Do you have a secret?

Hello everyone, you have reached the blog of Elizabeth Archibald.30 years old, Born in NY but living in Las Vegas. Co-owner of Dark Secrets Club. Dating Matt. Want to know more? Shoot me a message.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: don’t think we need to get counseling involved for such a talk… I mean, I can mention it to my therapist and see what she recommends. figured it’ll be your basic sex talk but just have to figure out how to not make it awkward as fuck…

Matt: now that I think about it it’s virtually impossible to avoid that no matter what! haha

Matt: too fast. god/damn/. feel like I was 18 just a week ago. now we’ve got a near 8 year old on our hands!

Matt: of course I’ve talked about you! you’re a part of my life and I tell her everything that’s happening. intrigued, huh? want to know what I said? thing is you won’t get a peep from her but I don’t mind talking about it with you. 

Liz: Of course we do. I’d mention it so she can give us a solution, because as awkward that might be, sooner or later we will need to have that conversation with James. He’ll be a teenager in a few years and we need to be ready for that.

Liz: Nope, it’s something we will have to do, impossible to avoid. Also...should we talk with your ex about this? I mean...if she still wants to be a part of James’s life...

Liz: You still look good for someone who’s not 18 anymore :P Where did time go?

Liz: I figured she won’t tell me anything, it’s the patient/therapist rule. I am intrigued but it’s something between your therapist and you and I’d be crossing boundaries here if I ask you what you said. I trust you and I know that if you or when you’re ready, you’ll tell me.

[elizabeth-archibald]

@elizabeth-archibald uploaded a new photo with @capt-davidson

To the moon and back. 

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: It’s more I don’t know how comfortable he’ll feel hearing from both of us about it? I can’t think of a single person who had both parents involved in that talk… Then again, we’re not exactly typical parents and I can see him understanding more from a woman’s perspective. Then again, we don’t know if he’ll be attracted to women and/or men or not feel sexual attraction at all. That’s another thing to consider. It feels weird to talk about this now but with the way time’s flying it’ll be here before we know it.

Matt: I’ll bring it up to my therapist tomorrow and pin down a schedule that works for both of us! I’ve never had anyone join me for a session before but it’s important to me for you to come to at least one. However, don’t think it’s some kind of couple’s counseling. More for her to see who you are since I started mentioning you last year.

Liz: Looking up from that perspective, it’d look uncomfortable he’d hear it from us...maybe ask for some counseling about this? We aren’t the typical parents, I agree, and that’s what make us unique, babe. We should have this talk though, no matter what will be his choice, he has to know about protection and all that jazz.I mean if he’s attracted to sex of course and if he isn’t, it’s all good too, all I want is for James to be completely happy and that he can trust us on any matter he may encounter. Times flies baby...and flies fast.

Liz: Sounds good to me. I’ve never been to therapy to begin with so we are on a virgin topic here. It’s important for us as individuals and as a couple. So you have been talking about me uh? Now I’m more intrigued on what you said about me.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: you want to have that talk with him together? that might weird him out?? how old were you when you took that class?

Matt: there’s a lot of things I’ve experienced throughout the years that found a permanent home in my head. what’s helped, for me, is speaking to a therapist. I used to keep it inside and turned to unhealthy coping mechanisms. those images and the aftermath will never truly leave but you’ll find methods to make it easier. 

Matt: if you want to come with me to one of my sessions, you’re welcome to. 

Liz: Why not? Might be weird but I want to support you...Matt this is what couples do...Hmmm I think I was twelve?

Liz: I remember you talking about it...Last year was...hard. You’ve been through a lot babe. I’d love to go with you on one of your sessions, it’ll be good for us, we’ll be able to get each other deeply.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: hahah it was no walk in the park for me either! There’s still a couple years to go before I’ve gotta lay the birds and the bees talk at him. I was about 10 when I first learned about it from Cinemax!

Matt: I’m scared too, baby but the harsh reality of this world is shit will happen without notice. Doesn’t matter if it’s a holiday or you’re out with friends or wherever. You’ve got a good team there and you’re onto the right track with getting a few more especially if there’s an event happening. Extra cams can be good, maybe add more in the private rooms for the dancers’ protection. 

Liz: But now you got me so we do this together, Matt. I’ve learnt it at the se class...my mother wasn’t...someone that’d take her time explaining things.

Liz: I’ve been adding security cameras everywhere...but that night...that will hunt me forever...How do we overcome with being scared?

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: glad he’s not giving you a hard time since there are days where it’s anything but relaxing! Just gotta home he keeps being a chill kid whenever puberty rolls around

Matt: like a family? We ARE a family, babe. 😘 If you plan an event at least you beefed up security. Maybe a Halloween party can be good? It was a fucked situation that happened before and I get the apprehension.

Liz: He’s being a great kid, so relax! Oh god...Puberty was the worse....

Liz: True, I’ll correct myself. We are a family. The truth? I’m scared...but I guess if we hire extra security and put more cameras around...it can be negotiable.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: GOOD. As much as I love how much work you put into the club you should also relax when home.

Matt: speaking of the club, Halloween is next month. do you think you’ll have another Halloween event after everything that happened last year?

Liz: You know how things are, babe. It’s Nellie and I. Lot didn’t want to be involved on it. I do relax though. Spending time with J is relax time for me. Liz: Oh no. No, no, no. No more Halloween parties at the club. But that’s me. I should ask Nellie about what she wants to do though. I rather go treat or trick with J and you. Like a family.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: hahahaha You’re my biggest fan, huh?

Matt: have a lot of work to get through before bed? I’m taking advantage of much needed down time before getting back to things

Liz: always babe.

Liz: Not a lot, but some papers to fill. So it’s not a heavy night fortunately?

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Matt: 😏😏😏

Matt: how are you and the kiddo tonight?

Liz: How can you be so handsome and all mine??? Howwwww.

Liz: We are doing great. He’s already in bed and I’m working. Missing you though.

[charlottepierce]

Traveling with an infant is a lot harder than people say it is. Anyway, hi. Chase and I are here, finally. I’m Charlotte.

[elizabeth-archibald]

thequeenarchibald​:

Hi babes!

Where are you???? How’s Chase? Did he behave???

[elizabeth-archibald]

TM|| My Captain

Liz: Excuse me sir...how you dare to post that pic of you?

[charlottepierce]

Traveling with an infant is a lot harder than people say it is. Anyway, hi. Chase and I are here, finally. I’m Charlotte.

[elizabeth-archibald]

thequeenarchibald​:

Traveling with an infant is a lot harder than people say it is. Anyway, hi. Chase and I are here, finally. I’m Charlotte.

Originally posted by ablackwidowsbite

 Sis! 

[capt-davidson-deactivated202312]

Text: Babeeeee. How are we celebrating tonight? Do you have any surprises for me???

Text: baaaaaaaaaaaaaabe. You're not supposed to know a thing! remember?? Just be ready at 6:30pm and I'll pick you up after I drop J off.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Text: hey! This is YOUR birthday! I’m the one who should be enjoying that blessed sweetness between your thighs and not you giving me a blowjob. Don’t get me wrong any other time I’ll happily welcome that but it’s your special day, darling

Text: I know it’s my birthday! Who said I don’t enjoy giving you head, baby? Trust me, that’s one of the things that turns me on the most.  If you are with me...that’s what I really need, you and only you to make it special.

[capt-davidson-deactivated202312]

Text: Babeeeee. How are we celebrating tonight? Do you have any surprises for me???

Text: baaaaaaaaaaaaaabe. You're not supposed to know a thing! remember?? Just be ready at 6:30pm and I'll pick you up after I drop J off.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Text: 😏😏😏 We’ll make sure to make good use of this at some point tonight. Can’t let such an opportunity go to waste, especially on your birthday

Text: You better babe. Maybe a preview in the car? Just thinking on blowing my candle tonight makes me already wet babe. ;)

[capt-davidson-deactivated202312]

Text: Babeeeee. How are we celebrating tonight? Do you have any surprises for me???

Text: baaaaaaaaaaaaaabe. You're not supposed to know a thing! remember?? Just be ready at 6:30pm and I'll pick you up after I drop J off.

[elizabeth-archibald]

capt-davidson​:

Text: go naked 😘😘😘😘😘

Text: wear a favorite dress and heels. I’ll make sure I don’t wear the same so our outfits don’t clash 😉

Text: Matt! 

Text: Are you reading my mind? I was thinking on go commando no matter the clothes. Mhmmm I have the perfect black dress ;)

[capt-davidson-deactivated202312]

Text: Babeeeee. How are we celebrating tonight? Do you have any surprises for me???

Text: baaaaaaaaaaaaaabe. You're not supposed to know a thing! remember?? Just be ready at 6:30pm and I'll pick you up after I drop J off.

[elizabeth-archibald]

Text: Buutttt I wanna knoooowwww. Fineeee. But at least tell me what kind of clothes shall I wear”

[jenn-davidson]

[elizabeth-archibald]

jenn-davidson​:

[Delivered to the door of @elizabeth-archibald on Saturday afternoon with a card from Jenn.

The card reading: LIZ It’s your birthday!! I hope you have a great day. Thank you for becoming a part of the family. I love you, and I hope that you get treated like the QUEEN you are today. 

Your sis-in-law,  Jenn]

Originally posted by jessieday158