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awhina, twenty three one direction is the bane of my existence H&L are in love, fight me if you disagree

[iconichalo]

But BTS aren’t doing better than one direction are? Have you seen Harry’s achievements recently? He’s doing so much better than them

for the record i never said harry or the boys arent doing well in the music industry and me stating that bts were doing better was not diminishing their accomplishments in any way i was simply stating facts

but since you asked!!!!

their recent single dynamite:

- the fastest song in itunes history to reach 100 #1s, and with this bts became the first and only act to reach 100 #1s on itunes in three different languages

- the fastest mv in history to reach 100 million views and also the most viewed mv in 24hrs with 101.1 million views

- the song achieved 7,778,950 streams within a day, and beat t*ylor sw*ft’s previous record of 7.742 million streams with cardigan. bts now holds the title for the biggest spotify debut of 2020.

- and much, much, much more

other:

- their recent online concert map of the soul on:e garnered more than 110 MILLION fan engagements and nearly 1 million total paying viewers

- before dynamite was even released, bts became the artist with the most itunes #1s in history after their song black swan beat adele’s record of 102 itunes #1s. bts’s songs moon, my time, and your eyes tell also achieved over 100 #1s on itunes.

in relation to harry:

- bts have the most twitter engagements ever with an average of 330,624 retweets, replies, likes or other interactions - this record was previously held by Harry with 147,653 engagements per tweet

- bts’ tiny desk performance currently sits at 18 million views, while harry’s sits at 6.9 million

- first korean act to present at the grammys (in 2019) and then perform at the grammys (2020)

- dynamite had more debut day global spotify streams than lights up and adore you combined

i acknowledge harrys success and his stats in terms of charting on bb100 and spotify stats etc. because they are INCREDIBLE and im so proud of him for that. however, in mentioning this we have to acknowledge that it is directly related to his popularity with the gp, a falling point for bts as they are shut down and blocked at every opportunity by the gp and western media in ways that harry is not, being that kpop has a lot of stigma and people refuse to accept bts based on the fact that they are korean and sing in korean. harry will always automatically have a leg up on them in this sense. also spotify isnt in korea yet.

[iconichalo]

half the reason a lot of 1d stans dont want to get into bts/kpop is bc of bitterness and jealousy about bts’ success and refusal to acknowledge that 1d aren’t coming back but yall didnt hear that from me❤️

[cozybug-deactivated20231208]

i hope the year ahead brings you warmth, light, love. i hope you get to smile often, i hope you grow to feel better about your beautiful self, even if a little. i hope you meet new friends, i hope you love your old friends. i hope you are happier, you deserve to be.

[cottageilya]

The Highs Too High The Lows Too Low When You Love Someone And They Let You Go

[sandandglass]

Professor Stephen Hawking believes Zayn might still be in One Direction - in a different universe

[kindofsharethat]

spot the difference

[rosegoldhlfics]

I am sending a hug to anyone who needs it. Even if you feel lonely, you’re not alone.

[helainetieu]

How do you fall in love with yourself?

The same way you fall in love with someone else. Acknowledge the bad, embrace the good, and grow.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Help for for Coping with Panic

1. Remember, feelings of panic are just exaggerations of normal bodily stress reactions.

2. Sensations are neither harmful nor dangerous - just unpleasant. Nothing worse will happen.

3. Stop adding to the panic with frightening thoughts of where panic will lead.

4. Stay in the present. Be aware of what is happening to you rather than concern yourself with how much worse it might get.

5. Wait and give the fear time to pass.

6. Notice that when you stop adding to panic with frightening thoughts, the fear begins to fade.

7. Focus on coping with facing the fear rather than trying to avoid it or escape from it.

8. Look around you. Plan what you will do next as the panic subsides.

9. Think about the progress made so far, despite all the difficulties.

10. When you are ready to go on, do so in an easy, relaxed manner. There is no hurry.

Each time you cope with panic, you reduce your fear.

Source: http://www.panicsupport4u.com/coping.htm

[everythinisfookingreat]

it’s been a week since the horrid attack on a christchurch mosque here in new zealand. please keep the families and friends of the 50 victims along with all muslims in new zealand in your thoughts. new zealand stands as one and i hope you’ll all send support and love from afar

[maleksrami]

louis tomlinson: a flamboyant flower

[beccasafan]

Visit Original Link

Haven’t had much time lately to play the piano, but learning something new… 👀

[skzhhssh-deactivated20190330]

the fact that only children exist is so insane to me like. what did you guys do with your lives. who did you fight when you were bored.

[bisexualamy]

Antoni is the best at thirst trapping, like DL thirst trapping. He acts like that’s not what he’s doing and he’s just trying to engage with his audience. Antoni, I know you better than anyone. I know you’re thirst trapping. Do you wonder why you got an extra 100k followers than me in a week? That’s why, baby.

[ownheartbeating-deactivated2024]

Tell me what “big _______ energy” I have

[louistomlinsonsgifs]

History (insp.)

[byrneing]

today my therapist told me that sometimes negative feelings like guilt, anxiety, self loathing, etc are like the hiccups. they’re uncomfortable, we don’t like them, there’s no way to turn them off; they can even be incapacitating for a while. we don’t always know where they came from or when they’ll go away, so sometimes instead of focusing on why we feel a certain way we need to get better at recognizing its temporary nature, keeping perspective, and enduring discomfort. i feel like a lot of self-improvement rhetoric is about pinpointing specific causes for negative thoughts/behaviors so you can eradicate them, but people with chronic mental illness really need to work on allowing themselves to experience these feelings without going into a downward spiral.