A Group of Roaches is Called an Invasion

this blog is a wip. i don't have a lot of energy to work on it. chronic fatigue is a bitch. i'm cisautistic with an interest in internet culture, inceldom/the manosphere, and linguistics. i ramble and ask a lot of questions.

[fagcell]

Feeling very dysphoric rn. Might make a side blog that is more focused on fulfilling my transIDs. This blog has become a little bit more about casual interactions and info dumping. As well as some shitposting. Basically everything I do when my chronic fatigue is kicking my ass and I can't LARP to ease my dysphoria.

[lamiafemme]

People constantlyyyy using new words to water down misogyny when a woman does it. No she is not “male centered” or “not a girls girl” she’s a misogynist just like her boyfriend!!!!

[mirainikki]

you are white before you are trans and i feel like some of y'all forget that

[lamiafemme]

You really start to understand that the “angry black woman” and “mean lesbian” stereotype only exists to shame us for the fact we get reasonably upset about people wanting to horrifically abuse us indiscriminately. Let’s get meaner !

[ibawrfsprinkles]

PARAPHILIA MEMES BECAUSE EVERYBODY DESERVES SUNSHINE 🌞 !!

[the-quasar-hero]

“Rappers only talk about their money, cars, and clothes!”

Why might someone from a group of people that historically have been denied access to wealth, now brag that they have it?

“Rappers only talk about sex!”

Why might someone from a group that have historically been denied sexual autonomy now brag about their sexual escapades on their own terms?

“Rappers only talk about drugs and crime!”

Why might someone from a group that historically have been denied the more legal means to acquire wealth and had drugs forced on their community talk about their experiences with it?

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[fogcoveredchurch]

Am I the only being who's sick of the "CisIDs = your actual body"? Cis means you identify with it and you don't have to transition into it

Sorry if that's worded weird, hopefully y'all (collective) know what I mean

[fagcell]

....ohhh—

[warcrimesimulator]

[fagcell]

I'm not living up to my transincel ID. I'm too woke. In fact, I need to get even woker. They call me the woker—

[maple-salad]

op says we can repost

[ndnbutch]

if you see criticism of racism within your community as criticism of the community as a whole then you have a racist community. sorry.

[rinracer]

hey jewish radqueer here, here's your reminders to stop calling shit slop and stop saying shit like "noticing/noticer" because you just sound like an antisemetic dipshit ok? ok <3 pls. learn about dogwhistles

[fagcell]

I can't find anything about "slop" in particular, other than It's pretty common lingo on 4chan and was probably popularized there, much like most internet culture and language. Does it have similar problematic or antisemetic ideological ties and history like "noticing" that I've missed?

(All genuine)

[rinracer]

Goyslop - Wikipedia

[fagcell]

Ahh.... yup. There it is. People definitely need to pay attention to the lexical company a word keeps.

Edited for better clarity

[rinracer]

hey jewish radqueer here, here's your reminders to stop calling shit slop and stop saying shit like "noticing/noticer" because you just sound like an antisemetic dipshit ok? ok <3 pls. learn about dogwhistles

[fagcell]

I can't find anything about "slop" in particular, other than It's pretty common lingo on 4chan and was probably popularized there, much like most internet culture and language. Does it have similar problematic or antisemetic ideological ties and history like "noticing" that I've missed?

(All genuine)

[fagcell]

Cursing randos with my knowledge of incels and the manosphere (they're gonna be able to better protect themselves and notice potentially dangerous rhetoric)

Most of it takes the form of harmless-looking memes that get shared without people realizing they're spreading lookism, blackpill fatalism, misogyny, race- and sex-based hierarchies, or dehumanizing language dressed up as jokes. It's a recruitment tool you have to be wary of unless you fall down that pipeline.

Stay safe <3

[bbnoragebait]

Interaction I had with my foster mom today:

She saw my razor because she was cleaning some of the trash in my room (she knows folks with depression lack the energy to clean a lot of the time) and I snatched it and put it under my ass so she couldn't take it and she kept saying that she had to take it away from me because of state law

And then I told her if she took it I would bash my head into the wall until she had to clean my brains off of her wall

She stopped trying to take it after that.

[i-reblog-predators-and-idiots]

@bbnoragebait be more grateful to your foster parents for once jeez

[trace-freak]

First of all I thought you were out of tumblr

Second imagine seeing someone posting about their troubles and things they are struggling with and go "be more grateful for a situation you never wanted to be in" (paraphrasing) instead of "I'm sorry you're going through this"

You're insane dude get your head on straight

[i-reblog-predators-and-idiots]

@trace-freak how am I supposed to get out of tumblr, tumblr’s not a location

Son probably has hiplets

[trace-freak]

Fucks a hiplet

[i-reblog-predators-and-idiots]

@trace-freak cope cope cope

[trace-freak]

WHATS A HIPLET??????

[i-reblog-predators-and-idiots]

@trace-freak

[buronny]

answer the question irpai we all wanna know

[fagcell]

I can tell you what a hiplet is.

The term emerged on TikTok in mid-to-late June 2026 as a "revenge" or "ragebait" response to women's height preferences, and was then rapidly adopted by Looksmax.org, Incels.is, Reddit, X, and some 4chan threads. It is usually used to refer to a woman with visible hip dips or narrow/recessed-looking hips, with explicit comparison to "manlet."

In short, incel and manosphere jargon.

Based on the memes irpai uses and his age, I'm gonna take a wild guess and assume he either picked it up on TikTok or Reddit.

This is also probably why he won't tell you and keeps replying with nonsensical TikTok memes and wojaks. It says something very specific about him and the spaces he is around to pick it up in the first place.

[vampireangels]

would a transincel technically be a volcel, genuine question

[fagcell]

I think it depends.

If someone is abstaining by choice, they're closer to what incel slang calls a volcel. But if they're using "incel" mainly as a self-chosen TransID label, many incel forums would probably reject that as "larping," because those spaces usually treat inceldom as a lived experience and heavily police who counts.

That said, TransID and radqueer frameworks are built around self-identification and inclusivity, which is philosophically very different from the blackpill worldview that dominates visible incel culture.

I think it’s radical to identify with a subculture while fundamentally rejecting the ideology that has become synonymous with it. That's what I am personally doing when I ID as transincel.

I got a little off-topic. I like to ramble.