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Claire Keane
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@ all those girls who said sugaring would change me
You were right.
I no longer check out the semi attractive scrub I pass in public. I flirt with everyone and charm to the full extent of my ability, just to stay fresh. I’m not fazed when a man doesn’t text back. I’ve got a roster. I keep things to myself and I do it for myself. Ive gained so much confidence and value in myself. My standards are so high now. For myself most importantly.
Being a minority sugar baby has my self confidence at an extremely low point so I find myself accepting these low offers and basically devaluing my self worth. I am amazing damnit ! And no man will lower my value!
I will accept nothing less than $500 a week I will accept nothing less than $500 a week I will accept nothing less than $500 a week I will accept nothing less than $500 a week I will accept nothing less than $500 a week I will accept nothing less than $500 a week
Manifest it until it appears
Never put your all into sugaring. A man wants to pay for your things? Cool, but don’t rely on him. Don’t quit your job all on hopes this could be that one “whale” you’ve been praying for. I’ve seen it happen to some close friends at school who sugar. Putting all their hopes in a man who flashes a little money, but won’t keep up on his end of promises and it was too little too late to get that “shit” vanilla job back. It’s only my opinion from what I what witnessed🤗 be careful out there dolls
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Hey loves! I've been totally MIA. I know, it sucks. But I've basically low key been depressed as fuck because Wonder Bread ended things. Well....things are turning around. Looks like WB wants that old thing back. Apparently things ended with the "appropriately aged" woman he decided to be exclusive with and now he'd like to see me. Let's hope this all goes in my favor. Wish me luck, babies!
His face. I’m dead
Is this How To Catch a Predator or Jeopardy
That awkward moment when you and your mom pass by a 70+ year old man with his 20 year old date & she says, “Do you see what’s going on here?”
Like, yes mom….. I AM what’s going on here.
It’s going down; I’m yelling Tinder
Now, I’m not going to front like I’ve ever had a “real” sugar daddy, because I haven’t. However, I am extremely smart and have noticed that things for me have changed since I began doing this in December, and I’ve recently caught (and kept) the attention of two whales, I’m going to give advice that has helped me immensely become a more experienced SB.
All of this is advice anyone can use, honestly. It’s about what comes out of your mouth, and how these men may perceive you in the beginning. Basic communication.
Why I began sugaring? Because I’m tired of being broke.
In the beginning: I had prepared, but not enough, for what I was indulging in. Seeking Arrangement was not working for me, at all. Craigslist gave me decent men here and there, but most of them were creepy guys or guys that had already responded to my ads a million times. SugarDaddie never really worked, and I’m pretty sure most of the profiles on that site are fake. Freestyling I’ve never even covered, because I have crippling social anxiety.
Tinder has, and always will be, the best medium I’ve used to sugar. That’s where I’ve met my whales and true potentials.
As of late: Seeking Arrangement is still garbage, CL is dry, SDaddie I don’t even mess with, and freestyling remains the same.
Tinder remains the medium in which I get better results. I talk to these men the same way I’d talk with a vanilla.
Back when I began: I’d constantly get asked things like, “what do I get out of things?”.
No one has even mentioned such to me lately. I’d have a copy paste saying shit like,
“Hi x! I like x, y, z, and I am seeking a f, g, h. I don’t have a lot of time to date/don’t date guys my age/etc. Let me know if this is something that you are interested in.”
It wasn’t working for me, and I was receiving results from guys that weren’t material for what I was even looking for. Also, Tinder had already froze two accounts of mine, and I didn’t want there to be a third.
I was simply spewing what I had to offer, but after a while, after too many CL responses of men giving me the ultimatum of sending my photos or facing a waste of time, I decided that I was the boss.
These men are here for me, not the other way around. So, I cut my losses, and changed my attitude.
So, on Tinder, instead of messaging men, I decided to let them come to me. I decided to make it so easy and transparent for them to know what it is that I am seeking. My most recent profile went along the lines of the following:
City I live in. University of X grad, class of Y.
Things you enjoy doing.
Adjective about yourself, adjective about yourself, and adjective about yourself SB.
If I am swiping in your city, I will be there next/I’m coming for you/insert projected dates of trip.
My entire point was to put SB SOMEWHERE in my profile. Not sugar baby, but SB. So, when a man asks me, “Where you from/what are you looking for/school, etc.,” I can tell if they have even read my profile in the first place, and also saves a lot of small talk, bullshitting, and time. There are some men that say that they aren’t looking for gold diggers/SBSD, and it’s only fair to be upfront if that is your thing.
Also, when they ask the questions above, you can hit them with the “did you read my profile?” in a playful way, to make them feel stupid. If they ask what a “SB” is, I unmatch. I do not entertain it for another second.
None of my photos were really risque, except for the first one. It caught the attention of many, many men. The rest were all of me, headshots, because I didn’t have body photos that didn’t cut my head off in the “square” cropping.
NOTE: Men are visual creatures, I get it, and I said fuck that because I’m unconventional, and it worked for me. I’d still suggest putting out photos of your body, if you can. It will save you one of my steps.
So, now you’ve matched and he begins to speak to you. Now what do you say, what do you do?
I suggest remaining in control of the conversation, at all times. This way he will see you are not acting flakey, and also gives you control over how much you get to learn in the beginning, and about what, who gets to talk more, and very importantly, what their career choice is. It also shows him that you want to know the man, himself, and when money talk comes he cannot say that’s the only things you are interested in.
Did they have a fun day/weekend? If it’s a weekday, I ask if they are being productive, this gives me incentive to ask what they do for a living, without it coming “out of the blue” (a past mistake.). When they answer, I respond with my own job, saving them a line. Depending on their profession, I either continue speaking, or cut it.
Now, this only applies to people like me who are after men primarily 45+, but somewhere in the mix I always ask the man if they always date a woman 20 something years younger than them. This will say a lot, as a SB, as what he responds with could be a red flag, or signs of experience.
If he says yes, you can ask him how it worked out.
If he says no, personally, I consider it cut at that point, but don’t always write them off. Most men want a younger woman, but someone in the past had incentive to date this man. Why?
I always mention myself that I prefer older men, don’t have interest in dating men my age, so he can get rid of that deep down feeling that I’m just doing this “for the money.”
If he says shit like, “yes, I once dated a woman around your age, and we had a lot of fun together. We would go out, dance, shoot the shit, and have amazing sex. Unfortunately, we broke up, she moved away/wanted other shit/other bullshit”
I cut it. Nothing in there mentions helping her, or doing anything not vanilla. He’s probably vanilla.
Now, if they bring up, “what are you looking for?”, what I do is similar to what I read from @sugardaddyjournal. In this post, he explains an outline of how to tell a man you are looking for a SD. I don’t quote that verbatim.
In fact, I can’t believe I am saying this, but you should never quote any advice from a Tumblr blog or otherwise, verbatim. A bunch of other girls are already doing it. Don’t copy and paste shit. If you have issues with thinking for yourself, and basic communication, I would highly suggest getting that worked out before pursuing any of this.
I ONLY tell them what I am seeking, when they ask me, or when they are getting closer to asking me on a date. What I say:
To be completely honest, POT, I am looking for an ongoing relationship with a man that can enhance my life, and is happy to do so. If being a SD is not your thing, I understand! But, that is what I am looking for.
STRESS “ONGOING RELATIONSHIP”. Many men use SB as another word for “escort” and may be looking for just that. If you’re not okay with p4p, I suggest stressing “ongoing relationship”.
Now, if he has done it before, this is the part where he brings that up, or he brings up how he does not need to “pay for sex”/”gets pussy all day blah blah blah. If it’s the latter, cut it.
If it’s the former, I immediately derail from that and go back to him. What does he like to do? Where is he living? Has he ever been to your hometown? Get to know the damn man.
WHAT I DO NOT DO ON TINDER:
I do not bring up allowance. Ever.
Mainly my paranoia of becoming reported again, but I just don’t do it. I judge by his profession and history of being a SD if he is true potential. It’s still pretty early to ask about that, as I would be upset if he asked about sex and shit that soon as well. Somewhere between meeting and the meet and greet, I suggest having that talk. Just not over Tinder.
Now, another thing that I mention about myself, to be safe.
I tell them my body type. I’m a size 14, Coke bottle/figure 8 shape, with 36E breasts and a round ass. To some many men this shit matters. This is a superficial line of sex work. If a guy only dates women a certain type, cut it. I am highly intelligent, educated, and am loyal to a fault. If a man doesn’t see that because of my size, he isn’t worth my time.
I say,
Just so we are on the same page, POT, do you have any reservations about voluptuous/bigger/curvy/fat/skinny/colored (yes, this matters to some as well) women?
If he doesn’t care, I’ll feel dumb but relieved. If he isn’t into it, he probably will dry up, or lie about it, to be honest. All the same, cut it.
From there, take note of everything that he says. How does he speak to you?
This is universal. If a man speaks to me in any of the following ways…
Extremely sexual, asking for tons of photos, nude photos, dirty talk, or general time wasting
Asks “how much are you looking for?” and does not budge
Extremely overbearing in talking to you, but does not talk about helping you, or even showing interest in doing so
I cut it.
One, it’s sexual harassment to ask me sexual shit when I don’t know you from a hole in the wall. If they ask for pictures, I ask for money. Quid pro quo. Fuck their feelings.
Two, if he has been a SD in the past, he should be willing at some point to tell you how he plans to benefit your life, and that is also regarding an allowance. I always tell them that I cannot be trusted to write a number on a blank proverbial check, because I do not know their means. When that doesn’t work, I tell them a number “in the mid-to-upper 4-digit range”, or tell them a specific number I received in the past. If he won’t take it, he can’t afford you.
Three, guys like that are probably more vanilla and lying about wanting to be a SD, or want to “spoil” you with mediocre gifts here and there.
Voila. This is how I sift through the bullshit. It’s a much clearer way of avoiding the long game, and avoiding being “too quick”.
The most important part of this entire post
Now, I will reiterate that if you cannot speak for yourself, and cannot communicate adequately, you will waste your time. You should not be asking your peers things like “what do I say when he asks what I’m looking for?” “what should I ask as an allowance?” “if a man is asking for nudes, what do I do?”
You should already know what you are looking for, and not looking to another SB, who is in another place in life, for the answers to what you should have decided in the first place. You should not be looking to strive for things other people have worked for. They look differently, speak differently, walk, talk, have a totally different personality, etc. You can’t be someone that you are not. You have to be confident in who you are because these men can smell the bullshit and weakness.
If you really can’t figure it out, treat the man like you would any cute vanilla boy. It might be easier to charm his pants off this way.
Don’t let the luxe porn and money shots fool you, this shit will not happen overnight, two nights, months or even a year. You have to work for it, and deal with a lot of bullshit. Patience will always help you in the end, because a lot of this is truly luck.
When Your Sugar Daddy Does Something Wrong
I accept rent payments too
sundays hotactics. soo…
YALL WERE NOT LYING ABOUT TINDER. I made a profile the other day and set my profile to the oldest it would allow and gots to swiping. My bio was really really simple. I put ‘I like shoes”. this guy super liked me and his first message was “shoe shopping?” I’m like… are you offering? is this a question? i responded and we exchanged numbers. i posted our convo yesterday and we went to lunch today.
I matched with a lot of guys and could tell there were some that just thought i was cute, and couldn’t tell was trying to weed out the rich. probably just thought i would hook up with them and go out with them, vanilla like. TBH i didn’t wanna try to convert.. I didn’t have the energy andI’m not THAT slick of a talker. I would have good small flirty- talk w a few but didn’t want to give my number out.. I didn’t really have the hopes if that makes any sense.. (its the one thing i like about SA is that everyone knows everyones intent..) but this guy noticed the shoe comment in my bio, and definitely used it to his advantage, which made it very clear to me he was seeking a sb of some sort.. idk.
I chose the restaurant IN Nordstrom so we would have no excuse but to look around on our way out. Not that it would have been an issue its just He was so chill about the shopping when I brought it up texting, i figured he would have some scheme, or would try to avoid it. He was 20 minutes late which was kind of annoying but it gave me the upper hand in a way, time to use the bathroom/ check make-up, and I got us a table. he showed up in a Ralph Lauren tee and flip flops (orange country style lemme tell ya)… lol. So we ordered an appetizer and two salads, and shared. We both had 2 cocktails, i didn’t plan on it but he offered so i was like fuck it. the convo was cool.. so anyways we finish eating and he says should we walk around, and I’m like lets look around Nordstrom. i kept thinking he was gonna try to get me some steve maddens or like jeffery campbell because I was psyching myself out (talk about trust issues, they are real).. then he walked up to the Louboutin table.. my first thought was that he’s definitely done this before. I’m like what do you know about red bottoms Mr.Flip Flops?! they aren’t really my style though, (no offense to those whose it is. they are beautiful shoes) he picked up some boots that were like $1000, so i got a little more comfortable lmao. I asked for Saint laurent heels and valentino flats didn’t have my size. the sales guy ended brining me a pair of jimmy choo’s from the back that were the last pair and they couldn’t display because they’re too big of a size.. lmao the shade. i wear a 41/10.5 lol. it worked out and the pot said i could get them. we purchased them, and I made sure to grab the receipt just in case. we walk around the mall (I had my big sunglasses on.. I need to get some bigger ones so I’m totally unrecognizable), and then he walked me to my car. we kissed twice and he grabbed my boobs lol I said “what are you doing” when he did that not that i even really cared.. but to enforce decorum.. playing hard to get i guess you can call it. I got there at 2:30, got to my car at 5. not bad
he was talking about traveling w me and what not but we will see. but the shoes were a nice investment so I’m interested to see what his next move is.. as of now I’m looking at the website to see if there are any other shoes I like more that I’d want exchange for.
happy sugaring!
The Caucasian Life.
I’ve been seeing this coming up a lot lately and had a couple people talk to me about it and there’s something I really want to share re: romantic partners and sex work, as someone whose received this type of mistreatment several times in the past. A partner seeing your job as anything other than just that, a job, is a major red flag. If they say they’re reluctantly fine with it but need to know everything about every client you have and everything you do with them for their own “piece of mind”, or if they say they’re totally okay with you being a sex worker but push for an open relationship because “it’s only fair”, if they call your job a “lifestyle”, etc- those are all scenarios that don’t end well. Sex work is just a fucking job, like any other, anyone who sees it as anything more than that is telling you a lot about how they view sex and ownership over people through sex.
It may sound silly but personally I like to use the “waitress test” when it comes to partners and how they view my job, meaning are the questions they ask me about my job ones they would ask if I were still a waitress? Like “When do you think you’ll be back from work tonight and do you need me to pick up dinner?” is a pretty normal question on it’s own, however “How many people are you serving tonight?” “What are they going to order?” “Do you enjoy serving every one?” “Do you have feelings for the people who come into your restaurant?” are incredibly invasive, disrespectful, and antagonistic questions to ask.
Seriously, the best (and only good) relationships I’ve had as a sex worker are with people who have treated my job like any other job, who are there to listen when I need to vent about it (without trying to dictate what I should do), and there to celebrate with me when I hit a particular money goal, and don’t expect a cookie for being with me as a sex worker. And I’m telling you not only do those relationships exist and that you deserve that kind of supportive mutually-respectful relationship, but that is the bare minimum of what you deserve. People gaslight sex workers into believing that mistreatment from partners should be accepted because they “put up” with you being a sex worker, so you should give them something in return or exert even more emotional labour reassuring them about it, but you genuinely dont owe anyone jackshit and you deserve nothing less than someone who respects your autonomy and the way you pay your rent.
You’re a fucking diamond. I’m gonna appropriate the hell out of the “waitress test,” I ever deign to date for free again. Love love love it. Stretching the metaphor, but based on my experiences, Imma add:
1) Do they act like pissbabies if you get a great table/regular you truly enjoy dealing with? Is it only “just a job” if you dislike or are neutral about it? 2) Are they upset that you don’t put on your apron to wait on them at home? Conversely, do they insist there are certain things you should only serve them?
Tips for Shopping with an SD
HI babies 💕, On the plane from LA and I am glad I waited to write this post because RF definitely validated my tips. At the beginning of our relationship, I used to get so nervous when it came to shopping in person with bae. Those judgmental old cunt sales women in designer stores, not knowing designer brands or pronunciation, and not dressing appropriately. So here are some of my tips!
1. Search your shopping location and grasp an idea of the fashion. Dress like his young wife not his college-years mistress. There’s no hiding our youth and we shouldn’t but we have the ability to deliver it on a silver platter. In Beverly Hills, I wore my Prada wedges and a simple white dress from Zara. Instead of being ignored by sales reps, I was catered to as MRS. The dress code in Beverly Hills differs a lot compared to Bal Harbor in FL.
2. Learn the names of designer brands especially if you’re requesting them 😂. No saying “baby can I have a (GIV-UN-CHEE) bag.” Don’t embarrass yourself.
3. Research sales taxes in your state and consider shipping it to your home state instead of walking out of the store. Yesterday in store, I said baby we can ship it home because we won’t pay LA sales taxes. He said it was brilliant because we saved more than $400 in taxes 🙌🏼. These men will appreciate your respect for their money.
4. You do not need designer to kill the game and these men NOTICE your respect for money. You do not always have to take it because you can. There have been many situations where RF has taken me shopping and I have left with nothing because I am not an impulsive buyer. He tells me I’m difficult when it comes to spending and that he wishes I was more willing to do so. No need to be as frugal as I am of course ladies. Yesterday when I saw a bag I liked, immediately he said lets get it and gave in his card and he asked if it was near 10k. I laughed and I said I would never buy a bag for 10k lol. He then said I would be surprised because his exes would jump on that in a second. My point is these men notice your hunger for money and designer things so sometimes it’s nice to surprise them. I think this works best in a spoiled girlfriend situation.
5. Write a shopping list. THIS helps so fucking much especially in stores that do not cater to men aka Sephora. I always write a shopping list and prioritize to ensure I can be quick and decisive.
I would love to hear what tips you girls have!
You are not even worth a penny an hour lmao
Aww it's so cute how people like to dry hate anonymously. Still having difficulty finding a daddy? Maybe if you didn't waste so much time hating on tumblr, you could get one.
When vanilla prospects say they wanna be a sugar daddy, but don't have the funds. Don't come for me, I don't tolerate disrespect from the poor. He was talking all this big game until the prices were laid out. Gtf.
a reminder
“I’m really into you”
“I got a big dick”
“I eat ass”
“I got money”
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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