[enchantechante]

my nail techs name is tina, she has a photographic memory, finishes taking off/reinstalling my hard gel set in less than an hour, she always running on time, the other nail techs crowd around her when she do certain shit and i hope she never leave anaheim.

[enchantechante]

stitch braids finna be so easy this week 😬

[enchantechante]

it you pass all these so cal taquerias and go to chipotle, we need you to move back to where youre from 🧚🏾✨

[enchantechante]

pulled my swimsuits today for the beach and found my wedding dress and veil 🥹

[kingknown]

[enchantechante]

i just realized im never running into the people who dont like me bc none of them can afford a vacation/time off/airfare

[enchantechante]

the way we met people had a direct relationship to how we loose them.

what yall do during those first few instances to get closer is likely what needs to keep happening for the relationship to continue functioning.

whichever person breaks the unspoken contract first usually gets some type of consequence from the other, it slowly breaks down and poof - no relationship.

i notice im quicker to grow, and usually change. as a consequence ppl cant villainize me for growing so the aggress me for literally anything they can, passively aggress me or still want to know about me/be connected to me somehow.

they never fully want to leave, it takes a concentrated effort.

bc ive never aggressed someone unprovoked. i mean aggress - as in directly make sure i take a jab at them. not venting, not displaced anger, like intentionally attacking a person.

and it drives insecure, unhappy and passive aggressive people to new lows.

the girls love to tussle!

[aidashakur]

I’d rather take things too far than hold back ngl

[blueklectic]

Aloud = speaking but not whispering

Allowed = permission

[ruesdeluxe]

[enchantechante]

you can trick a girl that follows her heart.

cant trick a girl that sees the demonstrated pattern of behavior.

[shereeluvssinners]

Wunmi painting

By Eyeahna

[enchantechante]

and just when my motivation to work out is waning? the gold waistbeads that used to not fit...fit.

[enchantechante]

[enchantechante]

sometimes you dont realize how much heart you have until it breaks.

[enchantechante]

healing is not a location, its a disposition

[enchantechante]

[enchantechante]

just learned the term "super empath".

this makes so much sense, esp when it comes to my synesthesia.

it may be confirmed by my years long quest to articulate how codependence was showing up in my life, and what i was willing to do to embody interdependence in every relationship.

and would explain why people, esp people who are extremely "centered on themselves" are shocked at how much they want to share w me (it never seems intentional in hindsight)

it reminds me of the decades i spent fuckin 'round hyper fixating on practicing all these healing modalities (i think im undiagnosed adhd as well) and finally understanding why and how ppl have taken refuge in my psyche.