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“Grief is love’s souvenir. It’s our proof that we once loved. Grief is the receipt we wave in the air that says to the world: Look! Love was once mine. I love well. Here is my proof that I paid the price.”
— Glennon Doyle Melton (via 89words)
me @ myself all the time: girl, stop
JP Sax and Julia Michaels sang me a lullaby earlier this year, but that’s all it was then.
A simple lullaby that made me ponder, “If the world was ending, you’d come over right?”
But now it’s here. The pandemic is here. The world as we know it is ending and transforming.
But where are you?
You’re coming over right?
Right?
JP Saxe Julia Michaels “If The World Was Ending”
If you’re a little weird that’s kinda sexy of you
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“How shall I hold back my soul from touching yours?”
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Rainer Maria Rilke, excerpt of “Love Song [Liebeslied]”, in Stories of God (translated by Katarina Peters)
Source — Wie soll ich meine Seele halten, daß sie nicht an deine rührt?
Your ego should be your servant, not your master.
But I know I’m on the right track
(C.B)(4.1.19)
“So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?”
— Hunter S. Thompson (via coral)
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lay out intentions like paving of ease in future moments. “i’m gonna have fun in class tomorrow”, “when i go for a walk i’m gonna see so many beautiful things”, “i’m gonna have the most cozy night tonight”, “i’m gonna be very present with my friend on wednesday”, etc. see how easily the moment adapts. it’s like a little spell to set yourself up for goodness
“Perfectly Imperfect We have all heard that no two snowflakes are alike. Each snowflake takes the perfect form for the maximum efficiency and effectiveness for its journey. And while the universal force of gravity gives them a shared destination, the expansive space in the air gives each snowflake the opportunity to take their own path. They are on the same journey, but each takes a different path. Along this gravity-driven journey, some snowflakes collide and damage each other, some collide and join together, some are influenced by wind… there are so many transitions and changes that take place along the journey of the snowflake. But, no matter what the transition, the snowflake always finds itself perfectly shaped for its journey. I find parallels in nature to be a beautiful reflection of grand orchestration. One of these parallels is of snowflakes and us. We, too, are all headed in the same direction. We are being driven by a universal force to the same destination. We are all individuals taking different journeys and along our journey, we sometimes bump into each other, we cross paths, we become altered… we take different physical forms. But at all times we too are 100% perfectly imperfect. At every given moment we are absolutely perfect for what is required for our journey. I’m not perfect for your journey and you’re not perfect for my journey, but I’m perfect for my journey and you’re perfect for your journey. We’re heading to the same place, we’re taking different routes, but we’re both exactly perfect the way we are. Think of what understanding this great orchestration could mean for relationships. Imagine interacting with others knowing that they too each share this parallel with the snowflake. Like you, they are headed to the same place and no matter what they may appear like to you, they have taken the perfect form for their journey. How strong our relationships would be if we could see and respect that we are all perfectly imperfect for our journey.”
— Steve Maraboli, (via purplebuddhaquotes)
“The path isn’t a straight line; it’s a spiral. You continually come back to things you thought you understood and see deeper truths.”
— (via purplebuddhaquotes)
Understanding Zen
When you get into Zen or Buddhism, you will hear people talk about emptiness, impermanence, ignorance and no-self among countless other descriptions of reality. If you encounter these concepts and they don’t make any sense to you, that is fine. If you have never seen a chicken it would be hard to imagine one, even if you’ve had a chicken nugget. People who talk about Zen have a funny habit of saying it’s all right in front of you, in the here and now and in the same breath telling you that there is no self. That is the beauty of Zen, it has no problem with paradox and contradiction. What can you expect from words.
If you hear anybody talking about emptiness, they mean emptiness. It’s like when your car runs out of gas and you need to fill up. This need comes from emptiness. Emptiness also happens to be a popular description of the ultimate reality. Usually your mind is full of thoughts, when you stop thinking and experience the world, emptiness is a word that attempts to describe that. If you get hungry, you are experiencing emptiness of the stomach. Have a sandwich.
Impermanence is how things become empty. You drive around and use gas, burn the energy in your belly, the ice and snow break up the road and make pot holes, the winter turns to summer and the ice and snow melt. That is impermanence. It is a nice practice noticing impermanence in the world. Even the sun will burn out some day. In the 70’s and 80’s, when I was young, it was fashionable to curl your hair by getting a permanent. This was done every few months. Even permanents weren’t permanent.
No-self and ignorance go hand in hand. Ignorance in Buddhism is the idea that you have a self. There is nothing wrong with being ignorant in the Buddhist sense. It is the predominant way of interpreting the world. Of course you have a self. You have a name and you can step through a hula hoop to demonstrate that you are not connected to anything else in the world. We all have a self. We get selfish, self absorbed, and we suffer. When we notice how we are connected to our food and our parents and our friends and our atmosphere to support our lives, we can no longer imagine that we are self contained pods, completely separate from the rest of the world. When we take into account all of the things that make life possible for our self and question where exactly the philosophical line between self and not self is drawn, we can see cracks in our firm idea of what is self. If we change our way of looking at self, we may notice that what we think of as our self, is not exactly us. That’s why we can lose a toe or an appendix and still feel like ourselves. Self is an impermanent idea, empty of fixed meaning, so only in our ignorance do we think we know just what we are.
If you ever dispel your ignorance, recognize that you have no-self, and experience the impermanent, empty nature of reality, then good luck finding better words to explain it to everybody else. In the meantime, eat a sandwich then wash your plate.
Paradigm Shift
It used to be widely understood that the Earth was the center of the universe, and it was flat. Careful observations of the sky and the ground changed what people believed. There was plenty of personal and political resistance before the evidence outweighed conventional beliefs, and the Earth rounded itself and moved to a more humble position in the grand scheme of things.
Currently, it is widely believed that our emotions are dictated by our circumstances, and that we cannot teach ourselves and each other to learn how to feel differently. This belief takes the pain that we feel in everyday life and makes it personal. If we feel bad, we may think that we are bad, that something is fundamentally wrong with us. It makes us feel like we are at the center of an inhospitable universe. We are not. We can train our minds to see the world as it is, feel its pain, and still feel good.
There is plenty of resistance to shifting the paradigm of being self centered experiencers of emotions to becoming interconnected creators of emotions. Unfortunately, resistance cannot hold back evidence. If you begin to believe that you can train your mind to live happily in the world, and you practice building skills, observing, without judgment, the ground and the sky, self and other, thoughts and feelings, breath and body, your paradigm will shift. You will become rounded and move to a humble and glorious position in the grand scheme of things.
When we begin to take responsibility for our emotional reactions, we may gather lots of evidence that we are not in control. That is what we have been doing for our whole lives. That is our habit. That is how we have trained our minds. The training is not in creating the emotions we want, it is in engaging the emotions that we get. To train for happiness, we engage with sadness. To train for relaxation, we engage with stress. To train for love, we engage with hate. Whatever we get, we use to train. If we feel relaxed, happy and loving, we can train with those. We create those feelings too.
Emotions change quickly, circumstances change slowly. Circumstances change in days, weeks, months, and years. Emotions change in seconds, minutes and hours. You will always be working to change your circumstances, those are less under your direct control than your emotions, they require interaction with others. Learning to create emotional conditions that you can tolerate or enjoy will help you work harmoniously with others to address your circumstances and the circumstances of the world.
Paradigms change quickly on a personal level, but take longer on a political level. You might not even notice when your paradigm shifts. If you feel sadness without despondency, it is likely shifting. If you feel pervasively well, recover quickly from emotional setbacks, find yourself being generous, and are consistently aware of the present moment, it has shifted.
by Emily Dickinson
