Ethan

[ethanofthesea]

- 💙 About

`°~You can just call us Ethan

Any Prns • System • Queer

Sharing yumeshipper (love meeting others with the same f/o)

New to this side of tumblr, have been selfshipping for a long time though!!

We got many f/os ranging from more common to rare(?)

[ethanofthesea]

Feeling pretty warm rn and I'm just thinking about relaxing with two of my f/os, not able to cuddle because it's too warm, so we're stuck just being next to each other without touching (maybe holding their fingers with my own, like a pinky promise)

Them both complaining as I nod along, listening to my boys just talk

[theyumeplanet]

imagine f/o not being able to focus because they just can't stop thinking about you!!

[aru-jeanne]

Imperfect selfship affirmations

PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.

“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.

“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.

“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.

“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]

Happy selfshippjng guys and remember your F/O loves you!

[multiversal-selfshipper]

Sleepy F/O asking you in a tired voice to come to bed.

Sleepy F/O holding onto you like a teddy bear.

Sleepy F/O’s breaths growing more and more relaxed as they finally drift off with their face in the crook of your neck.

Good night, F/O. Sweet dreams.

[soft-and-silly-imagines]

If you're frowning, imagine your f/o cupping your face and kissing the corners of your mouth until you smile happily.

[ibuprofette]

Imagine your f/o trying their hardest to get a plushie in a claw machine Just because you mentioned that you found it cute(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶) ‹𝟹

[minty-coffeee]

Reminder that your f/o would never purposely hurt you. They’ll make mistakes, everybody does, but unlike most people they’ll try their best to make it up to you no matter what!! They’ll make sure to never repeat their mistake again and help you no matter what you have going on

proship and variants please dni and don’t steal my posts. I’m not comfortable with your content and would prefer if you blocked me, tysm ^.^

[iqccnt]

[spaceymindsz]

F/o making sure you dont skip any meals!

Maybe they come and check on you if you have been stuck behind the computer all day or have been working? Or maybe you are out and about and in that case they packed you some snacks for the journey! Either way f/o just really wants you to be the best version of yourself and you cant be that without some proper meals!

[murdocs-sunshine666]

Selfshippers with periods

💿 If you struggle with cramps, your F/O will get you what you need. Chocolate, heating pad, anything to help. Even if it's hard to find, they'll do what they can.

💿 If you struggle with cravings, your F/O will tend to those. They'll get you the snacks you need or want, no matter how simple or complex. No matter how strange or random. They're happy to help.

💿 If you get emotional, that's okay, too. Even if your F/O doesn't fully understand or struggles a bit to accommodate, they'll try their best. For you.

💿 Your F/O doesn't find it gross. They aren't disgusted by you for it. If you get blood on your sheets or pants, they won't be grossed out. They'll help you change and clean up. They know it's perfectly natural.

💿 If all you need is a cuddle, and some assurance, they'll give you that too. Whatever you need, they'll do their best for you.

THIS GOES FOR ANYONE WHO HAS PERIODS. REGARDLESS OF GENDER IDENTITY.

Do NOT make this post NSFW.

[cubie-from-mccubies]

imagine ur trying 2 sleep but then your f/o lays on top of you like a cat. it's really cute and all but you can barely breathe for shit so you have 2 shoo them off,,

pro/dark shippers DNI!!

[morguehotline]

imagine…

- your f/o absentmindedly reaching for you in their sleep.

- your f/o saving a seat beside them before you even arrive.

- your f/o giving you a big hug after a long day.

- your f/o smiling everytime they hear someone mention you.

- introducing your f/o to ur favourite books, movies, shows, anything.

[dreamlitkiss]

hey don't cry!! Skin-to-skin cuddles with your f/o, okay??

[nanamisbakery]

In an alternate universe your f/o makes moodboards of their selfship with you

[kusareguro]

Your f/o will NEVER abandon you

[ethanofthesea]

F/O who speaks another language. Them just talking to someone else as you listen (or to you, even if you don't understand it). They don't need you to understand the words, they just want to talk and you're there to nod along to what they say.

Or maybe you do know, responding to them in their language. They enjoy being able to share their first language with you, just talking to eachother in it brings them joy.