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bro i kno someone who used ta hav a crush on u but u had a bf at the time
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ya fiction gets a bad rap for repetitive themes and plot points but like have you ever read adult contemporary . itâs just divorce divorce drug addiction divorce . overly descriptive depressing sex wherein both the characters hate each other and themselves. at least percy jackson had fun
âAlthough men are more likely than women to be murdered, women are more likely than men to be murdered by a member of the other sex and by a spouse. MacKinnon (1987) reports that âfour out of five murdered women are killed by men; between one third and one half [of murdered women] are married to their murderers. When you add in boyfriends and former spouses, the figures rise.â Dobash and Dobash (1977/78) reported finding that more than 40 percent of women who are murdered are murdered by their husbands. By comparison, only 10 percent of male murder victims are killed by their wives. Walter Gove (1973) found that âfor women the shift from being single to being married increases the likelihood of being murdered, while for men the shift decreases their chances.â Gove obtained similar findings for single as compared to married women as regards âaccidental deaths.â It is, of course, likely that many accidental deaths were in fact murders. Such statistics served as the impetus for Blinderâs (1985) remark, âIn America, the bedroom is second only to the highway as the scene of slaughter.â
â Loving to Survive by Dee L.R. Graham (via puttingherinhistory)
Iâm gonna go ahead and say this applies to hands half the time. Sure in tight spaces my hand has accidentally bumped into some not so great places on another person, but I think half the time men are more aware of where their hand âaccidentallyâ bumps into / grabs / rests than they innocently claim. My childhood sexual abuser regularly used the excuse âI didnât know where my hand was, it was an accident, quit overreactingâ
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âAmy Poehler was new to SNL and we were all crowded into the seventeenth-floor writersâ room, waiting for the Wednesday night read-through to start. [âŚ] Amy was in the middle of some such nonsense with Seth Meyers across the table, and she did something vulgar as a joke. I canât remember what it was exactly, except it was dirty and oud and âunladylikeâ, Jimmy Fallon [âŚ] turned to her and in a faux-squeamish voice said, âStop that! Itâs not cute! I donât like it.â Amy dropped what she was doing, went black in the eyes for a second, and wheeled around on him. âI donât fucking care if you like it.â Jimmy was visibly startled. Amy went right back to enjoying her ridiculous bit. With that exchange, a cosmic shift took place. Amy made it clear that she wasnât there to be cute. She wasnât there to play wives and girlfriends in the boysâ scenes. She was there to do what she wanted to do and she did not fucking care if you like it.â
- Tina Fey, Bossypants
This one never gets old.
Society tries to police how Women behave and present ourselves by mocking us, belittling us, shaming us, or asking us what people will think of us.Â
âWhat will your boyfriend/future husband/potential friends/employer/mother/grandmother/father/grandfather think?â
A very powerful way to reject this policing of us is to say we donât care what people think, especially since that is often the way we are policed.Â
-FemaleWarrior, She/TheyÂ
what are some of the things you regret?
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Nerdy Fact #1501: The producers of Star Trek included scenes of overt sexuality to deflect the focus of NBCâs Broadcast Standards Office censors from other controversial aspects in certain episodes, like blatant allegories of the Vietnam war and racism.
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a little tasteful sideboob and no one will notice weâre telling the government to go fuck itself
Nichelle Nichols flashing some thigh to distract the censors from the five minute pro-choice monologue. đ
Okay so, I fucking love Star Trek, Iâm watching through the original series rn cuz itâs awesome and was ahead of itâs time for the 60âs, but I always kinda just roll my eyes at all the male gaze-y stuff because hey it was the 60âs and Star Trek has progressed since then and their most recent series, Discovery, has almost no male gaze-y shit and itâs so awesome and all the female characters wear awesome practical uniforms that are just as practical and unsexual as the male uniforms, unlike in the original series, pictured and discussed above, where all the female characters wear little mini dresses with their asses just about hanging out and pantyhose, while the male characters wear practical and unsexual uniforms. And thatâs exactly what it was, male gaze-y shit, and Iâm honestly disturbed that thousands of people in the notes are hailing objectifying women and exploiting their bodies to be able to get a message across for the male writers. Thereâs literally hundreds of other ways they could have distracted the Network besides objectifying and exploiting the showâs actresses, but thatâs what they went with and look thereâs thousands of people on Tumblr hailing and praising that choice as so progressive and positive, that was made by the *male* writers and producers, not the actresses. They could have used vulgar language, they could have had the male uniforms be speedo bottoms with their asses hanging out and visible dick outlines, but they went with sexually objectifying women.
And really, there was so much misogyny against the women in the show behind the scenes, do you think those male writers/producers/executives really gave a fuck about the women on the show who they were exploiting just to be able to say what they want? Take the accounts of Grace Lee Whitney, who played Kirkâs Yeoman but only for the first few episodes. She was sexually assaulted by one of the executives while she was on the show, developed disordered eating and took diet pills and amphetamines out of pressure from the executives to stay skinny and sexy for her roll (according to her autobiography The Longest Trek: My Tour of the Galaxy) and the reason she was kicked off the show was a combination of because having two women on the show with with the same hair color was too much (never mind the cast having like a dozen dudes all with brunette hair) and also wanting Kirk to be a playboy with a new love interest every episode. But yes please letâs talk about how great and progressive it was that they objectified and exploited the actresses on the show for their own gains.
I mean can we talk about how fucked up it is that everyone in the notes is quick to throw women under the bus by praising sexually objectifying women and exploiting womenâs bodies so long as itâs âfor a good cause?â The misogyny is real. I see so much of this in âprogressiveâ spaces, throwing women under the bus and being cool with misogyny so long as it can help progress other causes.
Donât get me wrong, I wonât hold problematic things about the show from the 60âs against the show because again, their modern uniforms are practical and unisex and not male gaze-y, and the show in the 60âs regardless of problematic aspects was still way ahead of itâs time. But letâs praise the original series for the parts of it that really were progressive.
Still, this is my biggest problem with mainstream Tumblr feminism is how it loves to hail and praise sexually objectifying women as progressive and positive. Thereâs a reason the 60âs original series sexually objectified women but the modern series coming out right now, Discovery, doesnât, and thatâs because sexually objectifying women actually isnât progressive. The current series, discovery, even manages to portray women with *real* sexual agency who actively express desire and want instead of just being an object to be desired and wanted and manages to do it without objectifying them.
Reblogging for âI see so much of this in âprogressiveâ spaces, throwing women under the bus and being cool with misogyny so long as it can help progress other causesâ cus thatâs some true shit.
I see a lot of notes talking about how ârevolutionaryâ and âliberatingâ it was for all the women to be in very revealing outfits while the men got to wear comfortable practical outfits they could move and fight in. If this is has anything to do with liberating women then why were the men and womenâs outfits still so drastically different? Why couldnât the menâs and womenâs outfits in this show be equally revealing or equally practical? Why wasnât Spock in a mankini or Kirk in booty shorts? Wouldnât that have been revolutionary and pushing boundaries back then too? Why was there so much more of a push to âliberateâ womenâs bodies and show off womenâs bodies in media than menâs? Why the disparity?
Especially when maybe mini skirts in the 60â˛s werenât as taboo as we thought considering airline companies were forcing female flight attendants to wear mini skirts and booty shorts to cater to male air passengers even back then
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ITâS BECAUSE OSHA REGULATIONS! A SINGLE PERSON IS NOT ALLOWED TO LIFT MORE THAN FIFTY POUNDS! BAGGAGE HANDLERS ARE PEOPLE! YOU PAY MORE FOR HEAVY BAGS BECAUSE THE HANDLERS ARE SUPPOSED TO USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM TO LIFT THOSE! IF THE TOTAL WEIGHT MATTERED SO MUCH, PASSENGERS WOULD GET WEIGHED, BUT WE DONT QUESTION THAT NOW DO WE?
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