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I'm Erika. Filipina 28; O2/O7 nova. college alum. baker | cinephile | musician | poet formerly misserikajoelle and ohmyerika I post random nonsense

[erikajoelleee]

I never come on here anymore, but, I will say this as a precursor to my birthday.

There is nothing I have against you. There is nothing wrong I have said that reflects otherwise on us, we don’t even have the best relationship. However, to call me a liar, and never confront me about it… That’s sketchy.

It may be hard to believe, because the trust I laid was broken into billions of pieces. But sure, call me a liar. You’ve never confronted me and I know you never will.

I will say this, if I lied - why would I go to therapy and all that trouble? Why would I have all these examples reinforcing my side? At what point are these coincidences not coincidences anymore? Why or how would I create such an elaborate narrative? Why do you think I felt like I could not confront you as a relative outside party of my situation?

Something to reflect on.

[tv-nerd-aus]

Akilah Green on Chelsea 

[atribeonaquest]

SAY THAT SHIT ! They love to invoke his name as if he were JESUS HIMSELF.

[booksmoviesandanimals]

They murdered MLK for his peaceful protest

[agott-arklaum-atelier]

You can tell that the Stranger Things kids have gone from children to teens because they all collectively decided to use Eleven’s very deadly supernatural gifts that literally cause her nose to bleed for an elaborate surprise party for their friend. 

[killowave]

[90skid-com]

[ruinedchildhood]

Scoob and the gang have an existential crisis.

[dnald]

[dnald]

[stimmytyler-deactivated20200301]

sesame street gets exponentially funnier as you age. god i love it

[iamnevertheone]

joey and chandler’s magna doodle

[shawnphunters]

Topanga, if I had to dream up the perfect woman, she wouldn't even come close to you.

[nyctosaurid]

“if goofy is a dog and pluto is a dog why is one a pet” is the cartoon equivalent of “if man evolved from monkeys why are there still monkeys”

[zagreus]

The implication that Goofy is just a more advanced stage in canine evolution is oddly terrifying somehow

[nyctosaurid]

theres no such thing as ‘more advance’ in evolution. a dogman isnt more evolved than a dog, just as you are no more evolved than an seagull or coral, they are just fitted for different environments and have evolved as such

[dimetrodone]

Goofy is not more evolved the Pluto, Goofy just fills a different ecological niche. While Pluto is just a scavenger and Goofy is an apex predator both play important roles in the ecosystem.

[thekingmickey-deactivated202404]

[chlstarrbaby]

Goofy’s a domestic dog, Pluto is a real one.

[nyctosaurid]

“Why me? I’m domesticated!” is the deepest rabbit hole of a line in the entire disney canon

[catchymemes]

Challenge accepted

[artist-in-space]

Yeah!!!

[absolutepie]

What an excellent trend

[bishoujolei]

I need more of this!

[hilarioushumorfromouterspace]

[teaboot]

And I would’ve fuckin gotten away with this, too

[oatmilksupremacy]

honestly? keanu reeves should have been in the MCU by now

[oatmilksupremacy]

honestly keanu reeves should’ve been doctor strange

[oatmilksupremacy]

marvel wouldn’t even need to spend money on cgi because keanu reeves can just do that

[transvioletbaudelaire]

When lemony snicket said “i will love you as misfortune loves orphans, as fire loves innocence and as justice loves to sit and watch while everything goes wrong. i will love you until all the codes and hearts have been broken and until every anagram and egg has been unscrambled. i will love you as we grow older, which has just happened, and has happened again, and happened several days ago, continuously, and then several years before that, and will continue to happen as the spinning hands of every clock and the flipping pages of every calendar mark the passage of time. i will love you as we find ourselves farther and farther from one another, where once we were so close that we could slip the curved straw, and the long, slender spoon, between our lips and fingers respectively. i will love you if you don’t marry me. i will love you if you marry someone else, and i will love you if you have a child, and i will love you if you have two children, or three children, or even more, although I personally think three is plenty, and i will love you if you never marry at all, and never have children, and spend your years wishing you had married me after all, and I must say that on late, cold nights i prefer this scenario out of all the scenarios i have mentioned. that, beatrice, is how i will love you even as the world goes on its wicked way”

[ithelpstodream]

Meet 63-year-old Lyn Slater, who has, until recently, been an ordinary professor at Fordham University. One day she went to meet a friend for lunch outside the Lincoln Center during New York Fashion Week. Foreign journalists suddenly surrounded her, mistaking her for a fashion icon and attracting spectatorsIt was a defining moment that turned Lyn into an ‘Accidental Icon’. Her blog of the same name, inspired by the experience, soon began making international waves. She is now a public voice against ageism in the fashion industry and the world.

“Fashion and my style help me struggle against that invisibility that comes with age.“

She was once asked about the old notion of ‘dressing for one’s age,’ and her response was clear:

“We use language to control people’s behavior. This phrase is a way of putting older women in their place. I’m certain that if you feel comfortable in your own clothes, it’s completely irrelevant how old you are.”

[an-angry-lesbian]

They weren’t confused, she is a fashion icon

[totallyradicalblog-blog]

You’re right and you should say it

[jaded-not-tragic-mulatta]

That’s going to be me…an urbane spinster.

[images-that-are-only-blessed]

[phillipfancypants]

Also: while we’re doing checkpoints, make sure you’re on WiFi and not data

[yourbigsisnissi]

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

[toastyglow]

(applies to all relationships)

[erikajoelleee]

Just like aged wine, I’m doing twenty fine 🥂✨🎉 #silveryear #quarterofacentury #icouldrecyclethiscaptionin4yearslol https://www.instagram.com/p/BtmqEyeA4KXMkREeM8Z0RTse7_xJ6XQYmoIMBU0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=urwb89xqgde9