can't decide, whatever

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[theladystrikesagain]

Enjoy your meal~

[chthonicillness]

lesbian & bi girl style is like:

denim on denim

tank top. shorts. sandals. done.

the most wildly extravagant shit u can think of, but dug out of a bargain bin

intentionally clashing patterns

goth but sort of lazy about it

barbecue dad but make it slutty

[pockicchi-backup]

happy pride month from my fave bi queens !!! 💖💜💙

[theladystrikesagain]

Enjoy your meal~

[justanotherass]

both? both. both is good.

happy pride month!

[kanzakis]

Aqours Sky-High! phone wallpapers

[astrolavas]

Happy 4th anniversary to these sapphic icons!!

[mohkja-blog]

They’re enjoying the spring weather 🌸🌿

[nymre]

Old patreon exclusive sketch of a korrasami/spirited away crossover 👌👌Do you remember this scene? 😌

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[sajwho-art]

Jake might not (yet) be bi in the canon but he sure is bi in my heart.

Also I would absolutely die for Jake & Rosa’s bromance okay

[spacejunkery]

This turned into a rlly self indulgent hair thing

[iwatobies]

For Valentine's Day I keep thinking of Rei and Nagisa - I think one of my favorite moments is when Rei ran all the way over to Haru's house in the middle of the night when he heard Nagisa was missing. Like wow, what a champ?? what a teen heart throb? ran out in the night because he was THAT worried for Nagisa.

omg and how he was panting and desperate and makoto and haru had to literally calm him down and assure him nagisa was safe HELLO 

(also, like…rei needed so desperately to be able to HELP nagisa, to FIX the problem, and then in the end it is HIS words that get through to nagisa–because he could never allow him to leave after all–and he spends the rest of the school year making sure nagisa passes his classes like rei is so devoted to making sure nagisa is happy…and vice versa because look at how important nagisa is to rei, how much he changed his life for the better…get yourself a love like that…)

[spelledslots]

I want to pick out an outfit for my boyfriend and he can do the same for me and we can wear each other’s clothes and wouldn’t that just be so cute?

[rennerei]

the new guy

( sorry I’ve let my tumblr die once again ‘’:’ ) I’m sporadically posting doodlins on my twitter though, see u there if u like <3 )

[rennerei]

oc doodle pile ✧*:･ﾟ✧  

[memes-to-show-my-therapist]

[northw0man-deactivated20201019]

Here’s a cool trick to see if a man actually respects you: try disagreeing with him

[the-rain-monster]

A friend of mine did something with online dating where, before meeting a person, she’d say no to something minor without a reason for the no. For example: “No, I don’t want to meet at a coffee shop, how about X?”, or “No, not Wednesday”, or “No, I don’t want to recognize each other by both wearing green shirts”. She said how the potential dates reacted was a huge indicator of whether she actually wanted to meet them, something I readily believe.

I’ve mentioned this to a few people and sometimes I get very annoyed and incredulous responses from guys about how are they supposed to know that it’s a test if the girl is being unreasonable? How are they supposed to know that and let her have her way? I find it difficult to explain that if you find it unreasonable for someone to have a preference of no consequence which they don’t feel the need to explain, then you are the one being unreasonable. You can decide for yourself that it sounds flaky and you don’t want to date her, but you don’t have a right to know and approve all of her reasons for things in order to deign to respect that she said no about it. Especially in the case of someone you haven’t even fucking met yet.

[the-real-seebs]

The point isn’t to know it’s a test, the point is that if you would only say “yes” if you knew it was a test, then what if it’s not a test, but because she hates coffee shops, or because she’s attending a funeral Wednesday and doesn’t know you well enough to want to share that, or whatever else? Because if you’re making rules for when other people can have preferences and not explain why… yeah, that is a thing they can reasonably want to avoid.

[jumpingjacktrash]

a while back i mentioned this very method as a way of testing a new friendship, and got some pushback from all genders. toxic people exist in every category, and their response to an unexplained refusal will out them every time.

i mean, i’m sure some of those objecting were simply idealists who found the notion of testing a new friend unpleasant. but mostly it was the “but what if it’s unreasonable” objection. my dudes, that is the damn point.