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radfem-book-club

I really do recommend reading S.C.U.M. Manifesto if you haven’t.

I studied political philosophy in college. I’ve sunk hundreds of hours into writings by men who truly believed women were sub-human sex animals; truly believed it and thought that belief was divine brilliance. I don’t flinch at these anymore, but it’s hard to get through the misandrist manifesto. Even at its peak, it is not one tenth as degrading, dehumanizing, violent, as what “great thinkers” wrote of women. We are more desensitized to our own dehumanization than we know.

This is exactly what I was talking about. However bigots have no brain, and misogynists have no morals.

if a black person doesn’t enjoy the black experience because they experience racism, does that make them not a black person anymore? if a gay person doesn’t enjoy being gay because they experience homophobia, does that mean they are not gay? if a woman doesn’t enjoy womanhood because she experiences misogyny, does that mean she is no longer a woman?

oppressed groups expressing the discomfort that comes with who they are in a world that is utterly cruel to them doesn’t mean they no longer want to be who they were born as. the thing with systemic oppression is that it is designed to make the people affected by it uncomfortable and unhappy, it’s inescapable. thinking women have to be happy within the confinements of our oppression to be considered women or else it suddenly indicates we are identifing out of our material realities is frankly doing nothing to help our situation but only suggests that, unless we ignore or enjoy our oppression like monkeys in a zoo, we should just stop fighting and live delusionally as someone we are not and never will be. if women who don’t enjoy womenhood thought like that there would be no movements fighting for our liberation, which is exactly what MRAs are striving for. this just proves that trans activists are utterly anti-woman.

Yeah radical feminism is racist and cant be redeemed sorry it doesnt matter how many times you say we should read the ramblings of a white woman

How is radical feminism racist? Can you elaborate please?

I would like to no longer be associated with TERFs. I can’t in good consciousness separate transgender people with uteruses from my activism. They’re important. It does not matter that they make different life choices than I, they deserve to have basic human rights. The right to love, safe medical practices, and happiness.

Therefore, I will be adding them to the list of things I will need to learn from, to better my growth as a feminist and an activist.

WE CANNOT EXCLUDE THEM FROM THESE DISCUSSIONS.

If anyone is willing to take the time to teach me and help me unlearn my disdain, please message me. I wish to listen and learn. I want to understand your perspective. I want to change the way I think. I will not argue. I will listen.

Who gives a shit honestly.

You apparently.

To all the people trying to argue with me:

I will get to your replies later. I have to take my gf to the doctors. But know that I will be replying. 😑

People can keep trying me. Little do they know I’ve got time to tell racists about themselves. 💅🏻

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR1FBPsh/?k=1

@rad-fire-fox

radical-fire-vixen

seriously? a tik tok? you want me to take a fucking tik tok as a serious source??

what next? a tweet?

A tiktok from an indigenous woman talking about intersectionality. You cannot be that aloof that you see it as ridiculous. You’re white fragility is what separates you from being a feminist. You’re not one. You’re a racist.

radical-fire-vixen

it’s fucking tik tok. you want me to take you seriously, how about some actually academic/reliable sources 🙄🙄 tik tok. jesus christ, that place is rife with so much male bullshit and blatant misogyny i can smell it through my screen. at least pretend to have some dignity.

and this isn’t me saying that indigenous women on tik tok are making shit up or whatever. what i’m saying is that tik tok itself is completely unreliable as a source for information. i’ve been embroiled in academics too long to trust fucking social media sites. especially a site that is overrun with trans crap and sells user information to third parties. come back when you have some actual articles with sources. maybe like actual articles from the tribes and nations themselves.

if you want to talk about indigenous women, why not talk to one of these women that i follow personally on here. @katara-radfem is an indigenous woman. she’s talked extensively on her experiences.

“you’re white fragility” ‘you are white fragility’ that’s a new one.

Here you go. It is an academic source that sums up perfectly what you are doing and have been doing our entire conversation.

https://keough.nd.edu/the-image-and-failure-of-white-feminism/

When you work as a writer in various media, you learn to develop your content with a visual element in mind: you hire an illustrator […]

And in case you don’t fully comprehend anything, which I assume you won’t because you haven’t shown you’re capable of that, here:

@rad-fire-fox Here is some more for you.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/05/books/review/kyla-schuller-the-trouble-with-white-women-a-counterhistory-of-feminism.html

Kyla Schuller’s “The Trouble With White Women” exposes the hypocrisies and patriarchal overtones of the mainstream movement for women’s righ

And another one…

http://newamerica.org/the-thread/the-gaps-of-white-feminism-and-the-women-of-color-who-fall-through/

The white feminist movement failed to center the collective survival and thriving of all women. Here's how to build a more inclusive ideolog

radical-fire-vixen

fucking took you long enough.

now, show me where i was doing anything of what you’re accusing me of. show me the fuck where. quote me. point out where i was being a ‘white feminist’. show me where i was being racist.

because reading through literally everything i’ve said to you, i’m not seeing any correlation. if i’m wrong, then i’m sorry. but honestly, me pointing out that female liberation is more than enough to fight for on its own, and that you wanting feminism to fix literally everything wrong and thereby diluting feminism to the point where it leaves the very people it’s supposed to help, women and girls, behind in the dust while males are catered to, means you are not a feminist, and should take it elsewhere, because you are the very kind of person that defangs feminism.

like, that doesn’t sound like white feminism. that sounds like radical feminism, like the feminism that Jewish women, black women, Latin women, East Asian women, African women, all kinds of women follow and practice and fight for, and I’m pretty sure the women of color that i follow/follow me would’ve pointed if i was being racist, because literally nothing would stop them from saying so.

Either you completely ignored the multiple times I stated I don’t care what you do and how other people can do what they please but I literally stated that I feel the need to fight for both feminism and racism.

YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT.

I don’t think they would seeing as your response to me shows how little you care about poc voices. And yes it does sound like white feminism. Especially when you try to tell a poc they’re not a feminist for advocating for racism. You have repeatedly berated me and ignored my very statement from the beginning that you can do as you please and I will do what I please.

Because no. I’m sorry. As a woc I will advocate for both. And I am well with in my right to do so.

radical-fire-vixen

pfft, you clearly care, as you bothered to create a whole new post and tag me in it. you can keep lying to yourself all you want. doesn’t mean i nor anyone else has to believe your lies too.

btw, this was your original statement:

“i don’t want to be associated with radfems despite them being the only ones that actually give a shit about all women, including those who don’t identify as women, because i’m an actual feminist. and i’ll say that i’ll listen and not argue and i welcome anyone to help me try to ‘unlearn’ my disdain, but i’m actually lying out of my ass because i refuse to listen to those evil white terves no matter how many times they’ve stated their actual views otherwise or how many state that most radfems are actually not white because the majority of women in the world are not white and therefore the majority of radfems are not white either.”

like, you literally did not mention women of color at all in your op. and instead, you accused us radfems of not caring about transmen, whom you referred to with dehumanizing language, despite that being an outright lie. and when we called you out on it, you moved the goalposts to ‘actually i’m advocating for woc’. the evidence is literally right there.

Terfs is the word I used. And terfs and radfems are not synonymous. And no I refuse to listen to racist white women who can’t comprehend the simple concept of intersectionality which is what I have been preaching this entire time.

I never accused anyone of not caring about transmen. I personally did not care about them and that is on me. I had a hate for them. And I am correcting and educating myself.

“Moving the goalpost” is something incels say. Just saying. Seems like you’ve been on reddit.

And I am an actual feminist. I care about all women especially woc and listen to them when they voice their concerns or worries. I don’t try and talk over them but to learn from them. You should try that sometime☺️

@celtyradicalfem No where did I mention others at all. I stated that is what I would be doing. You and your white feminist friends can do as you please. And that is what I have said from THE VERY BEGINNING☺️

@celtyradicalfem It’s suspicious that I’m concerned about the domino effect this ruling has on the rights of many other marginalized groups? You must be privileged enough to not have to worry about the other right of yours that will be taken away.

I wish I and so many others had that luxury…

@celtyradicalfem I linked you two whole sources. All of this information takes two seconds to look up. But proceed in denying history. Just makes you look more like a white feminist.

@celtyradicalfem Yes. I screenshot so that you can’t go back and delete your racist takes. Susan B Anthony was a racist. Simple as that. Like I said. Read the articles I sent. And then respond. Until then we have nothing more to discuss. You’re the definition of a white feminist.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR1FBPsh/?k=1

@rad-fire-fox

radical-fire-vixen

seriously? a tik tok? you want me to take a fucking tik tok as a serious source??

what next? a tweet?

A tiktok from an indigenous woman talking about intersectionality. You cannot be that aloof that you see it as ridiculous. You’re white fragility is what separates you from being a feminist. You’re not one. You’re a racist.

radical-fire-vixen

it’s fucking tik tok. you want me to take you seriously, how about some actually academic/reliable sources 🙄🙄 tik tok. jesus christ, that place is rife with so much male bullshit and blatant misogyny i can smell it through my screen. at least pretend to have some dignity.

and this isn’t me saying that indigenous women on tik tok are making shit up or whatever. what i’m saying is that tik tok itself is completely unreliable as a source for information. i’ve been embroiled in academics too long to trust fucking social media sites. especially a site that is overrun with trans crap and sells user information to third parties. come back when you have some actual articles with sources. maybe like actual articles from the tribes and nations themselves.

if you want to talk about indigenous women, why not talk to one of these women that i follow personally on here. @katara-radfem is an indigenous woman. she’s talked extensively on her experiences.

“you’re white fragility” ‘you are white fragility’ that’s a new one.

Here you go. It is an academic source that sums up perfectly what you are doing and have been doing our entire conversation.

https://keough.nd.edu/the-image-and-failure-of-white-feminism/

When you work as a writer in various media, you learn to develop your content with a visual element in mind: you hire an illustrator […]

And in case you don’t fully comprehend anything, which I assume you won’t because you haven’t shown you’re capable of that, here:

@rad-fire-fox Here is some more for you.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/05/books/review/kyla-schuller-the-trouble-with-white-women-a-counterhistory-of-feminism.html

Kyla Schuller’s “The Trouble With White Women” exposes the hypocrisies and patriarchal overtones of the mainstream movement for women’s righ

And another one…

http://newamerica.org/the-thread/the-gaps-of-white-feminism-and-the-women-of-color-who-fall-through/

The white feminist movement failed to center the collective survival and thriving of all women. Here's how to build a more inclusive ideolog

radical-fire-vixen

fucking took you long enough.

now, show me where i was doing anything of what you’re accusing me of. show me the fuck where. quote me. point out where i was being a ‘white feminist’. show me where i was being racist.

because reading through literally everything i’ve said to you, i’m not seeing any correlation. if i’m wrong, then i’m sorry. but honestly, me pointing out that female liberation is more than enough to fight for on its own, and that you wanting feminism to fix literally everything wrong and thereby diluting feminism to the point where it leaves the very people it’s supposed to help, women and girls, behind in the dust while males are catered to, means you are not a feminist, and should take it elsewhere, because you are the very kind of person that defangs feminism.

like, that doesn’t sound like white feminism. that sounds like radical feminism, like the feminism that Jewish women, black women, Latin women, East Asian women, African women, all kinds of women follow and practice and fight for, and I’m pretty sure the women of color that i follow/follow me would’ve pointed if i was being racist, because literally nothing would stop them from saying so.

Either you completely ignored the multiple times I stated I don’t care what you do and how other people can do what they please but I literally stated that I feel the need to fight for both feminism and racism.

YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT.

I don’t think they would seeing as your response to me shows how little you care about poc voices. And yes it does sound like white feminism. Especially when you try to tell a poc they’re not a feminist for advocating for racism. You have repeatedly berated me and ignored my very statement from the beginning that you can do as you please and I will do what I please.

Because no. I’m sorry. As a woc I will advocate for both. And I am well with in my right to do so.

@celtyradicalfem you replied 14 times. Each not on the post with multiple articles that say different and literally prove my point. You keep replying with this but many pocs know different. This is why I say you and rad are white feminists. How about you stop replying and get to reading. There’s a lot. And I’m under the impression you’ll have to read it twice to comprehend it.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR1FBPsh/?k=1

@rad-fire-fox

radical-fire-vixen

seriously? a tik tok? you want me to take a fucking tik tok as a serious source??

what next? a tweet?

A tiktok from an indigenous woman talking about intersectionality. You cannot be that aloof that you see it as ridiculous. You’re white fragility is what separates you from being a feminist. You’re not one. You’re a racist.

radical-fire-vixen

it’s fucking tik tok. you want me to take you seriously, how about some actually academic/reliable sources 🙄🙄 tik tok. jesus christ, that place is rife with so much male bullshit and blatant misogyny i can smell it through my screen. at least pretend to have some dignity.

and this isn’t me saying that indigenous women on tik tok are making shit up or whatever. what i’m saying is that tik tok itself is completely unreliable as a source for information. i’ve been embroiled in academics too long to trust fucking social media sites. especially a site that is overrun with trans crap and sells user information to third parties. come back when you have some actual articles with sources. maybe like actual articles from the tribes and nations themselves.

if you want to talk about indigenous women, why not talk to one of these women that i follow personally on here. @katara-radfem is an indigenous woman. she’s talked extensively on her experiences.

“you’re white fragility” ‘you are white fragility’ that’s a new one.

That is exactly what you’re doing. An indigenous woman’s word isn’t good enough. Her and other poc’s lived experiences aren’t enough for you. The things she stated are all basic history and take two seconds to look up.

The fact that you’re denying basic historic knowledge to ease your mind of the fact that you’re past reblogs where filled with racism is beside me.

And yes you are a prime example of white fragility.

radical-fire-vixen

tik tok is not a reliable source of information because of how easily it can twisted and faked and edited, and there’s a fountain of misinformation being passed around as fact. why are you incapable of finding actually credible sources? why not cite reputable sources like from the actual tribes and nations? seems like it would be a lot smarter to cite sources that are actually reliable, and not a bunch of fucking videos from a social media platform that sells your personal information and location to third parties.

like, please miss me with the misconstruing. it’s boring, pathetic, and shows you’re a fool. go be an egalitarian elsewhere. we don’t need you diluting feminism to the point where it helps no one because it’s including our oppressors.

It’s not misinformation at all. It’s honestly showing how racist you are that you believe a woc is lying about the horrific things woc faced due to white people. These are all things you could look up. It takes two seconds to do research on every single thing she stated.

If you think woc advocating for the end of racism is “diluting feminism” you’re not a feminist. Because once again, YOUR FEMINISM DOESNT ADVOCATE FOR WOC.

And once again what you fail to learn from history is that you as a white woman are an oppressor as well. Just like those men we all hate. You need to educate yourself and I hope someone helps you with that. This is honestly proving many poc’s points on white feminism.

radical-fire-vixen

me saying tik tok is unreliable as an information source=all women of color are lying on there to you. ok. you can keep lying and misconstruing about what i actually said.

why do you refuse to cite actually credible sources? why do you refuse to cite actual articles written by indigenous people, that are actually reputable? seems like that would be way smarter in order to support your argument. or are you just making shit up about me in order to justify your insane theories about radfems?

go whine about feminism not centering males elsewhere.

I see you’re actually incapable of reading because I have cited many sources for you. Lmfao and you’re still on males. That which I give 0 fucks about. There are many radfems who understand the importance of intersectionality. My problem is with you and your incessant need to silence me and my advocacy of woc alongside feminism. My need to advocate against racism. No where did I ever mention males. No where. That was all you.

I am not misconstruing anything. I’m simply stating what you said and how you are spewing racist rhetoric and appear to be racist. You said what you said and everyone can see what you said. I have had multiple people read what you said and they all agree with me. You need to educate yourself. That is why I linked multiple articles that should fit your requirements for reliable sources since an indigenous woman’s wasn’t enough for you.

@celtyradicalfem Ah yes. Another white woman telling me about feminism and how it has supposedly been for all women. That’s interesting when the American feminist movements specifically stated they did not want woc to have rights. It doesnt matter who wrote “white fragility”. You and your friend are prime examples of what woc feminist call “white feminism ”. You lack a basic understanding of intersectionality and refuse to educate yourself. You’re not feminist.

You and rad have gone so far to actually sound racist. Isn’t that funny.

@celtyradicalfem

That’s a lie. Here you go since I understand now that you white feminist are incapable of doing your research and refuse to properly advocate for woc.

http://newamerica.org/the-thread/the-gaps-of-white-feminism-and-the-women-of-color-who-fall-through/

The white feminist movement failed to center the collective survival and thriving of all women. Here's how to build a more inclusive ideolog

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2021/10/05/books/review/kyla-schuller-the-trouble-with-white-women-a-counterhistory-of-feminism.amp.html

Kyla Schuller’s “The Trouble With White Women” exposes the hypocrisies and patriarchal overtones of the mainstream movement for women’s righ

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR1FBPsh/?k=1

@rad-fire-fox

radical-fire-vixen

seriously? a tik tok? you want me to take a fucking tik tok as a serious source??

what next? a tweet?

A tiktok from an indigenous woman talking about intersectionality. You cannot be that aloof that you see it as ridiculous. You’re white fragility is what separates you from being a feminist. You’re not one. You’re a racist.

radical-fire-vixen

it’s fucking tik tok. you want me to take you seriously, how about some actually academic/reliable sources 🙄🙄 tik tok. jesus christ, that place is rife with so much male bullshit and blatant misogyny i can smell it through my screen. at least pretend to have some dignity.

and this isn’t me saying that indigenous women on tik tok are making shit up or whatever. what i’m saying is that tik tok itself is completely unreliable as a source for information. i’ve been embroiled in academics too long to trust fucking social media sites. especially a site that is overrun with trans crap and sells user information to third parties. come back when you have some actual articles with sources. maybe like actual articles from the tribes and nations themselves.

if you want to talk about indigenous women, why not talk to one of these women that i follow personally on here. @katara-radfem is an indigenous woman. she’s talked extensively on her experiences.

“you’re white fragility” ‘you are white fragility’ that’s a new one.

Here you go. It is an academic source that sums up perfectly what you are doing and have been doing our entire conversation.

https://keough.nd.edu/the-image-and-failure-of-white-feminism/

When you work as a writer in various media, you learn to develop your content with a visual element in mind: you hire an illustrator […]

And in case you don’t fully comprehend anything, which I assume you won’t because you haven’t shown you’re capable of that, here:

@rad-fire-fox Here is some more for you.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/05/books/review/kyla-schuller-the-trouble-with-white-women-a-counterhistory-of-feminism.html

Kyla Schuller’s “The Trouble With White Women” exposes the hypocrisies and patriarchal overtones of the mainstream movement for women’s righ

And another one…

http://newamerica.org/the-thread/the-gaps-of-white-feminism-and-the-women-of-color-who-fall-through/

The white feminist movement failed to center the collective survival and thriving of all women. Here's how to build a more inclusive ideolog

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR1FBPsh/?k=1

@rad-fire-fox

radical-fire-vixen

seriously? a tik tok? you want me to take a fucking tik tok as a serious source??

what next? a tweet?

A tiktok from an indigenous woman talking about intersectionality. You cannot be that aloof that you see it as ridiculous. You’re white fragility is what separates you from being a feminist. You’re not one. You’re a racist.

radical-fire-vixen

it’s fucking tik tok. you want me to take you seriously, how about some actually academic/reliable sources 🙄🙄 tik tok. jesus christ, that place is rife with so much male bullshit and blatant misogyny i can smell it through my screen. at least pretend to have some dignity.

and this isn’t me saying that indigenous women on tik tok are making shit up or whatever. what i’m saying is that tik tok itself is completely unreliable as a source for information. i’ve been embroiled in academics too long to trust fucking social media sites. especially a site that is overrun with trans crap and sells user information to third parties. come back when you have some actual articles with sources. maybe like actual articles from the tribes and nations themselves.

if you want to talk about indigenous women, why not talk to one of these women that i follow personally on here. @katara-radfem is an indigenous woman. she’s talked extensively on her experiences.

“you’re white fragility” ‘you are white fragility’ that’s a new one.

Here you go. It is an academic source that sums up perfectly what you are doing and have been doing our entire conversation.

https://keough.nd.edu/the-image-and-failure-of-white-feminism/

When you work as a writer in various media, you learn to develop your content with a visual element in mind: you hire an illustrator […]

And in case you don’t fully comprehend anything, which I assume you won’t because you haven’t shown you’re capable of that, here:

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