Sorry all I don’t usually post on here for support/advice but I’m getting married in 4 months and I would really appreciate it if someone could help me.
To give you the long and short of it my dad has treated me horribly my entire life. He was always harder on me. I was always in trouble. He never seemed to wanna spend any time with me, along with all this on top of verbal abuse,and have been bullied by him for almost 27 years. He’s an asshole an he doesn’t even realize it that’s the sad part, he is totally emotional disconnected. He had already made me cry on Christmas,and did what he always did bully me. No for Christmas I was willing to put aside my anger towards him because it’s happened to the past 3 times I came to visit in a month, I drove over an hour and half to be treated like shit. But I’m done if I don’t get some kind of apology I’m gonna tell him that if he is planning on treating me like that he won’t see me, or my precious fiancée he loved and shows more affection to him than I ever had from him. It’s fucking twisted as hell. He’s in therapy and my little sister says that he’s trying….. I see no progress. Six months ago we had a great relationship and then he turned into a nasty egg person. It’s keeping me up. Thoughts? Anyone? I’m at a loss to either screaming at him or writing him a letter spelling everything out for him. I’ve held this pain inside for 27 years and just when I think my Dad likes me,I somehow “fuck it up”by doing something as simple like asking a completely rational question.
