Fate of Ophelia

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✨️🩷 My astrological observations on the Moon in the 8th house in synastry. 🌜🦂

✨️I want to emphasize that I am not an astrologer or anything like that.✨️

✨️Throughout my life, I've simply observed certain patterns. If you identify with any of them and would like to add something, feel free. ✨️

(I am not a native English speaker.)

✨️Every time I was the person in charge of the house, the person had their moon in Gemini (in all cases). I have Libra rising at 26 degrees, so my 8th house begins at 26 degrees of Taurus.✨️

✨️💖My former best friend from childhood had the moon in my 8th house and we were very close. She helped me through many difficult times. She was the one who pushed the friendship the most, but internally she always compared herself to me in some way. She was never satisfied with her life and constantly compared herself to me, even though she was prettier and had a better life than me. Over time we drifted apart because she was pursuing a path of friendships that I didn't agree with, so we each went our separate ways, but she was the one who suffered the most from the end of the friendship.

✨️💖The second case was my first real boyfriend. He was about six years older, and also had the moon in my eighth house. He stalked me on Facebook for a year until I finally gave in. He truly understood me, but at the same time, he wanted to restrict how I lived my life. He didn't like me going out with my friends, and he was upset when he saw me achieve something. Again, I had the same feeling of comparison, but I loved him very much, and everything simply exploded when I started college and he developed a paranoia that I would leave him for someone else. In the end, he was the one who left me and then regretted it, but I didn't want him anymore.

✨️💖In the third case, which is what I'm currently experiencing, he was the head of a department at a law firm. We never had anything romantic, but we couldn't stop looking at each other, and I felt like I had finally found the right person. However, I had to resign because I didn't think the work arrangement was fair, and for the first time, I felt my heart break at leaving someone (I also have planets in his 12th house). I have a certain impression that he's watching me through friends, but I can't prove it yet—I just feel it. A year has passed, and even without contact, I can still feel him sometimes. In the end, I just want to forget him because it never went beyond glances, but it was very intense. I was in excruciating pain because I wanted him with me, and I feel he feels the same... but I still can't prove it.

This man knows how to touch on my deepest wounds, and when he did that I hated him, but I realized it was just a defense mechanism because he was too sensitive for all of that.

✨️💖 No quarto e último caso, e com outra pessoa que tinha a Lua na minha 8ª casa, havia duas colegas de trabalho. Uma delas me tratava mal, sempre me menosprezando e depois fingindo ser minha amiga, até que eu me afastei e ela tentou reconquistar minha amizade. Mas como eu não cedi, ela começou a falar mal de mim para outros colegas, tentando me afastar deles... enfim, o karma vai alcançá-la também.

✨️💖 The other colleague is a little difficult to explain, but I'm not sure. She seems jealous of me, constantly complaining that I'm "too sociable," and if someone at work tries to show me something, she wants to see it before I do. I feel she's a little possessive of me, but without showing it much. She's very sensitive (if I didn't know her, I'd say she was in love with me 😂), but she always wants to know everything about my life. And again, the old comparison, even though she's much better off than me, which I don't understand. Once, I caught her talking badly about me, calling me needy because I kept changing my Instagram profile picture. She said things like, "Who is she trying to impress?" "Changing her picture all the time," and she looked down on me, which hurt me a lot. I cried so much. Anyway... I went almost a month without talking to her, and she just went crazy asking "everyone" why I wasn't talking to her anymore.✨️

🌜✨️ In these patterns that have occurred in my life, I've noticed certain things:

🩵 The person with the moon sign is extremely obsessed with the person of the house (even though in my case it's the moon in Gemini for others).

🩵 The person of the house is very sensitive to the moon person and feels a "heaviness" when the moon is nearby, and when the moon person moves away, the person of the house feels relief.

(Isso depende de como a 8ª casa de cada pessoa está estruturada; no meu caso, tenho Vênus em Gêmeos na 8ª casa, que é o regente do meu ascendente, e meu Plutão está muito bem aspectado, então a energia me parece normal, mas ainda assim é transformadora.)

🩵 Normalmente, é a pessoa da Lua que se afasta da pessoa da casa (pelo menos na minha experiência, foi assim). A casa torna-se muito dependente da Lua, mas quando a Lua se afasta e tenta se reconectar, a pessoa da casa não quer mais, porque, como é a casa da "morte" simbólica, a pessoa da Lua literalmente morre para a pessoa da casa e se torna indiferente.

🩵 I noticed that the Moon person gets involved in other relationships faster than the House person after a breakup, but they never completely forget the House person; however, the House person, when transformed, is indifferent and cold to the Moon person.

🩵 Yeah, the person in the house is extremely obsessed with the moon but knows how to control themselves, while the moon's obsession is more "public".

🩵 When a person with a moon sign is immature and person house doesn't reciprocate their needs, the moon person can hurt the person of the house. This can lead the house person to distance themselves, and when the situation worsens, the obsession of the person house can turn into indifference as a form of protection. As a result, the person with the moon sign loses the person of the house (I will discuss this in another post regarding cases where I was the person with the moon sign).

🩵 A person with a moon sign might be very jealous of that house person.

✨️ Remember again: pay attention to the sign of the 8th house, the sign of the moon, and the aspects of Pluto; this greatly influences how each dynamic unfolds. ✨️

✨️ These were observations about me being the "house person"; I'll soon make another post about instances where I was the "moon person." ✨️

✨️Do not copy my post without giving proper credit, as it is based on my real experiences, and plagiarism is a crime.✨️👀

✨️Like, comment, and share... see ya! 🩷✨️

[seu-bobo-da-corte]

[theambitiouswoman]

Ways to Cultivate Self-Love

Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would someone you love.

Practice self-care: Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Take time for relaxation, get enough sleep, eat nutritious food, exercise, and pursuing hobbies or activities that make you happy.

Set healthy boundaries: Assert your needs, desires, and limits. Establish clear boundaries in your relationships and communicate them assertively. Saying no when necessary and honoring your boundaries helps protect your well-being.

Practice mindfulness: Be present in the current moment and non-judgmentally observe your thoughts and emotions. Mindfulness can help you develop self-awareness, reduce stress, and cultivate a deeper understanding of yourself.

Challenge self-limiting beliefs: Challenge negative thoughts and self-beliefs that hold you back from self-love and personal growth. Replace them with positive and empowering affirmations.

Surround yourself with positivity: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Minimize contact with those who bring negativity or undermine your self-esteem.

Practice gratitude: Regularly express gratitude for the positive aspects of your life, as well as your own strengths and achievements. Keeping a gratitude journal can help shift your focus toward self-appreciation and increase your overall sense of well-being.

Celebrate your wins: Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem. Recognize your efforts, progress, and achievements, and take pride in them. Doing this reinforces a positive self-image and boosts self-confidence.

Practice self-acceptance: Embrace and accept yourself fully, including your flaws, imperfections, and past mistakes. Realize that no one is perfect, and that self-love involves accepting and embracing your whole self, including both your strengths and areas for growth.

Focus on self-care rituals: Engage in regular self-care rituals that make you feel nurtured and valued. Take long baths, practice yoga or meditation, journaling, creative activities, or spending time in nature. Find what activities make you happy and make them a priority.

Embrace self-expression: Explore ways to express yourself authentically. This could be, engaging in creative activities like art, writing, music, or dance.

Practice forgiveness: Forgive yourself for past mistakes and let go of any self-blame or guilt that may be holding you back. Making mistakes is a part of being human, use these experiences as opportunities for growth and learning.

Celebrate self-care milestones: Celebrate the progress you make in your self-love journey. Set small achievable goals for self-improvement and celebrate when you reach them. This helps build self-confidence.

Surround yourself with positive influences: Surround yourself with people who inspire and uplift you. Invest in relationships that support your growth, well-being, and self-love. Distance yourself from individuals or environments that consistently bring you down or undermine your self-worth.

Practice self-empowerment: Take control of your life and make choices that align with your values, desires, and aspirations. Set goals and take steps towards achieving them.

Engage in self-reflection: Reflect on your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Incorporate journaling, meditation or mindfulness exercises. Self-reflection helps you gain insight into yourself, your patterns, and your needs, enabling you to make intentional choices aligned with self-love.

Be your own advocate: Stand up for yourself and your needs. Speak up assertively when you feel disrespected or when your boundaries are crossed. Express your opinions, asserting your rights, and asking for what you need in various areas of your life.

[sentimientos-en-el-aire]

Pero nunca he sido un mar azul y en calma. Siempre he sido una tormenta.

[des-vanecido]

"Querido Dios, si mi destino es estar solo quita de mí el deseo de ser amado".

— Quitalo...

[insaneinpink]

I feel like a rotting corpse that’s still breathing.

[insaneinpink]

I feel like a rotting corpse that’s still breathing.