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evet

#reminds me of baby girl

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Fundamentals of being a (proper) Dominant

Being dominant is an art form not many fully comprehend, and being dominant over someone takes a lot of responsibility. First and most important is to build trust with your partner. They need to feel absolutely safe in your presence, and you always need to get their consent. No matter the relationship dynamic, you always need to get consent. Trust may take time to build, and you need to be patient with your partner to make sure it is properly established. Second of all, you can't just demand submission. You need to inspire it. You can start being assertive and physically/verbally dominant only if you have proven yourself to be responsible and a safe place for your partner. If you have to ask someone to call you their dom, daddy, etc. you have failed. Third important step. Do your research. Do your research on your partner's kinks, preferences and limits. Do your research on how you can provide them with the pleasure they need and how to keep them safe while doing it. That applies to physical/verbal punishments and/or acts, and to objects and toys you might be using. Real life is not scripted. Your favorite porn movie does not resemble it. Make sure you know what you are doing and are always 100% in control of the situation. Now, some inviolable rules for you and your sub. No matter the trust you've built or how well you think you know your partner's limits , always use a safe word or a signal. If you don't, you are a dangerous person, period. Another inviolable rule is aftercare. You must always plan ahead and know what you can do for your partner's well-being. And you must always provide it, no matter how tired you are or soft you think it makes you look. Physical and verbal aftercare is a rule. And of course, you, the dominant, need aftercare too. No, it doesn't make you look weak. You need it to feel human and there's nothing wrong with that, and it does not change the dynamic you have with your sub.

pretty-ds

👆🏻👆🏻this is what I am talking about 👆🏻👆🏻

subbyprincessb

Sorry I forgot to reply, I was making myself cum to the thought of you 💕

yourmistresskristina

Wanna pull a cute little girl into my lap and slide my fingers inside her, curl them just right so that her back is arching against my front and i have to wrap my other arm around her to keep her still 💕 need to feel her clawing at my wrist because the feeling is too much to handle, just for me to ignore it and cover her shoulders in bites and hickeys while I turn her into a whimpering mess

kaionyx

Being with a brat is so funny to me sometimes. They’ll walk around with the biggest fucking attitude and act like they can’t stand you until you grab them by the neck and forcibly breed them like some random slut on the street for a few hours.

Then they’re right back to being the sweetest little innocent thing that won’t leave your side, for the next few days at least.

minibunz

I want someone to push me down onto my stomach on the bed so they can spread my legs and run their hands over me, spreading me open “just for inspection”, making comments about how silly I am for getting so wet just from this

switchy-wolfy-104

Vocal dom who likes to talk their sub through their orgasms 🤝 sub who goes quiet except for gasping breaths, whining their dom’s titles, and begging so cutely