hey! you can call me wren or lily and this is my selfship sideblog ( ¬‿¬ )♡ I post and reblog selfship content here! my url was previously @/tomiokaluvr, which is now my main !
my primary f/o is eddie munson ♡ I have selfshipped with him since may 2022 and consider him my boyfriend. I am nonsharing!
likes & follows come from my main @tomiokaluvr !
minors & proship dni !! posts may include 18+ content.
f/o list, links, & tags below the cut. dividers by @anitalenia !!
♡ f/o list ♡
primary
♡ eddie munson (stranger things) - since 05/2022, no o/c, ship name - wreddie, non sharing
secondaries
♡ tomioka giyuu (demon slayer) - since late 2019, s/i oc - hirano yuri, ship name - giyuri, non sharing
♡ neuvillette (genshin impact) - since 09/2023, s/i oc - wren blumenthal, ship name - neuviwren, non sharing
♡ howl pendragon (howl's moving castle) - since ~2019, no s/i oc yet, ship name - howlily, mirror sharing
♡ rafayel/qi yu (love and deepspace) - since 02/2026, mc - lily buchanan, ship name - flamelily, mirror sharing
♡ tags and links for easy navigation ♡
♡ my pronouns page for anyone interested !
♡ my original posts about my selfships - wreddie / giyuri / neuviwren / wren lily's selfships
♡ reblogs where I yap in the tags about my selfships - wreddie core / giyuri core / neuviwren core
♡ others' posts including my selfships - love letters (f/o letters)
♡ my other original posts - wren lily rambles / wren lily draws
imagine your f/o carrying something that reminds them of you at all times. could be anything -- a photo, an item of jewelry, a letter, a lock of your hair -- all that matters is that having it on them fills your f/o with this immense feeling of joy and a reminder of how much they love you.
your f/o doesn't always need you to specify when you aren't feeling well. they know you so well that they already know what to look out for. your body language, words, or lack of words. they can tell when your mood shifts, when your energy is low, or when you need something. whether it's affection, a listening ear, being held, space, or words of encouragement. all they want is to make sure you're comfy and happy. ♡
🐇 little question of the day! I'm very interested in ocs and such so: where is your oc or self insert from? If they arent from our world where would they be from?
For example, my jjba sbr insert river is american, spacificly Choctaw and irish :3
promo sasha/lynx! your 33yo friendly neighborhood nonbinary, catgender, aroace, ficto person who likes ben solo a small amount. just a tiny little bit.
💛🤍 pinned ; pronouns ; carrd 💜🖤
please note that I'll follow back from @w-erewolf, my main blog! no minors and/or proshippers, please!
imagine your selfship sona being seen as being a bit of a "lurker" whenever their f/on is near. nothing creepy or stalkish, but lurking in the sense that they're constantly making lingering stares whenever their f/o is around or near.
they could be doing a mundane task and your sona is just lurking and staring softly at whatever it is they're doing.
This is your reminder that your f/o loves and cares for you. Not just because you love and care for them, but because you're more than enough for them just by being you.