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ex-transmed. i no longer believe anything on this blog. only keeping it up to remember my mistakes and not make them again

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

Do you want the transmeds following you to unfollow?

i might not be as active so i think its best for ANYONE to unfollow me

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

hey i see your not a transmes anymore but your alor happier so im happy for you! it sucks that you felt so shitty in the transmed community but its great youve found people who help you! even tho im a transmed i wish you luck on your mental health and stability dude!! 💕

thank you! same to you!

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

my growth and opinion differences

hi, everyone. you mightve noticed i’ve been gone a while, and its because i no longer believe what i used to promote what’s on this blog.

I want to apologize to anyone I mightve harassed while I was a transmed. i was self-conscious and depressed and took it out on others. however, its not an excuse. i know what i did was wrong.

I’m transmedic (tucute) now, and the support from the tucute community has been great for my mental health and wellbeing. i’m proud to be myself without feeling like a “trender” anymore, and I can say i’m proud to be trans, something I couldn’t say about a year ago.

I can’t say I miss being in this community at all. I’m much happier now.

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my hot take of the day

[ru-tabega]

[yourfavehatesmogai]

Hatsune Miku HATES mogai!

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

Daily reminder

Tucute detransitioners are proof that you need dysphoria to be trans. Literally ask anyone who transitioned without dysphoria and they can tell you that they got dysphoria when they transitioned.

[defending-harmony]

I feel so bad for detransitioning people. That shit sounds like hell on earth for them, and just.

But, sadly, this is absolutely proof that you need to have gender identity disorder - or gender dysphoria, if you’d like (I know it’s dated, but I use it sometimes.) - to be transgender.

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

Daily reminder

Tucute detransitioners are proof that you need dysphoria to be trans. Literally ask anyone who transitioned without dysphoria and they can tell you that they got dysphoria when they transitioned.

[trainwreckbisexual]

if you want me to ask someone who transitioned without dysphoria you’re gonna have to give me an example lmao

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

Take a look at “the period prince”. They had to stop T because the changes it was giving them was giving them dysphoria (voice dysphoria, seeming like a stranger to yourself) even if they won’t admit that.

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if you’re rude to waiters at restaurants i hate you

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why is that only a few years ago, everyone on tumblr agreed that clothes ≠ gender and that men and women should be able to wear what they want without it meaning theyre trans or wrong, but now, a woman wanting to present masculine somehow = new gender??

Like before I felt really validated because I want to dress masculine and have short hair and stuff, but then I got really confused because people were saying that means I’m some third, non binary gender. What happened to butch lesbians? Feminine gay men? And the feminine straight men and masculine straight women we were saying were 100% okay? Why is it that people suddenly dropped the idea that things don’t have gender, and started gendering everything?

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💕 And I want others to love me for who I am too 💕

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Please support me on kofi if you can. It would mean a lot to me <3 https://ko-fi.com/samhannes

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

cool! why

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Stop spreading around misinformation!!!

He’s a good guy and people are dragging his name in the dirt!! He’s just a guy who likes to make music

be SWEET TO HIM

[transgender-official]

the gay flag with the black and brown stripes is so fucking ugly and makes no sense and that’s the tea.

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why do you hate black lgbt people

[transgender-official]

??? HELLO??

[spill-the-gender-tea]

The black and brown stripe is ugly AF.

plus since the original meaning for the black stripe is for the AIDS crisis its really kinda fucked up if you think about it.  Like why make something about race when the original meaning had so much more to it? Race has nothing to do with sexuality.

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Wow, let’s take this inclusive flag and make it exclusive. Race has nothing to do with LGBT. Why do we need to make everything about race? Can’t we just have this??

[nonbinarypastels]

medical gatekeeping is 100% the fault of cissexist medical systems and insurance companies which are ran by cis people. non-dysphoric trans & nonbinary people (including those who choose to or want to medically transition themselves) are not responsible for care being denied to dysphoric trans & nonbinary people. the fact that they are the easier target to go after does not make them the correct target.

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[Image description - Images of the trans and the nonbinary pride flag with the text: I SUPPORT NON-DYSPHORIC NONBINARY PEOPLE. End description.]

[ex-transmed-sam-v2]

cool! i don’t

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They/them lesbians

They aren’t a thing. How can they be a thing if you are nb and also a lesbian you’re lying. Lesbians are exclusively wlw not nblw. Please someone explain how it is possible. Wouldn’t that just make you uncomfortable.

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Terms I hear a lot from trucutes

“b-but transmeds/truscum kill/hurt trans people!!! uwu!!!”

the only “trans people” truscum/transmeds are hurting are cis trenders seriously how many times am i going to see this

“transmeds/truscum are terfs/radfems/transphobes!!”

hey, i know it’s hard to believe but some transmeds/truscum are legitimately trans, wow, hard to believe right? wanna hear another whacky fact? most truscum/transmeds hate radfems and all transmeds/truscum are against terfs because being a transmed/truscum and being a terf is fucking ironic!

“but dysphoria isn’t needed? right?? it’s rude to say all trans people have to mentally ill to be trans uwuwu”

first off, dysphoria is a neurological issue, nobody is saying it’s a mental illness besides you trucunts. dysphoria means you have a disconnection from your brain sex and body sex, which causes discomfort and confusion. that is what being transgender is. if you don’t have dysphoria, than you are cis. there’s nothing wrong with being cis, but there is something wrong with being a “non dysphoric transgender”.

“UGH but i feel like (insert gender here)!!”

it is impossible to “feel” gender. gender isn’t based off feelings. it’s based off biology, just like sex. there is no such thing as a non dysphoric trans brain, there is no such thing as a non binary brain. your “feelings” are either dysmorphia, rebellious thoughts, or failure to live up to gender roles. none of those make you transgender. they just make you gnc or cis.

“i can be trans and be comfortable in my body! i don’t have to transition to be trans!”

alright who let their four year old brother who can’t read on this website. trans is a shortened term for “transition”. basically you’re saying “i don’t have to transition to transition!” which is fucking stupid. do you ever hear yourself talk? because i doubt you fucking do. (note, i am not targeting anyone who cannot transition due to physical issues or social issues, i am talking about those who are completely comfortable with their birth sex but insist on being transgender)

feel free to add on