Being Married to Andy Barber
You both didn't want an elaborate wedding, so you guys have a backyard ceremony at your new house.
It was simple.
The reception was held in your backyard.
You're NOT a bridezilla, and didn't want a big to-do of a wedding.
Your honeymoon is low key, and you're also expecting a baby.
Andy is always getting you flowers.
You two often dance in the kitchen, the living room, the bedroom, even in his office.
He loves taking care of you.
You both love to cook at the end of the day, as you both find it relaxing, and as a way to spend time together.
When Joy is born, you're a stay at home mom.
You and Andy both love it.
Andy and you don't do grand romantic gestures, instead, you two always find romance in making new memories.
Andy and you saw the purchasing of a new house as a grand romantic gesture, and he didn't carry you across the threshold, as you felt it was archaic.
Andy felt the same way.
Instead, you both unpacked boxes upon boxes upon boxes to set up the new house, and found romance in that memory.
On your first wedding anniversary, Andy has set up a scavenger hunt that begins with Joy.
You find a sticky note in her tummy.
Each clue leads you to the place where you had your first date.
The first set of clues lead to you to the coffee house where you met, and Andy is there, with your favorite breakfast sandwich and breakfast pastry waiting.
You and Andy love cuddling in bed.
You and Andy love to cuddle and watch a movie during lazy weekends.
Popcorn? Check.
Andy loves watching you knit while he reads when you're both in the sunroom.
You often have a podcast on while you knit, and it's often a true crime, knitting, crocheting or political podcast.
Andy often calls you when he has a break, just to see how your day's going.
Joy smiles when she hears Andy because she's a daddy's girl!
She LOVES hearing Andy's voice.
Marriage with Andy is effortless, and is easy.
When the girls are older and have moved out, and Andy is retired, you and Andy often take trips together.
You and Andy are each other's person.
