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30. jewish, trans, and alive. he/him/his. leo sun, leo rising, aries moon. musician, singer, songwriter, poet, visual artist.

[fersureyoubetcha]

my partner of almost 3 years and I broke up a week ago, I think I'm gonna be Journaling here maybe. just need to be heard on some stuff. it's a hard time. they were a serious honest true love of my life and are still.

[fersureyoubetcha]

Shaved my head for the first time a couple days ago and just shaved my few days beard growth too too cause I missed my face being soft.

[simonalkenmayer]

Watch this to learn how to put down toxic masculinity and internalized misogyny. As with “the kids these days are terrible” beginning circa prehistory (thanks Plato) this points to “men aren’t masculine anymore” and tracks it backward.

I keep saying nothing ever changes to those who know history.

[greenjudy]

DAMN

[getvalentined]

I'm reblogging this both for the excellent commentary and for the JEM AND THE HOLOGRAMS T-SHIRT??? SIR WHERE DID YOU GET THAT

[runephoenix6769]

Yeah!! That Jem tee is bitching.

[freakoutgirl]

not to sound like a victorian woman suffering from hysteria but i do think going to the sea would fix me

[tabbystardust]

[mr-jaybird]

pictured: nerd to nerd friendship

[toriz0]

futurama episodes be funny as hell and then the last 2 minutes are like

[lesbinewren]

don’t let anyone on this website call you cringe they literally have a tumblr account

[undeadhousewife]

What I love about this site is the fact it's the closest I've gotten to pre-2000 internet in years. No one knows anyone's real name, photos are entirely optional, and we're pretty sure at least one of our mutuals is 100% lying about everything. There's a reason it's one of the only social media sites I keep coming back to. It somehow manages to be just as horrible, enjoyable, and chaotic as 1990s chat rooms used to be.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

The internet is a gentrified neighbourhood and we’re a stubborn old lady refusing to sell her run-down home to the developers.

[mentalhealth]

how much of ur online presence is performative and how much is it u being u

[soil-boy]

baby every me is me, we are the mask and the wearer

[fersureyoubetcha]

yo what the fuck is up with all these spam bots it's even worse than it was like 5 years ago???

[kieraplease]

I’M COMING BACK TO TUMBLR.. to vibe and stuff (via kiera please)

[hotgirlsasuke-deactivated202011]

what is your cishet male trait mine is being a car fan

[susansontag]

thought this was neat

[homobiwan]

there are some autistic “traits” that people find really annoying but that are inherently kind

[homobiwan]

like overexplaining. a lot of autistic people didn’t have certain things explained to them because “everyone knows that.” so when an autistic person overexplains something it’s not because they think you’re stupid it’s because they know how it feels for someone to assume you know something you don’t and just not ever explain how or why. it’s a kindness. autistic people aren’t annoying or stupid for this. they’re kind.

[skunkes]

On a lighter + adjacent note i love dis tweet + these QRTs of it ^_^... literally...

[fluttershyplushie]

honestly the boundaries between friendship and romance don’t really matter that much like at all if everyone involved is ok with it

[fluttershyplushie]

like most of what is and isn’t romance is cultural/constructed anyways... you can take and leave what you want with it as long as you maintain boundaries. does that make sense

[fersureyoubetcha]

being reminded of someone that yall used to be very deeply in love with each other and are not anymore hits in a way that like even myself as a poet struggle to fully encapsulate, especially as someone with like adhd / autism where the passage of time is very different for me , it's just like. it kind of feels like reaching back to read something in a book that you had an old bookmark in and haven't read in a while but you open to the page and realize, as you're reading, you remember everything on it because this was your favourite part of the book. and it's tear stained, it's stained with the sweat and oils from fingers coming back to it over and over, and you realize you probably need to put it back on the shelf so it doesn't totally deteriorate. it's ok that this book has a favourite page. but maybe you don't need to go back and read it all the time when it also really guts you to do it.

[fersureyoubetcha]

just an update for the buddies:

still in Colorado, my hamster is almost 2.5, my relationships are going OK, I just had covid for the first time and I'm recovering and am exhausted, I'm playing music almost every day, I'm hanging in there. Have a lot of trouble leaving my house. Not doing so great with the mask mandates down and seeing my loved ones doing shit all the time. I'm the loneliest I've been I think since the pandemic started but I'm at least safe? I only got back on here cause I'm sad and by myself most of the time. And Twitter sucks but if you wanna follow me there or Instagram or somewhere else send me a chat and I'll tell you what they are. I don't wanna post here cause I think I still have people who follow me who might stalk and leak my socials if they find them and put me in a dangerous spot.

Anyway,

love yall buddies- hope you're good.