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Writing Prompt: Three Things
grief makes us worse people, kissing a dead womanâs ghost, nothing should scare you now
âRight now I still have some choice in the matter. Not whether to die, but when and how. Isnât that freedom of a sort? Oh, and who to take down with me. I have made my list.â
â Margaret Atwood, The Testaments
new episode of my podcast Backlog Books is out now (link in pinned post)
The Vorkosigan Saga by Lois McMaster Bujold
If you've ever wanted to spend 1.5hrs listening to me and @longsightmyth talk about the Vorkosigan saga (mostly), now is your chance! Many many thanks to Myth for joining me and being game to tackle a different set of books than you were expecting.
I know this is going to make me sound pretensions but I have to get it off my chest. I feel an unimaginable rage when someone posts a photo and is like "this picture looks like a renaissance painting lol" when the photo clearly has the lighting, colors and composition of a baroque or romantic painting. There are differences in these styles and those differences are important and labeling every "classical" looking painting as renaissance is annoying and upsetting to me. And anytime I come across one of those posts I have to put down my phone and go take a walk because they make me so mad
In case you're curious here's what I mean.
Renaissance(distinct lines, stability and the individual man):
Baroque (bold, chaotic, dramatic):
Romantic(romanticize the simple hard working life):
Do you see the difference?
this post has re-wired my brain in the best way
Hey, I know it's April 1st, but NaNoWriMo is officially shutting down in large part due to their embrace of AI as a last-ditch effort to recover from previous mismanagement, and boy I think that tells you a lot.
Copy of email:
To Our NaNoWriMo Community:
We come to you today with sad news. After six years of struggling to sustain itself financially, NaNoWriMo (the nonprofit) will begin the process of shutting down.
Explaining how we got here is both simple and complex. The funding woes that have threatened so many nonprofits in recent years are an unextraordinary trend. Many beloved organizations announced their closure last year. Many more are fighting for their lives. Media coverage of financial crisis within the sectorâespecially among arts nonprofitsâhas been widespread.
Yet, there are ways in which NaNoWriMo is extraordinaryâand reasons why we had hoped we could buck that trend. The sheer size of our community, its global reach and its longevity, held at impressive levels, even during a tumultuous year. There is no shortage of writers who want to participate in NaNoWriMo. Yet, building a community and being able to sustain it are two different matters. 2024 was a revelatory year.
In order to fully understand how we reached this decision, and why we view it as the only alternative, we encourage you to watch this video about the State of NaNoWriMo. The video also contains some important acknowledgments and information about the logistics of our next steps. Most importantly, the video shares real data and information that the organization has not discussed previously. The plot is thicker than you might think.
(Video mentioned, by Kilby Blake)
We recognize that the closure of NaNoWriMo represents a huge loss to the writing community, and that grief over this outcome will be exacerbated by the challenges of the past sixteen months. This is not the ending that anybody wanted or planned. Andâbelieve usâif we could hit the delete button and rewrite this last chapter, we would. But we do have hope for the epilogue.
Whatâs next for NaNoWriMo, the indebted nonprofit, is much different from what's next for actual Wrimos. We hold no belief that people will stop writing 50,000 words in November (and April, and July) or stop seeking support for the journey theyâre on. Many alternatives to NaNoWriMo popped up this year, and people did find each other. In so many ways, itâs easier than it was when NaNoWriMo began in 1999 to find your writing tribe online.
Our greatest hope at this moment is that you do two things: support arts nonprofits you love (they really, truly need you) and keep writing words. Your stories matter.
Thank you for all you have done for the organization, and especially for each other, over all these years.
Sincerely,
The NaNoWriMo Team
I do have to note this was sent to most people yesterday (myself included), word is just getting out today.
Don't forget to feed your wip some lines of fresh words today and then let it roam free in your head.
âSherman made the terrible discovery that men make about their fathers sooner or later⊠that the man before him was not an aging father but a boy, a boy much like himself, a boy who grew up and had a child of his own and, as best he could, out of a sense of duty and, perhaps love, adopted a role called Being a Father so that his child would have something mythical and infinitely important: a Protector, who would keep a lid on all the chaotic and catastrophic possibilities of life.â
â Tom Wolfe, The Bonfire of the Vanities
absolutely feral about the interview with Martha Wells where she quite literally said ART is the love of Murderbotâs life. agender asexual traumatized robot couple my beloved
I hadn't read/heard that interview so here's a source
I am on the FLOOR
Direct quote!!!!! That's a direct quote!
lmao I brought Elrondriel into it because you romanticize and idealize it while you can't even fully call it sexist and problematic the way Elrond spoke to Galadriel or how she was written next to him. You can't use those words but you can say that about Haladriel headcanons.. I know you've never called the Elrondriel headcanons about Elrond taking Galadriel's role and fighting Sauron or Elrond saving Galadriel sexist. You must have seen those but you only choose to speak about Haladriel. That's my problem. I'm sending my last ask. I'm. douche but truthful douche.
Answering just to say I don't even know what are these Elrondriel headcanons you keep bringing up. You literally made them up, or I haven't seen them so none of this bs is my concern anyway.
You sent five messages just because you can't accept that every Haladriel doesn't enjoy the same headcanons. Lol, when you could have just blocked me. You call yourself truthful, while you're harassing me under the cover of anonymity because you don't have the balls to tell me all this with your Tumblr name??
You're a joke.
YeahâŠthis is exactly why it was difficult to talk about this specific topic without being attacked for it. These asks are just proving the Haladriels who were afraid of exactly this happening correct.
also @rey-jake-therapist hey, you started straight-up idealising elrondriel apparently and you didnât even tell me, your fiancĂ©e, about it?for shame!
I can tackle your question from private conversations I've been privy to. Don't shoot the messenger. Elrond and Galadriel fans I've seen don't call the misogyny of their dynamic as misogyny. They ignore it. Just one instance: Elrond exiling her has been handwaved away. Whenever I saw the writing and how Elrond was used to bring Galadriel to heel being brought up on other platforms, they argued that it wasn't misogynistic writing because it makes Elrond look bad. That's the idealization. There's also that their dynamic is one where Galadriel met Elrond as a child and her an adult woman and yet the fandom had elided past that to my amusement.
Fans all do this a bit but it gets tricky when Haladriel fans aren't allowed the same kind of room without being called sexist or problematic. OP was very strong worded on that Haladriel speculation and anon is pointing out that they're not equally strong worded on their other ship's canon sexist writing.
I'm a lurker for months and I've seen Haladriel fans can't breathe without their headcanons and theories shot down and being called names. So if Haladriel fans can't theorize and people can't bring up why they don't like a theory, it's a no win situation.
To the anon, this isn't the forum. Blocking the OP and talking to like-minded people in private is the only way to go.
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Fair enough. Here, I understand the criticism. Said like this, it makes me want to self reflect and consider seriously certain criticism than can indeed be made against another relationship I like very much. When someone doesn't yell anonymously at me, strangely I find myself in a better disposition to understand what the problem is and try to answer accordingly...
I like Elrondriel a lot, it's true, but I also just send one Elrondriel post once in a while. I mean, anyone who checks my blog can see that it's mostly a Haladriel blog. So yes, it's true that I never took the time to make an in depth analysis of Elrondriel headcanons and of the problematic sides of the relationship, because so far for me it's mostly a fun comfort ship that I like to think of when I want a respite from the angst of Haladriel. My bad, because these are questions that make me want to dig deeper. I criticized Elrond's behavior towards Galadriel several times though, especially season 2 Elrond.
I truly had no idea that this dismissal of the problems happened so openly though, because up until a couple of months ago I never checked the Elrondriel tag or followed discussion related to the relationship.
But here Anon harassed me for ONE post I made about ONE popular Haladriel theory I'm uncomfortable with. I don't think I deserved to receive 7 hostile anon messages just for expressing myself ONCE, not on Haladriel itself that I would never call sexist (hell I love it) but on one theory... But whatever, I'll never talk about this theory again and will do my best to pretend it doesn't exist. It's what's expected of me and of everyone else who doen't support this theory, Haladriels included, clearly.
Right now, I'm at the point where I don't feel safe saying anything in this fandom (TROP in general) anymore, and today's harassment proves I am right to feel that way and should stick to silly posts đ€·đŒââïž
Anyway, thank you for your honesty đđŒ
I saw apologism on other platforms not Tumblr but those doing it are on here which I'll keep quiet about.
You shouldn't stop doing what you want because of anyone especially an anon. They're wrong in how they came at you. It's whataboutism but it did work because my first thought was dismissing your concerns about the theory if you don't question sexism elsewhere. It did make me doubt your intentions. That's not fair to your very valid concerns about the theory, but we're all human only.
What I've seen is Haladriel theories and speculation are ripe for Haladriel opps to silence it. This happened with the Sauron in Adar's tent theory where the theory was called sexist too. To me, anon is reacting to the hostility of people shutting down Haladriel fans for years in bad faith and not seeing your concerns as good faith. Because once you call someone's theory and speculation sexist, you've essentially killed that discussion because nobody wants to engage in an -ism.
But now you feel silenced in criticizing the theory but I don't think you should. You should discuss it and talk about it because the solution isn't for everyone from speculators and criticizers to go quiet because the environment for years has been bad faith arguments.
I'm very thankful that you took the time to speak to me with such honesty. And I completely understand your initial reaction to Anon's messages first. Your posts gave me much to think about and it opened my eyes to certain problems I probably turned a blind eye to until now because I wanted to focus on the good stuff. I'm only human too and I still need to learn and grow, which I hopefully do every day. I have no words for how much I appreciate what you did here, even if it may not seem much to you!
Regarding the anon, I'm mostly vexed that I wasn't given the benefits of the doubt as it's obvious I'm not "an anti", and that my discomfort towards a popular theory was immediately dismissed as me "not loving Haladriel anymore". And I agree with the term "whataboutism", it's exactly what it was. It's not the first time I was aggressively called out on anon for liking Elrondriel; the first time happened after I made a very innocent post where I joked I wanted Sauron to be jealous of Elrond. I was called a "double faced bitch" because I dared shipping Galadriel with another guy than Sauron... If it happens again I guess I'll just have to close my ask box to anons for good. It's not something I want to do because most of the messages I received these last months have been nothing but respectful and nice, but I'm here to have fun, after all.
They shouldn't have called you names. What happens with multishipping is people end up suspicious of multishippers' motives if they insult one ship or character for another ship or character. That's common in fandoms because no one wants to deal with backhanded insults by their fellow shippers especially if it's a hostile fandom. I have seen multishippers who insult Sauron and Saurondriel but not the other man or the other ship. I'm being somewhat open because posts were shared with me in private by fellow fans. People talk.
I don't know what your post looked like but that's still no excuse for calling you names. Blocking works instead and just tell other people in private.
You're welcome.
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lmao I brought Elrondriel into it because you romanticize and idealize it while you can't even fully call it sexist and problematic the way Elrond spoke to Galadriel or how she was written next to him. You can't use those words but you can say that about Haladriel headcanons.. I know you've never called the Elrondriel headcanons about Elrond taking Galadriel's role and fighting Sauron or Elrond saving Galadriel sexist. You must have seen those but you only choose to speak about Haladriel. That's my problem. I'm sending my last ask. I'm. douche but truthful douche.
Answering just to say I don't even know what are these Elrondriel headcanons you keep bringing up. You literally made them up, or I haven't seen them so none of this bs is my concern anyway.
You sent five messages just because you can't accept that every Haladriel doesn't enjoy the same headcanons. Lol, when you could have just blocked me. You call yourself truthful, while you're harassing me under the cover of anonymity because you don't have the balls to tell me all this with your Tumblr name??
You're a joke.
YeahâŠthis is exactly why it was difficult to talk about this specific topic without being attacked for it. These asks are just proving the Haladriels who were afraid of exactly this happening correct.
also @rey-jake-therapist hey, you started straight-up idealising elrondriel apparently and you didnât even tell me, your fiancĂ©e, about it?for shame!
I can tackle your question from private conversations I've been privy to. Don't shoot the messenger. Elrond and Galadriel fans I've seen don't call the misogyny of their dynamic as misogyny. They ignore it. Just one instance: Elrond exiling her has been handwaved away. Whenever I saw the writing and how Elrond was used to bring Galadriel to heel being brought up on other platforms, they argued that it wasn't misogynistic writing because it makes Elrond look bad. That's the idealization. There's also that their dynamic is one where Galadriel met Elrond as a child and her an adult woman and yet the fandom had elided past that to my amusement.
Fans all do this a bit but it gets tricky when Haladriel fans aren't allowed the same kind of room without being called sexist or problematic. OP was very strong worded on that Haladriel speculation and anon is pointing out that they're not equally strong worded on their other ship's canon sexist writing.
I'm a lurker for months and I've seen Haladriel fans can't breathe without their headcanons and theories shot down and being called names. So if Haladriel fans can't theorize and people can't bring up why they don't like a theory, it's a no win situation.
To the anon, this isn't the forum. Blocking the OP and talking to like-minded people in private is the only way to go.
@fictionalkatewarne
Fair enough. Here, I understand the criticism. Said like this, it makes me want to self reflect and consider seriously certain criticism than can indeed be made against another relationship I like very much. When someone doesn't yell anonymously at me, strangely I find myself in a better disposition to understand what the problem is and try to answer accordingly...
I like Elrondriel a lot, it's true, but I also just send one Elrondriel post once in a while. I mean, anyone who checks my blog can see that it's mostly a Haladriel blog. So yes, it's true that I never took the time to make an in depth analysis of Elrondriel headcanons and of the problematic sides of the relationship, because so far for me it's mostly a fun comfort ship that I like to think of when I want a respite from the angst of Haladriel. My bad, because these are questions that make me want to dig deeper. I criticized Elrond's behavior towards Galadriel several times though, especially season 2 Elrond.
I truly had no idea that this dismissal of the problems happened so openly though, because up until a couple of months ago I never checked the Elrondriel tag or followed discussion related to the relationship.
But here Anon harassed me for ONE post I made about ONE popular Haladriel theory I'm uncomfortable with. I don't think I deserved to receive 7 hostile anon messages just for expressing myself ONCE, not on Haladriel itself that I would never call sexist (hell I love it) but on one theory... But whatever, I'll never talk about this theory again and will do my best to pretend it doesn't exist. It's what's expected of me and of everyone else who doen't support this theory, Haladriels included, clearly.
Right now, I'm at the point where I don't feel safe saying anything in this fandom (TROP in general) anymore, and today's harassment proves I am right to feel that way and should stick to silly posts đ€·đŒââïž
Anyway, thank you for your honesty đđŒ
I saw apologism on other platforms not Tumblr but those doing it are on here which I'll keep quiet about.
You shouldn't stop doing what you want because of anyone especially an anon. They're wrong in how they came at you. It's whataboutism but it did work because my first thought was dismissing your concerns about the theory if you don't question sexism elsewhere. It did make me doubt your intentions. That's not fair to your very valid concerns about the theory, but we're all human only.
What I've seen is Haladriel theories and speculation are ripe for Haladriel opps to silence it. This happened with the Sauron in Adar's tent theory where the theory was called sexist too. To me, anon is reacting to the hostility of people shutting down Haladriel fans for years in bad faith and not seeing your concerns as good faith. Because once you call someone's theory and speculation sexist, you've essentially killed that discussion because nobody wants to engage in an -ism.
But now you feel silenced in criticizing the theory but I don't think you should. You should discuss it and talk about it because the solution isn't for everyone from speculators and criticizers to go quiet because the environment for years has been bad faith arguments.
lmao I brought Elrondriel into it because you romanticize and idealize it while you can't even fully call it sexist and problematic the way Elrond spoke to Galadriel or how she was written next to him. You can't use those words but you can say that about Haladriel headcanons.. I know you've never called the Elrondriel headcanons about Elrond taking Galadriel's role and fighting Sauron or Elrond saving Galadriel sexist. You must have seen those but you only choose to speak about Haladriel. That's my problem. I'm sending my last ask. I'm. douche but truthful douche.
Answering just to say I don't even know what are these Elrondriel headcanons you keep bringing up. You literally made them up, or I haven't seen them so none of this bs is my concern anyway.
You sent five messages just because you can't accept that every Haladriel doesn't enjoy the same headcanons. Lol, when you could have just blocked me. You call yourself truthful, while you're harassing me under the cover of anonymity because you don't have the balls to tell me all this with your Tumblr name??
You're a joke.
YeahâŠthis is exactly why it was difficult to talk about this specific topic without being attacked for it. These asks are just proving the Haladriels who were afraid of exactly this happening correct.
also @rey-jake-therapist hey, you started straight-up idealising elrondriel apparently and you didnât even tell me, your fiancĂ©e, about it?for shame!
I can tackle your question from private conversations I've been privy to. Don't shoot the messenger. Elrond and Galadriel fans I've seen don't call the misogyny of their dynamic as misogyny. They ignore it. Just one instance: Elrond exiling her has been handwaved away. Whenever I saw the writing and how Elrond was used to bring Galadriel to heel being brought up on other platforms, they argued that it wasn't misogynistic writing because it makes Elrond look bad. That's the idealization. There's also that their dynamic is one where Galadriel met Elrond as a child and her an adult woman and yet the fandom had elided past that to my amusement.
Fans all do this a bit but it gets tricky when Haladriel fans aren't allowed the same kind of room without being called sexist or problematic. OP was very strong worded on that Haladriel speculation and anon is pointing out that they're not equally strong worded on their other ship's canon sexist writing.
I'm a lurker for months and I've seen Haladriel fans can't breathe without their headcanons and theories shot down and being called names. So if Haladriel fans can't theorize and people can't bring up why they don't like a theory, it's a no win situation.
To the anon, this isn't the forum. Blocking the OP and talking to like-minded people in private is the only way to go.
I completely agree with you about how Galadriel was treated in s2! I hated it, and even made a post about it. (Actually got into a conversation about it with a Haladriel who started getting nasty to me for reasons beyond my comprehension). I even hated how he was going around being âwe canât use the ringsâ etc, without any of them coming up with an alternate solution. I mean you canât just say âno I donât like this solution â and then just go carve a ship or something. Like,whatâs plan B then, if youâre saying no to plan A? I hated him taking over as Commander instead of her too. And I agree that a lot of what happened in s2 was very âbring her to heelâ, like you mentioned. The problem with the ask I think is that they are saying that just because op also happens to ship Elrondriel, they agree with everything that an Elrond apologist might also say. The ask was about Haladriel. But they didnât stick to that. And trust me, I was there when the âHaladriels are sexist for shipping itâ thing, and I never agreed with that. None of this is about Haladriel in general. The stuff that anon was all in twists about is referring to a single theory. That one single theory is sexist, is what both I and op were saying . Not that the Haladriel fandom is sexist (We are both a part of it) or that we (Haladriels) are furthering sexism by shipping it. Thatâs not what I believe at all. Also, youâll notice that anon for some reason is accusing op of not being a true Haladriel, which is certainty some bizarre type of gatekeeping behaviour. Surely you donât lose shipping privileges (for a ship that you do actually ship,that too), because you disagree with one popular theory within that shipping fandom?
(I might have gone on a few tangents,sorry for that)
That said, even with the crown stabbing will give her power theory- I am in no way discounting it. Itâs discourse and discourse is what makes fandom fun. Like you pointed out, fans should be able to agree or disagree about things in the open without being attacked for it. and I completely agree with that. Thanks for explaining how it looked from your perspective though, I appreciate it. I will be on the lookout for anyone making apologies about Elrondâs bad behaviour from now on, and if I strayed too far from the point or misunderstood some of your points, please let me know!
No you didn't misunderstand anything! I see that theory and I see why it could be sexist. I don't think they would do it though because it comes from the show's villain.
I don't think the ask was about Haladriel only? I think it was asking why someone can tell Haladriel fans a theory is sexist and not apply that same critical lens everywhere. Perhaps it is gatekeeping to bring up OP's other ships but it provided context to me so that I can take OP's concerns in that light. It's whataboutism, I thought, but it did work because my first thought was why I should listen to OP if they don't question Elrond and Galadriel theories as well. That's not fair to OP's probably very valid concerns about the theory, but we're all human only.
Thank you for the conversation. Anon should have just ranted on private.
lmao I brought Elrondriel into it because you romanticize and idealize it while you can't even fully call it sexist and problematic the way Elrond spoke to Galadriel or how she was written next to him. You can't use those words but you can say that about Haladriel headcanons.. I know you've never called the Elrondriel headcanons about Elrond taking Galadriel's role and fighting Sauron or Elrond saving Galadriel sexist. You must have seen those but you only choose to speak about Haladriel. That's my problem. I'm sending my last ask. I'm. douche but truthful douche.
Answering just to say I don't even know what are these Elrondriel headcanons you keep bringing up. You literally made them up, or I haven't seen them so none of this bs is my concern anyway.
You sent five messages just because you can't accept that every Haladriel doesn't enjoy the same headcanons. Lol, when you could have just blocked me. You call yourself truthful, while you're harassing me under the cover of anonymity because you don't have the balls to tell me all this with your Tumblr name??
You're a joke.
YeahâŠthis is exactly why it was difficult to talk about this specific topic without being attacked for it. These asks are just proving the Haladriels who were afraid of exactly this happening correct.
also @rey-jake-therapist hey, you started straight-up idealising elrondriel apparently and you didnât even tell me, your fiancĂ©e, about it?for shame!
I can tackle your question from private conversations I've been privy to. Don't shoot the messenger. Elrond and Galadriel fans I've seen don't call the misogyny of their dynamic as misogyny. They ignore it. Just one instance: Elrond exiling her has been handwaved away. Whenever I saw the writing and how Elrond was used to bring Galadriel to heel being brought up on other platforms, they argued that it wasn't misogynistic writing because it makes Elrond look bad. That's the idealization. There's also that their dynamic is one where Galadriel met Elrond as a child and her an adult woman and yet the fandom had elided past that to my amusement.
Fans all do this a bit but it gets tricky when Haladriel fans aren't allowed the same kind of room without being called sexist or problematic. OP was very strong worded on that Haladriel speculation and anon is pointing out that they're not equally strong worded on their other ship's canon sexist writing.
I'm a lurker for months and I've seen Haladriel fans can't breathe without their headcanons and theories shot down and being called names. So if Haladriel fans can't theorize and people can't bring up why they don't like a theory, it's a no win situation.
To the anon, this isn't the forum. Blocking the OP and talking to like-minded people in private is the only way to go.
Queer Fiction Free-for-All Book Bracket Tournament: Round 2B
Choose a book:
The Tea Dragon Society by K. O'Neill
The Hands of the Emperor by Victoria Goddard
Book summaries below:
In Season 2, Galadriel's autonomy is consistently undermined. Her voice is silenced, she is mansplained, and choices are taken out of her hands and given to men. Her authority is diminished by being demoted from leadership roles and by giving up Nenya, which forces Adar to negotiate with Elrond instead of her. When Adar tells her to be silent while he deals with Elrond, who has Nenya, it highlights her reduced autonomy. The men in the room negotiate over her and over her ring. She is a bargaining piece, no different from the ring she gave up.
In Season 1, Galadriel was exiled because she was seen as irrational, broken. A âmad womanâ whose defiance could no longer be tolerated by the elves. As noted in feminist literary criticism, Madwoman in the Attic, women who step outside societal norms are framed as unstable and cast out.Â
When Galadriel was exiled, she defied male authority when she leapt from the ship.
In Season 2, she obeys because her previous defiance of male authority was the root of her mistake. Madwoman in the Attic says women who challenge authority must either be tamed/retrained or erased. Galadrielâs autonomy is restricted until she admits her mistakes and accepts the role the narrative gives her. She must be humbled and self-reflective, aligning with the male authority she once defied. Only then can she confront and resist Sauron.
Galadriel is allowed to defy Sauron because he falls outside the bounds of legitimate male authority. As the villain, he is an external threat to the social order. But when she challenges men who represent the accepted order, her defiance is framed as transgressive, something that must be corrected. Feminist critique notes womenâs agency is only valued when it aligns with what male authority approves of, and their power is only admired when it fits within those boundaries.
The shift from Galadrielâs exile to her submission in Season 2 highlights how narratives often force women to âlearn their place.â She reenters the fold after she is no longer a threat to the social order.
Itâs easy to challenge Sauronâs views because the narrative opposes him, but what the narrative frames as 'right' shouldnât be beyond scrutiny. Cultural biases shape storytelling. When stories about women are written by men, their internalized biases shape those narratives.
Galadriel is the only female character in this storyline and the focus on her mistake and how it reflects on her person is disproportionate. While Galadriel is made to reflect on her character flaws that led to Sauronâs rise, Celebrimbor is spared similar narrative condemnation of his person. He dies, but it is triumphant. Morfydd Clark once said she loved that Galadriel didnât know shame. But Galadriel in S2 was shamed for who she was.Â
Throughout history, stories have often reinforced the idea that women must know their place in societyâsubdued, obedient, and in harmony with male authority. In works like Shakespeare's The Taming of the Shrew, defiant women were 'tamed' to conform to societal expectations.
In Game of Thrones, Daenerys Targaryenâs defiance of male advisors like Tyrion and Jon Snow coincides with her descent into 'Mad Dany,' framed as uncontrollable and ultimately killed by Jon. When she aligned with their expectations, her power was admired. But once she stepped outside their approval, the narrative eliminated her. She went mad so her death was justified.
With a new season, I hope Galadrielâs autonomy is intact, regardless of whether she aligns with the expectations of others.
âa life of feminine submission, of âcontemplative purity,â is a life of silence, a life that has no pen and no story, while a life of female rebellion, of âsignificant action,â is a life that must be silenced, a life whose monstrous pen tells a terrible story.â - The Madwoman in the Attic: The Woman Writer and the Nineteenth-Century Literary Imagination by Sandra Gilbert and Susan Gubar