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• WHY Couple Shout & Yell During An Arguement…?

‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small…’

‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper ‘n they get even closer to each other in their love.

Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other ‘n that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’.

‘So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return anymore.’

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• WHY Couple Shout & Yell During An Arguement...?

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love.

Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return anymore.'

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• Midnight Escapade!

"SuperMoon" Night-Out At 00:30Hrs With My 4 Kiddos At The Park To Look At What Else... "SUPERMOON"... And Its SUPER-Cloudy Too, Covering Up The Moon, A Pity.

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• Is ‘Real-Life Barbie’ Beautiful or Creepy?

"I'm a Barbie girl, in a Barbie world, life in plastic, it's fantastic" line sung by Norwegian group Aqua could easily apply to 21-year-old Ukrainian model Valeria Lukyanova.

She appears to have doll-like facial features, long blonde hair, a tiny waist and huge breasts that are disproportionate to her figure.

In most of her photos, she puts on a vacant stare and her skin looks flawless with a waxy finish.

Valeria Lukyanova has been called the real-life Barbie. (Photo from VK) On her blog, the "real-life Barbie" claims to be the most famous woman on Russian websites, and is interested in new age music and "astroplaning".

The model gained popularity online over the past week as her photos generated much discussion online. Many people questioned whether she is indeed a real person who has gone under the knife or someone whose images have been edited through Photoshop.

As of Friday evening, she had 161,350 followers on her VK, the European equivalent of Facebook.

Responding to critics, Lukyanova recorded a video titled "Doll's appearance is not everything" and said that criticism of her looks has overshadowed her as a person and her other talents.

"I am a composer and have written over 70 songs on the theme of spiritual development. … People do not mention that I evolve [spirituality] and lead seminars and workshops on astral travel, answer questions and help people understand themselves,"

Lukyanova said on her YouTube page. In other videos, she's asked her followers to "not believe the rumours about plastic surgery."

**Her Facebook Fans Page: www.Facebook.com/ValeriaLukyanova

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• Singapore’s Inflation Scare

The consumer price index was at 5.2% in March, and may hit 6%. Our inflation’s growing faster than my waistline.

How Bad Is Our Inflation? The consumer price index (CPI) checks the price difference of a market basket of goods over time. So a CPI of 5.2% suggests, in a very simplified way, that most of what you buy will cost 5.2% more - Unless you’ve gotten a matching raise in your pay, it means you now have less money.

And apart from everything costing more, the inflation eats into your bank savings - Your bank’s interest rate (even for fixed and structured deposits) are nowhere near the 5.2% inflation.

The CPF may also lose its efficacy as a retirement fund. The CPF interest rate is 2.5%, and the inflation rate is 5.2%. As a retirement provision, that’s about as effective as a paper umbrella in a tsunami…

Insane COE Prices As of April 18 2012, COEs for larger cars hit $91,000. Reuters pointed out that a Toyota Vios, which cost $77,000 at the start of the year, now costs $107,000 (including COE). That same amount could land you a Porsche in some parts of Europe (and a complimentary AK-47 in Russia, because YOU try owning a Porsche in St. Petersburg).

Come August, the government also intends to drop the vehicle quota to 0.5%. This will raise COE premiums even higher; presumably, it’ll match the admissions rate of hysterically giggling car buyers at IMH. Because the bad news is, there will always be situations when a car is necessary; no matter the price. Certain lines of work, along with family requirements, will continue to pressure people into buying cars. And because the COE is an unavoidable, artificial addition to price (increasing price without adding real value), it’s a major contributor to inflation.

*** The government may think that if COE is too high, then take public transport. There are many factories in Jurong which are only accessible by feeder service, which is infrequent. Time is essential due to the living condition in Singapore. Families with children need the car to ferry the children around during the weekends, many are attending enrichment classes to compete in the competitive environment created by the government. Children may have to ferried to the Child Care Centre or in-law place. The government will never understand because they are the elitists.

Overheated Property Market Nice try with the new measures, HDB. Sadly, chucking an ice cube at Fukushima would have been a stronger cooling measure. The ABSD has dissuaded foreign buyers, but it’s channelled demand into the rental market. Foreigners are now pushing rental income to new heights, and that’s led to property speculation (shoebox flats anyone?) Likewise, the cash over valuation (COV) of resale flats is now less realistic than Transformers 2.

And have you seen Sky Habitat? The property developers forgot to include a disclaimer. Something like: “Please note that your purchase signifies market collapse, uncontrolled inflation, impaired judgement, or all of the above”.

There has also been news of HDB flats reaching the $900,000 mark, and even heartland homes aren’t the low-cost bulwarks they used to be. Until some control is placed on COV, and further cooling measures kick in, housing’s going to keep raising our cost of living.

*** Prices of houses are escalating, the people cannot benefit from it unless they have more than one, not many will benefit from it. The result is Singaporeans has to work very hard to pay for their houses.

Shops and retail outlets rental is escalating, cost has to be passed back to the consumers.

Higher Transport Costs Government policies have made cars unaffordable, while raising public transport costs. It’s like the person-in-charge Googled: “Inflation and How to Cause It”, and started taking notes. SBS is already intending to pay bus drivers 16% more, which should raise transport fares. Part of the reason is to, you know, cope with inflation. Then there was Comfort and it’s minions other cab companies; they raised fares as well. To cope with inflation.

Now, take a step back and reread those reasons. Do you see a problem here?

Transport companies are coping with inflation by... contributing to said inflation. That’s like trying to solve groin pain by having doctors take turns kicking you in the nuts. But hey, at least higher transport costs have had benefits. Like making the MRT more reliable, or making bus captains more polite. And I’m totally not being sarcastic there.

Rising Food Prices Singapore imports a lot of food. Look at our land space; if we planted one shoot of kang kong it would die of claustrophobia. But in particular, the global recession and rising cost of fuel (which affects the import cost of foodstuffs) take a lot of blame.

Where local policies contribute is property. As rent rises, so too do food prices. Supermarkets need to charge more to maintain inventory, and hawkers need to pay their stall rent. The practice of subletting hawker stalls is especially problematic: That’s when a stall holder pays maybe $700 a month for the stall, but charges someone $2000 a month to operate it. Wave at Holland Village, people.

As it is, restaurants need as much reason to raise prices as North Korea needs to launch a missile. But the rental market is heating up, and landlords are basically sharks with legs. As surrounding rents go up, they’ll try to match it, which prompts F&B tenants to skyrocket prices.

Absurd Optimism Inflation seems to be getting worse because of our laid back attitude. We’re taking little action because we can’t seem to acknowledge how bad it is.

Here’s a quote from Channel NewsAsia: “However, analysts said Singapore’s inflation rate is not a cause for alarm as the government had already warned that price gains would be steeper in the first half of this year.”

By contrast, that’s like saying you don’t have to be alarmed that your car is going off a bridge, so long as the screaming passengers in the back “already warned” you. Early warning doesn’t mean we shouldn’t freak out.

The Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS) will probably allow the Singapore dollar to appreciate, as a way to combat inflation. This is effective as a stopgap measure, but it doesn’t address deeper flaws in the system.

Another problem is MAS’ method of measuring core inflation: It excludes housing and private transport. Since these are are a major cause of inflation, the method results in optimistic numbers and homeless Singaporeans. It’s like getting lung cancer, but having the doctor congratulate you because hey, apart from your lungs, you’re fine. MAS is expected to take corrective action in October. But the immediate solution seems to be crossing our fingers really hard. Let’s all sit back and think happy thoughts, and pretend inaction isn’t part of the problem.

Bottomline, if the Ministers, the policy markers are earning top class salary, they will never feel the agony of the people. Their solution to the people will be spend within your affordability (which makes sense on the surface), but who are the people who makes decision that can manage inflation and put thing within reach by the people.

But of coz... Ask the boss of "No Signboard Restaurant" who owns three powerful and expensive cars and living in 9500 sq ft bungalow and he will tell you where got inflation?

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• KFC Ordered To pay US$8.3m To Australian Girl

Posted: 27 April 2012

Fast food giant Kentucky Fried Chicken has been ordered to pay US$8.3m to an Australian girl who suffered severe brain damage and was paralysed after eating a Twister wrap. (AFP/File - Liu Jin)

SYDNEY: Fast food giant Kentucky Fried Chicken has been ordered to pay A$8 million (US$8.3 million) to an Australian girl who suffered severe brain damage and was paralysed after eating a Twister wrap.

Monika Samaan was seven when she suffered salmonella encephalopathy -- a brain injury linked to food poisoning that also left her with a blood infection and septic shock -- in October 2005.

Several other family members also fell ill and they claimed Samaan's injuries, which include severe cognitive, motor and speech impairment and spastic quadriplegia, were caused by a chicken Twister wrap from a Sydney KFC outlet.

The New South Wales Supreme Court ruled in the family's favour a week ago and on Friday ordered KFC to pay the girl A$8 million in damages plus legal costs.

In a statement, the family's lawyer George Vlahakis said they were relieved the battle was over.

"Monika's severe brain damage and severe disability has already exhausted the very limited resources of the family," he said.

"Monika is now a big girl and they are finding it increasingly difficult to lift her and to look after her basic needs as well as look after Monika's younger siblings.

"The compensation ordered is very much needed. KFC have to date been determined that Monika does not receive a cent."

Last week, KFC indicated it will appeal the decision but is yet to do so.

During the trial, Justice Stephen Rothman said the chicken became contaminated "because of the failure of one or more employees of KFC" to follow proper preparation rules, which he described as "negligent".

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• DO PLUG IN YOUR EAR PIECE For Better Sound Quality...

"This Is Just ONE Of The MANY Reasons Why I Luv My Kiddos So Much...!!!

They Always Come Together After Revising Their School Work & Gather In One Room To Have Sisterly & Brotherly Bonding & SiNG... (Usually Glenn Would Be Around... But He's Busy With His Homework Earlier...)

Enjoy This Short Preview Of Them Singing..."

If You Would Like To Hear More Of Their Cover(s) & Be Kept Updated Of Their New Songs... Here's Their FB Page, Click 'LiKE': https://www.facebook.com/pages/MandiDelvinaAmandaGlenn/294021873979800

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"The Singapore Environment Council (SEC) Is Studying Ways To Cut Down On The Use Of Plastic Bags Here... I Wonder iF These Council Members Reside In HDB With Chute OUTSIDE Their Flat; Or In Private/ Landed Property... Else Why Can't They Understand The Usefulness Of These Plastic Bags - And iF Cutting Down Means PAY FOR iT... Did U See ERP Charges Manage To Cut Down ANY Cars Or Make ANY Differences In The Flow Of Traffics...?

iF Sitting In The Council Today Are All Members Who Lived In HDB With Chute OUTSIDE Their Flat... These Issue Won't Be AN ISSUE AT ALL Because Of Hygiene & Practicality Reason... - Morons!"

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• Japan 'No Longer Rich Country' By 2050: [Think-tank]

TOKYO (AFP) - Japan could fall out of the league of developed nations by 2050 as a shrinking and greying population as well as slowing productivity make its economy contract, a think-tank has warned.

The 21st Century Public Policy Institute said a dwindling workforce, caused by a chronic low birthrate, will combine with lower savings and shriveling investment to drag the once mighty economy down.

The think-tank, linked to Japan's powerful Keidanren business federation, said the economy will start getting smaller at some point in the 2030s, even if productivity recovers to the average level of the world's top economies.

Japan's GDP will fall behind India in 2014 and by 2050 it will lose its economic presence 'significantly', dipping to be only one sixth that of China and the United States and one third that of India, said the report.

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• This Is Part#2 Of Their Short Preview...

If You Would Like To Hear More Of Their Cover(s) & Be Kept Updated Of Their New Songs... Here's Their FB Page, Click 'LiKE': https://www.facebook.com/pages/MandiDelvinaAmandaGlenn/294021873979800

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• Benetton Boss Hand Over To Son After 47 Years...

ROME - Luciano Benetton, who founded his clothing company with his siblings 47 years ago, said on Sunday (22nd April 2012) that he plans to hand over the reins to his son Alessandro, already the firm's vice-chairman.

'The rudder passes to my son Alessandro, who will become chairman,' Mr Benneton told Italy's leading daily Corriere della Sera in an interview. 'After a run that has lasted 47 years, I will resign Tuesday from my duties in the company founded with my brothers and sister.' The half-century has seen the company grow into a giant, with some 6,000 stores in 120 countries.

Benetton, 77, who appears in robust health, sporting long hair and his trademark round glasses, said 48-year-old Alessandro had shown the passion he would need in the two years he has served as vice-chairman.

The company, hit by rising prices of raw materials, notably cotton, as well as the economic crisis in southern Europe, last month posted a 28 per cent drop in net profits for 2011, at 73 million euros (S$120.5 million) on sales that were down one per cent at 2.0 billion euros.

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• Chicken Rice War... Former Tian Tian Chef Now Sells Dish Two Stalls Away From His Ex-Employer.

The man who has been cooking at Tian Tian Hainanese Chicken Rice store for more than 20 years has set up his own place - just two stalls away from his former employer at Maxwell Road Food Centre.

Mr Wong Liang Tai, 53, opened Ah Tai Hainanese Chicken Rice last month (March 2012), four months after being fired by Tian Tian's management. Other workers at the stall have taken over his cooking duties.

A quarrel at the stall in October last year 2011 led to his dismissal.

Mr Wong said much of the tension stemmed from his disagreement with the new management style after the owners' daughter, Ms Loi Mui Yin, 39, started running the company in 2010.

**"A Classic Case Of Getting Even... Or Simply Put It, Sweet Revenge."

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• Singapore Is 10th Top City For Global Retailers (It is seen by European retailers as springboard to rest of region: Survey)

Big-name retailers from around the world continue to see Singapore an important place to set up shop, according to a survey from property firm CBRE.

It ranked the city as the 10th top destination for retail giants this year, down from eighth last year.

The survey also found that Singapore was a key destination for European brands needing a springboard to the rest of the region.

CBRE looked at what sort of presence 326 international retailers had established in more than 200 cities.

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• 5 Lifelong Lessons We Can Learn From The Titanic...

The story of the sinking of the Titanic will be told and retold for countless generations. Both young and old are fascinated by what is considered one of the rarest events in human history. Hundreds of books have been written and several feature films have been produced in the memory of the legendary ship.

Today, 100 years later, take a moment to absorb 5 lifelong lessons that can be learned for this great tragedy.

LiMiTiNG BELIEFS CAN BE DETRIMENTAL

The mighty and glorious Titanic was believed to be 'unsinkable'. For that reason, it did not carry the required number of lifeboats. This was one of the biggest causes of loss of life on the ship. The belief that the ship was unsinkable ultimately led to disaster.

Lesson for Life: Your beliefs are so powerful that they directly affect how you think and behave. When you believe something to be true, you act in accordance with that belief. Identify, challenge and move beyond any beliefs that could ultimately spell disaster for you.

OVERCONFIDENCE IS CATASTROPHIC

Overestimating the capability of the Titanic led the captain to make several perilous decisions. One such decision was to abandon the safety drill of lifeboat practice in lieu of a recording a faster sailing time to New York. Another such decision was to increase the speed of the ship, even though a neighbouring ship had turned off their engines believing that the waters were treacherous.

Lesson for Life: Supreme overconfidence is more detrimental than false optimism. It is in fact delusional. Such confidence exceeds accuracy of judgement and results in poor decision making skills.

LiFE iS A MYSTERY NOT A POST-MORTEM

The mystery surrounding the sinking of the Titanic has intrigued generations and will continue to do so. What happened that night, left behind many unanswered questions and a series of 'what if' possibilities.

Lesson for Life: Looking back and wondering 'what went wrong' or 'why' will not change what happened. What you can change is what is happening now and the choices you make about the future. Life is not about being stuck in the past, it's about what you have in the present and what you can do in the future.

NOT ALL FEARS ARE BAD:

The creators of the Titanic feared nothing. They had built a ship that could overcome the major weaknesses in ship design that caused so many ships to sink in the past.

Lesson for Life: While some of the fears you have may prevent you from developing your potential, others protect you from danger and keep you safe.

COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS:

Being reminded of this great tragedy gives us an opportunity to be grateful for everything good in our lives.

Lesson for Life: If you take the time to focus and be grateful for all the good things in your life, you will attract more of what you are grateful for. Many scientific studies now surround the importance of being grateful. In that very moment you are expressing your gratitude, there is no room for other feelings e.g. anxiety, sadness, guilt.

The sinking of the Titanic shattered the faith of an age and for each generation there will be new revelations and new theories.

No Matter How Clever, How Skilled or Talented We Are, Sometimes We Remain At The Mercy Of Events Beyond Our Control. Whether beliefs held were detrimental or overconfidence held sway, there are some things we cannot account for and others that elude even the greatest minds. The important thing is that we learn from the past, live for the present and hope for the future.

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"A Crashing Economy... The Financial Meltdown... The Promise Of New Leadership... And Uncharted Future... Running A Business Has Never Been More Uncertain."

Consumer & Business Are on Pause... They Are Careful With Their Spending, Buying As Little As Possible, Cutting Back & Buying Only Necessity, Not Spending As Much As Before...

They Are Re-Evaluating Between Needs & Wants, No More Impulse Buying. Yet, Businesses Is Sprouting Up Everywhere, Everyday, At Every "Opportunity"...

Tremendous Fall-Out Will Happen Sooner Or Later Looking At The Number Of Stores, Malls, Brands, New Businesses, Etc On The Rise.

Competitions Will Get Tougher... And Consumers Will ALWAYS Be Looking For Sales, Best Prices & Value For Money (Products & Services) That Is To Their Term & Definition Of A Good Buy.

THE STRATEGY TO SURViVE THIS TREND? Scarcity... It Is The Strategy To Go, Meaning If You Don't Buy Now, It Will Not Be Available Later... And The Product(s) Will Have To Be One Of Its Kind & The Make Will NEVER Be Manufactured, Retailed Or Repeated (Ever) Again - A Psychological Approached.

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• 30 Reasons NOT To Get Married Before You're 30...

Because you have one life to live, give yourself time to grow, if not fully at least mature to the place you need be...... it won't be perfect but at least you'll have few regrets.

Marriage is not for trial and error, it is just as important as any major surgery. You must be in the know as well as plan and prepare yourself mentally, financially, etc.

In this day and age, not too many people in their 20's are equipped to start a family. Are you somewhat secure in who you are as a man or woman, are you ready to totally commit to one person? For those of you who believe in open relationships, as well as those of you who follow beliefs that allow you to marry more than one woman. How the hell are you going to be an asset to two if you have no idea what it is to be loyal, love, respect, appreciate and communicate with one. Come on people you set yourself up for people to see how crazy you are, regardless of "what you're claiming to believe"!

Do you have a stable job, are your finances secure enough to go beyond your needs?Do you have a savings you are capable of living on?

Unless you just happen to be fortunate, the odds of finding someone that is mature and committed is hard, especially if you live in a big city. Everyone wants to have a "good time" for as long as they can.

People who are usually below 30 consider themselves young, beautiful and a good catch. You don't need to deal with that kind of mentality for they will find it hard to commit due to the fact that they are so "desirable" and "Gods gift to the universe". In some cases they may feel that you are deserving of them and wonder into wonderland to try marriage. I can bet that in less than 2 months they will be back on their high horse in wanting to be luved by the world.

Before turning 30, living life in your 20's allows you to know you. Your likes, dislikes, desires, passions, everything that makes you the mature man or woman you desire to be. So that when you do enter a relationship, you enter one that allows you to be true to you as well as your partner, making your relationship less stressful and life more relaxing.

You have more than enough time after graduating to settle in your career. This doesn't always apply because some people are fortunate to be successful sooner than others. If you are a late bloomer, don't be dismayed, good relationships aren't based on if you have a job/career a handsome bank account or a corner office. More than likely your essence and what you can bring to the table besides your genitals, a bank account or a nice car. If you are ambitious, you are bound to succeed financially making yourself as well as your new found family happy.

Only a select few (in their 20's) know what they want in a marriage and actually practice and live it when they get married.

Is anyone thinking about only being with one person when there is so much to do, so many people to meet and have a great time with. Yes you can be married and do this as well, but there is that thing called jealousy, or maybe control or insecurity. Where your better half thinks you're having way too much fun and may immaturely go seeking fun elsewhere. It's something when you can love and allow one to be free, be themselves as well as be in your life! (btw you dont have to be from another planet to do this!) when you LoVe and you're LoVed there is a freeness that comes with it, not threatened that NO one, or anything will come between your relationship. Yes jealousy may surface every now and again, but this jealousy is healthy.

There aren't too many people that marry before thirty who can have a relationship that involves, respect, trust, loyalty, unconditional love through an open relationship. What would you know about that? Then again there are exceptions to the rule!

You'll be at an age where you are ready, able and willing to bring children into this world. Having the energy and wisdom to educate as well as raise them, if need be by yourself!

You would have had more than enough time to date, as well as know what you indeed nEEd in your relationship. You may have even made mistakes, but if you are fortunate the individual you made the mistake with, may be the one you'll end up marrying.

Gives you time to travel, do all that you desire to do, whether by yourself or with friends. You get to let your hair down in ways that you wouldn't if you are married. Not to say you can't do all of the same things when you get married, but everyone's schedule and finances doesn't always allow you to experience that which you would being single.

You are able to save, instead of spend, spend, spend. Whether for a home, a vehicle, investments, travel. You're not working in order to live, your reason for existing precedes a paycheck to pay bills and buy groceries. You will have money prepared and ready for whatever plans you have for YouR future.

Gives you more than enough time to be reckless, if you survive those reckless years and just so happen to be disease free, try commitment and maybe you'll be content. If commitment doesn't work for you, 30 more years of recklessness is coming up!

30 means to have arrived, whether mentally physical, spirituality, financially, it differs for each individual, take advantage of your life prior to thirty to perfect one of the above areas.

You don't want to make the same mistake twice or thrice. Who wants to be on their second much less third marriage before thirty! Failure as well as immaturity is written all over that!

At this point there will be no need for excuses, if there is, only you will believe them! If anyone else does---you're gOOd!

If you have been amazingly dishonest prior to turning thirty, you should be quite content with who you are at this point as well as with your choices, actions and intentions. Work on improving you, if that doesn't interest you, don't continuously complain when shit doesn't work out or backfires.

Following the leader is not going to work when having your own to contend with, just because your friends got married out of college, doesn't mean you have to. Be a trend setter and do something that makes sense as well as has longevity. How are you going to handle what you are not ready for?

Your better half as well as yourself will be more accepting/understanding due to maturity and experience. Finding the right person may be hard, but being able to exercise fairness, patience and understanding when you meet the right person, takes you to another level where loyalty consideration and unconditional resides. Rushing into a marriage does not confirm anything neither does it magically bond you. Time always tells a true tale and if it is meant to be.....it will be! Trust and believe this!

More than enough time to Vent!!! everyone has their own shit to deal with. Keep your baggage to yourself!

Marrying to escape a situation is more or less voluntary imprisonment, just at another location.

You made it this far.....your tolerance for handling stress should be a piece of cake. If not you'll be a nervous reck for life!

Being lonely or broke doesn't mean get hitched immediately! For those of you who fall for these types, this is one scar that will be permanent! FYI: Finding someone to be with does not get rid of loneliness, insecurity, self destruction, envy, jealousy, laziness, and Vices. Before you know it they will be blaming all of their ISSues on you!

Less regrets, chances of being scorned is slimmmmmm

Because I said so LoL!!!

Uh so what your parents got married when they were 17, one thing has nothing to do with the other. Pressure from anyone is unacceptable! Need I remind you the era they lived in is completely opposite to now---- Everything has changed. Before options weren't available, women didn't have "choice" and stayed at home. Today women have taken on so many responsibilities, inside as well as outside the home. Single parents, entrepreneurs, laborers, the list goes on......face it so much has changed. Next time someone pressures you, send them an itemized list ie: $50,000 for wedding, 500,000 to purchase home, $100,000 for vehicle (that's just for you), and another cool $1,000,000 for petty cash.

Last but not least....you shouldn't be having unprotected sex with someone who isn't marriage material.......yeah yeah yeah ...it happens to all of us, but be on top of your game and try not to slip up! Soon you will be wondering.....How in the hell did I get caught up in this? I didn't sign up for this. I was suppose to be having fun, now you are miserable, broke and only 25.

"Marriage" or whatever word you choose to use is for two people who have found each other in the midst of this life and know as well as understand how they enhance as well as can be enhanced by their better half. It is a union where two halves come together and become one. This can only be understood and experienced by these two.

P.S. For those of you who really believe, and I don't mean the kind of belief that causes you to believe because you heard someone say it and now you want to do or try it just to prove you can also do "it"! Nooooo---- For those of you who truly have found your other half, you're finally connected and the power and force behind your connection has projected itself and fear is no longer there, by all means if the feelings that you have for each other is indeed MuTuaL, work your magic! For there is no power that is greater. No need for me to explain, if you know what it is to truly love and you are loved unconditionally - you know exactly what I speak of. Skies isn't the limit because it will definitely go beyond that. Best of wishes to you and yours------->ciao

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