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bro i kno someone who used ta hav a crush on u but u had a bf at the time
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almost forgot I still had this thing
ya fiction gets a bad rap for repetitive themes and plot points but like have you ever read adult contemporary . it’s just divorce divorce drug addiction divorce . overly descriptive depressing sex wherein both the characters hate each other and themselves. at least percy jackson had fun
“Although men are more likely than women to be murdered, women are more likely than men to be murdered by a member of the other sex and by a spouse. MacKinnon (1987) reports that “four out of five murdered women are killed by men; between one third and one half [of murdered women] are married to their murderers. When you add in boyfriends and former spouses, the figures rise.” Dobash and Dobash (1977/78) reported finding that more than 40 percent of women who are murdered are murdered by their husbands. By comparison, only 10 percent of male murder victims are killed by their wives. Walter Gove (1973) found that “for women the shift from being single to being married increases the likelihood of being murdered, while for men the shift decreases their chances.” Gove obtained similar findings for single as compared to married women as regards “accidental deaths.” It is, of course, likely that many accidental deaths were in fact murders. Such statistics served as the impetus for Blinder’s (1985) remark, “In America, the bedroom is second only to the highway as the scene of slaughter.”
— Loving to Survive by Dee L.R. Graham (via puttingherinhistory)
I’m gonna go ahead and say this applies to hands half the time. Sure in tight spaces my hand has accidentally bumped into some not so great places on another person, but I think half the time men are more aware of where their hand “accidentally” bumps into / grabs / rests than they innocently claim. My childhood sexual abuser regularly used the excuse “I didn’t know where my hand was, it was an accident, quit overreacting”
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“Amy Poehler was new to SNL and we were all crowded into the seventeenth-floor writers’ room, waiting for the Wednesday night read-through to start. […] Amy was in the middle of some such nonsense with Seth Meyers across the table, and she did something vulgar as a joke. I can’t remember what it was exactly, except it was dirty and oud and “unladylike”, Jimmy Fallon […] turned to her and in a faux-squeamish voice said, “Stop that! It’s not cute! I don’t like it.” Amy dropped what she was doing, went black in the eyes for a second, and wheeled around on him. “I don’t fucking care if you like it.” Jimmy was visibly startled. Amy went right back to enjoying her ridiculous bit. With that exchange, a cosmic shift took place. Amy made it clear that she wasn’t there to be cute. She wasn’t there to play wives and girlfriends in the boys’ scenes. She was there to do what she wanted to do and she did not fucking care if you like it.”
- Tina Fey, Bossypants
This one never gets old.
Society tries to police how Women behave and present ourselves by mocking us, belittling us, shaming us, or asking us what people will think of us.
“What will your boyfriend/future husband/potential friends/employer/mother/grandmother/father/grandfather think?”
A very powerful way to reject this policing of us is to say we don’t care what people think, especially since that is often the way we are policed.
-FemaleWarrior, She/They
what are some of the things you regret?
getting a tattoo that says no ragrets
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Nerdy Fact #1501: The producers of Star Trek included scenes of overt sexuality to deflect the focus of NBC’s Broadcast Standards Office censors from other controversial aspects in certain episodes, like blatant allegories of the Vietnam war and racism.
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a little tasteful sideboob and no one will notice we’re telling the government to go fuck itself
Nichelle Nichols flashing some thigh to distract the censors from the five minute pro-choice monologue. 👌
Okay so, I fucking love Star Trek, I’m watching through the original series rn cuz it’s awesome and was ahead of it’s time for the 60’s, but I always kinda just roll my eyes at all the male gaze-y stuff because hey it was the 60’s and Star Trek has progressed since then and their most recent series, Discovery, has almost no male gaze-y shit and it’s so awesome and all the female characters wear awesome practical uniforms that are just as practical and unsexual as the male uniforms, unlike in the original series, pictured and discussed above, where all the female characters wear little mini dresses with their asses just about hanging out and pantyhose, while the male characters wear practical and unsexual uniforms. And that’s exactly what it was, male gaze-y shit, and I’m honestly disturbed that thousands of people in the notes are hailing objectifying women and exploiting their bodies to be able to get a message across for the male writers. There’s literally hundreds of other ways they could have distracted the Network besides objectifying and exploiting the show’s actresses, but that’s what they went with and look there’s thousands of people on Tumblr hailing and praising that choice as so progressive and positive, that was made by the *male* writers and producers, not the actresses. They could have used vulgar language, they could have had the male uniforms be speedo bottoms with their asses hanging out and visible dick outlines, but they went with sexually objectifying women.
And really, there was so much misogyny against the women in the show behind the scenes, do you think those male writers/producers/executives really gave a fuck about the women on the show who they were exploiting just to be able to say what they want? Take the accounts of Grace Lee Whitney, who played Kirk’s Yeoman but only for the first few episodes. She was sexually assaulted by one of the executives while she was on the show, developed disordered eating and took diet pills and amphetamines out of pressure from the executives to stay skinny and sexy for her roll (according to her autobiography The Longest Trek: My Tour of the Galaxy) and the reason she was kicked off the show was a combination of because having two women on the show with with the same hair color was too much (never mind the cast having like a dozen dudes all with brunette hair) and also wanting Kirk to be a playboy with a new love interest every episode. But yes please let’s talk about how great and progressive it was that they objectified and exploited the actresses on the show for their own gains.
I mean can we talk about how fucked up it is that everyone in the notes is quick to throw women under the bus by praising sexually objectifying women and exploiting women’s bodies so long as it’s “for a good cause?” The misogyny is real. I see so much of this in “progressive” spaces, throwing women under the bus and being cool with misogyny so long as it can help progress other causes.
Don’t get me wrong, I won’t hold problematic things about the show from the 60’s against the show because again, their modern uniforms are practical and unisex and not male gaze-y, and the show in the 60’s regardless of problematic aspects was still way ahead of it’s time. But let’s praise the original series for the parts of it that really were progressive.
Still, this is my biggest problem with mainstream Tumblr feminism is how it loves to hail and praise sexually objectifying women as progressive and positive. There’s a reason the 60’s original series sexually objectified women but the modern series coming out right now, Discovery, doesn’t, and that’s because sexually objectifying women actually isn’t progressive. The current series, discovery, even manages to portray women with *real* sexual agency who actively express desire and want instead of just being an object to be desired and wanted and manages to do it without objectifying them.
Reblogging for “I see so much of this in “progressive” spaces, throwing women under the bus and being cool with misogyny so long as it can help progress other causes” cus that’s some true shit.
I see a lot of notes talking about how “revolutionary” and “liberating” it was for all the women to be in very revealing outfits while the men got to wear comfortable practical outfits they could move and fight in. If this is has anything to do with liberating women then why were the men and women’s outfits still so drastically different? Why couldn’t the men’s and women’s outfits in this show be equally revealing or equally practical? Why wasn’t Spock in a mankini or Kirk in booty shorts? Wouldn’t that have been revolutionary and pushing boundaries back then too? Why was there so much more of a push to “liberate” women’s bodies and show off women’s bodies in media than men’s? Why the disparity?
Especially when maybe mini skirts in the 60′s weren’t as taboo as we thought considering airline companies were forcing female flight attendants to wear mini skirts and booty shorts to cater to male air passengers even back then
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IT’S BECAUSE OSHA REGULATIONS! A SINGLE PERSON IS NOT ALLOWED TO LIFT MORE THAN FIFTY POUNDS! BAGGAGE HANDLERS ARE PEOPLE! YOU PAY MORE FOR HEAVY BAGS BECAUSE THE HANDLERS ARE SUPPOSED TO USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM TO LIFT THOSE! IF THE TOTAL WEIGHT MATTERED SO MUCH, PASSENGERS WOULD GET WEIGHED, BUT WE DONT QUESTION THAT NOW DO WE?
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