Your Neptune House & How People Project onto You
Notes♡ these are all purely MY observations as an astrologer using other charts / readings I've done previously. You can thank my pattern recognition for some of the observations I make, this is meant to be taken as entertainment and not so serious.
People project who they wish they were & their unhealed emotions onto you. I feel like having Neptune here is sort of like a wild card. You also have a very piscian-like look to you that I think a lot of people like to project negativity on to you about. For instance, you might be seen as stuck up or bitchy simply because people feel threatened by how you look physically, or by how you are physically perceived. people can project some twisted fantasies onto you as well because you give off a very dreamy energy. Be careful with how you present yourself to others because you are the kind of person that your first impression will be one that you have to “live up to” with these people forever. make sure that you have a strong sense of identity because others will try to tear you down.
People project all of their insecurities onto you. With the 2H representing your self-esteem as well as your finances, your assets, the things that you personally own…people will project their insecurities about these things on to you. If you make more money than them, they will project by making comments or downplaying how you will come about all the money or resources you have. If they feel like you are displaying too much confidence, they will make “jokes” about your personal insecurities to lower your self-esteem. They will poke fun at what you like, how you dress, how you decorate your home etc. This is all their ways of how they project their own fears of inadequacy. You can tell people I projecting because they take cheap shots at you or attack your looks or things you can't change about yourself.
People project onto you by misunderstanding you. This is complex because when people project, they never fully grasp, listen, or comprehend what you are saying but instead here what they want to hear. Your dreamy, elusive way of communicating can confuse people, leading them to assume the worst or twist your words to fit their own projections. I feel like people also project gossip on to you, or they project the ways that they talk about you. For instance, you can have a friend who gossips about you behind your back but then tries to constantly say that you are doing that even if you aren't. People also project their intellectual insecurities onto you, they project their creative insecurities on to you. They might feel stupid around you so they try to make you look dumb.
People like to project their own negative experiences on to you, but specifically in the realm of home life, family, stability etc. when people look at you, they feel nostalgic, and they do not always know why. This can stir up a lot of feelings in a person, and honestly, when they see that you either come from a very tight-knit family, OR, you've created your own loving family, people project the insecure ways they feel about this onto you. For instance, if you get your first home with your newlywed spouse, are you announce a home renovation or a pregnancy, people will downplay these big life changes to make themselves feel better but really it's just that they are insecure about not having these things. I've also noticed that when people can't tear you down about your cozy life, they try to make you look emotionally volatile. They will say that you are a horrible nasty person even if you are wildly loved lol.
Ooof — you are the embodient of somebody's muse, and because of this, people project a lot on to you. People will project their need for validation onto you a lot, and this could be regarding love, attention, creativity etc. people could feel like you are very elusive about your dating life or your creative endeavors and this leaves them to sort of fill in the blanks about your life, rather than them just asking. So this is the placement that can bring a lot of lies into somebody's life. You also make people feel very seen and appreciated which could lead to them projecting their desire to want to know you. This causes A LOT of romantic illusion in your life because you might find that your dating partners think of you as their twin flame or soulmate after like first couple of dates!
People project there insecurities, and delusions about how disorganized their life is on to you. When people see you do well, they feel insecure about how out of control they feel when it comes to their everyday lives or handling their everyday tasks. People might project their own inabilities to emotionally regulate themselves on to you, so for instance, they might romanticize you as a healer or a “fixer” in their lives, but when you can't live up to that very unrealistic expectation, they get upset at you and put you down instead of recognizing that they are disappointed in themselves. This is a tough placement because it's like people project their own lack of discipline and self-control onto you simply because you have it together and they don't.
People often see what they want to see in you which could be like seeing you as the ideal partner, lover, business partner, friend etc. and when you evidently do not live up to these expectations, they want to demoralize and villainize you. For instance, you are either the perfect lover or you're absolutely terrible, the worst partner ever etc. I've also noticed that people who struggle with boundaries or clarity might accuse you of being dishonest, disloyal or confusing. A lot of mental games are played here, and I find that this is the placement where when people accuse you of something, it's most likely because they are doing that thing themselves. You attract a lot of people who do not know themselves so they try to find themselves through having a relationship with you. When they are inevitably let down, they project feelings of inadequacy instead of accepting you for who you are.
Ugh, people project some gross things on to you. People project some of their darker fantasies on to you or they assume that you are this very sexual person even if you aren't. People can project their own twisted sexual preferences onto you unfortunately. Others tend to project their guilt, shame, and other hidden insecurities onto you because your energy might naturally bring out what they suppress. Some people might assume you are being manipulative or secretive, or might say that you are being manipulative when you aren't, when the truth is that they are the ones with manipulative intentions and hidden agendas. People often project their unrelated guilt onto you or pull you into their unresolved pain. They tend to take their hurt out on you because the 8th house deals with what’s shared, and what they end up sharing with you is usually their own grief. It is important to make sure that you can distinguish what is energetically yours and what isn't. Lots of spiritual and psychic attacks happens with this placement due to a lack of energetic boundaries.
People project discomfort about your spiritual knowledge on to you. For instance, they might see you as a know-it-all because you are very well educated, globally informed, spiritually in tune etc. They feel threatened by a certain level of freedom you obtain so they project their insecurities by trying to discredit you. Projections look like insults to your work, insults to your education, second-guessing you etc. I feel that people like to project their own educational and spiritual shortcomings on to you because they don't understand you. You're naturally very guru & mentor-like, and you attract people seeking guidance. The problem is that they will later project resentment onto you when you no longer grant them access to your knowledge or help.
People project their insecurities about your public image. They tend to idolize you, your image and what you do for a living, but the truth is that they see what they want to see and not who you truly are. Your work and your authority or public recognition is a constant trigger to others who project onto you. They might feel like you are too lazy or too unconventional to have the profession you have, but this is really them projecting their own insecurities when it comes to their own discipline. It's so weird because people project some weird characteristic archetypes on to you that don't even represent who you are. For instance, people see you as more of a symbol than as a person so they might label you as a “villian” in their story, constantly out to get them even if that's not the case. Or maybe they are very inspired by you to the point where they start copying you and make you their “muse”. It's a strange idealization of who you are that isn't even really who you are, and when you don't live up to this, they attack you publicly.
People can romanticize their connection to you to the extreme often projecting their own insecurities within connections, friend dynamics or any dynamic in general. You tend to attract insecure friends that often cling to you and and move too fast like calling you there best friend too soon or their soulmates etc. often, these people are seeking a sense of belonging but they struggle with boundaries and sometimes you struggle with reinforcing them. They often project their ideals of friendship and connection on to you but it's always skewed and kind of messed up because their ideas are either unrealistic, or just not who you are. People will start projecting negativity onto you once they realize they cannot mold you into who they want you to be in the friend group. People often project their fears of being alone on to you by making you feel like you have to be around all the time in order for them or other people to have a good time. It's like you are used as an energy source for your friend group.
People often project their own hidden illusions, emotions, and wounds onto you. You are not somebody that is easy to really pin down energetically, you are always up in the air and moving. This leads to people filling in the blankets about you, often with assumptions and projections of their own fears. Because Neptune in this house dissolves boundaries, people tend to project their unconscious guilt and shame on you. This is because you often attract people who need deep healing but might not even recognize it themselves. You are a vault for people who live with their shadow but are too afraid to recognize it. Unhealed people often mistake your compassion for permission to emotionally unload on you, and when you set boundaries, you are often blamed for things that are clearly not your fault. Vague accusations happen when they can't pinpoint your energy.
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