STARZ

[etalaz]

Hiiii I’m Star! I’m also called Pom or Max.

I go by any pronouns!!

I’m an artist and animator! (My comms and art trades are open!)

I love ranting and stuff!!! If I sound a little rude or blunt I’m sorry! I’m autistic and don’t clock tone!

Slow replies usually, I don’t have notifications on and I don’t check tumblr everyday!

REF AND Comm sheet below!

Comms are only through PayPal and Etsy, sorry!

I have a very inconsistent art style! Sorry if it doesn’t come out the way you want when interacting with me.

[angels1ut]

“i wasn’t sure if you were into that”

actually i have a YOU kink so im into whatever you want me to be into

[mackonfire]

Stop saying “I’m diagnosed,” start saying “it’s canon”

[ithinkimagirlkisser]

another daily reminder that you deserve to feel safe and happy. you are important and don’t deserve to feel otherwise. if you or someone you know is in a domestic abuse situation, please reach out

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DOMESTIC ABUSE/ANY ABUSE

SEXUAL ABUSE/ASSAULT

i know how it feels to suffer alone, and i never want any of you to suffer alone. my dm's are always open

although i'm not very active as far as posting, I will ALWAYS respond to messages (I'm trying to be more active)

but please reach out to someone or your local emergency service if you are in an abusive relationship, at risk and/or unsafe

you deserve to live a life happy and safe

mental health hotlines post

lmk if you’d like me to post a better post on how to get help/find hotlines

love, stevesdoe

(tumblr please don’t take this down)

[zeep-leap]

Can we normalize informing the reader what gender the character/you fic is implied for. One second I think I’m a girl the next I have a Willy and I’m getting Jacked off 🫩

[swamp-gremlin]

mary, mary, quite contrary

[swamp-gremlin]

overlay alt thats lowkey scarier

[epicsause-official]

just got an idea for a banger couples shirts design

[etalaz]

Yayayaya

[sentient-noodle]

ofcourse isff is back on her "but think of the poor rapist" bullshit.

[vampiricvenus]

This is literally just Christian ethics with animal ears...

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

When everyone sides with “forgiving” and “accepting” abusers over victims, this just results in the victims getting de facto ostracized as they attempt to move on with their lives and not interact with their abuser any more yet they then find that there are no spaces that will not welcome their abuser with open arms. Plus the abuser, when not identified as such, when given no reason to change their behavior, has no reason not to reoffend.

“None of my sisters are disposable!” Except for victims of abuse, according to this logic.

I also find it interesting on a rhetorical level that if someone puts up boundaries that exclude rapists, that makes them a “monster,” but a rapist categorically doesn’t get called a monster but a “sister” that must be protected. What the hell kind of standards are those?

I’ve seen this type of social dynamic happen before, both among trans people and among cis people. It’s horrible.

This is an aspect of rape culture.

[neovagina-penisis-evangelion]

If we take her argument to its logical conclusion, it removes all standards of conduct. It tells victims "Your safety is less important than this your abuser's comfort and social standing." That is being an enabler.

Should we have standards, especially when the legal system often fails?

Absolutely, yes. In fact, because the legal system so rarely delivers justice for sexual abuse, community-based accountability is often the only tool vulnerable people have. To reject that tool outright is to leave victims entirely defenseless.

She conflates all consequences with "exile", losing a job or having your social circle shrink are not automatically "cages." They are consequences. The severity of the consequence should ideally match the severity of the harm. She's treating a request for accountability as though it is the same as a prison sentence, which erases the nuance between a minor interpersonal conflict and a pattern of predatory abuse.

If she actually wanted restorative justice, she would be demanding that the accused take accountability, apologize, get professional help, make amends, and demonstrate changed behavior over time. Instead, Misstrogen simply demands that the community stop talking about it and accept the person back immediately. That is silencing the victims to make the community feel less "messy."

If someone has caused harm and refuses to acknowledge it, refuses to change, the community has a moral obligation to create distance.

The legal system's failure makes community standards more important, not less. Misstrogen’s rhetoric is dangerous because it strips the community of the ability to enforce those standards. She calls the accusers "monsters," but the real monster in her framework is any form of boundary-setting. Without boundaries, a community is just a hunting ground for those who refuse to change.

[mazu-sketch]

TYSM FOR DOING A SILLY ART TRADE WITH ME!! Forgive me for the late post!! ヽ(；▽；)ノ

@etalaz @washiink @fish-cities

[etalaz]

YOU WERE A JOY TO WORK WITH!!!! GENUINELY THANK YOU SO MUCH

[laserwalnut]

Fower 💐

[laserwalnut]

Yo why are my cats blue?

[creature-feature0662]

needed to name the maceration bucket

[yarrowboundhound]

vulture culture is handling corpses before dinner and eating despite still smelling the rot

[sick-little-brain]

i had my cat skull sitting in water for a while and i just realized that i didnt think about there maybe being brains left in there,, i ran water through the cavity back there and SO MUCH rotted brain shit came out 😭 no wonder my water wasnt staying clear before . there was a ton of shit hiding from me .

[etalaz]

Dude I have a cat I buried in my yard, I waited a few months and tried to dig it back up- found a few bones before the SMELL hit me. Guess that’s one way to realize I dug it up too early 😭

[strangebiology]

Skull of a two-faced bottlenose dolphin prepared by Enault & Auclair-Kraniata osteology.

Edit: owned by a museum in France.

[anthonyhurd]

Now We Ride! - new original available in my shop. It will also be my gay rodeo release in August. I’ll have a booth at the Santa Fe Gay Rodeo