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Men need feminism too!
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Mindfulness means moment-to-moment, non-judgmental awareness. It is cultivated by refining our capacity to pay attention, intentionally, in the present moment, and then sustaining that attention over time as best we can. In the process, we become more in touch with our life as it is unfolding.
Jon Kabat-Zinn (via stardust-seedling)
It’s okay - it’s necessary - to take time for yourself. You deserve self care. You deserve to disconnect from external stimulation. There’s nothing to feel bad about. You are so, so worthy of taking time for yourself to refresh, recharge and rejuvenate. You are so, so worthy of serenity.
shelleyliving (via shelleyliving)
I have a tendency to sabotage relationships; I have a tendency to sabotage everything. Fear of success, fear of failure, fear of being afraid. Useless, good-for-nothing thoughts.
Michael Bublé (via wnq-music)
a hq version without talking(except the end) creds to fuckmecalum on soundcloud. all i did was cut the talking part out.
5 Seconds Of Summer - Beside you
She sleeps alone: Aries, Capricorn, Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius, Virgo
She lies awake: Scorpio, Libra, Cancer, Taurus, Aquarius, Leo
The Signs And What They Want
Gemini: to take 5sos' money
Scorpio: to take 5sos' money
Aries: to take 5sos' money
Leo: to take 5sos' money
Aquarius: to take 5sos' money
Capricorn: to take 5sos' money
Pisces: to take 5sos' money
Libra: to take 5sos' money
Cancer: to take 5sos' money
Taurus: to take 5sos' money
Virgo: to take 5sos' money
Sagittarius: to take 5sos' money
me: when is a cute ass boy gonna love me???
also me: BITCH I LOVE BEING ALONE I'M SUCH AN INDEPENDENT ASS BITCH WHO NEEDS A BF LMAO
every girl at a 5sos concert from now on: black jeans white tee black converse
oh my goodness, that's the nicest thing anyone has ever said!! thank you so much. may or may not be tearing up.
Awww sending lots of love
Long-Suffering – August 7th
Many of us have been tremendously hurt by others. In some instances, we were hurt because of our own foolishness. In other cases, we were hurt by those we trusted or were close to. Either way, the pain wasn’t enjoyable. Therefore some of us vowed never to be hurt again. We have made up in our minds not to be foolish again.
We are constantly trying to see the hidden agendas of people. It is sad that we’ve reverted to this simply because our kindness was taken for weakness.
But despite all of this, God has commanded us to be long-suffering. Ephesians 4:2 says, “With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love”. What does this mean? It means that even though we’ve been badly bruised, we still have to learn how to love. We still have to have an open heart going into every situation. That doesn’t mean God wants us to be foolishly deceived. But we must be willing to accept the ones who hurt us the most.
To be long-suffering, we need God’s help. We have to pray for this type of love. Nobody wants to be hurt or in the vicinity of someone who will bring them down. We have to follow Ephesians 4:24 “and that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness”.
To be long-suffering is not a normal thing. It’s not something we can do without the help of the Lord. Today I urge you to pray that God will mold you to be more like him. Remember this means that we will have to come out of our comfort zone and trust God more! If we want to reign with Christ, we must suffer with Christ! Amen!
But thou, O Lord, art a God full of compassion, and gracious, longsuffering, and plenteous in mercy and truth - Psalm 86:15
Dabbling in Bitterness, Part 3
I recently attended a wedding. I didn’t really want to be there. I knew it would test my resolve to let go of a lot of bitter memories and unspoken rants.
Someone leaned toward our group and gaped at a friend. “I hear they only met because the bride was dating the groom’s roommate!” We said nothing, secretly laughing at her. That roommate was sitting next to us. We had all been roommates – I’ve had a dozen – but the bride and groom were two of the worst roommates I ever had.
“Love keeps no record of wrongs,” but I could talk for an hour about all the ways they failed to be adults, failed each other, failed us, failed the dog. When they hurt and humiliated the dude I love most in this world, I was done. I was simply not going to talk to them anymore. Unfortunately, I still lived with them.
During those last few months, I chanted silently, Don’t get married, don’t have kids. Don’t get married, don’t have kids.
Here I was at their wedding.
Thinking about the year I lived with them still gets me agitated. I don’t see their relationship lasting when neither one of them is very good at self-criticism, and their idea of an apology is listing excuses for their behavior. Initially, this only made me deeply sad for them and their family. As time wore on, however, that sadness turned to bitterness and derision. And then “it” happened, and in my mind, we’d been declared mortal enemies.
I knew in the back of my mind that I could forgive them at any time. Instead, I told myself that I “needed space” before I could do that. I told myself that the daily non-interactions were too infuriating. What I hadn’t spent much time considering was that forgiveness can be healing and freeing for the one who does the forgiving. Had I considered this selfish reason, I might have been more willing to do it. Instead, I focused on the principle of the thing: “Whoever claims to love God but hates his brother or sister is a liar” (I John 4:20), and in my heart, I didn’t want to be noble. I didn’t want to forgive. I wanted to smolder.
Time passed, and I cooled off a little, but whenever I remembered the year that I spent with those two, I would go off on a rant. It hurt me. It made me a worse person. It hurt my husband, who still loved these people. I’m a stubborn person, if you hadn’t noticed. I won’t say “couldn't” – I just wouldn’t let go of it.
Preparing to attend the wedding, driving to the wedding, sitting in the pews and waiting for the wedding (and judging the ludicrous amount of money that had been spent on it), I chanted silently, It isn’t too late. Run. Don’t do it. Don’t get married to one or both of them.
That finally ended, though, when I heard them say, “I do.” A little something went snap. I realized that God had joined them together now, and it was my job to root for them no matter what. Not to say “I told you so” when she spent all his money or he failed to be a man for his children, but to pray for them to communicate well, work together, and start thinking about things that mattered. Now that they were married, it was my job to be their cheerleader.
The capacity for bitterness is still there. I can still go off on a rant if I let myself. Maybe that’s always how forgiveness works among humans. Maybe it’s a daily decision. All I know is what I’ve experienced: Failing to forgive will make a fool out of you. It will also make a fool out of those who love you or even just associate with you. And, as always, it makes you a nastier person.
“’In your anger do not sin’: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold” (Eph. 4:26,27). When I chose to nurse my bitterness, I let the enemy into my life. He knows how to push my buttons now. Screw that guy. I won’t give him the pleasure.
Stop being bitter and angry and mad at others. Don’t yell at one another or curse each other or ever be rude. Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ.
Ephesians 4:31-32 (via vegaaskies)