fin-has-opinions

The bitchy alt Not your fucking trauma dumpster Left, but not "LARPing mental disorders and using noun-self pronouns to be quirky" left

[hard--headed--woman]

ace people don’t even exist. every “asexual” i’ve met has been a bi or straight woman, never a virgin, and they had always had prior relationships and sex. 2 explicitely told me they mostly have sex with their partners to please them and because they like sex but have no sexual attraction .. which is such bs? like you have sex with someone? that requires sexual attraction you dunce. how tf else are you getting wet and making out please wtf.

i’ll believe in asexuality when i meet a virgin asexual person who is at least 30. i have met more 30 y/o regular virgins. i have met religious people abstaining from sex. but never a so called “asexual” person who didn’t fuck

A in LGBTA has always stood for Ally and gets used by closeted people to ahow up to events etc and pretend they are helping out as Allies

I really hate the "I don't feel sexual desire but I have sex with my partners to please them". This is just rape rhetoric ??? It's just rape culture ??? Why are you teaching people that it's a good thing to have sex when you don't want to ? All of this under the pretext that they're "asexual" ? No, this is fucked up.

[fin-has-opinions]

Hello, it is I: the mythical 30+ year old who is still a virgin and identifies as AroAce Not exactly sex repulsed and not exactly opposed to the idea of trying it, but it's kind of like drugs in that everyone speaks so highly of the experience I can't help being mildly curious. Don't experience attraction at all. Lowkey wish all the weird microlabels would fuck off so I could have even a remote chance of finding other people like me, but yeah, "asexual" has just become an aesthetic label more than something with actual meaning (thanks, gen Z~ ) and so I'm stuck here feeling more isolated than I did before I knew the label existed. Good times. That said, I think y'all are confusing lack of attraction for repulsion. You don't need to be hungry to enjoy a slice of pizza. You don't need to be looking at porn of attractive people to get off. The parts still work. Attraction is not a component of consent lol. Unless you're literally being coerced, partaking in an activity with someone because you want to genuinely spend time with them or share in the experience--even if it isn't something you would seek out for yourself--isn't nearly as weird as y'all are making it out to be. But then y'all are probably kids so it's no wonder you make your personal ick into a moral judgement.

[wealldraw]

[fin-has-opinions]

This also applies to those of you who shit on people's interior decorating styles and the frequency of which they mow their own yard, just fyi.

[fin-has-opinions]

We get it; you hate minimalist interior design, certain color schemes, and home security cameras. Now stfu and go reflect on why you think that justifies you being a judgmental asshole about shit that has literally no impact on you or your life.

[fin-has-opinions]

Asexual erasure is an ongoing issue and people are not angry enough about it.

I'm tired of being asked to disclaim dozens of ridiculous hyper-specific microlabels whenever the topic of asexuality comes up. I'm tired of not knowing what someone actually means when they say they are "ace" because the star sticker chasers of the internet have completely hijacked and muddied the label to mean w/e the fuck they want. Which completely defeats the point of words, ffs...!

If you experience sexual attraction, you're not asexual. Period. You're a low-libido/picky/traumatized [het/gay/lesbian/pan/bi]. Which is FINE--but that doesn't make you Ace! Label your experience however you please, but understand it is NOT related to asexuality and you do NOT have the right to shove real aces out of their own spaces! "Asexual" is not a spectrum, and whoever pushed that can go fuck a cactus. It is an ORIENTATION.

Honestly, fuck y'all for treating asexual so differently than you do literally every other orientation. It's almost like you never actually respected it as it's own orientation. /shocker

Leave us alone.

[fin-has-opinions]

I love when someone writes this massive callout google doc trying to get an ex canceled and 95% of it is basically "idk I didn't like xyz about them but I expected that to magically change when we were together," and then they throw in some ""bombshell"" like 'oh we were both high and I was being physically intimate with him and then he groped me but stopped the moment I so much as hinted I didn't want it, and it was sExuAl AssAuLt' like...gurl....

[not-a-narc-apologist]

For other victims of narcissistic abuse who want to save themselves from falling into suicidal ideation again:

Block -> @/Bfpnola

They claim to be a "minority advocate," but what they actually do is continue to spread TREMENDOUS amounts of misinformation about both narcissistic abuse AND NPD(they literally compared narc abuse survivors to fascists).

Not only is shit like that inherently harmful to survivors of narcissistic abuse(and this post's purpose was to probably make some narc abuse survivors commit suicide), but it's also inherently harmful to Cluster B disorder sufferers, because that blog, and most narc apologist blogs, are literally the only ones making the(ableist)statement that "a narcissist = a pwNPD," and they're legit the only ones saying that: "oh, narcissistic abuse is perpetrated by a pwNPD!!!" NARCISSISTIC ABUSE CAN BE FUCKING PERPETRATED BY ANYONE. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS NOT NPD-EXCLUSIVE.

I don't know what kind of drugs these Tumblr scum are on, or what kind of dark magic they're performing, but I am truly sick of all this nonsense and these no-life willy-faces continually getting away with their shit!

Worst yet, Tumblr fucking supports these pricks without a second thought! I can't tell you how many times I've reported these b*tt-fuckers and Tumblr has never gotten back to me. But yet, I get two strikes from the cocksuckers on the mod team for retaliating and fighting back!

We need to mass report and mass block all these stupid cunts!

I'm gonna probably pop onto Reddit and show the screenshots I have of all the narc apologists blogs and misinformation just to see what they have to say.

Here's some more accounts to block:

@/brain-n-body-in-disarray

@/thefakersystem (also looks like a bot, acts a little bit like quitblamingnarcissism)

@/crownquill

@/antis-hell AKA useless-being and the-creature-under-the-bed (he says the r slur and tells people to commit suicide too)

@/mooncurses (also has a dox threat on their page)

@/livingfictionsystem

@/expressionless-fr

@/thecatspasta

@/ultrabright-flashlight (also harassed my friend)

@/theswiftheartsystem

@/eclipse-colony

@/halfbloodwarriors (also harassed the Reddit mod team over r/fdc)

@/butchdykekondraki

[fin-has-opinions]

thefakersystem doesn't belong on this list: https://www.tumblr.com/thefakersystem/tagged/actually%20narcissistic But you may as well add everyone who has interacted with this post, especially the OP; they purposefully didn't break the tags just so they could try to start fights with everyone they'd listed: tumblr.com/alphabet-mafia-collective/741356584218820608/

[fin-has-opinions]

hatelurkers are wild "I block x on sight!!!" then go out of their way to lurk all of your activity and unblock you just to try to start shit like the attention hungry losers they actually are. It'd be hilarious if it weren't so pathetic.

[byjove]

Rocking chairs are proof autism and ADHD have always existed, there is no way a neurotypical person said “what if there was a special chair for rocking back and forth in”

[fin-has-opinions]

Y’all have this glorified, superhuman idea of what Neurotypical people are that just isn’t based in reality.