I think that the first lesson that you need to learn is to dominate for yourself. While my opinion should matter, it shouldn’t make you feel as though you can’t reach your goals. Opinions change when they’re given reason to. The opinions of your peers, while also valuable, matter even less than mine in the grand scheme of things. What you’re doing, the path you’re taking, is for you. It’s yours. You don’t always come across as comfortable, which makes your confidence squirm, and I believe that is because you aren’t always acting for your dominance. How exactly you decide to carry yourself is your own business, there are plenty of successful paths to superiority.
It’s expected that you haven’t quite figured yourself out yet. This is a school, after all. It’s an institution of learning, not an institution of know-it-alls. Take the humility that is that truth while walking your path for your comfort, your needs, and don’t let your pride suffer- because everyone else is here to learn as well.
Did you have any specific questions for me?
Dominate myself? I never thought of it like that. I appreciate you saying I can still reach my goals, I absolutely plan to. Not coming across as comfortable is something...I know is there. It’s a side effect of an, let’s call it an issue, I have and don’t know how to deal with. I think that’s what you’re sensing there, and I’m starting to think I won’t progress as a Dominant until I figure that one out.
That’s what I’ve been telling myself, and it’s heartening to know you believe the same. Still, it’s tough to see natural Dominants like Beau or my sister not struggle with these same issues.
No, Sir. Your comment about not coming across as comfortable has confirmed a few things for me. Thank you.