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Flirting Online with Class!

Flirting with Class

Flirting online can be tricky business sometimes, fraught with countless perils, heartaches and emoticons, but mainly heartaches, which are caused by perils due to emoticons. The following lines are going to be some tips on how you can navigate through the tricky waters while using online dating websites, and make it…alive.

  Honesty is the Best Policy

The best thing about using online dating websites is a sort of anonymity that is available to its users. That being said, the anonymity that is provided to those who use online dating websites is also one of the main reasons why many people find it difficult to use such sites. If you want to be successful in flirting online, first of all, you will need to upload a photo along with a profile. You need to be honest in your profile and project an image of who you are in real life. Try using a simple picture and not something that’s too posed. Do not over-inflate your success or lie about your physical attributes because you might end up attracting the wrong type of people you.

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Respond on Time

In an age where even children are able to access the world of information from the palm of their hands, waiting two days to send a message is a crime. If you are in a serious online relationship with someone you should do your best to reply within a day, because that’s the nice thing to do. And since there are so many options available while flirting online, making a person feel left out might drive them into simply moving on.

Let’s Talk about Grammar

Just like when we flirt offline, we make a point clear by altering the tone of our voice or changing the cadence of the sentences we use. Quite similarly, when using online dating websites, you use words that are different to the words you would use while typing a normal conversation. Changing the cadence of a sentence is a great way of letting the other person know of your intentions, otherwise they might just read your messages in a simple and clear cut manner and take it just as bluntly. Using ellipses is also a good way of leaving sentences hanging so that all sorts of alternative and delicious assumptions could be made.

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Using Emoticons

The use of emoticons is also another way of making the other person know what you are feeling like and which emotion you want to portray at that moment. So, when you are flirting online, making the other person know when you are smiling, winking, or feeling playful by using emoticons is a good way of trying to express yourself. That being said, emoting your emotions constantly may also lead to awkwardness, so keep the use of emoticons relevant, meaningful and to the point.

Understand Each Other

Flirting online or even having a conversation with another person online is difficult as it is. What makes using online dating websites so darn difficult is that there is no way of knowing the other person’s body language or their tone of voice. It is important to remember that while having an online conversation, misunderstandings can happen, so it is important that you ask for a clarification if a certain statement doesn’t hit you right.

“I Want To Reproduce With You”

As flirting online progresses from ‘just flirting’ to ‘let’s grab a coffee’ you might feel it appropriate to drop the ‘L’ bomb or say something like “I would like to XYZ with you”…don’t, mainly because there’s too much at risk at that point. It is extremely easy and perfectly natural to develop feelings with someone who you are interested in online, but give it some time.

The Profile Picture

Now, this one is, for the most part, for women. The goal of using online dating websites is to attract intelligent and interesting men. So, you need to act smart if you want to reel them in. The first thing a man will notice is your profile picture. I know, guys are pigs and the only thing they really care about is sex. They want a sexy woman who they can take out on the town and introduce to their mom. So, think halfway decent professional, with a little bit of cleavage.

And for the guys, put on a shirt and lose the toupee.

Now that you know how to flirt with class online, you should have better luck in your romantic endeavors. Feel free to share your opinions with us through your emails and comments.

Flirting Tips: How To Improve Your Technique

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This is a good video that talks about “kino” (kinesthetics) which means how to interact with a woman, and touch them in a relaxing flirty way that will attract them to you.  Yes, this video is about how to flirt offline, but I thought it made some good points.

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First Date Flirting Tips for Guys

The most common mistake that guys make while flirting with girls is that they make themselves appear to be interested way too early on in an interaction. The key to first date flirting is knowing when to show interest and when to play coy. Seeming to be interested too soon can make you come across as desperate and needy which will definitely make you look uncool. Remember, you want to make her chase you and not the other way around.

To do that you will need to walk a fine line between first date flirting and first date disinterest. Most men over compensate of underlying insecurities and end up looking too cool for school. Which means, acting better then the person that you are talking to, which is a huge turn-off especially on a first date. Think James Bond.

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First Date Flirting: Break the Touch Barrier

While dating, people don’t just want to be touched, they need to be touched. That being said, obviously, it is important not to do anything in-appropriate, just a few light touches is all it takes to transform an interaction from ‘blah’ to ‘Ka-blam.’ Touching someone shows that you are confident and comfortable in your own skin and will convey a sense of trust with your date. The best way to use the power of touch is by making it playful. An appropriate light touch helps establish a physical bond without making one look creepy.

First Date Flirting: Converse, Don’t Brag!

Secondly, being a good conversationalist goes a long way to first date flirting. No one likes a guy who can’t talk or make a conversation. If you’re not a great conversationalist, don’t worry, just keep a few pointers in mind that you are interested in and would be able to talk about during your date. While we’re bandying on appropriate conversations, most guys assume that bragging will impress a girl. But the truth is, that could not be farther from the truth, bragging, is by far, one of the biggest turn-offs while being on a date and will put you straight on her un-cool list, because nobody likes an arrogant braggart. Instead, be more interested in her and ask her questions, by doing that, you will not only come off as being interesting but classier too!

First Date Flirting: Dress to Impress

If you’re out on a date, she has probably taken an hour or two to get prepared, so the least you could do is complement her effort by doing the same, that is, by dressing up well. To make her feel respected, dress up in something which is clean and crisp. Knowing that you took the effort to look your best will definitely impress her.

First Date Flirting: Don’t Be Late

Make no mistake, punctuality matters a lot, definitely on the first date and especially if you’re a guy. If you are not picking her up, the least you could do is get to the place on time, or better still, before she arrives. Your date would feel more relaxed seeing you there before her.

If you want to fall in love and stay that way, you will need to take the steps that will let make it happen. And if you’re not sure on how to get on track, read the tips in this blog one more time, or get yourself a coach.

What Do You Do On A First Date?

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I like this video, the author in the video gives you great examples of what not to do on a first date.  These guys are professional pickup artists, and sometimes some of them are a little out there and have no idea what they are talking about, and sometimes like these guys they do know what they are talking about.  So listen to his main points.  The first major point being – Be Confident, You need to take Chances, And don’t Play it Safe!  Why? Because it is not Attractive to Girls! Period!

The perfect FIRST DATE

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Another great video discussing first date ideas. Rule number 1 in this video is Do Not Take a Girl to a Fancy Restaurant on your very 1st date! Why? Well you’ll have to watch the video to find out. The author of this video is a Professional Dating Coach and gives some great ideas on what to do, and explains the reasons behind them.

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First Date Flirting Tips for Guys

The most common mistake that guys make while flirting with girls is that they make themselves appear to be interested way too early on in an interaction. The key to first date flirting is knowing when to show interest and when to play coy. Seeming to be interested too soon can make you come across as desperate and needy which will definitely make you look uncool. Remember, you want to make her chase you and not the other way around.

To do that you will need to walk a fine line between first date flirting and first date disinterest. Most men over compensate of underlying insecurities and end up looking too cool for school. Which means, acting better then the person that you are talking to, which is a huge turn-off especially on a first date. Think James Bond.

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First Date Flirting: Break the Touch Barrier

While dating, people don’t just want to be touched, they need to be touched. That being said, obviously, it is important not to do anything in-appropriate, just a few light touches is all it takes to transform an interaction from ‘blah’ to ‘Ka-blam.’ Touching someone shows that you are confident and comfortable in your own skin and will convey a sense of trust with your date. The best way to use the power of touch is by making it playful. An appropriate light touch helps establish a physical bond without making one look creepy.

First Date Flirting: Converse, Don’t Brag!

Secondly, being a good conversationalist goes a long way to first date flirting. No one likes a guy who can’t talk or make a conversation. If you’re not a great conversationalist, don’t worry, just keep a few pointers in mind that you are interested in and would be able to talk about during your date. While we’re bandying on appropriate conversations, most guys assume that bragging will impress a girl. But the truth is, that could not be farther from the truth, bragging, is by far, one of the biggest turn-offs while being on a date and will put you straight on her un-cool list, because nobody likes an arrogant braggart. Instead, be more interested in her and ask her questions, by doing that, you will not only come off as being interesting but classier too!

First Date Flirting: Dress to Impress

If you’re out on a date, she has probably taken an hour or two to get prepared, so the least you could do is complement her effort by doing the same, that is, by dressing up well. To make her feel respected, dress up in something which is clean and crisp. Knowing that you took the effort to look your best will definitely impress her.

First Date Flirting: Don’t Be Late

Make no mistake, punctuality matters a lot, definitely on the first date and especially if you’re a guy. If you are not picking her up, the least you could do is get to the place on time, or better still, before she arrives. Your date would feel more relaxed seeing you there before her.

If you want to fall in love and stay that way, you will need to take the steps that will let make it happen. And if you’re not sure on how to get on track, read the tips in this blog one more time, or get yourself a coach.

What Do You Do On A First Date?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDT2IS_G5qg

I like this video, the author in the video gives you great examples of what not to do on a first date.  These guys are professional pickup artists, and sometimes some of them are a little out there and have no idea what they are talking about, and sometimes like these guys they do know what they are talking about.  So listen to his main points.  The first major point being – Be Confident, You need to take Chances, And don’t Play it Safe!  Why? Because it is not Attractive to Girls! Period!

The perfect FIRST DATE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71c1TmiOo54

Another great video discussing first date ideas. Rule number 1 in this video is Do Not Take a Girl to a Fancy Restaurant on your very 1st date! Why? Well you’ll have to watch the video to find out. The author of this video is a Professional Dating Coach and gives some great ideas on what to do, and explains the reasons behind them.

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Plus Size Dating Tips: For Curvey Women!

Plus Size Dating Tips

Let’s face it, if your single and over-weight, you might feel like there’s no hope when it comes to finding that someone special. But, you’re wrong! Dating while you’re over weight shouldn’t feel like having a death sentence at all.

For starters, let’s just get one thing straight! Guys are such jerks! Right? They won’t even look at you unless you’re a size 2. And the TV doesn’t make our lives any easier; there are images of perfect bodies everywhere we look. Every day we see dozens of perfect female models on street posters, in magazines and the Internet. We know the images are photo-shopped, but guys still drool over them. This, of course, has bad influence on our self-esteem. Apart from that, there are many people in the world who feel that large women are unattractive, pftt…screw them! What do they know! Luckily for you, the following are going to be some plus-size dating tips for the extra-large.

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Plus Size Dating Tip No 1: There’s Nothing to be Afraid Of

First of all, be logical, that means you should not be afraid of getting in a long term relationship just because of the way you look. Remember that there are men out there who enjoy some extra pounds and you don’t have to look far for proof on that little known fact. The internet is full of adult website that are full of movies and images of plus-size women. The reason why they’re there is because for many men, the perfect size 2 is just too skinny.

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Apart from that, those who are looking to be in a steady relationship care much more on a person’s character than anything else. So, who know, things might actually work out for the best if the both of you have a lot in common.

So, if you’ve been asked out by a guy don’t be afraid to say yes, because the person who has asked you out has already accepted your appearance.

Plus Size Dating Tip No 2: Don’t Lie About Your Plus Size

Some people just have the tendency to lie about their weight on online dating website, thinking that it will help them attract more potential partners, WRONG! Guess what, nobody likes a liar, and lying on your online dating profile will only be a short term gain, because when you end up meeting for real, the guy is sure to notice those extra pounds. Besides that, what if you’ve found the perfect guy, but lied to that person about your size. That makes you a liar and a bad person! Shame on you!

Plus Size Dating Tip No 3: Don’t Be Apologetic

The truth is, there is only one crippling belief that is holding you back, and that is, your size only matters if you make it matter, which means you don’t have to say you’re sorry for being large and more importantly shifting the attention to your weight. If you really want to meet someone, don’t make your weight the subject of your conversations. That would only make you come across as being insecure, which will be a total turn-off. Going out on a date is your moment of glory. It’s the time when you need to present all that’s best about you, your sense of humor, your personality and your character. These are what real attractive features are made up of and the ones that matter.

Plus Size Dating Tip No 4: What If He / She Rejects Me?

Of course it can happen, and the truth of the matter is that it happens in any dating sphere, whether you’re over weight, skinny, straight, bi, tri, whatever. It happens every day so what you have to keep in mind is that most people who ask you out on a date, do so because they found your personality attractive and not because of the extra bits around your hips. So, blame everything that can go wrong on a date on your size, because most of the time, it’s not about how you look at all.

Plus Size Dating Tip No 5: Be on Your Toes

Know this, just when you think you got a cap on things, life will throw you a curveball. When that happens, remember this, if you go into a relationship expecting the worst, you’ll never be disappointed. I know, it sounds a bit cynical, but trust me, it works!

Plus Size Dating

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This is a great video, this women discuss her experiences in the dating world as a plus sized woman. Her motto is about learning to be fearless, and that’s what it is all about.

Benefits of Dating Fat Chicks

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This video has a little bit more of a humorous side to the benefits of Dating Bigger Women. But she makes some valid points, that might change a guys mind on why they should be attracted to bigger ladies.

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Using Online Dating Websites: Spot Who's Fake - the Who's Not!

How to Tell Who’s Who and Who’s Not…Online

Okay, first up, this one’s going to be for the guys, so ladies, my apologies! Really! For many, switching their dating game from newspaper ads to the internet may seem like a good idea that will yield them favorable results. They’re right! But, that being said, there are a few mistakes which newbie’s to the world of online relationships make, which can have an equal and more negative result to their online dating experience. The following are some of the big ones that stand out while using online dating websites.

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She’s Picture Perfect

Using Online Dating Websites: So, you seen her profile picture, and all the other fifty that she’s posted in the online dating website. If every one of them is better than the next and makes her look like that perfect supermodel, or that cute girl next door, chances are, it’s too good to be true. And while your ego and that voice inside your head, will want you to think otherwise, the fact of the matter is that uber-attractive women do not spend their evenings trying to contact strange men online. Sorry, guys but that’s just the way it is!

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She Loves You…Already??!

Using Online Dating Websites: “She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah”. ‘Yes’, that’s a Beatles song and ‘No’ she doesn’t really love you. If the early on convo’s in your online relationship begins to sound something like, “You really get me” or “Your so cute” or “Your the bomb” or anything that seems too forward emotionally, especially when you haven’t met them in the flesh, sound the alarm because something’s definitely not right.

She Will Not Meet You in Person

Using Online Dating Websites: This one is a no-brainer, but if you are living close to the lady you’ve met online, the second thing to do is to meet her in person. But what if she doesn’t want to meet you? Or she keeps on cancelling a date? Even though she might have a good reason for her actions, either way, not wanting to meet in person should be taken as a clear warning sign that something is not right.

She’s from ‘Out-of-Town’

Using Online Dating Websites: Okay, so even if the person your in an online relationship with is from a remote part of India or China, it’s highly unlikely that you are going to find them. What you learn from here is, if she’s out of the States, it’s more likely a fake.

She won’t Video Chat

Using Online Dating Websites: So she’s shy, so what? I hear you, but meeting on Skype for a little face time never hurt anybody. And if she tells you she’s no good with technology. HELLO! She’s using online dating websites!!

She Only Come Out at Midnight

Using Online Dating Websites: If you’re in an online relationship and she doesn’t like to chat with you during the day and prefers to call you back later on at night, something’s up. Unusual patterns of communication often leads to a person hiding something, maybe she has a husband or maybe kids she doesn’t want you to know about, or maybe it’s a guy with an internet connection and too much free time.

Woman Lies About Her Profile

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This video is hilarious! The person who created this video takes a look at the lies people tell online, women and men a like. But he does it in a very funny way that hits the point right on the nose. Watch this video!

How To Spot a FAKE PROFILE!

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You need to watch this video! Zeno, the creator of this video breaks down exactly how some profiles out there are fake. He finds the same beautiful girl on different dating websites, with different information. The same picture is used for all these profiles, but their age, name, weight, height and everything else is completely different from each dating website to the next. People are taking a famous person’s photograph from the UK (who is not very well known in North America) and they are using her picture as their profile pictures. This woman probably doesn’t even know that this picture is being used. You need to watch this video as he will break down how to figure out if the profiles you are viewing are fake or not.

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Wow Him on Your First Date

Wow Him on Your First Date

First date impressions are everything. You know that you need to make a good impression on your new potential guy but sometimes nerves get in the way. Just relax and keep the basics in mind!

Dress for Success

Be comfortable! Even the most amazing outfit isn’t going to look good if you can’t pull it off. You need to look comfortable in your own skin- and in your clothes. Don’t wear a shirt that you always need to pull up or a skirt that you always need to tug down. Wear shoes that you can actually walk comfortably in. It’s so important to carry yourself confidently. Keep your head up, push your shoulders back, and maintain good posture. It’s important in everyday life and especially important on a first date.

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Ask Questions

Show your first date with him that you are interested. Don’t interrogate him or put him on the spot too much but get to know about his daily life and interests. You don’t want to seem like you just want to date someone. You need to show that you want to date him.

Remember That He is a Stranger

It’s great to build rapport but keep in mind that he isn’t your best friend. Your first date isn’t the time to spill all of your secrets. Stick to light topics. Get to know each other. Don’t overwhelm him with every detail of your life and don’t make plans for the future. All of this can come later. Even if you are excited about this guy, take your time. You need a lot more than a few hours together to know if this is your future best friend.

Mind Your Manners

Don’t forget about the basics. You should be comfortable but not too comfortable. Be courteous and polite. Show up a few minutes early for your date. Use your table manners. Don’t interrupt or play with your cell phone. Don’t drink too much. If he paid for your night out, thank him for it. It’s all pretty simple but it’s easy to forget about your manners if you’re nervous.

Be Interesting

Tell your first date something about yourself. You want to let your date that you are willing to let him get to know you. Imagine him describing you to one of his friends after the date. He should be able to talk about your interests and say a bit about your past.

If isn’t asking enough questions or your answers are falling flat, bring up some new topics. Have a few great stories on hand. If he asks about your hobbies, tell him about the first time you went scuba diving or how you became interested in art. Remember to keep your stories short. A great story should be clear, interesting, and to the point. You will definitely get bonus points if you can tell a funny story.

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Be Decisive

No one likes an indecisive person. There is no need to be pushy but don’t be shy about showing your preferences. You are an adult so you can order your own dinner and decide if you want dessert. If you disagree with your date, say so. Don’t complain or be aggressive but show your true personality.

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5 First-Date Turn-Offs From Men

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Perfect video for women from a guys perspective when they go on First Dates themselves. These guys discuss the 5 Frist Date turn offs they see in women, pretty much right away.

25 Dating Dos And Don’ts

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First Dates Do’s and Don’ts from the writers of www.YourTango.com. This video quickly breaks down a lot of Do’s and Don’ts everyone should adhered too.

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For the Last Damn Time: Tips to Survive Long Distance Relationships

Long Distance Relationships

The thing about relationships is that they sometimes make one person go “BLAHBLAHBLAH” while the other person goes, “what the hell are you talking about.” This is especially true if you are dealing long distance relationships online.

The good news is, humans are predictable creatures, which means that there are many accurate interpretations when it comes to solving the mystery of online or offline, and even long distance relationships.

Forget what your nay-saying buddies’ say, long-distance relationships can work, in fact the relationship of couples who are geographically apart can be as strong as those who are near to one another. To keep you from causing shame and dishonor to your family or get burned at the stake, use the following tips if you happen to be in a long distance online relationship. Some of these tips might be hard to follow, so bear with me.

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Set Aside 15 Minutes of Your Day (Every Single Day)

The big takeaway is that relationships require effort and if you want your long distance relationship to last in love, you will need to put in a little extra effort. Make sure to take the time to talk about the big factors which shape your life. Including one’s goals for the coming months or years is a great tactic which will allow both partners to feel closer to their partners.

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Technology is Your Ally

Whether you are using Facebook, Skype or your cell phone, delays in connection and other small interruptions can force two people to pay more attention to each other’s tone of voice or facial expressions. This increased focus enables both parties to communicate in a more effective way, especially while being in long distance relationships online.

Add Some Spice

No, this does not mean you need to start cooking together! What it does mean is the use of phone sex, or sending sexually suggestive pictures and videos to each other. Engaging in some kind of digital foreplay is important while trying to maintain a physical bond that is severed by being miles apart.

Think ‘Long Term’

The most important part of being in a long distance relationship is to think long term, as in, feeling certain that the two of you will actually share the same space in the long run. One of the most effective ways of being in and developing a long distance relationship is having the certainty that you and your partner will be together somewhere down the road.

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Your Attitude Matters!

In the end, the most fruitful of long distance online relationships are those in which both partners believe that their situation will work out. This is important because if a couple starts to doubt the validity of their relationship, their success is likely to plummet.

So, there you have it, if you don’t want to be part of a single’s club and all the tips you’ve tried out so far has got you nothing but zero feedback, try these on for size.

How To Survive A Long Distance Relationship (LDR)

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This video talks about the strategies to surviving Long Distance Relationships. It gives actually statistics on how Long Distance Relationships work, like 70% of couples who do not discuss the expectations of their long distance relationship breakup within the first 6 months. This video will even give some advice on long distance relationships that are happening overseas and costing a bundle in phone bills. The video will share with how you can talk to your significant other for Free!

5 Steps to a Better Long Distance Relationship

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This video discusses the 5 main steps to protecting your long distance relationship. This video also uses specific studies to cite its facts. Another must watch video if you are about to have or are going through a long distance relationship at the moment.

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The ‘F’ Word: Top Online Flirting Tips

The Top Online Flirting Tips You Won’t Find Anywhere Else…I Swear!

There is a virtual orgy going on online guys, and most of us know that all too well. In order to be a successful online flirter in life, it is essential that you understand that flirting in all respects is something which most of us do in our everyday life. Nowadays, even our dogs flirt with other dogs and even they understand that this never stands to compromise their loyalty. In other words, flirting has become a part of being social, as the world has become more lax in allowing mild comments to become main-stream.

No matter where you go, if you carry yourself with a happy disposition you are bound to encounter some form of flirting. The online kind is probably the most harmless, where you can interact with another person freely without the fear of being rejected in person.

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Rules of the Game

Online Flirting Tip: For the newbies all set to try online flirting, the art of online love affairs is the same as it is in real life, that is, flirtation and lust. The hyper-reality that is created by flirting online incessantly is sometimes even better than the real thing. It creates eroticism without longevity, commitment without risk and the chances of getting laid without the *yawn* romance. The unwritten rule of online flirting is to keep it short, sweet, and punchy if possible, apart from that, here are a few more for your reading pleasure.

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Read the Damn Profile

Online Flirting Tip: Start off by reading the profile of the person that you are interested in, try to find out something interesting about him/her. Doing so will help you find something that you may have in common or give you something to shmooze about.

Be Yourself

Online Flirting Tip: I know, it sounds like an Audioslave song, but when it comes to sniffing out BS, women are like hunting dogs. If she’s into you, make no mistake about it, she will be scanning your prose and eyeing your profile pics and posts on Facebook, and since it’s an open market, women will be looking for excuses to shoot you down. So, stay frosty!

Ask Innocent Questions

Online Flirting Tip: You can start online flirting by asking innocent questions. For instance, you could ask about certain hobbies and interests etc. This will allow you to learn more about the person without coming off as nosey. After you have been communicating with that someone special for a while, you can use innocent questions to find an opening in time when the two of you could meet.

A Good Pun is Fun…But

Online Flirting Tip: Although a good joke or pun is fun, too much of a good thing can and in most cases does ruin it all. So, keep your messages short and nice, but interesting nonetheless. If a day goes by and you have not heard from that person, rather than sending that person an endless barrage of emails, leave a short, sweet message that will give them the hint for them to reply.

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Ending Note

Online Flirting Tip: As mentioned earlier, online flirting is non-committal as opposed to looking for a long-term relationship. Online outlets make people feel more relaxed in initiating a conversation with another person which they would have otherwise passed up.

That being said, the most important part of flirting is to have fun, and make sure that the person you happen to be flirting with at the moment is having fun too. The goal here is to get that person laughing and having a good time with you. If you are able to do that, you will instantly become attractive to that person, but be sincere, because if you’re not, she will see right through this and you won’t be able to get away with it.

Is She Flirting, Or Just Being Nice?

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This is a good video as it breaks some great points on how to understand certain situations like what you say or what you do will can come off as need or insecure.  Flirting is all about confidence and how you present what you say and do.  Watch this video for some great tips on that.

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Online Dating Tips: From Crush to Contact

Online Dating Tips

Are you having trouble dating online? Do you find it difficult to make women like you…online? If so, the problem is you! Let’s get one thing straight, the e-fishing pond is more fierce than ever, and women are pretty sophisticated online daters, so you my friend, will have to play hard ball if you want to find a lasting relationship.

Most men are clueless when it comes to online dating, so here are some pointers to learn from. So, behold! The best of online dating advise.

Your Mug Matters:

Online Dating Tip: The truth is, women do not respond to messages which don’t have photos. Call them shallow or suspicious, that’s just the way things are. And besides, you could be a psycho/serial killer or worse, you might have a wife and kid(s). So, click a photo and make sure it is taken up close and in focus, which means, no sunglasses, no hats, no babies, no toupees, no props, but hey, if you’re behind the wheel of a sailboat: Golden. And would it kill you to smile buddy, the picture ain’t for your passport you know!

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It is also extremely important to remember to please keep your shirt on at all times while you’re photo is getting clicked. Women do not respond to shirtless men, whether it’s a really really hot day or you’re at the beach, they don’t care and it won’t work. Allow me to explain, to the female mind, ‘hotness’ is knowing you’re not hot, and the fact that you are shirtless, means you think you’re hot which, automatically makes you un-hot. Get it!

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You had Me at ‘What’s-Up’:

Online Dating Tip: In the end, it all comes down to communication, where the language you use WILL be a deal-breaker. Half-Assed messages sprinkled with bad grammar and bad spellings are huge turn-offs when it comes to online dating. Words like ‘wat’, ‘ur’, ‘luv’, ‘ya’ and so on are all stupid slang words which are found in a fool’s lexicon and which you need to avoid, at all costs. That being said, some of the exceptions are ‘lol’ and ‘ha ha’, which makes a certain sense when it comes to conveying genuine laughter. So, what I’m trying to say is, it is okay to laugh, but keep the rest of your online conversation appropriately punctuated and grammatically correct, to show her you went to school. And then there are the adjectives, like ‘beautiful’, ‘sexy’, ‘hot’, etc. Which are all nice things to say to her in a pick-up line, but most women do not want to hear them online, because it inevitably sounds…evil.

Specifics Matter:

Online Dating Tip: One of the most time-honored ways of making a connection is talking about something specific which interests you and which you may have in common with her. Engage her interests by mentioning about your favorite movies, music, and so on. If you have an Ivy League degree, do yourself a favor and skip the Proust or Feynman conversation.

Online Salutations:

Online Dating Tip: Bucking the general “be literate” rule, if you thought that salutation is the easiest part of starting an online conversation, think again! In online dating, the salutation will be her first impression of your first impression, so you need to get it right, at the get go. Setting a casual tone is important, so use, ‘what’s up’, ‘howdy’ or ‘how’s it going’, do not use, ‘yo’,’ holla’ or anything slangy.

Hem and Haw a Bit:

Online Dating Tip: Another thing, hemming and hawing seems to work for online flirting, whether it makes a guy seem less threatening or vulnerable and insecure, whatever it may be, it works. But there is a fine line between sounding mumbly and sweaty desperation, so tread carefully.

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Atheist Anyone?

Online Dating Tip: Lastly, this may upset a few people but, while having an “izm” is a good thing, it works better if you didn’t paste your religion in your profile. So, if you want to be successful, consider becoming an atheist, online at least.

The Secret Dating Algorithm:

Online Dating Tip: Finally, one last tip to roll off with, so, you think you’ve finally got it right. You look like George Clooney in your profile picture and you’ve added all your likes, dislikes and passions…but, no one’s responding. What could it be?  The answer to this problem is, think global, or regional at least. For example, one of my good friends is a lesbian, and lives in a conservative country, so going online is her only option. And the crazy thing is, she actually finds some really great girls that she would have not met otherwise. Likewise, if you think of online dating as a numbers game, the more people that will be in your dating pool, the higher will be your chances of meeting someone special.

In general, just like women look for a bad boy/family guy who she can tame into a loving husband, guys mostly go for the Madonna/whore types, which they can also take home to mom, both of which are rarely the same person. So, if you are a nice guy, without a single bad bone in your body and still aren’t getting any responses, then you better double check how you are marketing yourself online and read this blog again, very slowly.

Ending Note:

Online Dating Tip: It doesn’t really matter whether you’re just looking for some e-booty or want to skip the singles scene altogether and proceed straight to commitville, the tips mentioned above should get you to wherever it is you want to go while dating online.  Remember, sharing is caring, so make sure you drop in a few lines below and share your online experiences with us.

14 Online Dating Tips!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-c68N0zI3J0

This is a good video to watch, it describes 14 online dating tips from a woman’s perspective.

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7 Ways Being Stupid is Going to Hurt Your Flirty Text Messages

Flirty Text Messages – Be Smart!

Let’s face it, a person who can’t handle something as simple as a text message is either staining-your-drawers hilarious or drink-a-shot-of-whiskey sad, either way, things don’t quite work out for that person all too well. Well, we have scoped the web (and I don’t men just Wikipedia) and have come up with some of the common mistakes that people make while writing a flirty text message. And since we found so many, we will just go with the top seven reasons to save your time and ours. We also tried to get a few for the gals, since they are some pretty stupid ones out there too (you know I’m not lying). So without further ado, here are the things that bomb.

The Photo

Teenage girls love to do this one a lot. You know? Holding the camera high above, and puckering up a kiss, while getting a good nice shot of the “cleavage all up in here’. SEXY right! But what guys don’t want to see is the flash of the camera revealing your cocked backside in the mirror, and not to mention the always desperately messy background. So, when it comes to sending a photo whenever you are writing a flirty text message, remember this “crop it till it’s hot” girl.

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Don’t Guess

Remember that with texting, there can be no tone of voice which means that most of what you write is basically left to the reader’s imagination and this is where our insecurities and imagination go into overdrive. If a text message sounds too cryptic or vague, respond with something like, “What? Let’s talk l8tr”. Or you can wait till you meet face to face.

Don’t Over-Abbreviate

I get it, you want to be brief while writing a flirty text message. But that does not mean you should not use words or symbols that most people would not know. Remember that ‘how to write flirty text messages’ is something that many people still ask themselves. Know your audience, and try not to be too flashy because there’s a good chance that the message might get misconstrued.

Teasing Too Much

Writing a flirty text message is supposed to be all fun and games, provided that you’re being honest with the information you are giving to the other person. Raising someone’s hopes will only hurt their feelings in the long run, since there is no actual face-to-face verbal interaction.

Texting Angry!

Hashing out minor altercations, such as, “EW” or “UGH” is okay every once in a while, But if you find your feeling brewing and getting too deep for texts, break the mold and pick up the phone.

Don’t be Rude

Break ups are something that follows relationships like these. While breaking up with a person is convenient, it is also considered as rude and not to mention cowardly. It doesn’t matter how you write flirty text messages, how you handle situations where you have to break up with another person is what will define you. Nobody wants to be known as the insensitive and rude person who doesn’t respect other people’s feelings. So, it is important to know when texting simply won’t do.

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Never make Assumptions

And lastly, while writing a flirty text message, it is important to never make assumptions about the amount of people who will be reading your text messages. People share text messages with friends all the time, so be careful or your text message might end up being read by somebody in your contact list, like you grandma (It’s alright, just kidding) who would do that, but then again you never know.

Ending Note

Sigh. It’s tough, I know, but trying out these tips the next time you plan on writing a flirty text message and feel the pleasant surge of superiority for getting a piece of the action (for once!).

5 Texts Girls Over Analyze!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OOjHrGP754

This is a good video to watch, it’s hilarious as the person in the video discusses how women over analyze almost every text they get, even simple ones like, “OK.” – Definitely watch this video.

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Online Dating Websites: Such a Drag!

Online Dating Websites

So, our experts trolled cyberspace and found the types of people you might run in to (and possibly have a long and meaningful relationship with) while using online dating websites.

We’re going with the sir’s here, so stay with me, people.

This is going to be fun!

Mr. Serial-Online-Dater

They are also known as “Cyber Casanovas”, the real kicker here is that profile they use on an online dating website could be up for months, maybe even years and still having a photo of them in their glory days. Prepare for a shock if you meet this type. They are attractive, so how could they still be single? Right. Well, that’s what I’m here for, I’ll tell you. Online dating is a game and serial online daters have it all figured out, which is why they seem to pop up over and over again on various online dating websites, trying to get laid by women who are out looking for, “the one”. It’s all about business for the smooth talker, so don’t be surprised if they want to meet you after the first few conversations.

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Mr. Can’t-Take-a-Hint

Picture this: you strike up a conversation with them by using an online dating website, you go out with them, and it’s not fun. You think a guy would get the message, but they don’t. If they did, they wouldn’t be IM’ing you the next day. And it doesn’t quite end there, these types will actually get offended if you ignore them the next time you are online and will try (sometimes shamelessly) to win your attention. And here’s the kicker, they know exactly how you look and how to reach you, so now you may be dealing with a potential stalker. Nice job!

Mr. I’m-So-Lonely

There’s nothing quite like a good ole rebound eh! But let’s just take it easy on this guy, since we all go through break-ups. The fresh break-up aka Mr. I’m-so-lonely will open up to you like a celebrity on Oprah, for them that’s the whole point of using an online dating website. He will actually make you feel special by telling you about his devastating relationship and claim that he doesn’t want to go through that again, BOO HOO. But you still don’t want to spend the afternoon sipping on your latte and talking about his EX. Unless you’re looking for an affair, just let this one go.

Mr. I-Don’t-Want-No-Drama

Trust me when I say this, “They do want drama”. For this type, the ‘drama’ usually starts from their profile. Mentioning about their last toxic relationship and the many many others should be your first red flag. Since bad news seems to be hovering over this type like the plague, you need to read between the lines to get to the dirty laundry on this one. And another thing, these types usually have an angry ex in the shadows, so watch out for any four-in-the-morning calls.

Mr. Attention Craver

Don’t look at me with that “What-the-f**k-face” it can happen! Even if you saw the profile photo…Oh wait, that was George Clooney’s. So you think everything is going really well and you get to the point where you are now spending a lot of time together. Then out of the blue BAM. You found out that they have been active online in the past twenty-four hours, even though they just left your place. What?

Nothing can be more infuriating than knowing that the person you met by using an online dating website is still online looking for partners even though they are supposed to be dating you. There are only two things which you can do at this point, either hear their reason out (and it better be a darn good one), or get out of the relationship with the inconsiderate git while you still can.

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Ending Note

At the end, using an online dating website is the best place for cheapskates to meet other people who are not cheapskates. So, you see…it works for pretty much everyone. But still, knowing what you’re getting into is important if you are using online dating websites. So, stay frosty people!

What Not To Say In An Online Dating Message

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITrS6MDDDAE

Here are some good quick tips on your 1st message to women.

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PSST! Secrets to Flirty Text Messages

Flirty Text Messages

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: Like my grandma says, “Texting is evil”, “texting destroys relationships”, and my personal favorite, “texting causes cancer”. What does she know, right?

The bottom line is that texting has now become the most primary form of communication. Is it evil? I do not know. Does it destroy relationships? Maybe, who knows? Does it cause cancer? There isn’t enough scientific evidence for that…yet. But, it is definitely a faster and more convenient way of communicating with others. So, I’m going to be a bro, and tell you the secrets to sending romantic texts. If you’re into it, read on.

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#couplesextips:  Is a great Twitter feed to check out!  You have lots of different users giving their own tips on the subject!

N-A-L-O-P-K-T, that’s “Not-a-lot-of-people-know-that’ for the layman, that texting may be perceived as a walk in the park, but in reality, it’s something quite different. The information here is not going to be about how to make guys / girls fall in love with you by squeezing a few drops of emotion in to your letters and numbers, or on how to write flirty text messages, but rather of the few things you should keep in mind while using text as a tool for getting your flirt on.

Don’t Get Hung Up

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: So, you had some great texting exchanges and maybe even met up with that person. Things seemed to be going well for some time…then it happened. The person bailed / split / disappeared on you, without a trace. If that happens, tough luck, but move on. There’s no need to analyze what could have gone wrong, because there are any number of things that could have gone wrong and changed the situation and /or the feelings of that person. So, what I’m trying to say here is, wasting time on what could have been, especially if you got that by sharing flirty text messages, is going to be, at best fruitless. So, don’t waste that time and spend it on meeting someone else.

Not Enough Chemistry

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: And then there’s that thing I hated in high school…oh yes ‘Chemistry’. This is something that no “how to write flirty text messages” book can teach you, but you will be able to tell if there’s a spark the first time you actually spend some time together (face-to-face, not sharing flirty text messages). If you find one, WHOOO HOOO, if not, don’t bother, because ‘Chemistry’ isn’t something you can create, either it’s there or it isn’t.

Do Not Text for Free Food

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: You know what I mean? The reason being that I have yet to eat a decent meal with a person I have had a plutonian text message relationship with, that is, unless you count pizza as a decent meal. But hey! If it’s a beautiful specimen of a man / woman… screw the rumbling tummy and go for it.

And PLEASE, PLEASE Proofread!

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: Make this one a rule of thumb, any ‘how to make guys / girls fall in love with you’ guide will tell you that spellings in emails and text messages matter to women. So, if you’re sharing flirty text messages with a gal, don’t fire up a lazy-ass message with serial spelling mistakes. That will just turn her off, man, way off!

So, proofread your work, because things like auto-correct can be a double-edged sword sometimes. How many of us have needed to follow up our text messages with a follow up text message apologizing for the word “penis” that we swore appeared out of nowhere? Remember, you want to make yourself appear educated and decent, even if it takes up a few minutes of your time.

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And Finally…

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: And to all the girls out there, even if you are sharing flirty text messages, whatever you do, do not booty text, and then follow-up with an excuse saying that you were tahoootally wasted. I mean you might get replies from the asshole-variety, but do you really want that? But don’t blow this tip out of proportion; you can use one of your booty call reserves for the right guy. This is why you have a booty call reserve– so you can drunkenly text them right.

Bottom Line

Secrets to Flirty Text Messages: The bottom line is – times have changed. Hundreds of years ago homing pigeons were instant messaging, today, it’s Smartphones. Deal with it! Hell if they’d had our technology back then, your great grand dad would be tweeting your great grand mom with something like, hashtag #HearMySoulSpeaketh, or something rather than sending her mushy letters written with a quill, and would most probably be searching for articles on how to write flirty text messages.

How to Flirt via Text

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bX6KQsnecQ

This is a great video that talks about the statistics about texting and flirting.  It gives you some good background on stats made by AT&T and the most common phrase’s sent over text.

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The Tao of Badass: Online Dating

Online Dating from the Dude who doesn’t give a Damn

OK, brace yourself, because things are about to get heavy. So, here’s the real deal with online dating websites that you most probably won’t hear anywhere else. The truth is, for many people, using online dating websites hasn’t been quite that fruitful. Here’s why, most of the sane dudes eventually turn off their profiles simply because they don’t like fighting for scraps, while the sane girls are just too tired of having to deal with lying monkeys, so they end up turning off their profiles as well.

So, who’s left? Dorky students who want something to do when they’re not trolling on Facebook, women who are not exceptional, but think they are, thanks to, yes… you guessed it “lying monkeys” and the lying monkeys. So where does this leave good people like you and me. Well, the following are some areas that will help you master the online dating scene fairly well and make sure you hone in on that special someone before they too turn off their profile, and because of this sudden sense of urgency, let’s just dive right into it!

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Do not Get Overwhelmed

Overwhelmed already? Well, take it easy while using online dating websites. The main reason for this is the sheer number of profiles that are sent to you online. And while ignoring a “hello” is okay, you will find yourself being stuck to your computer for hours trying to answer all the questions and “hellos”.

To avoid getting totally bogged down, just pick out a couple that you are interested in and send them a reply instead of answering every single one of them. And to avoid another common faux pas during dating, create a file for each person you send an email to.

Don’t Assume Things too Soon

So, you’ve finally done it, you’ve shared some pretty sensitive stuff and now you think your pretty deep. At this point, many folks assume this too soon. While you think that you are going steady, the other person might not feel the same way. So, the last think you want to hear is them telling you that they are seeing other people. It’s not that they’re being dishonest, (they told you after all, didn’t they). To keep things safe, don’t give out too much information and take it slow!

Broaden Your Scope

The beauty of using online dating websites is that it gives people a chance to search for any type of person. So, if you are looking for a vegetarian, or someone who will enjoy your comic book collection, go for it. That being said, it is important not to get too caught up with finding your ideal, because you might be shutting out a slew of great potential mates, which will not pan out well for your online dating endeavors.

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Dealing with the Craigslist Penis Effect

Bet you didn’t hear this one eh. The Craigslist penis effect is basically men who are afraid of using online dating websites because of their fear of competition and having to compete with other men fishing in the same pool.

There was a time when Craigslist was the place to be for those interested in casual encounters (some people would argue that it still is). The whole long and short of it is that if you were a woman who happened to post an ad on the popular website (and explicitly mention NO nude pics). You would be flooded with racy one line emails along with pictures of men’s penises, by men who were clamoring for your attention. Hence the name and the reason why men squirm when asked why they don’t use online dating resources. The answer to this question lies in the question itself. Meaning this showed that men cannot follow or do not willfully follow simple instructions. This goes for both straight and gay men, because men’s ads were usually responded in the same manner by gay men, which means that they have a problem in following instructions too.

So, follow the rules of using online dating websites (many of which do not allow and lewd behavior) because guess who will come out looking descent and refined amidst all the noise. I’m not going to tell you…but I think you know that person very well *wink* *wink*.

Online Dating: Create an EYE CATCHING profile

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PiLRKjS2ffg

It seems like the same topics are discussed when talking about online dating profiles, but that happens for a reason, because people keep making the same mistakes.  This video breaks down a few of the main mistakes people make.  Pay attention guys, as it’s coming from a woman’s perspective, and that’s what you want to tap into.

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Dating Tips for the Slightly Awkward: Guys’ Edition

Dating Tips for the Slightly Awkward: Guys’ Edition

Dating Tips: If you feel like you say the wrong thing every time that approach a woman, you are definitely not alone. Dating can be a completely intimidating process. If you are naturally a bit shy, make it easier on yourself by maximizing your best qualities and doing a bit of advanced planning.

Find Your Type

Dating Tips: If you are shy, you probably won’t have much luck dating women who want to go out to parties every weekend. Look for someone who shares your interests. No matter what you love, there is someone out there who loves the same thing. Join a club or start going to local events. If someone shares your passions, it is a lot easier to strike up a conversation.

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Every guy should watch this quick video, a maxim model gives insights on the fact that women are just as shy as guys.

Stick in Your Comfort Zone

Dating Tips: It is great to try new things but don’t do anything that will make you nervous on your first few dates. If you are worried that you are going to run out of things to talk about, don’t plan a dinner date. Go to an art fair. Look for a movie screening then chat about the film over coffee.

Planning ahead will make you feel a bit more at ease. Buy the tickets before you get there and make sure that you know where you are going. A bit of simple planning can prevent embarrassing disasters.

Keep Your Calm

Dating Tips: If something does go wrong, be laidback about it. If you try to tell a joke and it falls flat, shrug your shoulders and move on. It can be hard to do but it is possible. Don’t get dramatic about it. Most important, don’t tell her that the date isn’t going well or assume that she doesn’t like you.

If your conversation isn’t going well, turn it over to her. Ask her questions about herself. Try to get her to tell stories. After she starts talking, make sure that you really listen to her. She will give you a ton of clues into her personality as she talks. Pick up on things that she says then ask her more follow-up questions about them.

If she starts to look uncomfortable, lay off. Don’t make her feel like she is under interrogation. Ask her about neutral subjects. If she likes to read, ask her for book recommendations. If she likes sports, ask her about her favorite teams.

Do Something Fun before You Go

Dating Tips: If you tend to get nervous, do something that you know that you will enjoy before you go out. Spend time with your friends or just relax at home. Do something that will take your mind off of your nerves. If you show up nervous and expecting a failure, you will probably end up with just that.

Keep in mind that she is probably nervous as well. She is going to feel like she is being sized up in the same way that you do. Remember, the date isn’t just about you. You want to get to know this person. Focus on her and don’t feel like all of the attention is on you.

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How to Flirt Online: Make it in Online Dating!

How to Make it in Online Dating

How to flirt with guys/girls? This question is as old as time itself, I think! Let’s face it guys, the world we live in is a cruel and rough one, which means if you want to hook up with the fairer sex, you will need to flirt with her first. I know, life’s a bitch! But with the proper angle even you can make it.

Picture this; you see a girl you really like, you start talking to her and you think it will be your lucky day (or night), but there’s just no chemistry, then, before you know it, she makes the “I-gotta-get-outta-here” face and *Puff* Just like that, she’s gone. Boy, if I had a dime for every time that happened to me. But forget that. This blog is not going to be about my triumphs or failures, but rather of how you are going to get laid.

https://twitter.com/HeelsOverHead33/status/439044965176315904

How to Flirt & Keep Things Light:

Research has shown that you will get a more positive response from the opposite sex when you talk about happy stuff, like your new pup, for instance, and if your pup happened to come under a bus and died, even better. The whole purpose of flirting is to open the doors to future conversations, so keep that in mind before you start to bare your heart out.

How to Flirt & Smile and be Coy:

When I say smile, that doesn’t necessarily mean pulling a Bozo the Clown on her, that will just be plain creepy and frighten her off, but what you can do is smile whenever appropriate, that will give the impression that you are enjoying their company. If they shoot one back, you will know that they are enjoying your company too.

Since we are talking about how to flirt with guys/girls? Just to make sure we’re on the same page, the coy part was for the girls not the guys.

How to Flirt & ‘BEWARE’ the Awkward Silence:

If you happen to witness a time when words just seemed to have dried up in the middle of the conversation, that’s it, you’ve probably lost her for good. You can however avoid that from happening altogether by breaking awkward silences. Don’t know how? Just ask them a question about something they’re wearing or pick something from your surroundings, like a painting on the wall etc. The main goal here is to keep the conversation from dragging.

https://twitter.com/YourxDreamGent/status/438807338703540224

How to Flirt & C’mon, Wrap It:

You know? If the conversation is going nowhere and you think that you’ll be riding off into the sunset solo, just drop it. Scope the area for an ‘EXIT’ sign and politely find an exit line to excuse yourself. If you are interested, just exchange Facebook IDs or a phone number. Hopefully, she will get back to you.

Now here’s where it gets serious, so pay attention! There are certain things which guys and girls should know when it comes to how to flirt with guys/girls? And those are;

How to Flirt – Mistake # 1:

It is common for even a moderately attractive woman to get a few “Winks” and “Add to favorites” requests. You probably thought that it would be a good gesture that you “winked” or added her to your list. OK, here’s the deal, “winking” not only tells her that you have enjoyed her profile, but it also tells her that you are lazy as hell for putting the onus of initializing the contact on her.

And here’s the kicker, unless you look like Jon Hamm in your profile picture, you might make her snort milk out of her nose and get a reply, otherwise, she is not going to “wink” back at you.

How to Flirt – Mistake # 2:

It doesn’t really matter how hot you are, instant messages are annoying as hell, and that goes for the ladies too. Instead, send her a message and skip the chat lingo.

https://twitter.com/ImThatGentleman/status/423649636726108160

How to Flirt – Bottom Line:

Since flirting is an art, some people think that it doesn’t really matter whether you are a guy or a girl, some people have it and some don’t. But that is not entirely true, with the proper practice, anyone can master the art of flirting, all you need to do shy guy, is just stick to “the plan.”

How to Flirt with Touch | Flirting Lessons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXTy0Bc9_X0

This video has some good tips on Touch Flirting.  Good examples of breaking the touch barrier are talked about for both men and women.

How to Flirt If You’re Shy | Flirting Lessons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNt4trR03qI

Another great lesson on flirting is discussed in this video, especially if you are a shy person.  If that’s the case then watch this video to get some good tips on some basic flirting principles by using body language.  If you’re a shy person then watch this video.

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How to Flirt Online: Make it in Online Dating!

How to Make it in Online Dating

How to flirt with guys/girls? This question is as old as time itself, I think! Let’s face it guys, the world we live in is a cruel and rough one, which means if you want to hook up with the fairer sex, you will need to flirt with her first. I know, life’s a bitch! But with the proper angle even you can make it.

Picture this; you see a girl you really like, you start talking to her and you think it will be your lucky day (or night), but there’s just no chemistry, then, before you know it, she makes the “I-gotta-get-outta-here” face and *Puff* Just like that, she’s gone. Boy, if I had a dime for every time that happened to me. But forget that. This blog is not going to be about my triumphs or failures, but rather of how you are going to get laid.

https://twitter.com/HeelsOverHead33/status/439044965176315904

How to Flirt & Keep Things Light:

Research has shown that you will get a more positive response from the opposite sex when you talk about happy stuff, like your new pup, for instance, and if your pup happened to come under a bus and died, even better. The whole purpose of flirting is to open the doors to future conversations, so keep that in mind before you start to bare your heart out.

How to Flirt & Smile and be Coy:

When I say smile, that doesn’t necessarily mean pulling a Bozo the Clown on her, that will just be plain creepy and frighten her off, but what you can do is smile whenever appropriate, that will give the impression that you are enjoying their company. If they shoot one back, you will know that they are enjoying your company too.

Since we are talking about how to flirt with guys/girls? Just to make sure we’re on the same page, the coy part was for the girls not the guys.

How to Flirt & ‘BEWARE’ the Awkward Silence:

If you happen to witness a time when words just seemed to have dried up in the middle of the conversation, that’s it, you’ve probably lost her for good. You can however avoid that from happening altogether by breaking awkward silences. Don’t know how? Just ask them a question about something they’re wearing or pick something from your surroundings, like a painting on the wall etc. The main goal here is to keep the conversation from dragging.

https://twitter.com/YourxDreamGent/status/438807338703540224

How to Flirt & C’mon, Wrap It:

You know? If the conversation is going nowhere and you think that you’ll be riding off into the sunset solo, just drop it. Scope the area for an ‘EXIT’ sign and politely find an exit line to excuse yourself. If you are interested, just exchange Facebook IDs or a phone number. Hopefully, she will get back to you.

Now here’s where it gets serious, so pay attention! There are certain things which guys and girls should know when it comes to how to flirt with guys/girls? And those are;

How to Flirt – Mistake # 1:

It is common for even a moderately attractive woman to get a few “Winks” and “Add to favorites” requests. You probably thought that it would be a good gesture that you “winked” or added her to your list. OK, here’s the deal, “winking” not only tells her that you have enjoyed her profile, but it also tells her that you are lazy as hell for putting the onus of initializing the contact on her.

And here’s the kicker, unless you look like Jon Hamm in your profile picture, you might make her snort milk out of her nose and get a reply, otherwise, she is not going to “wink” back at you.

How to Flirt – Mistake # 2:

It doesn’t really matter how hot you are, instant messages are annoying as hell, and that goes for the ladies too. Instead, send her a message and skip the chat lingo.

https://twitter.com/ImThatGentleman/status/423649636726108160

How to Flirt – Bottom Line:

Since flirting is an art, some people think that it doesn’t really matter whether you are a guy or a girl, some people have it and some don’t. But that is not entirely true, with the proper practice, anyone can master the art of flirting, all you need to do shy guy, is just stick to “the plan.”

How to Flirt with Touch | Flirting Lessons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXTy0Bc9_X0

This video has some good tips on Touch Flirting.  Good examples of breaking the touch barrier are talked about for both men and women.

How to Flirt If You’re Shy | Flirting Lessons

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNt4trR03qI

Another great lesson on flirting is discussed in this video, especially if you are a shy person.  If that’s the case then watch this video to get some good tips on some basic flirting principles by using body language.  If you’re a shy person then watch this video.

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Sexting Examples for Women

We have come up with some great sexting examples for women to which you should adhere, especially if you have just met a new Beau and are considering sending him a message! There are some important things you should consider before you hit “Send” on that phone of yours.

“Revenge Porn” Law

Sexting Examples for Women and Consequences to Consider:  Did you know that in California it is now illegal to distribute nude photos of anyone without their expressed permission with the intent to cause distress or humiliation (through text or other means)?  The penalty is up to six months in Jail and a $1000 fine.

The law is called The “Revenge Porn” Law . It was signed by Gov. Jerry Brown in 2013.  The reason why this was done was because so many people (men and women both) after a break were sending out compromising photos of their Ex Lovers as revenge for the break up.  Hence the name “Revenge Porn”!

Don’t sext with men you don’t know

Sexting Examples for Women: Make this one of your dating rules — don’t even think about sexting with a man you haven’t met in person yet. What are the chances a new guy will think about anything but getting you in the sack when you play “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours”?

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There is actually an Anti-Sexting App called Zipit!  It was built mostly for teenagers in mind, but it can be used with adults as well.  How it works is like this… lets say someone says to you, “Hey Sexy, how about a naughty photo of yourself” or “Show me yours and I’ll show you mine”.

Whatever it is they say, Zipit will recognize these phrases that initiate sexting and it will suggest a gentle, yet still flirty, shutdown meme to say in lieu of a racy response.  Examples include: a photo of some garbage with the words “here’s a picture of my junk,” or a stern old lady saying, “Enough of your lip.”  It’s actually quite clever.

Anti-Sexting App!

Don’t write a letter

Sexting Examples for Women: The point of texting is not to share long-winded, passionate or raunchy thoughts. Texting and sexting should be brief comments.

Don’t show anything identifiable

Sexting Examples for Women: Unless you don’t mind the risk of having sexually explicit photos with your face online, keep your sexts to small pieces of the puzzle. Even if you feel tempted or want to push outside your comfort zone, think twice.

Don’t reveal everything

Sexting Examples for Women: They say showing a little is much sexier than showing everything. Leave something to the imagination!

Don’t ignore your intuition

Sexting Examples for Women: If you have any second-thoughts or doubts about what you are doing, listen up! Your dating intuition is a powerful force and exists to keep you safe. ᔥ Sexting? Things You Must Know Before You Hit ‘Send’

Sexting Examples for Women: Reminder

Basically you don’t want to give any man everything at the beginning, because if you did then what’s the point of sticking around (most men think subconsciously).  He needs to work his way into your trust.  Not only is that, making a man work for it, or making him be patient for it; it is also a huge turn on for a guy when he is forced to take it slow.  That’s exactly what’s going to keep him interested.  Men love the challenge of trying to seduce a woman whether they admit or not.

I’m sure every woman can think of guy she really liked who she just jumped right into it with; and the next day he was like see ya!

Also a very important thing to do is trust your feelings, and your instincts. If you think a guy is a creeper than he probably he is, and you should bail. There are plenty more out there so don’t even waste another minute talking to him if you think that he isn’t worth it, or if you think you’re going to regret it later. Trust that feeling and move on.

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SnapChat is a new app that people are using these days in order to send out those nudies they take and send over text (sexting).  With SnapChat you can take a photo or video and send them to a controlled list of people while setting a time limit for how long that person or persons can view their “Snaps” from 1 to 10 seconds.

The Image is then hidden and deleted from the server.  However people can still take a screen grab / screen shot via their device and save it to their phone anyhow.

Specific Sexting Examples for Women

I’m imagining you all over my body.

I pull you towards me as we kiss passionately and then move down to kissing your neck.

I start to tease as I run my hand up your stomach.

In three words, tell me what you’re going to do to me when you see me.

Miss me yet?

U were so much fun! I guess it’s safe to introduce you to my friends!

I really had a great time! Even if u r a little dorky.

I bet if you could see me right now you’d want me even more.

I’ve been a naughty girl, I need to be punished by you.

I can’t wait to feel the touch of your strong hands on my body.

I want you so bad.

Want a picture of what I’m doing right now?

I want you to touch the insides of me…please?

If I don’t have you right now, I’m going to die.

Sorry to hear about your tough day at work, but I’ve got another task in mind for tonight.

I’d be lying if I said that I’m looking forward to dinner tonight. What I’m really excited about is what we’ll do afterwards…

Now that the day is nearly over, the only thing left on my to-do list is you. ᔥ Examples of Sexting

More Sexting Examples for Women

I was cooking something with lots of strawberries in it. I am covered in it now, would you come and lick it off me?

I am craving for you.

You are so kind to me. I am thinking of pleasing you all night tonight.

I want to serve you.

I want to kiss you so bad… all over.

I want to feel your strong grip on me.

All we are going to do tonight is teasing. Are you ready for the torture?

I am dripping with love and desire for you.

Come on and soak me dry with that mouth of yours.

It is really hot today, I think I am going to take my all my clothes off and just lay in my bed. See you in ten?

Would you let me ride you again?

Just the smell of you gives me shivers.

How will I be able to contain myself when I know that you are in the shower right now?

Your bulge is driving me mad.

Your dessert is HOT and READY for you.

We should stay in a hotel tonight. I am not sure if my neighbors would appreciate all the pounding noise and screaming.

Want to play tonight?

I have been thinking about some seriously racy stuff about you today.

You can look at it but you cannot touch it, YET.

Your wardrobe needs to be updated. How about trying me on?

Let me be a part of your favorite fantasy?

I had a dream of you last night; you were mostly naked in it. ᔥ 100 Top Sexting Messages

5 Tips for Sexting

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AedG83fgEHs

In this video a priest has his own talk show and is talking about Sexting (I know weird right, lol) , or rather has a guest on who talks about the 5 Tips / Guidelines for Sexting.  She goes over the most important aspects of sexting, this is definitely a great video to watch as she breaks down quickly why you should follow these 5 sexting guidelines.

3 Things Girls Should NEVER Text a Guy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Ebewvi2qzs

Alec Werthman the creator of this video gives 3 insightful tips to ladies on things they should never say to a guy when texting. You may want to watch this video and take notes. These 3 topics are definite do not’s when you first start talking to any guy.

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