âFor one must speak of love in the same way as one must loveâin the first person. [âŠ] l will therefore say I at my own risk and peril. But, dear reader, know this: l will say I in your name.â
âThe Silence of Love,â Jean-Luc Marionâs introduction to The Erotic Phenomenon. In the translation of Stephen E. Lewis.
âI need to turn to the other and address myself to her, and thus address her with speech and await her response. [âŠ] Precisely by virtue of that of which l cannot speak, l must speak to the other. Thus the erotic reduction redefines the rules of language.â
This is quite something: âwherever a person is found, there is no hellâ
âOrpheusâs complex: Eurydice is found everywhere, except in Hell (wherever a person is found, there is no hell, not even Hell)â
On elsewhereness and the time of expectation:
â[The] past will remain definitively over if elsewhere can no longer be expected, if it can no longer happen; by contrast, it will remain eventually provisional for as long as a new expectation can hope for the return of an absence still to come.â
âThe lover makes appear the one whom she loves [âŠ] as an Orpheus of phenomenality [âŠ] makes him emerge from the depths of the unseenâ