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5/16/2022

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Made a meme, a Ihakae and Ranirus version of THIS ♥

octoswan

Years ago, the master made me a promise. He told me I would become a god. But there was a price.

aidashakur

Dating someone who still respects you when they’re upset is VERY important.

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‼️‼️ it means a lot

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normal-horoscopes

WHAT IS UP GIRL YOU LOOK EXTREMELY RESISTANT TO PHYSICAL DAMAGE

mr-deep-downer

some of you need to see this

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men be like: oh no,, my ego, my poor ego! oh woman, could you spare a stroke? stroke my ego just once? oh, you refuse? that’s fine, i don’t mind. i diagnose you with whore

toastbutteregg

sharing this cause i wish i learned this sooner

saltedcaramelwound

But did you really forgive them if you aren’t willing to let them back into your life

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Forgiveness is letting go of your anger at someone. It doesn’t mean you have to trust them again.

urbanfantasyinspiration

People often confuse forgiveness for reconciliation

sinnahsaint

My abusive ex once tracked me down and said he had done so because of a 12-step program telling him to make amends. He apologized. I told him “I’m glad to hear you’re getting help. Thank you for the apology.” He then tried to add me as a friend on Facebook. I told him “I accepted your apology but we are not friends. I hope your life continues to improve. Goodbye.” and thankfully he fucked off. I have to tell you though… I was sweating bullets the whole time.

I am honestly glad if he is getting help(I only 70% believe he was in the program and only 40% believe he will change because of it)…. but not only does an apology not heal the damage he caused… it certainly isn’t enough for me to risk further damage.

I owe him nothing. I didn’t even owe him a response to the apology. I did that for me because that is who I want to be. I want to be the person who can set healthy boundaries while being compassionate to those who have wronged me.

Hate is a heavy burden to carry for someone you don’t even like, so I choose not to hate. I do choose who I let into my life however, and there is a high bar.

simply-syra

First of all, this is worth listening to for the cover of Take on Me alone. Believe me, you are not expecting what this song is going to sound like.

Secondly, FFXIV is such a beautiful and well-written MMO and I cannot.

alexandriaocasiocortez

dankmemeuniversity

aidashakur

My last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They’re not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won’t walk away. Never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself first.