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With the rise of self-driving vehicles, it’s only a matter of time before we get a country song where a guy’s truck leaves him too.
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Letter from the Department of Health
Dear [Stegasaurus Rex],
[Local MP] contacted the Department of Health on your behalf about support for transgender people.
Under the provisions of the Data Protections Act, during this pre-election period the Department is not able to share information or respond to enquiries on behalf of third parties without their express consent. We have therefore written to [Local MP] to explain that we would reply to you direct.
NHS England has informed gender identity services of their obligation under the NHS Constitution to commence first definitive treatment within 18 weeks of the date of the referral. However, despite increased financial investment by NHS England in gender identity services, the long waiting times cannot be managed through additional money alone. The main limiting factor is the shortage of trained professionals with the necessary specialist skills and experience. This is being addressed by collaborative work between the NHS, Health Education England, regulators and the professional associations to develop a national workforce and training plan.
The Women and Equalities Committee highlighted that GPs in particular often lack an understanding of transgender identities , of referral pathways into gender identity services and of their own role in prescribing hormone treatments. The Committee concluded that in some cases these problems in general practice lead to appropriate care not being provided.
The General Medical Council (GMC) has acted on the Committee’s recommendations by publishing new guidance on the responsibilities of GPs in treating transgender people. The guidance provides doctors with advice on issues such as confidentiality and respect. It also advises that an individual who requests treatment for gender dysphoria should be referred to a specialist gender identity clinic without delay.
The GMC’s guidance also confirms the role of GPs in prescribing and monitoring hormone treatments for transgender people, and confirms that it is safe and appropriate for them to do so. GPs who fail to follow this guidance are at risk of being referred to the GMC, which regulates medical practitioners.
Since the Committee’s report, NHS England has also published new guidance for GPs that reiterates the GMC’s position on the prescribing and monitoring of hormone treatments for transgender people in primary care. NHS England has been developing new service specifications for gender identity services for the purpose of public consultation. The draft service specifications would confirm that GPs should refer individuals who request treatment to a specialist gender identity clinic without delay, and the specifications will provide clarity on referral pathways into gender identity services.
In order to address cultural awareness issues in the NHS, Health Education England has recently publicised a planned programme of work that would make recommendations for the training and development of the future workforce in the field of gender identity. This would focus on new core competencies for staff working in gender identity services, professional standards for continuing professional development, establishing new trainee placements within gender identity services and recommendations for general awareness-raising amongst NHS staff. This work would include engagement with patient groups and people who use gender identity services.
The Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC) is a matter for the HM Courts and Tribunals Service, which is sponsored by the Ministry of Justice. You may therefore wish to address your concerns about the GRC, after the General Election, to:
Ministry of Justice
102 Petty France
London
SW1H 9AJ
Now that Parliament has been dissolved before the General Election, the Department cannot comment further on this matter. Any decisions on further work on these issues will be a matter for the incoming Government.
I hope this reply is helpful.
Yours Sincerely,
[Blokey Bloke]
Ministerial Correspondence and Public Enquiries
Petition Remove the 'Real Life Experience' time from the offensive GRC for trans people
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/194148
All I want is a free weekend to relax, but when I do nothing all weekend I feel like I’ve wasted it
Rant alert!
I’m pretty sure it’s not intentional, but when trans people complain about issues they’re having with hrt or surgery or that they have to wait a month or two for their next appointment, it really riles me. I just find it insensitive. And they should really know better, chances are they’ve been through that wait!
Some people have been on the waiting list for a fucking long time and still have nothing and still have ages left to wait. They have no hormones, they may have no surgery, they may have no support from their gp, or worse, no support from anyone. Some people can’t afford any of it, some people may be too young and have no permission from their care givers or parents.
So if you are on hormones, recovering from surgery and complaining that you won’t have another appointment for another couple of months, just stop and consider that there are many many other people out there that may not be as lucky as that. It makes you sound like a total unappreciative jerk. I’ve lost respect for several people that way. Just…..think….
I'm so fucking stoked that the saints are to play in the UK in October! Just thought I'd put that out there. WHO DAT!
It’s Trans Awareness Week! Here are some posts that will help you be more aware in a whole variety of ways:
• Being A Good Ally to Your Trans Friend by Red Davidson
• On Not Wanting To Physically Transition by Liam Lowery
• Supporting Your Partner’s Gender Identity by Erika Lynn
• How To Ask If Someone Is Trans by Erika Lynn
• VIDEO: The Difference Between Sexuality & Gender Identity with Liam Lowery
• VIDEO: Defining the Gender Binary with Kristin & Dannielle
• VIDEO: Why Does My Kid Want to Change Pronouns? with Lauren Lubin
• VIDEO: My Kid Wants to Go on Hormones. What To Do? with Lauren Lubin • An Amazing Journey by Marsha Aizumi
• Understanding Trans Identities by Karen Thompson
Re-sharing with new additions:
Finding a Trans Friendly Doctor by Riley Johnson
How to Come Out to Yourself as Trans: Liam Lowery’s Story
Navigating Muslim and Trans Identities by Mahdia Lynn
Maybe the reason people always say the book is better than the film is because the film never reflects the perfect and personal way each individual interprets the book and imagines the alternate reality?…
Someone brought an emotional support duck with them on an airplane. His name is Daniel, he wore red shoes and a Captain America diaper, and he spent most of the flight walking the aisles making friends. Source
I want an emotional support duck!
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So I'm on a short break on the south coast of England for the week. I've just bought my first binder and it's helping the chest dysphoria quite a bit. I thought what better time to try and pass full time this week before I make the full jump back home in Birmingham. The first day in Birmingham, the 2 interactions I had with strangers they both called me miss. The first woman at a distance thought I was a bloke and when she got up close, corrected herself. Well I'm passing at a distance, it's a start. Within minutes, some random woman who must've recognised my wife and I from pride or something, addressed us as sisters and that we are 'fighting the good fight' or something like that. I went home feeling a bit dismayed. So now this week I am presenting as male when outdoors as much as possible. Yesterday we went to the beach. I popped in a shop for a drink and when I came out, some random old bloke was chatting to my wife. He was trying to guess her age. So then he turned to me and said and let's see how old is reckon your fella is. This was up close as well. I was so happy I couldn't help but smile and then BAM, the smile gave it away! He didnt exactly correct himself but he stammered, and said 'Oh, ive just realised...'. Dammit, I can pass unless I smile. Great, so until I get T and surgery, I can't smile in public, lol. Our experienced other observation is that people will actively avoid saying either sir or miss because they genuinely don't know and don't want to offend. Which is fine but I need to get to a point where people are comfortable saying sir. Today I'm going swimming and I'm not going to be able to bind until later. I wonder how this will affect my dysphoria. I know loads of preop transguys will wear a binder under a rash vest but I only have one binder and no rash vest, I need it to be clean and dry for this afternoon. It also doesn't help that my chest is really quite large, bra size would be 38G. Yes, G. All I can say about that is Underworks are amazing. I can get a fairly flat look if I wear a baggy tshirt and an overshirt. I'm going to document my thoughts and processes as I transition as I think it may be helpful to other UK transguys in the future. I know there are blogs that have helped me so if I do mine, all of the info from the GIC can stay relatively up to date. Thanks guys, Ed
Make me admit stuff?
1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged? 2. You talked to an ex today, correct? 3. Have you taken someones virginity? 4. Is trust a big issue for you? 5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently? 6. What are you excited for? 7. What happened tonight? 8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted? 9. Is confidence cute? 10. What is the last beverage you had? 11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust? 12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans? 13. What are you gonna do Saturday night? 14. What are you going to spend money on next? 15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed? 16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months? 17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything? 18. The last time you felt broken? 19. Have you had sex today? 20. Are you starting to realize anything? 21. Are you in a good mood? 22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks? 23. Are your eyes the same color as your dad’s? 24. What do you want right this second? 25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy? 26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color? 27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh? 28. What was the last thing that made you laugh? 29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now? 30. Does everyone deserve a second chance? 31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to? 32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do? 33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda? 34. Listening to? 35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore? 36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is? 37. Do you believe in love at first sight? 38. Who did you last call? 39. Who was the last person you danced with? 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed? 41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake? 42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today? 43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush? 44. Do you tan in the nude? 45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss? 46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night? 47. Who was the last person to call you? 48. Do you sing in the shower? 49. Do you dance in the car? 50. Ever used a bow and arrow? 51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer? 52. Do you think musicals are cheesy? 53. Is Christmas stressful? 54. Ever eat a pierogi? 55. Favorite type of fruit pie? 56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? 57. Do you believe in ghosts? 58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? 59. Take a vitamin daily? 60. Wear slippers? 61. Wear a bath robe? 62. What do you wear to bed? 63. First concert? 64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? 65. Nike or Adidas? 66. Cheetos Or Fritos? 67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds? 68. Favorite Taylor Swift song? 69. Ever take dance lessons? 70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? 71. Can you curl your tongue? 72. Ever won a spelling bee? 73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy? 74. What is your favorite book? 75. Do you study better with or without music? 76. Regularly burn incense? 77. Ever been in love? 78. Who would you like to see in concert? 79. What was the last concert you saw? 80. Hot tea or cold tea? 81. Tea or coffee? 82. Favorite type of cookie? 83. Can you swim well? 84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? 85. Are you patient? 86. DJ or band, at a wedding? 87. Ever won a contest? 88. Ever have plastic surgery? 89. Which are better black or green olives? 90. Opinions on sex before marriage? 91. Best room for a fireplace? 92. Do you want to get married?
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