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“At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should happen and live in what is happening.”
— Unknown
To be myself today
- 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚣𝚊𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚑 𝚜.
2026
Back at it again after literal years. Didn't know I was that depressed before, am I worse now?
What do you want? What do you desire, crave, imagine?
What ignites you?
Inspires you? Warms your belly? Makes you smile?
Do That.
Follow the Feeling.
When it comes to creating a vision board, you need to start with a vision. Understanding what you want and collecting mantras, images, words and phrases that allow you to feel that way. Having a tangible vision board is powerful, crafted with your hands rather than online.
Vison boards can be any size or shape. When it comes to piecing together your vision, no rules, no boundaries. It’s a beautiful process of collecting things that resonate with you, your desired feeling. Devoting your time to create a vision board is sacred, a practice of mindfulness and tending to yourself. Think of it as a form of mediation and radical self-love.
Creates a space. Set up a mini studio to begin your project. Candles, a cup of tea, crystals, statues and artwork. You can set up your space in your living room or backyard, it’s about creating your own sanctuary, wherever that may be.
Get your tools. Magazines, online printouts, old photos, fabric scraps, stickers, markers, and scissors (etc). A collage of materials is what manifests into an inspiring piece.
Follow your intuition. Do what feels good when it comes to putting everything together. You’re not making this vision board for anyone else but yourself, there are no expectations or requirements for you to meet, only that you find comfort in what you made.
Display with love. Find a place to hang your board that you will allow you to see it throughout your day. I keep an empowering board at my desk and a travel board in my bedroom. Discover what place will give you the most interaction and stick with it. Make it a practice, a ritual to truly look and acknowledge your broad.
Your wellbeing is rooted to self-care. Visions boards are great ways to illuminate ambition and to awaken the self. Nourish your desires, dive inward and follow the feeling.
Goddess’ guide to dating yourself
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but ladies we need to start dating ourselves.
Whether you are in a relationship or not, you need to do this.
Why?
Because your best relationship in your life should be with yourself. In fact, your longest relationship is with yourself. Show your self some love! Fall in love with yourself. Dating yourself can help you become more confident and secure with yourself. It can help us know our worth.
1. Find something you are passionate about and hone in on it! This is your chance to do and try new things until you find something you like and even when you find something you like, keep trying things. Go back and do things you used to do and see if you still like it. Try painting, photography, yoga, reading, guitar, knitting… the list is endless.
2. Become more independent!
Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but never did because you were waiting for someone else to do it with you? This is your time to do it by yourself. Life is short, you don’t have time to wait for someone else to do something with you. Go take that class by yourself, go see the world by yourself, go shopping by yourself, take yourself to that new restaurant.
3. Get to know yourself more!
In more ways than one, you should get to know yourself. My favorite way to do this is to answer those question prompts from pinterest. They can help you find your passions, your limits, your dreams, your desires. Find your limits and boundaries. Things that you will and won’t put up with anymore and stick to them. Also, Masturbation, ladies. Know how to make yourself feel good. Your pleasure shouldn’t be solely dependent on someone else.
4. Get in tuned with your body and mind!
Try meditating, journaling, yoga, vision boarding. Learn what your body likes and dislikes. Do your makeup a new way. And then do it again. Get a massage or facial. Or DIY it. Wear that killer outfit you’ve been saving. Do a photoshoot. Find your angles. Do breath work. Affirmations. Therapy can do wonders for your life.
Date ideas?
1. Take yourself on a picnic. Pack a cute basket of your favorite snacks and foods. Grab a bottle of wine and a blanket and sit with yourself in the park. Maybe read that book you’ve been meaning to.
2. Watch a movie. Years ago, I used to buy matinee tickets, buy popcorn and watch movies at the theater by myself and it was wonderful. You can do the same at home.
3. Go to a restaurant. I know the allure of take out will be hard to resist but do it! Dress up in your finest outfit. Make your makeup and hair killer. Take yourself to the cute cafe or restaurant you’ve been dying to try. Order something new. Savor your food.
4. Take yourself to the store. If you’re a bookworm like me, I’d suggest Barnes and noble or another book store. If you’re not a book person, try a clothing store or a tea shop or other specialty shop. Go to a store you’ve never been to. Take your time, look around. Take pictures of everything. Imagine yourself buying something. Actually buy it, if you can. Take note of all the things you want in that store.
5. Organize. Hear me out here. Make a date out of de-cluttering and organizing. Turn on your favorite playlist or tv show or podcast. Start clearing out things you don’t need and make room for new things. Sing at the top of your lungs. Dance like no one’s watching. Make a fashion show out of it. Make your house cozy and smell good. Let it become a place you enjoy being in.
Get out there and do the things you love to do! Fall in love with life!
Things we do everyday that are worth romanticizing:
Deep thinking about how our life can be completely different if we had enough courage to make different decisions.
Saving some random quotes that strangely define how you're feeling or simply describe the situation you're in.
Realizing that you can seriously relate to some strangers on the internet.
Having a special pyjama that you wear frequently because it simply makes you happy.
Eating that chocolate bar right after buying it because you can't wait to eat it until you're at the school break.
Starring at the window and daydreaming.
Feeling really moved or sad after watching a great show/Movie.
Once you put your headphones on goodbye world, you’re literally living in a musical.
Creating a vision board on Pinterest to push yourself into manifesting the life you dream of.
Listening to the same song hundreds of times and still not getting enough of it.
Saying you don’t dance while you always do it when you’re by yourself.
Laying on the floor and starring at the ceilings.
Having unusual moments of strong appreciation for yourself and realizing how unique you are.
Saving money for a special something you crave having.
Brushing your hair silently.
remember to take your meds and that you’re a beautiful salad bowl, just as Diane is
Apartment Checklist for Us Poor People
I recently reblogged this post and saw where someone asked for a poor people’s version, so here it is!
CLEANING
Dish soap
Laundry detergent
All-purpose cleaner
Hand soap you can use your dish soap
Broom
Mop
Wash cloths / rags
Vacuum not necessary if you don’t have carpet or you can just sweep the carpet
Dustpan
Lint roller have pets? Not really necessary if you don’t, if you’re in a crunch, use any tape
Sponges you can use your rags and a little elbow grease
KITCHENWARE
Plates
Bowls
Spoons
Forks
Knives
Glasses
Mugs you need two different types of drinking glasses? Nah.
Tongs you aren’t running a restaurant
Spatula
Plastic wrap never used this in my life
Ziplock baggies I’m sure you have tupperware
Garbage bags
Paper towel just use an actual rag
Tupperware
Ice tray
Oven mitts
Potato peeler never needed this, use a knife
Mixing bowls use a regular bowl
Frying pan
Pot
Baking sheet
Whisk use a spoon/fork
Stirring spoons / ladles again, use a spoon
Tea infuser ball what is this???
Measuring cups
Strainer
Cutting board
Coffee maker not necessary if you don’t drink coffee
Kettle I’m assuming this is for tea? You can use a regular pot to boil the bags in
Toaster put your toast on that baking sheet and stick it in the oven
Magnets
Dry erase markers
Sticky notes
Microwave
Wire sponge use your dish rags
Trash bin
Recycling bin
Rubber gloves
Silverware organizer
Measuring spoons
Aluminum foil
Wax paper you’ve got aluminum foil, it does the same thing
Can opener
Bottle opener not necessary if you don’t drink
Containers for salt, sugar, flour, etc. use the bags/containers they come in
LIVINGROOM
Sofa
Rocking chair (you know you want one)
Loveseat you really only need like one thing to sit on
Coasters
Blankets
Throw pillows
Coffee table
Book shelves only if you have a lot of books is this necessary
TV Netflix/hulu on phone, computer, etc.
TV stand
Floor lamp only need if you don’t have an overhead light
End table
Stereo system / radio none of this is super important and it can wait
BEDROOM
Mattress
Box spring
Bed frame I personally love the mattress on the floor look
Linens how are these different from sheets??
Sheets
Comforter
Hangers
Laundry hamper put your dirty clothes in the washer / only necessary if you do your laundry outside of your apartment
Trash bin just hang a Walmart bag on your doorknob
Curtains the windows should come with blinds
Pillows you only need enough for you and your partner if you have one
Pillow cases
Night table get like one or two of those $1 plastic locker crate things and stack them beside your bed and there ya go
Alarm clock Who doesn’t just use their phone?
Lamp only necessary if you don’t have on overhead light
Dresser only necessary if all of your clothes don’t fit in your closet / put undergarments in those same little locker crates
Coat rack
Desk / vanity
Comfy chairs
DININGROOM
Dining table just get those little tv dinner trays/tables from Walmart and eat on the couch
Minimum of 2 chairs
Coasters
Placemat
Tablecloth
Tea lights /candles and candle holders
BATHROOM
Face clothes
Soap bar
Body wash
Shampoo
Conditioner
Tissues use toilet paper
Toilet paper
Plunger
Toilet cleaner
Cold, flu, pain, and allergy meds
Hydrogen peroxide
Antibacterial ointment
First-Aid kit
Tweezers
Nail clippers
Band-aids
Shower rod
Shower curtain
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Floss
Period products
Bathmat step on a towel
Air freshener
Trash bin
Towel rod use the shower rod
Towels
MISCELLANEOUS
Elastic bands
Stapler
Stables
Paper clips
Needles and thread only necessary if you repair/customize your own clothes
AA / AAA batteries
Light bulbs
Extension cords
Scotch tape
Duct tape
Shovel
Rake (if you have a yard)
Stain remover
Jar of quarters for laundry mat
Screw drivers
Hammer
Nails
Sticky tack
Screws
Box cutter / X-acto
Pliers
Wrench
Pens
Paper
Pencils
Pencil sharpener
Eraser
Welcome matt
Shoe rack
Coat rack
Flashlight
Flashlight batteries
Watch batteries
Rechargeable batteries and charger
Safe place to discard dead batteries
Candles
Matches
Lighter
Mini travel fans
Real fans
Emergency Survival kit
Fire extinguisher
Landline phone
Window air conditioner
Carbon monoxide alarm should be provided by your landlord
Fire alarm ^^^
FOOD STUFF
Mustard
Ketchup
Mayo
Salt
Pepper
Baking soda
Flour
Eggs
Milk
Bread
Olive oil
Tea
Jam
Peanut-butter
Coffee grounds
Cereal
Rice
Pasta
Vegetable soup
Tomato sauce
Frozen vegetables
Crackers
Chickpeas / lentils
Apples
Oranges
Granola bars
Juice
Hot chocolate mix
Frozen meats
get what you’re going to eat/use
real examples of job interview questions from my boss:
three years ago, when I interviewed for my current job, questions came from a long list that my boss had written himself. I found that list recently and trimmed it down to what I believe are the hardest/trickiest questions to answer so that maybe you guys can think on them and be prepared for your next job interview! best of luck!!
please describe for me a typical day on your past/current job
why did you leave your last job?
how do your previous work experiences prepare you for this position?
give me an example from your current/past job that demonstrates your persistence.
how do you organize yourself for day-to-day activities?
when you are assigned to work with new people, how do you go about getting to know them and how they work?
what type of person is the hardest for you to get along with?
how do you handle conflicts, like with a co-worker or boss? how do you resolve them?
how would you define a conductive work atmosphere?
what do you want out of a job?
what makes a job enjoyable for you?
what is your greatest strength? worst deficiency?
how do you take direction?
what do you do when things are slow at work?
what do you do when you’re having trouble solving a problem?
what kinds of decisions do you find particularly hard to make?
why is it important to prioritize?
why do you think you’ll be successful in this job?
what are your goals - both short term and long term?
how do you cope with the inevitable stresses and pressures of the job?
what kinds of things would you want to avoid in future jobs?
what reservations do you have about working here?
what ways do you find work interferes with your personal life?
define cooperation.
how can we best reward you for doing a good job?
I’d always worried about being practically empty, about having no serious reason for living. And now, confronted with the facts, I was sure of my individual nullity. In that environment, too different from the one where my petty habits were at home, I seem to have disintegrated, I felt very close to nonexistence. I discovered that with no one to speak to me of familiar things, there was nothing to stop me from sinking into irresistible boredom, a terrifying, sickly sweet torpor. Nauseating.
Louis Ferdinand Céline, Journey to the End of the Night
(via talesofpassingtime)
The End of the F***ing World (2017– ) Season One, Episode One
Persona (1966) directed by Ingmar Bergman
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