Chef Cabochon @aroloverboy - Tumblr Blog

You know how it is with siblings

#art #my art #oc #illustration #my oc #artist on tumblr #lila #comic #drawing #my ocs #about the garden and the house and the family living in it #been getting a lot into their whole lore this was fun to make

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This isn't a fun post to make, but I think this pride we should acknowledge the sexual violence that happens within the community. Idk.

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Queer people sexually assaulting each other happens more than you think. I'd love to feel safe and free in queer spaces, I'd love to overcome that trauma and live my best queer life. I freeze and fawn when anyone shows any kind of interest for me, and it fucking sucks. Sorry for putting this on your dash, but if you feel this way, know you're not alone

#sexual assault tw #let me know how to tag this i really dont know #personal

This isn't a fun post to make, but I think this pride we should acknowledge the sexual violence that happens within the community. Idk.

#really in my feelings rn because of something that happened yesterday unfortunately #it hurts to not be able to feel safe within my community. it sucks so fucking bad #like idk ill probably delete this later im just being hit with so many emotions rn

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I'm going to a dyke mixer event at a bar this week, and I'm just. Overthinking about the fact I am not a dyke, nor have I ever identified as sapphic 🧍 am I allowed to go

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Ok nevermindddd, always talk with your friends 👍 this is just me not going out enough lol

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Like I should definitely not be at the club, but this event was super nice! Met people and reconnected with an old friend! I wasn't weird!

#some awkward queer joy for you this evening

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I'm going to a dyke mixer event at a bar this week, and I'm just. Overthinking about the fact I am not a dyke, nor have I ever identified as sapphic 🧍 am I allowed to go

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Ok nevermindddd, always talk with your friends 👍 this is just me not going out enough lol

#to be fair i do go outside just not where there are other people #happy pride lol

I'm going to a dyke mixer event at a bar this week, and I'm just. Overthinking about the fact I am not a dyke, nor have I ever identified as sapphic 🧍 am I allowed to go

#like i KNOW no one will question ehy im there. i know that #and this isnt me questioning my own queerness. just that. i am not a dyke #like im sorry im just not cool enough to be one 😔#but anyways i dont even know why this is stressing me out

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Sooo. Anyone seen that new ace flag?

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So very disappointed that so many people turned to hatred toward the creator 😐 did we learn nothing

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Like this. This really highlights the anti blackness problem in the ace community (and the queer community at large). Literally proving why the new flag, or at the very least the conversation around it, was needed.

#like why would you feel justified in being hateful toward a stranger on the internet because you dont like the flag they created #sorry for bringing ace discourse to your dash unprompted ive just been thinking about this a lot

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Sooo. Anyone seen that new ace flag?

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So very disappointed that so many people turned to hatred toward the creator 😐 did we learn nothing

#like every time 😐#dont like the flag? scroll down!!#its so fucking. ordinaire #like i have no intention of using the new flag as im just too attached to the original. but now i find myself defending the new one #even tho i dont even understand why it was created! can white queers shut the fuck up for once!!!!

Spring!

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#art #my art #done! yippee!!

Something so evil about the fact that I know I have the capacity of finishing a piece in a day if I lock in, which means my brain thinks it's ok to wait til the deadline to actually finish it 😭

#i hate the procrastination station of my mind fr #anyways i have to finish this illustration for today since its for a sort of art competition #im really happy with what ive got so far but man 😭 this could have been done weeks ago

Sooo. Anyone seen that new ace flag?

#ive got no opinion on it so far except i dont find it particularly pleasant to look at #and im having a hard time understanding why it came to be but 👍 whatever more ace flags i guess