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The spectacle around the Depp trial is being called a large-scale backlash to the MeToo movement, and I don’t disagree — but this is uniquely terrifying because I don’t think the mainstream MeToo movement was ever actually materially effective in the first place. In Walter Benjamin’s essay The Work of Art in the Age of Mechanical Reproduction, he writes that an oppressive structure “sees its salvation” in allowing the masses to express themselves freely in lieu of granting them their rights. Similarly, the mainstream MeToo movement offered temporary catharsis in place of systemic change; Hollywood play-acted a revolution so that its men could keep up their abuse unscathed. There is something phenomenally painful in watching a material backlash erupt in response to a movement that was never allowed to be anything more than aesthetic. Now that the state of discourse has moved forward without bringing women’s material conditions with it, men like Johnny Depp are able to benefit from violent systemic misogyny while posturing themselves as radical, anti-establishment activists. Recent events are not so much a pendulum swing as they are a pendulum being repeatedly beaten in one direction for fear it might one day gain a centimetre of ground.

-Rayne Fisher-Quann, "who's afraid of amber heard? abuse, aesthetics, and assigning deviance to difficult women"

polyamorouspunk

“Don’t judge a person by their looks” but also I did not dye and cut my hair and sew on all these patches and studs and stick all these safety pins and button pins in my jacket and scuff up my boots and rip my jeans and sit through getting these tattoos/piercings for you to not assume my gender and sexuality. I’m queer.

blabberintothevoid

Wow weird how people knew to isolate me, pick me last on the playground, and bully me before I ever had any agency over my appearance or felt a crush for a man because they clocked me as gay. But keep playing around with hot topic scraps and performativity and pretending you have any common interest with gays and lesbians.

dykemind

straight people want gay oppression to continue existing so they have something edgy to cosplay

pusheen-the-radical

I cannot believe OP said that out loud.

~I pUt piNs in my ShiRt beCuz im QuEer uwu~

do you put on clown make-up also with that whole get-up? because you fucking should

girlsmoonsandstars

When I say people treat being gay I like being in some weird alternative subculture this is what I'm talking about like can we just bring back emo and punk rock please

thomas--bombadil

endgender2020

bOrb

kronkk

men are so stupid and ugly and disgusting little bottom feeding sorry excuses for human beings mustaches on women are sexy they're divine they're hot as fuck men are ridiculous they lack any taste they're monstrous mutant little freaks with 2 inch brains I should kill this man with my bare hands strangle him with the braided hairs of all the little mustaches women have waxed or shaved over the years because of fucks like him

vegradfem

It’s not about men caring about these things, it’s about them manipulating women to feel bad about these things, it’s a control mechanism to make them feel powerful. Men will manipulate women to care about their looks and to base their value on male approval as a tactic to control.

Men will neg women they’re attracted to, due to their victim narrative that it’s worse to be ignored, that being nice to women “makes their head too big.”

Never believe a word a man says to you, they are liars and manipulators.

I can’t imagine anyone being bothered by a little peach fuzz. Sounds made up.

The only thing to be angry about here is the entitled attitude, the belief that their opinion matters and they determine our worth and value, and place it in our looks.

zombierightsadvocate

I can’t get over the fact that this thing looks like this and yet still has the shriveled unwashed balls to comment on women’s hair.

rainbowsnviolets-deactivated202

One of their things is making “Light hearted fun” of features of the women around them. I had this done to me about my breasts, my nose, my ass, my weight and my freckles. It’s small comments like the one in the tiktok or small “cute” “jokes” like “your nose looks kinda sad aw lol”. But over and over and over and over again. I told all of this to one of my male friends who said that he actually did this intentionally to girls when he was a teenager and into his early 20s. He said that it’s a tactic to keep women small. When a woman is too concerned about how she looks to a guy, she won’t think about how stupid or ugly that guy actually is. When you convince her that she is below you but you love her DESPITE her nose, breasts, body hair etc, you become like a god. She won’t see any flaw in you or your behaviour because all she is focussed on is finally pleasing you with her looks/behaviour. It’s basically: “You are a little bit ugly and I am pointing that out every day so you know that the entire world notices this too. Now that you know that you are ugly and that the entire world knows, you are thankful that I still find your ugly features kinda cute. You are thankful that at least I am honest with you and loving you despite all of your many flaws. You will never question my behaviour or my looks because then you would risk losing the only person who is kind enough to like you like you are. I will also point out sometimes how pretty something or someone else is, so that you will develop a fear of losing me, the only person who is kind enough to like you. This will keep you busy being pretty/perfect to me and, again, keep you from questioning me. You will also do everything I want from you, including sexual things you don’t like because, again, you can’t risk losing me, the only person who likes you despite of your many flaws” If this sounds extreme, it isn’t. I don’t think that many men are doing this intentionally (like... actually rationally planning this out) but that doesn’t make it any better. And men who don’t do this actively are still profitting off of other men doing this. Imagine that guy ditches his girlfriend after doing this to her for a few years. Any mediocre dude who wants a mother substitute will look like a god AND a romantic hero compared to that previous asshole.

radicalcoffeeclub

"When a woman is too concerned about how she looks to a guy, she won't think about how stupid or ugly that guy actually is." THIS!! It is so revolutionary on a personal level to switch your perspective, to stop seeing yourself as something others look at and instead starting to fully inhabit your own body, to go from object to subject, to open your own eyes and start seeing for yourself.

omnivore-odyssey

So this is the post that got me to grow out my ‘stache. I never did before because it wasn’t enough to be anything more than patchy, but I’m working on it. I got about a quarter inch of growth now. I go back and forth on the rest of my body hair, because sometimes I find it physically uncomfortable, but I never shaved my mustache for any physical comfort related reason, so now I get to keep it permanently and see how much it grows!

mrhealyourgirl

squeak only when squoken to

cute-animals-only

highonvenus

eatpussypraylove

All girls in their 20’s should get a studio apartment for free. To live in alone.

policenerd-deactivated20230320

You may have said this ironically but you might be onto something here. Women-only community housing, funded by feminist organizations, can be a way to drastically reduce sexual violence and abuse against women

teapartyspider

They fucking killed a gnome in my yard

everythingfox

redsatinsheets

idk if men know this but

if you have to beg a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual. if you make a girl feel bad for not wanting to have sex with you to the point where she says yes, it’s not consensual. if you have to trick a girl into saying yes, it’s not consensual.