Darling

I'm Miss Darling, a professional Dominatrix and Fetishist at AllThingsDarling.com. ...and these are just some ramblings and photos of things I love. I've a penchant for frilly, pretty, sparkly eye candy. *I'm also the extremely proud mama of Fuck Yeah Multi-Racial*

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people who say y’all

texans

gays

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[dynastydarling]

Also:

Us black people (hay!) *waves*

White people in trailer parks in Pennsyltucky *shrugs*

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Pro tip: if an evangelical stranger approaches you asking to pray for you, there’s inevitably something about you that they see and want to change. [Ex: I attend a very conservative, very religious uni and am clearly tomboyish/lesbiany, and thus am constantly attracting evangelical strangers] If you can’t shake them (usually very difficult), then turn the tactic upon them by asking if they mind you leading the prayer bc “I have a few things on my mind.”

Then talk about whatever it is that’s making them uncomfortable. I ask god to protect all the lgbt+ kids that are lost, isolated or homeless. I mention my non-Christian brothers, sisters, and siblings that have to fight for recognition and respect in a monoreligious nation. I pray for the protection of immigrants and refugees, reminding my evangelical friends that their savoir was once one of that number. You can pray for pregnant mothers to find the resources and abortive care that they need, if they need it, if you’re feeling particularly brave.

This achieves two things: 1) there is no response to this, esp if you wrap it up with “amen, thank you guys so much for doing that with me. I hope y'all have a blessed day” and leave them no room to continue the prayer. But more importantly 2) that group will NEVER bother you again and you will show them, using their own method against them, that their prayer isn’t an act of faith, but of power.

Just thought I’d share bc I know that I used to be accosted by evangelical strangers once a week on my uni campus and never had a good response or ‘out’. This is by far the most effective method of shutting that sort of behavior down real quick.

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Jesus could be a passive-aggressive son of a G and this is right out of his playbook.

[dynastydarling]

I love this so hard 🧡

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I’m watching that documentary “Before Stonewall” about gay history pre-1969, and uncovered something which I think is interesting.

The documentary includes a brief clip of a 1954 televised newscast about the rise of homosexuality. The host of the program interviewed psychologists, a police officer, and one “known homosexual”. The “known homosexual” is 22 years old. He identifies himself as Curtis White, which is a pseudonym; his name is actually Dale Olson.

So I tracked down the newscast. According to what I can find, Dale Olson may have been the first gay man to appear openly on television and defend his sexual orientation. He explains that there’s nothing wrong with him mentally and he’s never been arrested. When asked whether he’d take a cure if it existed, he says no. When asked whether his family knows he’s gay, he says that they didn’t up until tonight, but he guesses they’re going to find out, and he’ll probably be fired from his job as well. So of course the host is like …why are you doing this interview then? and Dale Olson, cool as cucumber pie, says “I think that this way I can be a little useful to someone besides myself.”

1954. 22 years old. Balls of pure titanium.

Despite the pseudonym, Dale’s boss did indeed recognize him from the TV program, and he was promptly fired the next day. He wrote into ONE magazine six months later to reassure readers that he had gotten a new job at a higher salary.

Curious about what became of him, I looked into his life a little further. It turns out that he ultimately became a very successful publicity agent. He promoted the Rocky movies and Superman. Not only that, but get this: Dale represented Rock Hudson, and he was the person who convinced him to disclose that he had AIDS! He wrote the statement Rock read. And as we know, Rock Hudson’s disclosure had a very significant effect on the national conversation about AIDS in the U.S.

It appears that no one has made the connection between Dale Olson the publicity agent instrumental in the AIDS debate and Dale Olson the 22-year-old first openly gay man on TV. So I thought I’d make it. For Pride month, an unsung gay hero.

[dynastydarling]

Jesus, is this true? Man, that is spectacular if so. Wow.

[dynastydarling]

The winter roses are already blooming....they sure are beautiful. Looks like we won't be having much of a fall again this year. It's just Summer and Winter exclusively in New Jersey anymore. 🌹🤷🏼‍♀️🌹 https://www.instagram.com/p/BpXIV4NnWJI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=383763vkibi3

[dynastydarling]

Saturday night blissful thoughts courtesy of a long and exciting chat with a spectacularly fabulous friend. 📷: @sarashakeel https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo5BhJAHAfH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1m43jqa1aw2s8

[dynastydarling]

Throw back Sunday? Eh, why not. This was the first photoshoot I did after going blonde. The rest is history, I suppose. 🤷🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️ https://www.instagram.com/p/BoEJlnQnSxQ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1kqrxpq03xy9l

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Obsessed! 📷: pinterest. I cannot get these nail art styles from Korea and Japan out of my head! I'm so going to learn how to do some of these techniques! 💅 💅 💅 #nailart #nails #japanesenailart #koreannailart https://www.instagram.com/p/BnhgA6bn0PZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=84q3rj8y5h2r

[dynastydarling]

*@kimpetras voice* "Wooo-ahh!" 'Hillside Boys' is seriously stuck in my head today and I'm not mad at it one bit. 💕🤷🏼‍♀️💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/BnEjUXznokN/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4ck9c8i028yl

[dynastydarling]

Straight #genius. (#Art: @lordess.foudre) 🤯🤯🤯🤯

[dynastydarling]

I bought a hat. Can't tell me shit in this hat. Obligatory goofball-ing in the second photo because HELL YES THIS HAT. 👒🤘

[dynastydarling]

A lil bit of the catsuit... who wants a SNEAK PEEK PREVIEW show of me in it? DM me if that person is you 😈😈😈

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Help me decide... catsuit IG short vid clip or photos?

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[dynastydarling]

Some fall weather and I'm like... is it Halloween yet? Go watch some @wewatchedamovie Michael Myers parodys to get in the mood to get the drawls scared off ya! #halloween #michaelmyers #wewatchedamovie #wwam #horror #horrormovies #fall #autumn #sheets #meme #theshape

[dynastydarling]

#fbf #dommelife #spanking Ahhh, there's nothing better than destroying an ass on a beautiful afternoon! 💥 💥 💥 #fetish #domme #paddle #paddling #spank #corporalpunishment #punisher #punishment #submission #submit #yesmistress #obey #otk #bendover

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Double rainbow after one helluva thunderstorm! The sky went from neon yellow to this muddled purple... absolutely beautiful and the photos don't do it any justice! #doublerainbow #rainbow #storm

[dynastydarling]

What have I been doing with my life without #Lightroom? Dang, yo.