Evil Mistress

Last orgasm was 5-31-18 NOW PERMANENTLY "DENIED" although I prefer to think of it as permanently indulging. The avi photo is of me. The header is not. I'm submissive and according to my evil man, selfless. If you're not 18+ GET THE FUCK OFF MY PAGE!  

[twijbryantbooks]

Surprise! Here’s the cover reveal for our upcoming book, Devoted.

Pre-orders are live now on Amazon! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07N2BTXYC

“Imagine having to live with knowing that you weren’t man enough to just tell the woman that you love that we will figure it out together.”

Sebastian’s warning to his brother proves to be too little too late. Sebastian and Vanessa’s past collides with Vanessa and Jessie’s future, turning all of their lives upside down. In the wake of his best friend and would be love falling head over heels for his brother, Sebastian does everything he can to be the man Vanessa always told him he could be. For Vanessa though, things couldn’t be more clear. She knows who she loves, she knows what she wants, and she is willing to give up everything to avoid repeating past mistakes.

#devotedbook #coverreveal #bookcover #bookish #bookstagram #bookrecommendation #bookstoread #indieauthor #bookclub #booksofig https://www.instagram.com/p/BvxNn7agfSR/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=grbfucutcpbu

[evildeniedmistress]

Here we go!!! DEVOTED is finally coming your way. Find out what happens with Jessie, Nessa and Sebastian.

[ruinedchildhood]

[instructor144]

Fuckin Straya smh 😂😂😂😂

[lissyfromoz]

@evildeniedmistress this is why I’ve banned you from kangaroo cuddling!

[evildeniedmistress]

@lilsontheedge he obviously just wanted a hug. Did you see those open arms?

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

“There really is nothing like denial for keeping a sub in a good mindset”

— @kymed 

[twijbryantbooks]

Today I met my favorite author! I was so blown away by his niceness & his interest in my writing & book that I forgot everything I wanted to say to him. If you haven’t read #JaneTwo by @spflanery you should! #obsessedbook #fellowauthors #linkinbio #jbryanttweets https://www.instagram.com/p/BvISeFLATQ_/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=eicf3008iac0

[ghostlywriterr]

[evildeniedmistress]

❤️

[evildeniedmistress]

OBSESSED RELEASE DAY!!!!!

LIMITS. One of my favorite exchanges between Jessie and Vanessa.

[lissyfromoz]

It’s out! Go buy your copy now. Go go go!

[lissyfromoz]

Ok. So as you all know my very, very clever friend wrote a book - I think I might have mentioned it once or twice…..

So because I am an amazing friend I want to help her sell books (she is going to come holiday in Australia with me when she’s rich and famous) so if you buy the book and sent me proof of purchase I’ll send you a picture in return 😉 limited time offer, get in quick while my boobs still look good 😂

[evildeniedmistress]

So... i would say something like How the actual fuck am I just seeing this but EVIDENTLY I’ve already seen it and I just forgot.... but still... it made me laugh again (assuming I laughed last time) and i still fucking love you!

[lissyfromoz]

Me, chatting to @say-no-to-the-o : Yeah, I’m thinking about aiming for 4 weeks of denial this time

Me, while writing my contract: I have a great idea! 💡 why don’t you open your diary to December and January and blindly flick through the pages, and whatever page you land on is your orgasm date

Me, realising I now have 68 days of denial instead of 30: FUCK

[evildeniedmistress]

What have we learned about this @lilsontheedge

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

NEED

She looked beautiful this morning. I couldn’t take my eyes off her. I knew we’d both be late to work… IF she didn’t push me away but I NEEDED her right then so I took control. 

I crossed the room as quickly as possible and caught her off guard. I pushed her over the arm of the couch and told her to edge herself. She didn’t complain. She didn’t object or hesitate. She braced herself with one hand while the other went right to her clit. As she did so I took what was mine, the way I wanted her. 

When I was done, after I’d fulfilled my need for her I composed myself and smoothed my tie. I gave her a smack on the ass while she remained bent over that couch panting. She looked over her shoulder at me with with a wanton look in her eyes and thanked me with a needy kiss as we went our separate ways for the day.

Before I’d forced her into denial she would have pushed me away. Before she realized how much happier we could be she fought me on edging. Once she got a taste of her sexual desires she began to beg me not to allow her to cum.     

[fantasies-of-a-dominant-deactiv]

Good girl…

Two small words. One syllable each. What do I mean when I say them? Why are they so important for her? Why are they so pertinent to D/s?

When I reward her with those words, I am acknowledging the completion of a task, a job well done, the fact she is abiding by my rules. Positive affirmation and confirmation that she is carrying out her duties correctly, and how much that means to me. How proud I am of her, for all that she does as my submissive. Positive reinforcement of her role.

A submissive will often have a very busy mind. She may overthink lots of things. She may question herself, about whether or not she has done something well. These two words help quiet her mind. They comfort her, reassure her, uplift her. They show that, as the Dominant, I see all of what she does, I appreciate and respect her, and her submission. I do not take for granted the gift she has given to me.

They are so pertinent and important, because by submitting to me, she has gifted me power, responsibility, and trust. They are a way of thanking her for that gift, for allowing me to lead, for taking this seriously. They are a recognition of our dynamic and love.

Good girl!

Follow for more @fantasies-of-a-dominant

[fantasies-of-a-dominant]

A wise man did once say…

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

REMIND HER!

“Come here little lady. Bend over my knee.” 

“What do you… what…” 

“Don’t make me tell you twice.”

“Hey… Sir, I’m sorry. I forgot my manners.”

“Precisely why you needed a reminder. What does a good girl say?”

[missmiffle]

One of the many reasons that spanking is so important…

[evildeniedmistress]

THANK YOU!

She should always say thank you.

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

My sub is on denial since June 2018, my goal for her is a full year. Now we think about building a family. What is your advice about the female O on the important days? Is it helpful for getting pregnant or unnecessary?

WELCOME ANON! We consulted with several sisters on this one to provide you with the best possible, most informative answer. First we should inform you that we’re not medical professionals, but in our research we’ve found the muscles that contract during female orgasm do “help guide” the sperm towards the egg but it is not medically necessary in order to conceive. We would suggest plenty of edges during the days leading up to “the important days” followed by massive explosive orgasms on those days because we think this is the only acceptable time for female orgasm! Also, you could try ruined orgasms as an alternative. It would get those same muscles contracting. In addition too and just for fun although we have absolutely no evidence that it actually works but we’ve also heard that having her stand on her head or prop her ass up with pillows with her legs pointing in the air to keep “the good stuff in” helps (several of us have tried it). It makes for a great bonding experience after ALL THE SEX and you could get a few great memories, laughs or even photos out of it. ;) Have fun, good luck and please keep us updated on baby news!“

[lissyfromoz]

Because I can’t help myself….

While the female Orgasm can be somewhat useful in aiding conception, there are other things you can do to:

If you need lube for sex make sure it is a sperm friendly lube. The everyday stuff you get is bad for conception.

Likewise saliva. No oral sex prior to conception sex. It can act as a spermicide

Don’t be tempted to have too much sex - you need a chance to build up a healthy supply for the best chance of success - every second day is best.

And remember, a healthy couple only has about a 20% chance of conceiving each cycle. Don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t happen straight away. But also don’t wait forever if it doesn’t. In my country (Australia) the general rule of thumb is to see a doctor after 12 months if you are under 35 or 6 if you are over. Obviously if there is something you already know about that may hamper your efforts see hem sooner.

Best of luck

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

Thanks for the added info @lilsontheedge

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

“In my opinion, “indulgence” is pretty much the epitome of my girls’ submission to me. “Indulgence” is my girls forsaking their most basic animalistic desire and surrendering control over that need to me. They are kept at their peak of arousal by near non-stop edging and/or other sensual activities. My girls tell me that, for them, it’s a symbol of their complete submission to me and my total ownership of them. They’ve also told me that it is something that gives them a very deep and intense sense of satisfaction to know how much pleasure and pride I have in them for giving me that control over them.”

— masterof3cunts (gentlemen of Indulge-her-through-denial)

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

An Open Letter from the Sisters in Denial

Dear Gentlemen, 

So, you’re here because you want to try Female Orgasm Denial, but you don’t know how to bring it up to your partner, or you don’t think she’ll respond well.

We’re here to help!

Print out the below or hand her your phone and let us explain the benefits instead.  

Keep reading

[say-no-to-the-o]

EXCITING NEWS

Say No To The O is thrilled to announce the creation of a new Tumblr blog named @indulge-her-through-denial which is owned and operated by sisters from the Say No To The O Sorority.

This very special group of women have taken on the noble task of educated gentlemen around the world on how to introduce their girlfriends, wives, and lovers to the wondrous benefits and pleasures that come from giving up orgasms and embracing the marvelous world of INDULGENCE!

You owe it to yourself to find out how to drive your gal crazy with DESIRE. Find out what makes her tick. Learn to intensify her SUBMISSION. Increase her LIBIDO.

FOLLOW immediately and start reaping the benefits of teaching your her to say no to the O and say yes to INDULGENCE!

Kind regards,

Say No To The O!

[evildeniedmistress]

❤️

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

An Open Letter from the Sisters in Denial

Dear Gentlemen, 

So, you’re here because you want to try Female Orgasm Denial, but you don’t know how to bring it up to your partner, or you don’t think she’ll respond well.

We’re here to help!

Print out the below or hand her your phone and let us explain the benefits instead.  

Keep reading

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

An Open Letter from the Sisters in Denial

Dear Gentlemen, 

So, you’re here because you want to try Female Orgasm Denial, but you don’t know how to bring it up to your partner, or you don’t think she’ll respond well.

We’re here to help!

Print out the below or hand her your phone and let us explain the benefits instead.  

Keep reading

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

“I think a place such as IHTD is needed as quite a few men have reached out with questions about edging/indulging. Sometimes they just can’t grasp it. What a wonderful thing to have a concentrated place where Doms can safely ask questions or get advice from women who live this everyday”

— 2xshyblushinghousewife

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

WELCOME TO INDULGE-HER-THROUGH-DENIAL

We, the sisters of the Say No to the O sorority want to spread the word about denial (or indulgence as we’ve come to call it) far and wide until every woman becomes a good girl, just like us!

We’re real women and we’ve joined together to give gentleman, like you, real advice on how to make us better through INDULGENCE.

Our goal is to provide a service to you, a place where we can post our thoughts and the knowledge we’ve gained through our own experiences with denial and to offer encouragement to the gentlemen of the world so they can realize the benefits that can be gained for both men and women through indulging your female partners.

We can’t wait to answer your asks, so send them over.