It's different for us. My husband, 66, generally has to be in bed by 6.00 pm without exception. Lights off, of course, and I prefer to use Segufix.
I don't make any exceptions here either.
He was rude and cheeky to my girlfriend some time ago. She felt that he was behaving like a three-year-old and recommended treating him like one. Since then, he goes to bed at 6.00 pm.
He gets up at 6 a.m., takes care of his household chores and then works from home. From eight or 9.00 am until 4.00 pm.
From 5.00 pm, after I have punished him for his mistakes, he gets ready for bed and the lights go out at 6.00 pm.
He is not allowed to use any media other than for work.
I don't make any exceptions here either.
As a punishment, I've found the cane punishment to be very effective.
If there are guests, he has to say goodbye properly at 5.00 pm and get ready for bed. After that, I or one of my guests who knows about it will check Cleanliness of fingernails, for example, toothbrushing with the appropriate tablets, which become discoloured if the teeth are not brushed thoroughly, etc.. Of course, the guests can also be present during any corrections to the homework. For this purpose, we have an appropriate penalty bench on which I can fix him.
This is followed by the announced punishment, usually on the exposed buttocks and the inside of the thighs.
At the weekend, of course, there is no need to work from home, so the day is organised differently. The times don't change, but he work from six to four in the house and get things done, the tasks that need more time and that have been left behind during the week.
On Sundays, I then take the necessary time to talk to him about the past week and also to correct his behaviour by punishing him.
For now, I've limited this approach to one year, and in October I'll sit down with my girlfriend and we'll decide what to do next
I really enjoy being personally looked after and not having to worry about mundane things like cleaning the house etc. It's a completely different way of life. Of course, that's a completely different lifestyle to the one you have with James. But there are similarities, for example when it comes to controlling hygiene, certain tasks and early bedtimes.
I finally have time for myself and can pursue my amusements and leisure activities that are only intended for adults.
My husband treats me with the utmost respect and humility appropriate to his role in my life.
Things like hours of play or similar are not planned.
Of course, this kind of attitude is very different from yours, but Nevertheless, I follow your blog with great interest.
Paul is first and foremost my husband, whom I love very much, but I also keep him very strict. I am an advocate of rather extreme
FLR, which is definitely supported with BDSM elements.
So even before his offence, he primarily had to do his job and perform intimate services for me and the initiated.
But now, because of the punishment, he no longer has any personal free time. Nevertheless, the sentence ended after a year, but I have become so accustomed to the benefits that I am considering making it a general way of life for me and Paul.
Of course, I realise that this kind of thing is extremely controversial here.
What I can say, however, is that our relationship has improved considerably since things like watching football and going out with friends became taboo for Paul.
Despite all the differences, I'd be interested to know what people here think about it...
If he hadn't been cheeky with my best friend and she hadn't suggested the best way to deal with it, we would probably never have had such a pronounced time and task-orientated division of the day. An early bedtime hadn't even occurred to me before.
Nevertheless, I would like to emphasise that our relationship is based on love and deep affection, but is characterised by a strict and unyielding FLR.
All my guests admire the state of my flat and how well-behaved Paul has become. Of course, I take into account the physical deficits that are inherent in a 66-year-old man and ensure that his body and mind are regularly exercised. The latter through writing tasks at the weekend.
For example, I have him write a long essay about how well abstinence from electronic media is working for him and how he has become a better husband through more meaningful activities.
To outsiders, this sounds pretty extreme, I realise, especially as corporal punishment has become a formative element in his upbringing.
But, of course, our relationship has grown over the years and was characterised by the principle of voluntariness at the beginning.
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