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@farmerstinkysblog
Introduction
Hi! :) I’m Farmer Stinky, I’m a fictive incase that wasn’t already obvious- and I’m an autism symptom holder for our system.
I made this blog really only to vent and reblog stuff. But my blogs ask box will be open for anyone who has questions! :)
I am also Achillean and gray-asexual for anybody who’s curious :)
(I got my hat and leaf thing from her! Go check out her blog she has some awesome shit!)
The less interest you show in a neurotypical person the more they respect you and I think that’s just fucking Wild because that doesn’t make any fucking sense to me.
Like- why does not being respected or treated kindly make you respect me and like me?
I wish I could say that maybe it’s a childhood thing and they they’re used to authority figured disrespecting them and being forced to respect the disrespectful authority figure regardless, but more often than not the neurotypical people have the upper hand here so I don’t think that would work here as an explanation.
Somthing that we’ve never understood was the fact that people with literally BEG other people to NOT get a diagnosis of something becuase “it can ruin your life”, but then belittle and bully people who are self diagnosed, or suspecting that they might have something.
Like- you want us to not get a diagnosis because it could ruin our life, and then get even MORE mad at us when we find alternatives. Like— what???
I got forced into front by one of our primary gatekeepers.
Fuck that hoe that was disorienting as hell.
Hiii @c3ke. I wanted to DM you and show you this, but for some reason it wouldn’t let me. So here ya go, :3
I drew myself and wanted to show it off. :3
Also I apologize for the random tag- I’m from the same system that Uncle Bun and Tio fictive are from. I don’t know if you know about me, and I’m unsure if we’ve ever properly talked, but hello- hi- it’s lovely to meet ya. :]
big fan of whatever the youth is doing to torment scientology buildings
Sometimes being autistic and being in a poor family is not being able to afford safe foods alongside the rest of your groceries due to not having enough food stamps.
I can feel the fireworks pop off in our brain once we start listening to a Gims song. Or when I start listening to anything by Tyla-
i think the reason my autistic traits never showed as child was because i was constantly living on survival mode and basically taught myself to ignore them because it would get me in more trouble that my brain couldn't handle at the time .
This goes even deeper in our case because we are a system and showing any signs of neurodivergence got us further abused and mistreated.
Sometimes alters front jsut to sleep,
And that is exactly what I am doing right now.
Goodnight everyone 👋
Do you guys as fellow autistics/nuerodivergents have a preference for temperature? Like- do you guys have a sensory thing for certain temperatures or ranges? For us we prefer cool and warm temperatures. Anything else is unbearable on so many fucking levels.
My post about allistic people is getting attention and that’s scaring me because we aren’t used to getting attention on posts… 🥲
Something I do not understand is how and why the hell allistic and just neurotypical people in general do not understand the difference between an excuse, and a reason/explanation.
It’s like— we end up seeing videos far to often of people blaming neurodivergent people or the non-pretty parts of their disorders. And when the neurodivergent person tries to explain why they’re doing the thing by explaining how it’s caused by their disorder, people tell them that they’re making up excuses, and it’s really fucking frustrating to see.
Like no becky, we are not using our disorders as excuses for our behavior. We are simply just explaining to you WHY we do the thing.
Growing up, I was always told to stop making excuses for reacting poorly to situations that triggered my PTSD/dissociation/anxiety, YET I was never given any coping tools or strategies.
You cannot expect a CHILD to be able to change their behaviour that is being caused by mental disorders/illnesses without also giving them the help they need.
EXACTLY!!! And yet we see it so so much; videos and text posts where parents are humiliated their disabled children it’s like— OH MY GOD WHY ARE THESE PEOPLE ALLOWED TO BE PARENTS???
I LOVE being autistic and trying to communicate because every time it’s
all my love to other autistic people who just know jack shit. the ones who have no "infodump" locked and loaded, nothing they can rattle off the top of their head. the ones who have a specific interest in certain things but still not knowing a lot about it. autistic people who will never be able to memorise fun facts about something no matter how fundamental it is to them as a subject. the point of autistic interests are not being a secret expert on random shit, you just like it a real big amount
this is me sometimes, mostly because even though I have so many thoughts and info about random stuff if you ask me to infodump I will sit there and stare into oblivion (is this bad)
Something I do not understand is how and why the hell allistic and just neurotypical people in general do not understand the difference between an excuse, and a reason/explanation.
It’s like— we end up seeing videos far to often of people blaming neurodivergent people or the non-pretty parts of their disorders. And when the neurodivergent person tries to explain why they’re doing the thing by explaining how it’s caused by their disorder, people tell them that they’re making up excuses, and it’s really fucking frustrating to see.
Like no becky, we are not using our disorders as excuses for our behavior. We are simply just explaining to you WHY we do the thing.
