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Sara: What if I poured coffee in my cereal instead of milk?

Ava: [taking the coffee pot as she walks by] What if you didn't?

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Quinn: I'm in love with Rachel

Santana: And?

Quinn:... I thought you would be more surprised

Santana: Oh, excuse me

Santana: [shocked] And?!

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Kurt : However old you feel, ‘Tana, you definitely sound 18.

Santana : Thank you. It’s my bad attitude that keeps me young.

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Sir, that is my emotional support celebrity

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sorry not sorry but I am always going to give people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to queer inclusion

Like if you say you’re bi but you’ve only dated people of the opposite gender? you’re bi as hell i don’t care.

If you tell me you’re trans but you haven’t transitioned yet or don’t want to undergo certain aspects of transitioning? you are trans! I’m gonna call you by the name and pronouns you tell me to use

what if someone looks feminine, is afab, and uses she/her pronouns but identifies as nonbinary? what if someone looks masculine, is amab, and uses he/him pronouns but identifies as nonbinary? both of those people are nonbinary because they said they are!

if you’re asexual or aromantic but you’re still hetero in the sense that you experience attraction of some sort to the opposite gender and that gender alone? you’re still a part of the community babe! Aros and aces have always been queer.

If you don’t know if you’re queer or not? you’re certainly welcome to be a part of our spaces while you figure it out!

if you don’t wanna use labels? dont! that’s it! never let anyone pressure you into labels if you’re not ready to define that part of yourself.

if you use labels/pronouns that are uncommon and/or perceived as strange? that’s your label! those are your pronouns! who am i to tell you you can’t use those words to describe yourself??

basically fuck all the debates about the nuances of this stuff. if you tell me you’re queer, you’re fucking queer. I have no right to start discourse with people about their own identities and neither does anyone else.

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Literally no one has thought more about someone’s gender or sexuality than that person self, not doctors and certainly not me. Who the fuck am I to assume I know better?

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i remember being 13 and reading a whole bunch of steven moffat quotes where he kept calling rose tyler annoying and too stupid for the doctor and being the “type of girl to get pregnant as a teenager” and going as far as to say he’d kill her off if she hadn’t been separated from the doctor before his run and me being like “....this feels bad beyond these things being said about a character i like” and only now being able to identify that it was classism. the emotion was classism

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in response to being reminded of this i was like “should i see what he’s said about martha” and decided that no. i’d like to at least try to have a good afternoon