Another Horrible Dating Blog

Screenshots of the sort of messages I receive daily from charming gentlemen online

[fatanddating]

They won’t take a polite no, keep pushing and then blatantly LIE to me.... but I’m the bitch for pointing it out? Ok 👌🏼

[fatanddating]

If you wouldn’t say it in real life, probably best to not say it at all. 🙄👌🏼

[fatanddating]

Charming “nice guy”

[fatanddating]

Oh my fuck. 😐😐😐 this douche has a complete essay tearing down women as a profile. I mean, look at this shit… Apparently he’s a fucking expert on what all women want, and how men are far superior. What a complete idiot. Then he wonders why he gets “hate mail” heh, perhaps he’s trying to become a famous douche like that Nicole Whatever. 😒😒😒😒

[fatanddating]

How would he have kept the convo going when I clearly said I wasn’t interested? 🤔 also, how was I “cunty”? Ugh, men think giving facts and making points = having an attitude, just because it isn’t what they want to hear. He immediately blocked me too so I couldn’t respond. Because of course he did, big man 🙄. How do you “accidentally” put in a birth year that’s 6 years off?? They think we’re stupid 🙄🙄🙄

[fatanddating]

Am I supposed to feel sorry for him?? Like fuck right off dude, you can’t keep harassing me then act like you’re the victim. 🙄 all I did was tell him to leave me alone and I’m such a bad guy...

[rainiswetter]

Rant...

So I just finally had my family down for our late Christmas and my 3 yr old got some Chapstick as a gift. She was running around and offering some to everyone to try, she gets to my father and he says no. She looks up and says “please grandpa it’s so nummy! Just try a little bit” He says “no, boys don’t wear lipstick!” (Keep in mind it’s Chapstick not lipstick anyway..😒) So I say “some boys do, and that’s ok” Grandpa: “no, not REAL boys” sounding a bit angry that I would even suggest such a thing Me: “yes actually “real boys” can wear lipstick and anything else they want” Grandpa: “nope” Me: “excuse me but in this house we believe anyone can be and wear whatever makes them happy, including boys in lipstick” Which is when my mother stepped in and reminded my dad that these are my kids in my house and I will raise them how I like, which includes what nonsense I will not tolerate him saying to them. This is not the first time I had to tell my dad to shut it, he’s constantly making stupid sexist comments about how women are always whining or should be in the kitchen or whatever. I know he’s an old white conservative man, an he thinks what he’s saying is just a funny “joke” sometimes, but I have two impressionable young girls to raise and I’ll be damned if they grow up thinking their grandfather doesn’t respect women. Having to constantly remind him every time he makes a sexist comment is annoying but worth it if it stops him and makes him think about how it might actually affect these two little ladies in our lives. I’m rather glad I only have to see him a few times a year. Absolutely drives me crazy. . . . Tldr: my fathers masculinity is so fragile, he won’t even let his granddaughter put Chapstick on him. 😒😒

[fatanddating]

Why do they always have to try to act like THEY rejected you instead of the other way around. 🙄 oh no, I’m fat, better hate myself now 🤷🏻‍♀️

[fatanddating]

Firstly, why not put proper info in your profile?? Second, don’t argue with me! If I say I’m not interested, just move along? Why do they try to convince me to change my mind, if I wanted to date a 26 yr old I’d have lowered my age range. 27 is even too young for me usually but I’m willing to go that low if someone intrigues me..but don’t push it. 🙄

[fatanddating]

Ugh another one of those “But you’re messaging back!” Types, ugh wtf, how hard is it to just say “ok bye” or even nothing at all when rejected?! 🙄

[fatanddating]

Two different guys, both politely rejected and both turn to insults automatically... 🙄 this is how I started out my day. Great.

[fatanddating]

Why the hell do they have to throw little tantrums when politely rejected?? Calling me ugly because I said no thank you?? What a fucking man-child 🙄

[fatanddating]

[fatanddating]

Why do I have to repeat myself? Just take a no for an answer.

[fatanddating]

I’m not very nice apparently... how dare I tell him to have a nice day.. how rude of me. Need to be blocked I guess.

[fatanddating]

Ugh fucking men who think any attention is good... I don’t understand people who just need to push and push. But oh man... calling me.. a 32 yr old fat woman... a teenager on meth??? Lol that’s hilarious

[fatanddating]

Ah yes… the old “can’t be picky if you’re fat” thing 🙄😂 because I should just be grateful he finds me attractive at all! Who cares if he’s an idiot fuckboy, he isn’t repulsed by me so I should just get on my knees 💁🏻🙄😐😑