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I've been a little absent will life for a while but this certainly isn't a no longer a cuckold story.

This lifestyle is far too rewarding to ever let go.

Hoping to discuss many topics and help others embrace it fully.

Communication is Key

This is really addressed to everyone. Cucks, bulls, hot wives, the lot.

Communication is key. You need to be able to communicate your thoughts, feelings and moods with each other knowing that you can discuss it.

I've been spending a lot of time talking to cucks and hot wives recently, about their differences, experiences, likes and dislikes and no matter what, these couples all have one thing in common, a level of communication, trust and love that nothing can rival.

They know they can turn to one another day or night and if there is an issue, it'll be listened to. This is about life in general, not just an issue between the two of you but maybe a bad day at work.

These relationships are complicated and deep. You need to be able to communicate not only to survive but thrive. If at any point you have an issue; big or small and it's greeted by discontent, ridicule or just ignored; you're in an unhealthy relationship and it may require a tough call or two, if there is no solution.

Remember people, cuckolding isn't about sex nor power it's about the pair of you, about love, trust and care, if both of you don't value these, then ask yourself, is it really going to work? You're not a cuck because you're a push over, unless that's your thing of course. Cuckolded relationships aren't always female led, they're a partnership, make them the best damn partnership you can!

As always feel free to DM me or ask anything.

Fucking

People seem to be confused with fucking. Fucking is something a Bull does. We see it in porn and we hear about it from the women being fucked. So what does that mean for the cuck?

Will a cuck ever fuck his partner? No, simple. So then they’re a sexless cuck who will only feel their hand? No.

The answer is “Making Love” and it’s so much better than fucking. I don’t want to fuck my partner, I see no point and neither does she but holy shit do we want to make love. The pure emotional connection of staring into each others eyes while engaged so intimately. The very peak of becoming one, naked and vulnerable to one another.

Fucking isn’t all there is. There’s something better to be had and in a way when you focus less on trying to “fuck your woman like a man” you can start “making love like a couple in love”. Never forget that.

Cuck Fear

I think this is important for everyone to understand, it’s a very real thing that can happen and it can have quite an effect.

We all say a lot and use a lot of words to describe a cuck but at the end of the day a cuck is a man, a man in love, accepting certain needs that you’d not often find at the front of their facebook page. Feelings that are hard to share with some friends, family and publicly in general. This means at first a cucks thought and conversations are initially within ones self.

As always I will share about myself, I am a leader, within my friends, family and work, people look to me, sexually I have also been this way, leading gfs and booty calls down rabbit holes. I had a real hard time with these cuck feelings because at the time a cuck was a weak boy who had little worth, this birthed fear and that lead to me hating myself at times, being disappointed and just out right being miserable about it, too scared to want to even think about other than when I am eyeing up porn and stroking.

As time went on more fears came up, what if I try and talk to my partner about this and she leaves me for him? What if she thinks it’s gay? What if it makes me less of a man?

I’ll keep the answers short because it’s important to be direct here.

If you lose your partner to her bull, she simply isn’t worth your time. This isn’t a woman who values a relationship over sex or maybe you’re just not the right fit. There are a ton of people out there and it’s all about searching for that one. I don’t fear my partner running away with her bulls because I know how she feels and the separation between great sex and emotional connection.

A lot of guys ask me if it’s gay to be a cuck and it’s sort of confusing to me. I don’t think seeing a mans cock is gay, that would make 99% of porn gay. This fear is internal, it’s only you having this fear and no one is going to think this about you. If I see a giant thick black cock that I know my partner is going to like, why wouldn’t I send it to her? Why wouldn’t we talk about it? You’re you, stop worrying about such titles and boxes, be yourself.

Less of a man. This is a big one. I struggled with this a lot. My partner wants and needs black men and therefore I am an inferior white boi loser right? Wrong. I have expressed my feelings about this inferiority complex. I totally disagree with it. I don’t believe in comparing cuck to bull as they’re totally different but here. A bull is someone who turns up fucks your partner and leaves. You as a cuck are someone who loves that woman, potentially watches her act and receive pleasure in a way you can’t and then finally you’re there afterwards. You dealt with fear, placed great trust and then went through with it. Which of the two roles requires more strength of will and character? Which one is the hardest path?

Cucks you are strong, you are men, you go to places and deal with things people are too scared to try and come out happy. You are not a lesser man, you are more of a man than ever before.

Real strength is the ability to overcome, weakness is giving in.

I want to share something, something I discussed with my partner, this was soon after she was talking to a bull and lost her mind, she was crazy for his cock, needing it and down right black dick drunk. Then she said something. “You give this all meaning” When someone says that to you, how can you be scared? Current cucks, future cucks and cucks in denial, that’s where you can end up. Being a cuck in the cuckold lifestyle isn’t being the third wheel or being the weakest member. It’s giving it all meaning. Without you, it’s all just plain old meaningless sex. (Damn good sex but still)

The Closeness of Cuckolding

I’m going to share my biggest fantasy at the end of this post and you’ll see why it’s relevant, don’t skip ahead.

Something that is very obvious here, porn is hot, of course it is that’s sort of the point however cuckold porn misses the point entirely. That’s why I haven’t watched any in ages nor made more captions on my other blog, it’s still hot but I found something better, something meaningful and something I will dedicate myself to. The connection that cuckolding truly gives you.

I’ve spoke a bit about it previously about being able to share anything with your partner and each embracing the other completely. I wish words could convey the feeling, the love and the closeness but when you’re both laying there, eyes closed and overwhelmed by how you feel for the other it’s like God is pouring the potion of divine ecstasy directly into you; and I’m not even religious.

Being able to feel that way isn’t a once off, it’s none stop, you either feel it just by being together talking about the weather, about each others days or what ever stupid joke one of you told and you feel it after she’s spoke, sext or fucked her bull. I am sure some here have seen or heard women talk after bulls, maybe a tweet or blog post, or even just about it in general; the joy in their voice, you can hear how happy they are, she’s half laughing with her speech fighting how turned on she is to talk to you.

Right there, that’s a big deal, she is always a slut for her bull, always hopelessly impaired and the ONLY time she fights it, to not go mindless and give in is so she can share with YOU. That is how close you are, how unbreakable your relationship is and there is more!!! The reason she is so happy is because of YOU, you give it meaning and she is desperate to show you that.

That’s how your cuckoldress/gf/partner or whatever title you have for her feels about you. For future cucks, wannabes and people in the cuck closet, if that’s what you want, to feel a joy you can’t imagine then start today, make a fetlife, twitter, tumblr anything and start talking. You’re safe. Just remember, people make the relationship and that should be your focus.

So I promised my fantasy, simple really. When I am 60, 70 or 80 looking at my wife, she asks me a question “Regret any of it?”

No....Not a single second, never.

Soppy and unsexy, sure but I hope those out there that have been doing this a long time can read that, nod and say “Welcome to the lifestyle”

Why Cuckolding is right for you

This is directed at the new, wannabe and people hiding in the cuck closet.

I have finally been able to articulate my thoughts more precisely and find that what I am about to say is something I am now repeating with many of the people messaging me, so please follow me on this trip.

There are many reasons and fantasies regarding cuckolding and I know a lot of people reading this will often watch porn surrounding either that, women they find attractive or even bulls they imagine would fuck their partners. It’s arousing, it’s fun but it’s very frustrating.

I want you to imagine this. You have a gf or wife, you’re cuddled up in bed, happy, caring for each other and life is great. You decide to tell her all about these fantasies, the videos and images you watch. You tell her every last detail, maybe you tell her you feel you can’t satisfy her like a bull can, maybe you love interracial and talk to her about black men and the way you love seeing everything about it, power, contrast, passion; I am sure these are words you’ve seen and used.

You’re vulnerable, your defenses are down. Now you’re scared but when you look at her, she’s smiling, she’s happy, her eyes twinkle and she hugs you, she tells you how happy you make her and how she loves the amount of trust and faith you have in her.

Now don’t image her fucking someone else, imagine that moment. How do you feel to be truly accepted by one you love? To not have to hide or keep secrets, to share this and know she thanked you for being so honest. Imagine the feeling of that moment and starting a journey together.

Sounds like fantasy I am sure but it’s not. Last night I spoke with my partner and even though she is an experienced cuckoldress, I took that step. I told her how I felt. How I think I understand a bit. She thanked me, told me she was happy and we spoke about our bond together. We didn’t fly off into some she’s fucking her bull RP, it was about us. Feeling this acceptance woke me inside, more than I knew possible. I continued to share, I no doubt talked too much lol however light bulb after light bulb turned on. So many things fell into place, I was accepting this, she was accepting me, I told her everything on my mind and we both became so jubilant.

Guys, this is what being a cuckold is about. You ARE NOT losing your woman to a better man, you are becoming a better man, you’re both becoming a better partnership. Accepting this is strength! I hope this inspires you all or at least some. Please reach out to me if you would like.

And baby, I support you <3

My thoughts on a cuckold relationship.

As stated previously, I am brand new. I have never been with a woman who wanted this type of relationship and never have I started to experience it until now. So let's start at the beginning, what is a cuckold relationship to me, what does it mean?

I'll start by talking about my partner and this dynamic. We are engaged in an interracial cuckold relationship. She adores black men, she has the tattoos and clothes to prove it. When with a black man her inner slut explodes forth and she becomes consumed by it and him. We share this together. On Saturday she saw one of her bulls, then called me.

The joy in her voice, how giddy she was, I could feel her beaming through my phone. We have all heard people we care about that happy and you know how great it can feel, well a cuckold relationship not only let's you share this but repeat it over and over again.

As we spend more time together, we get closer, feelings growing, bond increasing and so to will the emotion and happiness we share the next time she sees one of her bulls.

This feeling isn't just there when she sees her bulls. Last night we spent a few hours talking about ourselves and each other, feeling that burning passion to be together, happy that we found each other. There are many many parts to this relationship but when you strip away everything right down to the core, there you will find the two of us because that's what the core is, her and me and we build up from there.

Her being with other men isn't about her, it's not about him, it's not about me. It's about us, her and I sharing a trusting caring relationship that's growing and it's going to keep growing. I trust her more today than I did yesterday but not as much as I will tomorrow, I am closer to her today than I was yesterday but not as much as I will be tomorrow and she feels the same way.

Other men fucking her, it binds us, has us feeling amazing together, the relationship can not only withstand that but grow because of it, how is that not beautiful?

Sharing a relationship that strong, caring and bonding, please tell me, what could possibly be more beautiful?

I am a cuckold.

Four words but an endless discussion.

For the first time ever, I have said those words to my partner and now we have started our journey together.

A little about me. I am a tall, broad man who has spent the majority of my adult life as a dominant personality. Sexually engaged with BDSM and sadomasochism, seeking for that missing puzzle piece. I've found it and I truly do believe that.

I've consumed a lot of porn and it gets it wrong in so many ways and doesn't even begin to show you how you can feel, well I'm here to help and talk about the reality of this because ladies and gentlemen, it's real, very real and you can explore it too.

This blog will be for me express myself, releasing the feelings of a new cuck for the world to see and I hope a guide for new cucks, a diary and a chronicle of this journey, everyone is invited to see it. Send me asks or you can even DM me to talk about it.

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