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hello darlings!! you can call me elique or ji.
background: i have been into LOA/spirituality for two years and my posts will often be based on my experience and knowledge. i have been on tumblr for a bit but now i have decided to make a blog to archive all my thoughts and opinions!
this blog is about: the law of assumption, manifestation, self-care, mental health, moodboards, spirituality and more!
I remember reading in a deleted @rosellesworkshop post that she used to affirm that regardless of everything she kept all her thoughts on check at the end of the day.
Sorry if I'm misremembering, but the post has been deleted, so i can't fact check it
I think that this is a wonderful idea, to use revision at the end of the day, specially if you had a bad day of focusing too much on the things happening in the 3d and you feel frustrated by it.
âNight after night you should assume the feeling of being, having and witnessing that which you seek to be, possess, and see manifested. Never got to sleep feeling discouraged or dissatisfied. Never sleep in the consciousness of failure".â Neville Goddard
Neville always talks about the importance of going to bed with the wish fulfillment, not matter what happened during the day, not matter how much we "sinned" aka living in a state that we do not desire, to always go back to the state of wish fulfillment before going to sleep.
âYour subconscious, whose natural state is sleep, sees you as you believe yourself to be, and whether it be good, bad or indifferent, the subconscious will faithfully embody your beliefs.ââ Neville Goddard
"No matter what, today i kept all my thoughts on check"
Affirm that , but most importantly, you have to go to sleep knowing that not matter what you did during the day, you did everything right and nothing can ruin it.
Whatever you want it's already yours, just feel the feeling of already having it, already living it.
Forget what happened during the day, how does it feel to live you dream life? How do you feel now that you already have all the things you always wanted? Feel those feelings before going to sleep.
"when we practice this law, we are bit by bit remembering how to live as reality, not to merely look at reality, but to live a dream called human life fully and lovingly,"
Hey! I wanted to ask if you could do an in depth explanation on James Janiâs video on âdebunkingâ manifesting! Iâd love to hear your thoughts and opinions!
his video is debunking the law of attraction. and his main point is that there is no actual scientific proof of thoughts and feelings having âvibrationsâ, it creates toxic beliefs (toxic positivity etc) and there isnât actually any proof that the things that happen in your life are related to the thoughts you think.
i donât ever talk about âenergyâ or âvibrationsâ. it is obviously pseudoscience. âenergyâ is just an abstract enough term to mark it as the basis of why thought creates. if youâve taken basic chemistry or physics then you can find plenty of examples why this is all contradicting.
the basis on which i am practicing the law of assumption is not based on âenergyâ. mine is a concept that canât be debunked by empirical science. consciousness is the only reality is a philosophy. itâs a way to view life. itâs not claiming to be scientific. why consciousness is the only reality is because you can only experience life through your consciousness. for you, only consciousness exists. you cannot access anyone elseâs experience because you can only access your own consciousness. even if you could access someone elseâs experience then it would still be your experience because youâd be experiencing it through your own consciousness. therefore, for you, all there is is your own consciousness. therefore consciousness creates. because if thereâs only your consciousness then only your consciousness can create.
i think positivity is a crucial part of the law of assumption. the attitude you have towards life are reflected on the outside. i agree that you canât just tell people âjust smile!â. obviously you shouldnât ignore your emotions because they tell you a lot about yourself and any deeper attitudes about your life. but as consciousness is the only reality, all thoughts, feelings, problems, desires and assumptions are subordinate to you. acknowledging this can help you deal with your emotions. that is not toxic positivity. that is letting yourself be happy.
from a law of attraction perspective i could definitely wrongly associate what happens on the outside with my feelings and thoughts. my success and failure could be related to something else. but from the law of assumption perspective, however, i am leaning on a purely theoretical philosophy. you cannot debunk that you are aware right now and you have a consciousness. you cannot debunk that you experience things because you are conscious. this is common intuitive knowledge. so consciousness being the only reality is just a perspective you can take on life, something you can acknowledge if you want to, because it isnât debunkable from an empirical science point of view.
me explaining that manifestation is more than getting your desire, but a personal journey to discovering yourself and un-learning old beliefs that once held you back so really it doesnât matter if itâs taking you a while to get the whole concept of the law because its not about the destination but the journey and the things youâll learn.
I love Edward Arts videos sm one thing I took from one of his lectures is 'life is not happening to you, it's coming from you' because he's literally so right like
I literally cried when this girl texted me saying she is living her dream life, I was so pround, I am pround đ
Backstory, she first texted me 12/15/2022
She told me everything about her circumstances, they were really bad ones, and she was 12 at time and this made my heart so broken (she revised her age) since her parents were really toxic and disgusting ( I am not going to say much about her old story).
So I told her all about the toxic home I lived and how I manifested it away too (my success, my failures).
So, time passed and I got this text day 01/feb I got this text!
I literally cried because I was so happy for herrrr đđđ
"How she did it?"
She focused in her inner Self being the only reality and ignored all circumstances!
"and i would love to you to add those youtubers and blogs"
insta: - kriston jackson
youtube: - lana blakely
tumblr: - @becomingthatgirl111
â other sources abt loa: - joe dispenza, edward art"
I literally cried so much and I am so happy for you my angel, look how you did it! You were 12 and revised your whole life! đđđ
And that are people out there who don't believe that it is possible to manifest things. Look at this girl đ
You did it amazing love, I am so pround of you. You are deserving of all the best things in the world. I wish you all the fun in life. Thank you sm for sending me this, I feel so appreciated that I had helped you, but who did all of this was YOU! đđđ
fuck the grind. fuck work culture. i want a slow life. i want to wake up in the morning and scramble eggs and saute some spinach, squeeze some orange juice and cut up some strawberries, and eat it all while sitting on my porch and watching my goats mill about in the yard. i have a world of downtime to bake bread and garden and read and craft. i am free.
i love and support trans people! having this on your blog means you love and support trans people too!
welcome to the unofficial official challenge of angelâs vault â
iâm going to say this now, this isnât going to be some crazy, different thing. this is literally how the law works lol but i say challenge because it's for those who see them as fun, want to be disciplined and set the tone for the new year! (or whenever youâre reading this)
đ. the point of this challenge is toâŠ
fall in love with imagination
enjoy fulfilling yourself
get your desires duh
stop over consuming and apply no matter if you think you need to know more.
đđ. important guidelines!
read this post to get a gist of states because this is what this challenge is about. fulfilling yourself in imagination. you donât need to read it every time to know youâre doing it right, this challenge will do it all for you.
affirmations and visualizations are techniques so what is your way of thinking that feels comfortable to you? sometimes you donât even need it. for me, i mostly need to feel that i already have it. have fun, experiment with daydreams/scenes, affirming and/or feeling. it doesn't have to be the same every single time.
đđđ. steps
choose what you want. go crazy. do not condition your desires. you are limitless. if you can see it in your mind, you can have it. famous? nepo baby? money? db, df? better self concept? gender revision? time change?
decide right now you are the person who already has what the want. so guess what? there is nothing to get because you already have your desire. manifesting money? you already have it. manifesting an sp? you already have them. manifesting your dream life? you already have it. that is your state.
fulfill yourself every chance you get in the day. no you donât have to lock yourself in the room to affirm/visualize/feel all day. no you donât have to be in the state all day, you are always passing through states but remember, the state you constantly make your dwelling place MANIFESTS. so make an effort to return to it as much as you can and want to.
ideas: do it in the morning when you wake up, in the afternoon, whenever you have free time like on your bed, going home, walking, during class and before you go to sleep.
bonus: do this meditation by edward art daily, it's not mandatory. it's not like all the other meditations, give it a shot. get off tumblr, stop over consuming
make it fun, itâs not a chore! have fun daydreaming/visualizing you shopping with all the money you got, getting compliments from people on how theyâre so amazed at how successful you are, have fun complimenting yourself in the mirror while you repeat affirmations, have fun looking around and going âyeah, i literally have ____â sounds nice and fun? because it is. manifesting is simple.
4. get your desires. there is no deadline. i hate that shit đ srrynotsrry, that would be contradicting the law and this challenge. you already have it, youâre not getting anything on a time crunch. not no 3 days, not a week, not two, not a month. THERE IS NOTHING TO GET WHEN YOU HAVE IT NOW. ONLY NOW.
challenge summary:
YOU ALREADY HAVE IT!
đ. why should you fulfill yourself?
because when you fulfill yourself in imagination, you are changing self. and what is a reflection of self? the 3D.
itâs not your job to make things physical. your job is to change your mind.
focus on yourself. there is nothing to change or to get in the 3D because itâs nothing but a mirror that shows/proves you right in what state you identify and dwell in.
âStop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Manâs attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. The reflection then will be satisfactory.â
âI AM wealthy, poor, healthy, sick, free, confined were first of all impressions or conditions felt before they became visible expressions. Your world is your consciousness objectified. Waste no time trying to change the outside; change the within or the impression; and the without or expression will take care of itself. When the truth of this statement dawns upon you, you will know that you have found the lost word or the key to every door. I AM (your consciousness) is the magical lost word which was made flesh in the likeness of that which you are conscious of being.â
đđ. additional tips
doubting? let it pass. don't give it power. why are you doubtful if it's going to come or if the law works when you have what you want right now? if you're dwelling in doubts then you're not being the person who has it.
worried about when it's going to come? that doesn't make sense because you literally have it right now lol
want to ask a question? why? you literally have it. what's there to ask? try asking yourself first.
simple.
have fun, angels. remember that YOU ALREADY HAVE IT. send me your successes in the inbox!
How to Become the Most Iconic It Girl in Your Reality
A Guide to Bring Your Dream Self to Life
âYou are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.â Feeling is the Secret Ch. 1
I. Introduction â§
Hello, my loves! This guide will help YOU become the person you have always dreamt of being as the starring role of your reality. Weâre going to cover so much so I hope youâre ready to bid farewell to the person you used to be and get ready to transform into the most desirable version of yourself yet. Whether you aspire to be an it girl, it boy, it person or it god, whatever your preferred title is, if you desire to be other than what you currently are, this guide is for you.
Note: this was written through a law of assumption lens so if youâre looking for a glow up post that tells you to eat fruit and cut off toxic people this is not the one. If you havenât read my guide about the law of assumption or are new to it I strongly recommend you read that one first before reading further, as everything written later on will make much more sense that way.
A. Whatâs to come.
The comprehensive purpose of this guide is to help you become the person you have always dreamt of being and to remind you that you no longer need to be unhappy with who you are because you get to create your own reality, meaning that you get to define yourself. Not your environment, not your peers, you. Your upbringing may have persuaded you of the fact that you are undeserving of anything you could ever desire, but you donât need to go another day feeling insecure, unloved and miserable. Life is your creation. The days of you being confined to the image others have imposed unto you are a thing of the past now. I donât know who you were before you opened this guide but that person isnât you anymore. From this point on, you have been an icon from BIRTH.
B. Breaking down the terms âiconicâ and âitâ.
Before we start, letâs define what an iconic it girl is first.
To be iconic means to be impactful. What makes an icon an icon is the fact that they donât live up to standards or expectations because they live by their own rules and are not afraid to deviate from the conventional. The difference between an icon and a non-icon is that icons arenât all talk, they ARE about it.Â
âItâ refers to a prominent and commendable quality in an individual that evokes intrigue and admiration, especially one that makes said individual spectacular or exceptional. The it factor is subjective because different qualities instigate intrigue across different people. In the case of this guide, the IT factor will ultimately be up to you to define.
If we fuse both terms together with the law of assumption in mind, an iconic it girl is one whoâs in total control of her reality. Sheâs a sovereign, sheâs above everything and everyone and nothing can cause her to waver in her conviction. Sheâs the center of the universe and nothing can ever challenge that thought in her head. She calls the shots and she does what she wants. An iconic it girl is a trend setter. She doesnât follow trends nor standards, she creates them. Nobody tells her what she can or canât do and nobody tells her who she is because she has an established conception of herself.
C. Why be an it girl?
It girls tend to be the girls you either want to be or be with because they seem to have it all: wealth, beauty, sex appeal, allure, social circle, relationship, achievements and/or an interesting lifestyle. You see these girls on social media and you covet the lives they lead but you feel suppressed by your current circumstances because reality conditions your desires. If you want to change your appearance, you must be rich and if you want to be rich, you must work hard. If you want to be extroverted, you must change your personality and if you want to change your personality, you must step out of your comfort zone. Thatâs the reality of life because life operates by logic. But, guess what? You are not limited to what we once accepted to be the âreality of lifeâ. We are infinite beings capable of everything we could ever desire in this world. Anything someone else is or has can also be you/rs and in this guide Iâll explain how you can.
Now that we have established what an iconic it girl is and why we can aspire to be one, we will now proceed with HOW to do it and more importantly, where it all starts.
II. Conception ⧠of self.
âIt is our conception of ourselves which frees or constrains us.â - No One To Change But Self
Self concept is how you see yourself in relation to the world and how you see the world in relation to you. All the assumptions you carry about the two comprise your conception of self, which as a result fashions the experiences you have in your world. From the way people treat you to the way you treat yourself, all of it has originated from your assumptions which harvested your state which has become part of your consciousness (what you know to be a fact at this very moment). Whether your goal is to manifest being an it girl or anything else, it always goes back to changing your self concept first, which is nothing more than a state.
A state is an attitude of mind comprised of beliefs (assumptions) and when we desire to change our self concept, we adjust our state of consciousness. You may not feel exceptional nor as if you have the it factor as of right now and that is credited to the contents of your state of consciousness. If you want to become an iconic it girl, you must first change your state into one of an it girl. How do you change states? Through feeling, by I AM.
A. I AM.
âI AM wealthy, poor, healthy, sick, free, confined were first of all impressions or conditions felt before they became visible expressions. Your world is your consciousness objectified. Waste no time trying to change the outside; change the within or the impression; and the without or expression will take care of itself. When the truth of this statement dawns upon you, you will know that you have found the lost word or the key to every door. I AM (your consciousness) is the magical lost word which was made flesh in the likeness of that which you are conscious of being.â- Your Faith Is Your Fortune Ch. 6
I AM is a declaration of self through what you are aware of being. You are incapable of speaking about yourself unless your statement begins with I AM. Manifesting becoming an it girl is not about acquiring something, it is about being the person who has that something through whatever comes after I AM:
I have money -> I am [in the state of being] wealthy
I have perfect grades -> I am [conscious of being] a stellar student
I have a partner -> I AM in a relationship
âBecome identified with that character and feeling and you will be amazed how quickly you will realize your dream. The only sacrifice you are called upon to make, is to give up your present concept of self and appropriate the desire you want to express.â
B. EIYPO.
"Blind man sees the world objective to himself, something detached from himself. When man begins to awake he sees everything subjectively related; everything he meets is part of himself, and what he does not now understand, still he knows that it is related by affinity to some as yet unrealized force in his own being." - The Pruning Shears of Revision
Everyone is you pushed out accounts for the notion that whatever we think or assume of ourselves is pushed out into the world and reflected back to us. This means that the people around you will see you the way you see yourself and treat you accordingly. We manifest 24/7 through our established assumptions, so whether you have accepted as a fact that you are loved by everyone you meet or you arenât very likable, your circumstances will evince that. However, that is not to say you are not entitled to feel upset when someone disrespects you. Although this may be a difficult truth to accept, the purpose of acceptance of it is to feel and realize that we are above what people say or how they treat us rather than to feel inferior because of it. So, how do we take this concept into consideration when we aim to become an it girl? We simply accept it as yet another facet of our realities that we are in control of. How do you get people to stop seeing you as the person you no longer want to be anymore? By changing self first. When you begin to see yourself as an it girl, the world will see you as one as well.
"There is no one to change but self. All you need to do to make men and women holy in this world is to make yourself holy. You are incapable of seeing anything that is unlovely when you establish within your own mind's eye the fact that you are lovely."- No One To Change But Self
III. Imagination ⧠Optimize your creative power.
âEverything in your world that you behold, though it appears without, it is within, in your imagination. And this wonderful imagination of yours is Christ Jesus. Imagination is the actual habitation of every created thing. No matter what you see in the world, it springs from your imagination. So that's where you go, that's the workshop, the garden of God.â - The Pruning Shears of Revision
A wonderfully comforting aspect of the law of assumption is that we all possess the inalienable gift that is to be able to grant upon ourselves whatever it is we desire to have, do or be. No matter what it is that you want, be it factual or fictional, existent or nonexistent, you can have anything. It is possible to become the person you have always wanted to be due to the lack of limitations in imagination. If you can think it, you can become it. Whether you desire to look like someone, have a relationship that mirrors the one in your favorite k-drama with your celebrity crush or be exactly like your comfort character, I could go on and on with examples of whatever it is you can have, do or be because when I tell you that you are a limitless being, I mean it wholeheartedly.
I must emphasize and drive this point home. All is possible in the world. Every possible desired life aspect you could ever fantasize about in your imagination exists because creation is finished. Whether itâs your dream home, career, income, accomplishments, possessions, relationship, friend group, physique, personality, lifestyle whatever it is you dream of having is possible to be conscious of because there are a myriad of states for us to choose from. That state already exists like a suit that is waiting for you to wear it until it becomes a natural part of your consciousness.
Because of this, it naturally makes sense to acknowledge that we no longer need to be neither humble nor jealous of another. If we know we can have absolutely anything in the world, even something already in the possession of another, why would we?
With our wonderful human imagination on our side, we can transcend the limitations that surround us. Whether you desire to get accepted into an ivy league university two years early with a 2.1 GPA or eat endlessly without gaining a single pound and jeopardizing your health, your limitless self is capable of becoming conscious of it and more, so let your imagination run free devoid of any restrictions when you define your it girl. The presentation of any circumstances do not and will never matter. To be is as simple as asking yourself whether or not you want to be it.
IV. Inspiration ⧠Defining your it girl.
Now weâre getting to the fun part of this post because you get to use your creative power: imagination. Remember a few sections ago when we discussed what the IT factor is? This is where you get to determine what IT is. Let me remind you again, your idea of what an it girl is is subjective, so it wonât be exactly like someone elseâs definition. It girl is not a mold in which you are expected to fit into. Whether you want an active socialite nepo baby city life or a secluded pastry-making book-reading cottagecore life, doesnât matter. This is all about who you desire to be. With that, letâs get down on how to determine what your it girl self looks like.
A. Who do you want to be like?
What qualities in a person would make you perceive someone as admirable or inspiring? Hard work? Being multifaceted? Do they have a personality you wish you had?
Think of people you deem iconic or who you look up to and why you perceive them as such. Are they someone whoâs successfully pursued a personal goal of yours? Is their career full of achievements?
Don't condense your inspirations to people, you can also take fictional characters into consideration. Whether itâs Maddy from Euphoria, Blair from Gossip Girl or Pooja from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham, think of the characters from your favorite films and tv shows for more ideas.
You can also consider some of the most popular archetypes across social/media such as the femme fatale, the socialite, the siren, the beauty and brains, any archetype that possesses a lifestyle or aura that you would like for yourself can also be taken into consideration.
C. What are some interesting qualities/assumptions about you?
Always the life of the party
Speaks multiple languages
Excels at everything on the first try
Has a commanding presence
Loved by everyone and full of admirers
Everyone you develop an interest in always pursues you
People find you alluring and inspiring
Bearer of the Halo effect - receives advantages and special treatment just for being gorgeousÂ
Mastered or proficient in a specific subject/sport/language/instrument
Art connoisseur / literature, films, fashion, music, photography
Knowledgeable across different subjects / history, science, interior design, fragrances, wine, etc.
Knowledgeable in sophisticated fields / law, politics, economics, finance
Expert at a specific hobby or activity / chess, bridge, painting, sculpting, skating, singing, dancing
Skilled at / sewing, cooking, baking, knitting, makeup, styling, coding
D. Combine it.
Once I had an idea of what I wanted my new self to be like , I would refer to scenes in tv shows when a character is being introduced in third person as if theyâre reading a profile about them. They donât just name the character, theyâll list their background, their personality, what they do, what their interests are, etc. and then twist this for myself and imagine how I would like another person to describe me. Iâll list an example of what that would look like below:
[Note: to stay on theme I will be providing an it girl example, make this your own!]
One word to describe her? Extraordinary, but sheâs too much to even conceptualize in a single word that it almost feels disrespectful to her. She either inspires you to be at her level or mortifies you for not being at her level. She's influential and enticing, opulent and godly. She has sky-high standards and smells like Tobacco Vanille. She always gets what she wants and doesnât take no for an answer. She studies hard in the daytime and attends prestigious social gatherings in the nighttime. Sheâs a polymath with an IQ of 168 who knows a little about every subject. Whether itâs foreign languages, interior design, pastry making or art, sheâs full of knowledge and constantly teaches you something new. Sheâs innovative and always formulating progressive ideas which also makes her a trendsetter. Whatever she does whether itâs a hobby or putting an outfit together she always owns it in her own unique manner. Because of that, her presence captures the attention of everyone in the room without her even saying a word. Her magnetic aura and sultry gaze make her irresistible to anyone who locks eyes with her. Men go crazy over her even though they know sheâd never look twice at them. Sheâs witty and fun to be around. Sheâs unlike anyone youâve ever met before. In fact, you could copy her personality and style down to a T and you still would not be able to capture her essence. You canât get her out of your head because her beauty, passion and determination make her unforgettable.Â
Now that you have an idea of who your new self is, letâs talk about how to dump the old self.
V. Immolation ⧠Say goodbye to the old story forever.
âMan is not willing to outgrow, [and] yet he wants other things than those he has. But if you remain in one state, you will forever have to suffer the consequences of not being in another state. (From the âHermeticaâ). If I remain in the state of poverty, I must suffer the consequences of not being in the state of wealth.â - The Art of Dying
A. No one to change but self (concept).
âHeretofore I thought I could change others through effort. Now I know I cannot change another unless I first change myself. To change another within my world I must first change my concept of that other; and to do it best I change my concept of self. For it was the concept I held of self that made me see others as I did.â - No One To Change But Self
I started this guide with self concept for a reason. If you want to create a change in your life you must first begin with self . As within, so without. An inner change must precede an outer change because we do not experience what we want, we experience what we are. Any attempt to change our worlds without changing ourselves is a mere delusion because the world will forever reflect back to us that which we are conscious of being. You want the world to know that youâre an it girl? Feel yourself to be an it girl first.
B. Forgiveness.
âYou must learn to distinguish between the eternal human who occupies a state, and the state itself. This is the only means to forgiveness.â - True Forgiveness
Forgiving is forgetting and forgetting is letting go. When you are able to feel yourself to be who you want to be, you let go of who you used to be. You no longer have to be somebody you donât want to be because a change of state is always instant. Every day is a new day and every moment is a new moment. If you are currently a miserable person and then you decide you are not then you are no longer a miserable person because you chose to not identify with it. You are not your state and you cannot be affixed to any state you donât want to occupy. You will always have the option to embody any state you would like to occupy. You can shift that immediately through forgiveness and intention. Through forgiveness, you create the severance between the state you were formerly in and the state of an it girl.Â
C. Regret no more.Â
âDo not waste one moment in regret, for to think feelingly of the mistakes of the past is to re-infect yourself.â â Feeling is the Secret
Iâd like to take this moment to tell you that regret doesnât need to be a thing anymore because you can revise the past. That hobby you wanted to pursue but gave up on? Your GPA that you canât go back and fix? The best friend you miss? Do you remember when you wanted to start drawing but then you stopped? Or when you did ballet when you were younger and never continued? Remember when you started learning Spanish and then gave up? You donât need to feel regretful anymore because you can revise all and reshape the past to be in harmony with the it girl that you are. Whether you wish you had grown up wealthy or with a specific skill which would later become your passion, absolutely every aspect of your life can be adjusted. Thereâs no need to resent the past because it is not set in stone.
D. Let go of the external.
I urge you to not let anything outside of you define you or your life. Whether itâs the tarot deck, the tea leaves or a birth chart, none of those sources have a say in what your life looks or will look like. Thereâs no such thing as a predetermined fate for you. Every single aspect of your world is malleable at your command, so give up the idea that thereâs any other force in the world capable of interfering with your desires.
VI. Reincarnation ⧠The birth of a new you.
âYou must this night â not tomorrow â learn the technique of writing your own obituary and so completely die to what you are that no man in this world can tell you where you buried the old man.â - Consciousness is the Only Reality
A. A newly acquired mentality.
Itâs time to step into your power and see yourself as the GOD that you are. You no longer need to live by the limitations the world has convinced you exist. You donât need to do or be anything/one you donât want to do/be and more importantly you do not need to settle for anything that doesnât live up to your expectations. If you donât like something, it doesnât need to be a thing. Think about it being as simple as blocking someone, you are not gonna annoy me in MY reality. Starting today, you get to decide who you want to be and who or what gets to be a part of your life. Again, this is YOUR world, YOUR reality and everyone else is simply living in it. Why should you ever worry your gorgeous self about anything not going your way if this is your world? Youâre the one on the pedestal and whatever you say must go.Â
Imagine telling a person exactly that, This is your world and everyone else is simply living in it. We are at such a huge advantage with the law of assumption because you donât even need to be concerned with the course of action, you just need to focus on being (I AM). When you talk to people through the confidence of knowing that every single one of your goals is absolutely achievable, because through the law of assumption they always are and always will be, it is very easy to appear as confident to the average doubtful person. Everyone around you carries the idea with them that failure and rejection are always possibilities. Youâre not like them, though. Youâre completely limitless. You can excel at whatever career you want to pursue, you can date anyone you point your finger at, you can possess all of the riches the world has to offer and thereâs no need to be humble about it. You are THE it girl, after all, are you not? All weâre stating is facts.
B. You cannot serve two masters.
âIf you are dissatisfied with your present expression in life the only way to change it, is to take your attention away form that which seems so real to you and rise in consciousness to that which you desire to be. You cannot serve two masters, therefore to take your attention from one state of consciousness and place it upon another is to die to one and live to the other.â - At Your Command Ch. 2
In other words, you cannot sustain two polarizing states at once and you cannot take any part of the old state into the new state. If you want change, you must be loyal to it. You must be so committed to it that you have no space to even consider the old story because it doesnât matter in the slightest anymore. Fall in love with your new state of consciousness that you are willing to be devoted to it no matter what. Leave the old in the past so the new can take its place.
C. Feeling the wish fulfilled.
âYou must assume that you are what you want to be and continue therein, for the reality of your assumption has its being in complete independence of objective fact and will clothe itself in flesh if you persist in the feeling of the wish fulfilledâ - The Power of Awareness Ch. 21
Capturing the feeling of the wish fulfilled is utterly essential, no matter what it is that you desire to manifest because the process will always be the same. First we must assume ourselves to be that which we desire to be through I AM and we persist in it independent of the objectiveness of our world until we are one with our new state.
The moment you successfully attain that feeling and continue to live by it, the direction of your attention will continue to focus on the implications of its fulfillment. That is, when you start to accept yourself as an it girl, the scenes that would suggest its consummation will make their way into your imagination, and if you persist in them they will inevitably become part of your state of consciousness.
VII. Invocation ⧠How to become it.
âWhen you pray, do not get down on your knees and pray to any unknown God. Instead, go to bed and dare to assume you are now who you want to be. Fall asleep assuming it is true and you will be on the road to success, for this is how things are brought into being.â - Brazen Impudence
A. SATS + lullaby.
I have an extensive post about the state akin to sleep which I highly suggest you read for further clarification as well as how I like to use the SATS. Iâll leave the instructions below:
The first step is to define your objective. Have a clear idea of what it is you would like to be (or be in possession of).
Next, ask yourself, âwhat does the end of that goal look like?â For example, if you would like to manifest a prestigious job opportunity, youâd be congratulated on it. If youâd like to manifest a change in appearance, you would receive compliments (It doesnât need to include another person, but you may find it more helpful in order to feel it more real). Whatever the end looks like, it must always be an event that implies its fulfillment, that it is done. This is the wish fulfilled.
Get into a comfortable position. You can lay down or sit upright, it doesnât matter, do whatever feels most comfortable.
Relax. You can do some breathing exercises, listen to music, have a warm drink, whatever it is that makes you relax.Â
Induce a moderate degree of drowsiness where you can still concentrate on the wish fulfilled, but be sure to not feel too drowsy where you find it difficult to focus. When you feel like you could move but you donât want to (because youâre too comfortable), thatâs when youâll know youâre in the state akin to sleep.
Construct a scene that implies the fulfillment of your desire by making elsewhere here and then now, then feel it real by incorporating your senses into it and imagine yourself being present within your imaginal scene from your perspective. Confine your scene to a single action. If your scene implies that you have received wonderful news, do not wander off in your visualization by doing a thousand irrelevant things afterwards, simply stick to the congratulations and mentally feel yourself being present in your scene. Repeat the scene until it takes on the tones of reality. [A tip from Edward Art: Focus on feeling it real (feeling the wish fulfilled) first and then the sensory aspects of your scene will follow]
If you find it difficult to focus on a scene and feel it real or if you simply cannot conceptualiza what the end would even look like, follow steps 1 through 4 and do the following: condense the fulfillment to three words or less and repeat them over and over again until your mind is dominated by the single sensation of thankfulness. Meditate on this phrase until you accept it as a fact.
Âč Visualization ideas.
Your scenes will vary depending on what life you want to live. You can change your scenes every time you visualize during the SATS so long as they all imply the same end. What would imply that you are an it girl? Being interviewed? Walking down a red carpet? Men dropping their jaws when you pass by? For ideas, consider what activities would comprise a day in your it girl life.
ÂČ The lullaby method.
"Remain there until you feel its certainty, until you reach the point of satisfaction, until you are convinced of its truth; and although the world may collapse around you, you will become that which you have assumed you are." - An Inner Conviction
If you would like to try out the lullaby method, some three word phrases you could use are: Iâm that girl/person, I have everything, It is done, Iâm so happy, I AM (__), etc.
B. Mental diets.
âFeast on the idea, become identified with the idea as though you were already that embodied state. Walk in the assumption that you are what you want to be. If you feast on that and remain faithful to that mental diet, you will crystallize it. You will become it in this world.â - Thinking Fourth Dimensionally
Mental diets arenât particularly necessary since they can imply that you need to be monitoring your thoughts constantly. However, objectively being conscious of them can help you determine what state you are currently occupying. If you would like to indulge in a mental diet you can do so by asking yourself the following questions:
Is this what I would want someone else to say or think about me?
Would my it girl think this thought?
I would also like to briefly recall that thoughts alone donât hold power unless you accept them as facts. You can have intrusive thoughts and joke all you want about how youâre ugly but unless you persist in that and feel them to be true it will not manifest.
C. Inner conversations.
"What are you saying at every moment of time? Watch it; be careful what you are saying, because your whole vast world is this inner conversation pushed out." - Control Your Inner Conversations
I urge you to stop internally berating yourself or imagining someone speaking negatively about you. Pay attention to the perpetual inner conversation you hold with yourself: âIâm not good at mathâ, âmy friends always make plans without meâ, âIâm so awkwardâ, because what you say and believe about yourself is what you will continue to face in the third dimension. Instead, think about the lovely remarks youâd like others to say about you and mentally hear them say them. You can also try vaunting which is the practice of constructing a conversation in which you brag from the wish fulfilled. You can turn to the example I used of being described in third person by someone else and speak from first person instead (I AM).
D. Revision.
"At the end of my day, I review the day; I don't judge it, I simply review it. I look over the entire day, all the episodes, all the events, all the conversations, all the meetings, and then as I see it clearly in my mind's eye, I rewrite it. I rewrite it and make it conform to the ideal day I wish I had experienced. I take scene after scene and rewrite it, revise it, and having revised my day, then in my imagination I relive that day, the revised day, and I do it over and over in my imagination until this seeming imagined state begins to take on to me the tones of reality. It seems that it's real, that I actually did experience it and I have found from experience that these revised days, if really lived, will change my tomorrows. When I meet people tomorrow that today disappointed me, they will not tomorrow, for in me I have changed the very nature of that being, and having changed him, he bears witness tomorrow of the change that took place within me." - The Pruning Shears of Revision
Before you go to bed, revisit the occurrences of your day and when you recall an unfavorable one that challenges your it girl state of consciousness and rewrite it. Follow the steps for the SATS and construct a scene that would replace the unfavorable situation and convert it into a favorable situation.
E. Finish the day feeling the wish fulfilled.
"Do not let the sun descend upon any vexation of the day." - The Pruning Shears of Revision
This one is an absolute must. If you can help it, try to refrain from falling asleep in the assumption that you are not an it girl. If you are not feeling the wish fulfilled, take a few minutes to meditate on your state and then fall asleep feeling embraced by it and the relief of knowing that who you desire to be is who you already are (also known as the Sabbath).
VIII. Preservation ⧠How to sustain it.
"Do you always turn to your imagination and, no matter what happens, do you remain faithful to the state imagined? If you do, you have passed the test. But if every little rumor, doubt, or fear can move you around like a pawn on a chessboard, then you are not keeping the faith!" - Godâs Creative Power
A. Persistence.
âBy desiring to be other than what you are, you can create an ideal of the person you want to be and assume that you are already that person. If this assumption is persisted in until it becomes your dominant feeling, the attainment of your ideal is inevitable.â - The Power of Awareness Ch. 3
To briefly remind you, persistence means to remain obstinate with an intention regardless of difficulties or obstructions. When you are adopting a new state of consciousness, you may initially struggle to feel it real or even become impatient with its lack of manifestation in the third dimension, but you must keep returning to it no matter what. You may waver and you may falter but if you remember to proceed with the embodiment of your it girl state by returning to it through any preferred means, no force and no power will cumber its realization.
B. Forget about time.
"The length of time between my desire and its conception depends entirely upon my inner conviction that it is done."- An Inner Conviction
Focusing on the âtimeâ it takes for your state to feel natural to you will only hold you back and keep you in a cycle of waiting. Ask yourself what the end, or the actualization of being an it girl, looks like for you and live in it. Do not suppress yourself to what appears to be the present moment if it is not reflecting the end of your desires. If you are concerned with âthe time itâll takeâ, then you are conscious of the opposite of your desires which means you are not feeling the wish fulfilled.
Always seek the wish fulfilled and abide by it until it blossoms into your world.
C. Disregard appearances.
"These appearances will continue in being as long as you give them life through your conscious awareness of them. You must disregard the evidence of your senses as it pertains to any undesirable condition in your life. You must Imagine and feel that you have already attained that which you want to experience rather than that which you do not want to continue in being. This may appear difficult, yet you have probably exercised this principle unconsciously to produce negative results." -Â Imagination Creates Reality
Do not settle for less than you seek. You never need to compromise with whatever it is that you desire because as I have mentioned, all exists and all is possible. Reject anything that doesnât confirm that you are an it girl and never take no for an answer. Be adamant. Decide on what it is that you want and regardless of the limitations of your environment, consent to its immersion to your state of consciousness. No matter what you see or hear, do not accept it if it is not what you want. If you continue to suppress the acceptance of your desires to your senses then that's where your consciousness will remain.
âYou don't accept one thing in the world as final unless it conforms to the ideal you want to realize in the world.â - The Pruning Shears of Revision
D. You already are, not will be.
âThat which you seek you already are, it can never be so far off as even to be near, for nearness implies separation.â - No One To Change But Self
Something we can learn from it girls is the following: it girls donât care whether or not theyâre it girls, they simply are. So although we are intentionally shifting our state of consciousness, remember to not approach this with a trying mindset or the idea that you will become when you already are, because the use of the word âwillâ implies that you currently are not. As Iâve said before, âyou canât try to be someone you already areâ. Whatever the wish fulfilled looks like for you, accept it at this very moment. Go straight to the end and bathe in it, rejoice in the fulfilled prayer as you go about your day and remain faithful to that inner conviction.
E. Reject the possibility of failure.
âDonât be anxious or concerned as to results. They will follow just as surely as day follows night.â - Your faith is your fortune Ch. 21
Your desires are literally a guarantee. You can bring absolutely anything into being if you proceed with your intention in spite of what you experience in the flesh. You possess a gift that no one will ever be able to confiscate from you and that is your imagination. Intentional use of this gift will bring forward the beautification of your world in means you would not have been able to devise. Do not become an impediment in your journey by concerning yourself with the means, for they are never your responsibility. If you are serious and willing to assume in your favor, the mountains that need to move will move, the obstacles in the path towards heaven will be cleared and the people who need to play a role relative to its fruition will act accordingly without you having to do so much as lift a finger.
F. Apply.
âYou must be doers of the law of assumption, for without application, the most profound understanding will not produce any desired result.â - The Power of Awareness Ch. 18
It is not enough for you to read the entirety of this guide without intending to put the instructions in it to use. You could read and listen to every document, every book and every lecture out there that tells you exactly how to manifest your desires but unless you take that information and put it to use, it was all acquired in vain. This post was long and detailed, do not let it go to waste by refusing to apply and persist. Wanting to do it is not enough, you must DO IT through persistence and a disciplined mind. Do not let the day in which you are reading this post to come to an end without acknowledging that you are an it girl now, not will be, you are. Plant the seed today and you will reap the harvest tomorrow.
"Your assumption, to be effective, cannot be a single isolated act, it must be a maintained attitude of the wish fulfilled." - The Power of Awareness Ch. 22
G. Calm reminders
Iâm sure some of these concerns may have risen at some point so I will clear them up right now: acting as if is not necessary, neglecting your current circumstances and pretending they are not occurring is not necessary and being happy all the time is also not necessary. It is okay if you fall out of your new state from time to time, do not think that there is such a thing as âlosing progressâ because you can never truly lose what is already in your possession. If you are dealing with difficult circumstances I strongly recommend you read this post: how i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances + how you can too.
IX. Motivation â§Â
âI donât care what it is; when you know what you want, you can make your desire so real, so natural that you will reach a feeling of certainty which no power in the world can stop. When that feeling is yours, drop it. Donât ask anyone if what you did was right or wrong; you did it and thatâs all that is necessary.â - An Inner conviction
If you are truly serious about becoming the it girl of your reality, youâll have to be disciplined, determined, and persistent. You have to be willing to give up who you are right now in order to become who you want to be because the longer you entertain your old self, the longer youâll postpone your dream self. You can decide at any moment to change, and if you are not actively working towards shifting your state of consciousness then you are consenting to its preservation. You accept what you tolerate, whether itâs mediocre friends, mediocre grades or a mediocre lifestyle and the only way to put an end to that is by intending to because it all starts with you. Do you want it enough? Are you willing to finally become an it girl or will you continue daydreaming about being an it girl? If youâre capable of being someone you donât want to be, what makes you think you arenât mutually capable of becoming someone you do want to be? Your it girl self is not far away from you, she already exists within your imagination and she is waiting for you to bring life to her. You already know everything you need to know in order to do it, so whatâs stopping you? I know it can feel challenging because we feel confined to our current circumstances but I have so much faith in you and I know you have it in you to give yourself the world. You deserve to wake up every day feeling completely obsessed with yourself and your life. You donât need to spend a minute longer hoping things that feel like theyâre out of your control change if you know you are the one whoâs in control. This is your reality, after all. Decide who you want to be and what life you want to lead, start showing up every day for it and remember to never accept anything that doesnât live up to your standards. Dare to pursue everything you have ever wanted, all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed.Â
X. Outroduction â§
"Every dream could be realized by those self-disciplined enough to believe it."- Â No One To Change But Self
And that concludes this guide! If thereâs one takeaway you should carry with you from it itâs the following: you reserve the right to have high standards in regards to every aspect of your life, you deserve the partner of your dreams, the home of your dreams, the life of your dreams, you deserve all of it and more. Becoming an it girl doesnât require a meticulous plan of action. All it takes is the use of imagination and discipline. You can realize your every dream. Whatever you want regardless of what it is or how unrealistic it sounds, you should demand more out of life and you should never settle for less than you desire, fantasize about or dream of, you can have it and you should have it. The world was made by you and for you so be self-willed and go for it. I have given you everything you need to know to become an it girl and all you have to do is apply. Youâve got this! Remember that you cannot fail, so when you succeed (notice how I didn't say if), I want to hear your success story. Until next time, mis amores!
Love always, your bestie Hera * .⥠*:ïŸâ§ â àŁȘ.* àŁȘ.â
âYou can be the man (or woman) you want to be, but not by simply wishing. You must make the effort to look at the world mentally and see it reflect your fulfilled desire. And when it does you must remain in that state until you reach the inner conviction that what you are seeing, touching, tasting, smelling, and hearing is true, clothe yourself in the feeling of its reality - and explode! Do that and you are pregnant. And what do you do after pregnancy? Nothing! You simply wait for its birth to appear in its own appointed hour. And it will! When you least expect it your desire will objectify itself in the world for you to enjoy, whether it be health, wealth, or fame. Thatâs how Godâs law works.â - An Inner Conviction
how would you react to seeing your desire in the 3D?
what feelings would accompany your thoughts to seeing your desire in the 3D?
when seeing your desire in the 3D, what are the very first things you would say? the very first thoughts you would think?
what would your daily routine be with your new desire?
in the instance that someone was to come up to you and discuss your desire that they can now perceive, how would they talk about it? how would you respond?
what are your favorite things about your desire?
how do you envision the person (you) who has their desire to be and act like?
you can answer these questions mentally, write it down or just plainly observe them. how you answer the questions can be a fun practice that helps you move into a state of wish fulfilled or reminds you of it.
fall in love with the comfort and peace the imagination of the responses to these questions and realize that is who you are now. as it has been assumed in the 4D, it will reflect in the 3D.
you no longer need to âtry.â rest knowing that.
Also stop just saving helpful posts like this and thinking of doing exercise later and end up just thinking of doing but do it, do it now. I made this mistake, i'd save every post that clicked for me but never really applied what was being said there. Do not make this mistake.
do you have loa youtubers you listen to other than edward art and feeling twisty? I'm kinda drifting away from the mainstream loa because i no longer resonate with it.
yeth. i can totally point u towards some hahah tbh moving from mainstream loa really did it for me !! like eternal sunshine, hello ! i will say most of these recs are not heavy loa at all, but that actually is what helped me and inspired me the most about them ! :') lmfao so i def rec hitomi <3 spirituality classic ! she touches on manifesting, in the sweetest and most loving way where it literally washes away all of the burdens you may have taken on from the mainstream loa community, but then also just lives such a spiritual life ! i also like leah's fieldnotes. she's not like very loa at all, honestly, but thats kinda the point, i really have gravitated towards people who like. live spiritual lives but also are experiencing life at the same time (anyone else got into loa and kind of. entirely. stopped living ? just kinda stayed locked up like i'll come out when the 3d decides to conform !! >:( lolz ) slowdepth is a newer one i found recently, and shes a v small youtuber but i love how focused she is on spirituality as well manifesting while surrendering. anyway heres just some ! the only other person i would rec at this time is illuminatingjoy, but she is the most loa focused youtuber of all the ones i mentioned. especially her older videos, if u ever want something very loa related but delivered in a really lovely, human way. :) <3
learn to validate YOURSELF. answer the questions you have YOURSELF. stop looking at other people for all the answers. read and learn about the law and figure out what works best FOR YOU.
falling in love with the law is such a raw, beautiful experience that only you can fulfill yourself.
a concept i donât see talked about often is falling in love with the law and i think the reason why its not discussed is because not many people fall in love.
you cannot hate yourself to become the person you want to be for all youâre bringing is more hate. all youâre doing is festering fuel to hate yourself more.
i personally believe that itâs so beautiful that i can give myself what i want in my imagination and nobody can stop me because itâs my imagination. thereâs absolutely no restrictions, no obligations that i must follow. thereâs nobody to impress but myself!!!
[But if something strikes your eye in the World of Caesar, don't be afraid to bring that something to the now. Do not become afraid to feel as though you have it now.] âEdwardArt
isnât that amazing? i cant put into words but i truly feel so free. i can give myselfâŠanything. little desires, big desires it doesnt matter. if something strikes my eye, i can experience that in imagination. and imagination creates reality, whatever i receive in imagination is mine.
i donât question it, i donât argue with it, i donât drown myself with logical reasonings or doubts for why would i? i simply allow myself to feel. i allow myself to feel what i deserve to feel
[Let Life be a large garden for you. Where you can plant all the seeds (accepting desires) you want, and they will grow after their own kind. You are The Gardner of Life.] â Edward Art
hereâs how i personally love to view manifestation: i see it as a blank, empty canvas kind of similar to how the world first started out. i donât view it as something i should be frightened of but something i should make great usage of. in this world i call my own (imagination) i am free to experience what i wish.
in this world i set my eyes upon something and i claim it to be mine! (let there be light) and rather than wait and seek the outside to give me my light i decide to give myself the light.
this is why i think itâs also beneficial to do the things that you want to do. just because a blog does something a certain way, doesnât mean you have to do it. just because the majority does something you donât resonate with doesnât mean you have to force your way into liking it.
manifestation is a beautiful personal process that youâll benefit from because not only are you manifesting a beautiful thing for you, youâre experiencing what it really is all about, in the process you learn about yourself, you get to know yourself. you stop judging yourself and accept everything.
by adjusting the law according to you and your beliefs you open up a brand new world for yourself. why would you want to miss out on that?
