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// Honesty is everything // Athens | 24

[9710144]

Sometimes you need to learn to be quiet even when you have a lot to say.

[9710144]

Sometimes you need to learn to be quiet even when you have a lot to say.

[positivelyadhd]

normalize not being friends with people anymore. not because someone wronged someone or you fell out but simply because you're different people now.

people grow and change and as we do it means that sometimes we don't feel compatible with people anymore and that's okay.

sometimes leaving relationships in the past is better than trying to force it to be something it's not.

[s8l]

They gon judge you anyway so fuck it

[thexlama]

It’s all about the first person you wanna tell good news to.

[dumb-little-baby]

I’ll definitely make you fall in love with me.

[babiedspice]

if you think someone is adorable (me) then you should tell them (me) on a daily basis

[thealfaguy]

[thoughtkick]

“I want deeper connections with the people around me. I need to reach out more. Because not everyone leaves. Sometimes if you reach out, the person you’re trying to reach will be right there waiting.”

— Susane Colasanti

[dirty]

I just wanted to feel your lips upon my neck and shoulders.

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[the-joyous-work-continues]

Reblogging because I don’t see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!

[babiexmilk]

more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs

[thealfaguy]

Studying her, learning her, understanding her, being patient with her, loving her.

[dont-give-a-fuck-club]

If I die for you will you live for me?

[designedslut]

yes dating me does require all of ur attention sorry

[remanence-of-love]

[remanence-of-love]

[dumbbunnii-deactivated20221001]

It’s ok to message me a paragraph of how much u adore me