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17🇳🇿He/him. Gay Aspec. [On hiatus btw] Just going out to get the milk brb.

[shirahoshiumi]

A s11 falsesymmetry design! I based in on the cape she wears, and while holding on to the big business there’s a small hint of kelpie based on the statues :]

I think i forgot how to draw 3 times while drawing this

[fat-titz]

*swishes my fluffy ####-ing tail and hits all your blog posts*

Hehe

Car knee cheese wa

[panidanya]

aaaaand knights au etho ref

[happylandfill23]

i've had this garfield panel saved forever and i even marked in my calendar today as "the monday that wouldn't die" so uh. happy(?) monday the 22nd aka the monday that wouldn't die

[visceradorable]

Random lazy sketch

[monstrous-femme]

as a regular donor to Gaza Soup Kitchen I get their email updates, and they said today that while they've continued to be able to expand, donations are slowing down as Gaza gets less coverage. If you have a few dollars to spare, I encourage you to send them here to continue the amazing work that Hani and his team are doing.

[fat-titz]

Whats with the evil artefacts?

Idk, thought it looked cool👍

[arowitharrows]

I don't know if I will ever feel comfortable coming out as aroace, despite being comfortably aroace. The other day someone asked me if I was queer and I felt so uncomfortable saying yes, because even if it is true, I knew it was still painting the wrong picture in this persons mind. And throughout the rest of the evening it was obvious they thought I was bi but I couldn't correct them because it's not an easy "oh I'm not X I'm Y", it's a whole new conversation: opening yourself up to uncomfortable and invasive questions, opening yourself up to the other persons astonishment and bafflement which just makes you feel more othered, opening yourself up to being hurt by casual assumptions and dismissive comments or just plain awkward silence. and usually it ends with the feeling that you didn't do enough to paint the right picture, to explain everything in a way that leaves no false impressions, that you didn't find the right words to make them truly understand you. despite such understanding taking years and years of work. It's so frustrating!

[aro-ace-chaos]

I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.

So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.

[teathattast]

[fishieguyy]

some pictures which I drew for milomumbles ! u can maybe spot these on the big screen on her twitch channel ☝️^.^

[fat-titz]

Ren doodle on magma, more likely than you think.

[fat-titz]

Ren doodle on magma, more likely than you think.

[fat-titz]

Wowie, I should get a life.

[lamtennnnnooo]

dummies lalala

[plastiboo]

[vyhonella]

WHY HE'S SO DOG CODED