PAC: WHAT INFLUENCE DO YOU HAVE ON THEM? HOW DO YOU AFFECT THEM?
This only applies to current and future partner, not crush. This addresses your influence on them in general and before you guys make it official. I posted the extended version on my Patreon which includes how will you affect them in private and after you guys make it official! 👀🥵😳 There are also other 70+ readings on Patreon so definitely check it out, pick a card reading is posted every week plus extra mini pac every month!
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PILE 1
General, outside the bedroom, before relationship: Queen of Swords, 9 of Wands, 2 of Pentacles, King of Wands, 3 of Cups Rx.
There is some kind of push and pull here, back and forth energy. It’s almost like, they aren’t sure which energy they want to settle in; whether to pursue you and prove themself to you, or to show you they aren’t affected by you and they’re better than that. You annoy them, but I think the annoyance actually stems from sexual frustration, they find you annoying because they often feel that frustration around you; you trigger conflicting feelings in them.
Your person may like to argue with you, just to alleviate or express that frustration. How rough they are with you, this depends on your specific case. For some of you, they are just very straightforward, they could correct you or tell you what to do and what not to do like they don’t care much about your feelings while they’re doing it; they may sound a bit like they think they’re better than you and you are a bit troublesome to deal with lol. Especially if they’re a man, then there may be some mansplaining thing going on. For others of you, they could make offensive comments, or comments that rile you up, maybe also comments that sound kinda condescending. You make them alert. Whenever you’re near, it’s like their whole attention gets drawn to you and, not to excuse their negative behaviour, they can’t help but say something, they can’t help but poke at you and express the frustration they’re feeling.
They don’t like to show how much you affect them. Partly because they feel kinda bad about themself, they think they don’t have much hope to be with you, for whatever reason. And partly because they probably like to be in control (of themself, especially). So in combination, you just make them defensive. They do have the desire to prove themself to you, to prove that they are a great romantic / sexual interest, to prove that they’re the best among the best, that they are attractive and highly admired and sought after. But the fact that they have that desire makes them aware of how much power you have over them, and they don’t like that. So this is the back-and-forth energy I was talking about.
They probably have a lot of people around them. This person could be an extrovert or they probably have a big social circle, but to be honest they don’t really care about those things. It’s like their mind is very focused on you that other people just blend into the background noise. And whenever they feel that frustration, they don’t feel the desire to mingle or flirt or get involved with other people. Some of them could try, just to prove a point that they still have control over themselves, but their hearts aren’t in it, they get bored of it and it seldom gets to the point of them sleeping with someone else.
For some of you, besides poking at you and occasionally coming into your life and being your saviour (they may look a little annoyed when they do it though, but internally their ego blooms when they get to help you and show off), they channel that frustration into self-improvement; not emotional maturity, but spending more time taking care of their health, body, appearance, planning their future, getting in touch back with their life goals. Maybe also spending more time doing physical activities like going to the gym or playing sports. Basically, they seek to release that pent-up energy in a masculine way, regardless of their gender. But if you’re near, they’ll poke at you.
EXTENDED VERSION IS ON PATREON! What influence do you have on them sexually and in the bedroom after you guys make it official? Find out here! 🫢🥵
PILE 2
General, outside the bedroom, before relationship: Knight of Wands, 4 of Wands, Justice, Knight of Cups, Knight of Swords Rx.
They try to be appropriate, and to not think inappropriately about you. It’s not that they don’t feel sexually attracted to you, you just remind them of how they should behave, you make them think about the right things to do, you make them want to treat you with honour and with respect. So when they feel hot and bothered around you, they respond to that arousal by leaning into their emotional and romantic energy. They want to focus on their feelings for you, on the happiness that you evoke and the excitement (the innocent kind) that you bring out. They may be quite besotted, and will want to pursue you if they haven’t already. This is the type of person who shows off and flirts with you, who shows their good qualities and makes themself look like an attractive potential partner. You make them want to do those things. They are charming, and they turn that on to the max level around you. For some of you, they are confident but sometimes they may seem a little nervous, or caught off guard by your response, and may stutter a bit. It’s like, they come in and say something flirtatious, but when you return that energy, they blush and they don’t know how to act. It’s like that.
They open up around you. You make them want to interact with the world. You can often see them socialise, laughing with their friends (their voice may get a little louder than usual) whenever you are near. It’s like they want to attract your attention, and they do so by being active and interactive. But without being too frank and intrusive. They know how to weave in and out, when to come closer and when to pull back a little, and then come closer again and then pull back. Once they decide they want to be with you, their focus will always be on pursuing you, their behaviour will shift accordingly. You make them want to take the lead, to step in, to be proactive. If they are a man or the masculine in this connection, you make them want to be ‘the man’. They may puff out their chest a bit around you, sometimes they act a little careless (like they don’t care much, like they’re a playboy / playgirl) but they can’t maintain that energy, because they care about you and they want you.
They can’t make themself seem uninterested; they can’t play games. You make them want to act right, like I said before. So they may also be more willing to have a heart-to-heart conversation with you. They may play (not sexual) and joke around more with other people, but when they are with you especially when you guys are alone, their energy becomes softer and more considerate, receptive and thoughtful, it’s like they take time to really feel and be present when they interact with you. You know people say that our pupils dilate when we see something / someone we like; that could happen to them when they look at you. Heart eyes, not being able to stop themself from smiling or blushing. They become honest and genuine with you, they can’t help it. So some of them could also look kinda cute. If they’re a man, they become a gentleman. Regardless of their gender, you make them want to be romantic. Whether or not you guys are in a relationship, they get the desire to do those romantic things; like making a photobook for you with handwritten notes, having a romantic dinner, walking on the beach and having a heartfelt conversation, sharing a playlist to express their feelings for you through songs, etc.
EXTENDED VERSION IS ON PATREON! What influence do you have on them sexually and in the bedroom after you guys make it official? Find out here! 🫢🥵
PILE 3
General, outside the bedroom, before relationship: The Hermit, 2 of Pentacles, Ace of Pentacles, 3 of Cups Rx.
This person probably has Earth influence somewhere in their chart, or you activate that part of them whenever you are around. They get quiet around you. You make them withdraw. Not in a bad way.... but not in a good way either. It’s like they become more observant and introspective. If they’ve got an extroverted personality or if they are normally loud and outgoing, they clam up when you are near. They become more serious, and sound serious when they talk with you. That’s the effect you have on them. I’m not getting much sexual energy from this, so I’m not sure how long this reading will be. It could be that they keep it very tight and secure. If they feel aroused by you, they’ll definitely hide it, it will seem like they don’t feel anything around you. For some of you, they may also seem like they are not happy around you, or they seem professional and clinical around you. The more restrained they act around you, the more affected they actually are by you.
This person could think about you sexually, but the thoughts are mixed with some sombreness. You make them think about their responsibilities, their duties, what’s going on with their life, and how things fit and not fit in their life. Especially if you guys can’t be together right away (for whatever reason). So every time they feel that sexual attraction, they sink into that sombreness instead of fully leaning into their sexual side. Even if they are hard or wet at that time, it’ll disappear quickly because you can’t stay sexual when your mind is actively lamenting something else. They may also become more of a recluse, or they distance themself from other people when they’re in that energy. You may catch them sitting alone, or not interacting with their friends much. It happens when they think about you, or when they feel affected by you. They most likely do not flirt around or mess around with other people when you are heavy on their mind.
Alright let’s try getting some sexual messages. I think if they feel that desire, they’ll think about going home and dealing with it privately and secretly. This is not the type of person who talks with their friends about how turned on they are by you, or how hot you are, or how much they can’t stop themself. This feels more like someone who prefers to keep that desire private, even to themself. They may succumb to it some days, and they may not want to think too much about it (i.e. worrying about it) while they're doing it. This is the type of person who masturbates in the shower or in a dark bedroom, eyes closed and not wanting to acknowledge that they are thinking about you in so many dirty ways, not wanting to acknowledge that they are touching themself at the thoughts of you. But they think about it of course, eventually, after it’s done. Probably thinking about it in a dark living room with a drink in one hand, massaging their head because you and the situation just give them a headache lol. Their energy feels very mature.
EXTENDED VERSION IS ON PATREON! What influence do you have on them sexually and in the bedroom after you guys make it official? Find out here! 🫢🥵
PILE 4
General, outside the bedroom, before relationship: 9 of Cups, 4 of Cups Rx, 9 of Wands (Knight of Pentacles), 5 of Swords.
Honestly your person is both pessimistic and optimistic. It's like you make them become both, sometimes they are pessimistic about it, sometimes they are optimistic. They are usually pessimistic though. You probably have a lot of admirers, or they think you have a lot of admirers so they think they need to fight for you and compete and that’s one of the things that is making them lowkey depressed here. Still, you make them want to try, you make them want to open their heart for you, especially if they have been avoiding getting involved with anyone. Before meeting you, they probably didn’t have much hope or desire to mingle around, they might not feel attracted to anyone, might not be interested in the idea of love. For some of you, it’s partly because of their past relationship, it made them pessimistic and bored of love.
Anyway. You make them want to have this. It’s not just sexual, it’s also emotional. You make them want to hope. They may interact more with you. But because there’s that back-and-forth energy, some days you could catch them being a bit distant. Not because they don’t feel it anymore, it’s just that they feel it too much that they get depressed instead lol. It just makes them lowkey frustrated and it bothers them. But if you approach them, I think they’ll treat you nicely, their face will lighten up and they’ll smile easily around you. You make them want to make you happy, to be nice and charming and ideal for you. There’s something about you that makes them feel bad about themself, it’s not your fault though, I think they just overthink their past experience and somehow think that whatever has happened in their life makes them undeserving of you or something, or makes them not worthy enough to have you. This person probably expects too much from themself. They do have the desire to work on their issues, you make them want to put effort into getting better, it’s just that they have their bad days.
Their sexual desire for you feels a bit blocked and conflicted. It’s like, if they touch themself to the thoughts of you, it’ll feel good in the moment but after that they could feel a bit pathetic, like they are a mess, and this is embarrassing. Like I said, partly because they feel like they can’t be with you, and they feel like you are with someone else or you have other choices. So them being that turned on and wet / hard for you is a bit embarrassing for them, it makes them feel a little shitty and hopeless. But they keep doing it though, or trying their best not to do so and then feeling sad about it. I’m not feeling much sexual energy from this spread of cards, they struggle more emotionally here.
EXTENDED VERSION IS ON PATREON! What influence do you have on them sexually and in the bedroom after you guys make it official? Find out here! 🫢🥵
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