy Survival Guide by Ivan Coyote
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NOTE ā there is more history content in the film section as well as historical fiction in the novel section!!!
ąØą§ Appearances Can Be Deceiving: Butch-Femme Fashion and Queer Legibility in New York City, 1945ā1969 by Alix Gitner
ąØą§ Baby, You Are My Religion: Women, Gay Bars, And Theology Before Stonewall by Marie Cartier
ąØą§ Becoming Visible: An Illustrated History Of Lesbian And Gay Life In Twentieth-Century America by Molly McGary, Fred Wasserman
ąØą§ Before Stonewall: The Making of a Gay and Lesbian Community by Andrea Weiss
ąØą§ Boots of Leather, Slippers of Gold: The History of a Lesbian Community by Elizabeth Lapovsky Kennedy, Madaline D. Davis
ąØą§ Daring Hearts: Lesbian and Gay Lives of 50s and 60s Brighton byĀ Brighton Ourstory Project
ąØą§ GLBT Historical Society: Museum & Archives ā general LGBT archives, but a great source
ąØą§ Making History: The Struggle for Gay and Lesbian Equal Rights: 1945-1990: An Oral History by Eric Marcus
ąØą§ Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life In Twentieth-Century America byĀ Lillian Faderman
ąØą§ Uninvited: Classical Hollywood Cinema and Lesbian Representability byĀ Patricia White
ąØą§ Unsuitable: A History of Lesbian Fashion by Eleanor Medhurst
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ąØą§ A Crystal Diary: A Novel by Frankie Hucklenbroich ā The razor-edged, compelling, often wryly humorous story hustles us from the blood-and-beer-drenched corners of her St. Louis meat-packing district '50s youth, through the sex-soaked Hollywood alleys of her '60s baby butch years, into the druggy metropolis of '70s San Francisco.
ąØą§ Beebo Brinker by Ann Bannon ā Beeboo, a butch 17-year-old farm girl newly arrived in New York after she is driven from her Wisconsin home town for wearing drag to the State Fair. Befriended by the gay Jack Mann, a father-figure with a weakness for runaways, Beebo sets out to find love.
ąØą§ Departure from the Script by Jae ā AnĀ aspiring actress meeting photographer, femme meeting butchĀ in this light-hearted lesbian romance set in Hollywood.
ąØą§ Doc and Fluff: The Dystopian Tale of a Girl and Her Biker by Pat Califia ā Set in the bleak and not-too-distant future of a culture in its death throes, Doc and Fluff careens through the lives of a pair of outlaw women struggling to survive on the road.
ąØą§ Feast While You Can by Mikaella Clements,Ā Onjuli Datta ā A fresh, queer spin on possession horror with a sharp focus on deeply complex small-town dynamics. A young queer woman who's lived her whole life in the dead-end mountain village of Cadenze finds herself violently possessed by an ancient, malevolent, memory-eating entity that inhabits the caves bordering her home.
ąØą§ Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo ā America in 1954 is not a safe place for two girls to fall in love, especially not in Chinatown. Red-Scare paranoia threatens everyone, including Chinese Americans like Lily. With deportation looming over her fatherādespite his hard-won citizenshipāLily and Kath risk everything to let their love see the light of day.
ąØą§ Lucy and Mickey by Red Jordan Arobateau ā Lesbian life in the late 1950s, early '60s; and a powerful romance & sexual drama between two females, Lucy & Mickey.
ąØą§ Mrs. S by K Partrick ā In an elite English boarding school a young Australian woman arrives to take up the antiquated role of āmatronā. There she meets Mrs. S, the headmasterās wife, a woman who is her polar opposite: assured, sophisticated, a paragon of femininity. Over the course of a long, restless heatwave, the matron finds herself irresistibly drawn ever closer into the older womanās world with their unspoken desire blooming into an illicit affair of electric intensity.
ąØą§ Patience and Sarah by Isabel Miller ā In an early puritanical New England town, a butch and femme fall in love and discover they can run a farm and live together away from the world that sought to limit them and their love.
ąØą§ Satan's Best by Red Jordan Arobateau ā volume #1 in the ten book lesbian biker series THE OUTLAW CHRONICLES. In this action-packed novel we are introduced to the gang of raunchy and glamorous biker women, including the 5 Warlords who run the Outlaws. Enter beautiful blond butch Angelālone rider on the storm.
ąØą§ Stone Butch Blues by LeslieĀ Feinberg ā The life of Jess Goldberg, a working-class Jewish butch lesbian in New York from the 1940s through the 1970s.
ąØą§ The Well of Loneliness by Radclyffe Hall ā The timeless struggle of a butch and femme couple to be accepted by "polite" society. This now classic was banned outright upon publication in 1928.
ąØą§ Butch: Not Like The Other Girls by SD Holman
ąØą§ Dagger On Butch Women byĀ Lily Burana, Roxxie Linnea Due
ąØą§ Love Bites byĀ Del LaGrace Volcano
ąØą§ Making Out: The Book Of Lesbian Sex And Sexuality by Zoe Schramm-Evans, Laurence Jaugey Paget
ąØą§ Nothing But The Girl: The Blatant Lesbian Image byĀ Susie Bright, Jill Posener
ąØą§ The Butch/Femme Photo Project by Wendi Kali
ąØą§ The Drag King Book by Del LaGrace Volcano, Jack Halberstam
ąØą§ The Femme's Guide to the Universe by Shar Rednour
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ąØą§ A Complicated Queerness: Living Femme in a Dyke Community dir. Johanna Buchignani, Emily Hillman ā short film: This film investigates the ways in which gender, power and sexism are lived and experienced within the San Francisco Mission dyke community. The documentary aims to promote awareness of and discussion about the prejudice and invisibility of queer femininity, in order to build alliances and healthier communities.
ąØą§ Before Stonewall (1984) dir. Greta Schiller, Robert Rosenberg ā documentary: The history of the Gay and Lesbian community before the Stonewall riots began the major gay rights movement.
ąØą§ Bound (1996) dir. The Wachowskis ā thriller/crime: Corky, a tough female ex-convict working on an apartment renovation in a Chicago building meets a couple living next door, Caesar, a paranoid mobster, and Violet.
ąØą§ By Hook or By Crook (2001) dir. Harry Dodge,Ā Silas Howard ā crime/romance: A buddy film that chronicles two butches, Shy and Valentine, who collide by chance in the San Francisco streets. Shy is immersed in daydreams about the loving father they lost and Valentine is searching for the mother they never met. Like-hearted mischievous souls, the pair stumbles into a series of shambolic shenanigans ā along with Valentineās girlfriend, Billie.
ąØą§ Dream Girls (1994) dir. Kim Longinotto, Jano Williams ā documentary: Women join Japan's all-female Takarazuka Revue musical theater troupe, portraying men's roles. The film explores gender dynamics, desires, and complexities of female identity in Japanese society through these performers' experiences.
ąØą§ Drifting Flowers (2008) dir. Zero Chou ā drama/romance: Three poetic tales of seeking the true identity. In the first story, Jing, a blind singer, falls in love with her bandās tomboy accordionist Diego. In another time and place, Lily, an elderly lesbian and Yen, her gay friend, create an unexpected bond and support each other in a time of crisis. Finally, we see Diego before she joined the band, when as a teenager she came to grips with her genderĀ identity.
ąØą§ Forbidden Love: The Unashamed Stories of Lesbian Lives (1992) dir. Lynne Fernie, Aerlyn Weissman ā documentary: Ten women, most of them in Vancouver or Toronto, talk about being lesbian in the 1940s, 1950s, and 1960s: discovering the pulp fiction of the day about women in love, their own first affairs, the pain of breaking up, frequenting gay bars, facing police raids, men's responses, and the etiquette of butch and femme roles. Interspersed among the interviews and archival footage are four dramatized chapters from a pulp novel, "Forbidden Love": Laura leaves her hick town and heads for the city, where she meets Mitch in a bar. Sparks fly, and so do laughter and joy. Ann Bannon, one of the writers of those paperback novels about forbidden love, talks about the genre.
ąØą§ Gay Tape: Butch and Femme (1985) byĀ Cecilia Dougherty ā short: The Gay Tape brings āa little fine-tuningā to the question of representation, honing in on the subjective particularities of the butch-femme dynamic as experienced by members of Doughertyās local Bay Area dating pool.Ā
ąØą§ Gender Troubles: The Butches (2016) dir. Lisa Plourde ā documentary: What portrayals of lesbianism are acceptable and who gets erased? Butch lesbians from a wide range of backgrounds and ages provide a compelling exploration of society's assumptions and challenge ideas about what it means to be female. They show the rewards that come with self acceptance. Tender, funny, and thought-provoking. NOTE: after clicking the link, scroll down to the middle to watch where it is available with english audio and french, spanish, dutch, or portuguese subtitles.
ąØą§ If These Walls Could Talk 2 (2000) dir.Ā Jane Anderson,Ā Anne Heche,Ā Martha Coolidge ā romance/drama: This anthology of short films tells the stories of three lesbian couples - who live in the same house at different periods of time - who are at a crossroads in their lives. The second story includes a motorcycle riding, leather jacket and tie wearing butch, Amy.
ąØą§ Last Call at Maud's (1993) dir. Paris Poirier ā documentary: Some genuinely wild women ā and some more demure but no less lively types ā take center stage in Paris Poirierās vivacious documentary about the life and times of Maudās, the longest running lesbian bar ever.
ąØą§ Lives: Visible/Leftovers (2017) dir.Ā Michelle Citron ā documentary: Lesbians in a boxā¦two thousand private snapshots hidden away for over fifty years reveal the rich history of Chicagoās working class butch/fem life in the pre-Stonewall era.
ąØą§ Salmonberries (1991) dir. Percy Adlon ā drama/indie: A woman (played by k.d. lang) who grew up in a small town in Alaska goes to the public library to try and find out who her parents were. She eventually befriends the librarian, an East German immigrant who lost her husband while escaping from behind the Iron Curtain. They help each other try to find closure to the events in their past.
ąØą§ Shinjuku Boys (1995) dir. Jano Williams,Ā Kim Longinotto ā documentary: This documentary offers rich insight into gender and sexuality in Japan via a candid portrait of Kazuki, Tatsu, and Gaish, three trans masculine hosts working at the New Marilyn Club in Tokyoās bustling Shinjuku district. As the film follows them at home and on the job, all three talk frankly about their lives, revealing their views on love, sex, and identity.
ąØą§ Stud Life (2012) dir. Campbell X ā romance/drama: JJ, a lesbian, works as a wedding photographer with Seb, a gay man who is her best friend. After JJ falls in love with a gorgeous diva, her friendship with Seb becomes strained, and she may be forced to choose between Seb and her lover.
ąØą§ The Watermelon Woman (1996) dir. Cheryl Dunye ā romance/comedy: An aspiring black lesbian filmmaker researches an obscure 1930s black actress billed as the Watermelon Woman.
care for your butches, like hello??? ? keep seeing butches saying none of their other partners have like cared for and taken care of them before. we are so lucky to have butches in our lives in general, and especially if they are your partner. they are magical and made of pixie dust even if they like to argue with you that they arenāt. you gotta treat them with tenderness and love!!!!! if you arenāt, youāre getting decked and I will happily be the one to do it.
Natalie Scatoriccio. Brought contraband to a school trip. Tried to kill her dad. Addicted to cocaine. Somehow always has access to guns. Tried to kill a goldfish but felt bad. Will threaten to light your dick on fire. She is the sanest character in the show.
genuinely, if you get with a stone lesbian (top or bottom, doesnāt matter) and you expect her to adjust her sexual boundaries for you, you are a disgusting person. once again, it is already a very small percentage of lesbians. go find someone who already fits your criteria.
The way I am a woman, but not in the way the world expects. Something adjacent. Something sharper. Something that refuses to soften itself for menās comfort.
Straight women laugh when Iām mean to men. They ask how I expect to get one if I donāt smile, if I speak too loudly, if I bite back. Bi women look at my long, sharp nails and my dark red mouth and ask how Iāll ever keep a girlfriend with claws like that. Men decide Im rude, arrogant, difficult. They hear my voice rise over theirs ā unashamed and uninterested in permission ā and wonder how I get anywhere without knowing my place.
They dont get it. They never will.
None of this is for them.
My red nails, my long hair, my lipstick the color of dried wine ā none of it is an invitation for them. My too-loud laugh, my sharp tongue, my refusal to be pleasant are not flaws. They are signals. Filters. Warnings.
I am not built to be chosen by men, and I have no interest in being tolerated by them.
āNo man will put up with that princess attitude,ā they say.
Good.
I want men to stare when I stand still and wait for my butch to open the door, because I donāt touch handles when Iām with them. I want straight women to balk when we walk past ā my finger hooked in their carabiner, their arms full of bags ā because I dont carry heavy things. Iām a princess, and Iām exactly where I belong.
They dont understand that my sharp nails are for love onlyātracing skin, scratching at a fresh buzz, leaving little love-marks that say youre wanted and youre home. That my loud voice softens when its just us. That my so-called bitchy attitude is devotion expressed as protection.
Butches understand.
They understand that I am not performing womanhood for the world. I am not aspiring to it. I am something elseāsomething harsher, something deliberate. Femme is not decoration. Femme is not submission. Femme is not a preference you toggle on an app.
Femme is high heels sharp enough to be a warning. Red lipstick hiding sharp teeth and a silver tongue. Femme is homeācomfort and safety for my community. Femme is being the one who stands in front, the one who speaks louder than the ones who throw slurs, the one who refuses to shrink. Femme is loving butches in a way no one else can, and being loved in return without having to explain myself.
Because they get it. They want it, me, and all that I am. And that's enough.
