âLiving Peaceâ based on Genesis 28:10-19a and UM Social Principles âBullying and Other Forms of Violenceâ
Jacob and Esau were twins who were nothing alike. They had different bodies. Esau was hairy. Jacob was smooth. They had different preferences. Esau liked to hunt and be outside. Jacob preferred being indoors.
There are two stories about the brothers while they were still home with their parents. In the first, Jacob convinces Esau to sell his birthright for a bowl of lentil stew. From which we learn that Jacob is cunning and manipulative and Esau short-minded.
The second story is of Issac at end of life giving his blessing to his firstborn, Esau, which also gets stolen by Jacob through the manipulations of both Issacâs wife Rebecca and Jacob. After this one Esau is angry enough that Jacob is reasonably afraid of being killed and gets sent off to find a wife from among his motherâs people.
And as soon as he leaves we get to our story today.
Jacob is on his way away from the life heâs known to find his motherâs family who heâs never met as a form of exile so his brother doesnât kill him. They sound like siblings to me, Iâve always appreciated that Genesis doesnât romanticize family dynamics.
It is here, on this journey from pretty violent family dynamics, that Jacob has encounters of the Divine and is blessed with Godâs promises to him. In some ways I donât get it. Jacob is far from innocent in these stories. Why him and why then? Then I remember that in the Bible, at least the Hebrew Bible, God isnât invested in picking the âbestâ or âmost faithfulâ people. God just seems to pick and make the person work with the Divine in working things out. The patriarchs arenât great people, theyâre just instruments of God, because God works with PEOPLE rather than waiting for perfect ones.
I note in the stories of the brothers that there are different kinds of violence going on. Esau is threatening to kill Jacob. Thatâs violent, at least a threat of overt physical violence. But, I think we need to acknowledge that Jacob is violent in his own right, tricking Esau and his father for his own gain. We can debate the appropriateness of inheritance practices all we want, and Iâm for it, but tricking people is still a form of violence.
I often thing about how differently direct and indirect violence get perceived. Some violence in the world is Esauâs style â wars, murders, gun violence, even death sentences. (As Esau was basically giving Jacob a death sentence.) But some violence in the world, just as violent, is indirect and Jacob style. When I went on VIM trips to Cuba in the aughts, I saw many pharmacyâs with empty shelves and heard stories of people unable to access basic medicine or birth control. Those were the impact of the US embargo â a public policy called ânonviolentâ that led to plenty of deaths. So too are the recent cuts to SNAP benefits. So too, letâs call it what it is, are our health care policies in the US where people canât afford to access health care with or without insurance in many cases.
One of the most strikingly consistent truths about Jesus is that he was nonviolent. He lead a group of radically nonviolent people. He didnât fight back when he was pulled from his followers in the middle of the night be killed â and when one of his followers did fight back he healed the one theyâd hurt. But it wasnât just that kind of nonviolence he practiced. He also practiced the nonviolence of making sure people had enough to eat, of healing community by healing the sick, of telling stories against those who hoarded wealth at the expense of the lives of the poor. He called out the ways systems are violent and death dealing even while pretending to be âjust the way it is.â
So, Iâm pretty sure heâd be calling how cuts to SNAP benefits, our hot mess of an insurance system, and a whole lot more if he was here.
And, I think heâd have called out both brothers for their bullying of each other.
But, thatâs not where we are in Genesis quite yet. In fact, I think this is as good a time as any to bring up a theory of Genesis I find quite convincing. Have you ever noticed that all the people in Genesis end up becoming the fathers of nations? Jacob of course is the father of the 12 tribes of Israel. Esau of the Edomites, who settle south of ancient Israel. Issacâs bother Ishmael births 12 tribes as well, other neighbors of Israel.
There is a solid theory that these stories of âpatriarchsâ are really stories of ancient nations told as if theyâre people. Within this theory is the idea that the original âpatriarchâ of the Northern Kingdom of Israel was Jacob, and of the Southern Judea one was Abraham and so someone had to make them fit together and did it by making one the grandfather of the other. (This also fits with how Issac is really a passing character.) To create national unity, they had to created a shared origin story, and they did it by making everyone family, and then also made sense of their enemies by making them families theyâd broken ties with.
Jacob and Esau do eventually reconcile in Genesis. After many years with his uncle/father-in-law Laban, Jacob has married both of Labanâs daughters and two of their servants, has 12 sons of his own, and heads back home. On that journey he is filled with terror that Esau will still want to kill him. Esau actually doesnât. They end up doing OK, but the relationship was never truly restored, which also fits how the Israelites and Edomites were neighbors and sometimes enemies.
According to the stories of Genesis, this is because they were violent with each other rather than living peacably as siblings. The idea of the patriarchs as âpersonifiedâ ancient nations suggests that the violence of the nations was trying to be explained in the family stories, but whichever way it came first, it does remind us that the way people treat each other matters.
So, too, do the social principles when they say, âbullying stunts emotional and intellectual development and turns schools, neighborhoods, and virtual or online settings into dangerous and unsafe environments. Bullying often has long-term traumatic effects on the mental, physical, and emotional well-being of its victims.â It is good news that more attention is given to bullying among kids today than it used to be, it is a hard reality that changing bullying requires more than education and even new rules. To truly eliminate bullying we probably need to create a world where people are free from violence â direct and indirect- and thus stop passing it on.
So the question seems to be, how we live peace instead of violence? How can we be part of moving the world away from violence and into peace? And that is a multifaceted question, with many different answers that vary for each of us.
But I do want to remind you that spending time with God is clutch in all this. After all, it seemed to help Jacob, even if in that case God initiated. In this day and age, when things that disturb our peace our basically constant, it takes intentionality to move towards peace. Spiritual practices, time in nature, maintaining relationships, laughter and play, worship, singing, art, movement, and even just the practices of letting go of expectations can all move us towards peace. I encourage you as strongly as possible to consider what brings you peace and move towards it. I believe God needs us grounded and peaceful so we are part of the solution and not the problem! May it be so! Amen
July 19, 2026
Rev. Sara E. Baron First United Methodist Church of Schenectady 603 State St. Schenectady, NY 12305 Pronouns: she/her/hers http://fumcschenectady.org/ https://www.facebook.com/FUMCSchenectady










