𝐅𝐈𝐒𝐇𝐍𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐆𝐀𝐍𝐒

Maybe I'm some kind of wrong bisexual woman, but I have no desire to have any culture tied to my orientation. Like, what does 'culture' even mean in this context?

I immediately think of ethnicities with their history, food, clothing, and so on. I think of lesbians with their "butch" and "femme" roles. But both are social constructs. No lesbian is born knowing she’ll uphold a stereotypical feminine role in heteronormative relationships (i.e., being femme). And no Russian is born loving the balalaika, folk dances, and songs.

Sure, it’s cool that history unfolded this way, but there’s no necessity to it. My sexual orientation will only matter in choosing a partner, and that’s it. And I won’t feel "worse" or "better" knowing there’s some culture out there that I might not even like.

I mean like a community with inside jokes and whatnot. Not in a serious way. I was just trying to say that bisexuals don't have a community as one, and instead there are little groups of ppl in the community (ppl that call themselves male leaning, ppl that say they are female leaning, ppl that say they are 50/50, ppl that say they relate more to lesbians or ppl that say they relate more to gays, ect ect). I was just saying that instead of trying to be different types of bisexuals and brining in other sexuality "cultures" into our community, we should be one and make our own "culture".

Sorry for the mix up

#Intresting #Bisexual #bisexuality

Don't apologize!

What you're describing sounds a lot like a fandom??? And I don't really get how a "fandom" of people united solely by being attracted to one or two sexes should even look.

I don’t really get what "inside jokes" mean because I can’t recall any inside jokes among lesbians or gays or any of that stuff (If they really exist, I’d be curious to know 🙂‍↕️).

And personally (speaking of insecurity), as someone living in a conservative country, I can say that just knowing there are ordinary, non-public LGBT people walking around the world—even in my own country—makes me feel much better.

harp-unstrung

There was a great post I saw a while ago about how the main ways you can be “visibly bisexual” is by stereotypes. Like if you are bi and in a relationship, people generally just assume you’re gay or straight. And it’s not like a lot of people will comment on what they think your sexuality is so you would need to bring it up yourself if you want people to know. And even if it does come up, I do think that a lot of people think you’re not bisexual anymore once you’re in a relationship or something.

One of the only ways you can be ‘visibly bisexual’ is if you’re casually dating/etc with both men and women or if you have more than one relationship, and you’re talking about it.

I'm craving a local community that doesn't rely or use the internet. Just a small friend group where we all just stay in contact like old times and are more community oriented than how people are these days.

Maybe I'm some kind of wrong bisexual woman, but I have no desire to have any culture tied to my orientation. Like, what does 'culture' even mean in this context?

I immediately think of ethnicities with their history, food, clothing, and so on. I think of lesbians with their "butch" and "femme" roles. But both are social constructs. No lesbian is born knowing she’ll uphold a stereotypical feminine role in heteronormative relationships (i.e., being femme). And no Russian is born loving the balalaika, folk dances, and songs.

Sure, it’s cool that history unfolded this way, but there’s no necessity to it. My sexual orientation will only matter in choosing a partner, and that’s it. And I won’t feel "worse" or "better" knowing there’s some culture out there that I might not even like.

I mean like a community with inside jokes and whatnot. Not in a serious way. I was just trying to say that bisexuals don't have a community as one, and instead there are little groups of ppl in the community (ppl that call themselves male leaning, ppl that say they are female leaning, ppl that say they are 50/50, ppl that say they relate more to lesbians or ppl that say they relate more to gays, ect ect). I was just saying that instead of trying to be different types of bisexuals and brining in other sexuality "cultures" into our community, we should be one and make our own "culture".

Sorry for the mix up

The most sickening and horrifying thing that I have heard recently is The Voice Note Saga from c1ndema on Instagram.

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

It's one disgusting (and common) thing to have men sexually harass through unsolicited photos, but the way that this man clearly wrote out a fantasy that he thought was appropriate, and then used manipulative language at the end to try and make sure that he didn't sound like a creep when he's one of the biggest creeps walking, shows just how manipulative men can be and are when it comes to trying to get women into bed. It's an entirely different form of sexual harassment, and that porn-brained fantasising of his shows just how much of a danger he is, especially remembering that he sat down, thought about it and then really thought that he would get a date and sex out of that poor woman.

No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

He only wants to know so he can conjure up another sadistic and sexual story about him "taking care" of her or using those traumas and fears against her.

myosotis-00-deactivated20260514

You're so right though. A man who forces a stranger into hearing his thinly-veiled fetishes doesn't actually want to hear anything from a woman that doesn't fit into his own desires.

His tone of voice already threw me off in the first seconds of listening. It's just so creepy and he's too... Satisfied? With what he's saying. And he's so detailed, that's genuinely insane. At a certain point I thought he was trolling( and I hope he was), but if it happened to me I would definitely see it as a threat.

Maybe I'm paranoid, but I hope he won't start to obsess with her and stalking her or something, he really seems the type. There's too many men with too much audacity out there.

I was hoping the same, but it's clear that it's entirely genuine from his end. Nothing I could have written prepares you for how bad it is hearing it for yourself. There aren't even any words for how gross he is, and how seriously dangerous and deranged he sounds.

I hope she stays safe, too. I'm glad that the message has been documented for the future, just in case.

fuck-moid

bi-amor

“ur not oppressed for liking the opposite gender”

right but on social media when a bi girl gets a bf

“We lost another one”

“Bi girls and their bf again😒”

“ugh! im so sad this celebrity or famous person likes men imma just say their lesbian”

“shes a lesbian in my head…”

BUT YEAH WE NOT OPPRESSED LETS ALL SHUT UP

This is a reminder for all bisexuals who knows that this bothers and upsets them and they can't put a finger on exactly why, it's because any version of "you're not oppressed for liking the opposite gender" is really just "I don't believe that bisexuality as a sexuality is real, people can only be straight or gay, and unless I perceive you as gay, I'm going to pretend that you're straight, because my biphobia is more important than you as a person."

You know that's what it means deep down, you're just not used to seeing anyone else say it aloud or validate your pain. It's not just social media or being online. It's a constant reminder that the world refuses to accept that bisexuality is real. It's the constant forced re-closeting. It's the constant "you don't matter as much as other people" that chips away at self-confidence and self-esteem that makes us more susceptible to being groomed into abuse. It's the dismissal of our experiences by monosexuals that feel entitled to define us and our experiences, like we're merely objects that they own.

Say it with me: bisexuals are oppressed for being bisexual, and we are forever bisexual whether we're single, dating or married. We're not objects. We're real people and real individuals who are oppressed as individual people like everyone else.

Anyone who denies biphobic oppression is worthless.

bidotorg

The most sickening and horrifying thing that I have heard recently is The Voice Note Saga from c1ndema on Instagram.

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

It's one disgusting (and common) thing to have men sexually harass through unsolicited photos, but the way that this man clearly wrote out a fantasy that he thought was appropriate, and then used manipulative language at the end to try and make sure that he didn't sound like a creep when he's one of the biggest creeps walking, shows just how manipulative men can be and are when it comes to trying to get women into bed. It's an entirely different form of sexual harassment, and that porn-brained fantasising of his shows just how much of a danger he is, especially remembering that he sat down, thought about it and then really thought that he would get a date and sex out of that poor woman.

No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

He only wants to know so he can conjure up another sadistic and sexual story about him "taking care" of her or using those traumas and fears against her.

You're so right though. A man who forces a stranger into hearing his thinly-veiled fetishes doesn't actually want to hear anything from a woman that doesn't fit into his own desires.

ztremx

blunderpuff

@philosopherking1887 "#wait wait wait she said she *had already* killed jewish patients??"

So actually actually 2 Muslim nurses in 2 different countries have admitted on social media that they have killed Jews, and a 3rd Muslim nurse professed strong desire to do so:

Btissame Chait-Said allegedly posted on Instagram that 'all Zionists can die in healthcare and I'm happy to help'

"Btissame Chait-Said, who works as a home health nurse for the elderly ... posted on Instagram in mid-July that “all Zionists can die in healthcare and I’m happy to help.” She also wrote, “You know what I do to Zionists: As a nurse practitioner, I give them an extra injection so they go to heaven.”

and in Australia:

"Abu Lebdeh said she would not treat any Israeli patients and instead would kill them. Nadir, with a threatening gesture, said he had already sent many “Israeli dog[s]” who visited the hospital to “Jahannam,” the term for Islamic hell in Arabic."

prismatic-bell

Holy fuck that woman's excuse is pathetic. "I didn't say I'd killed Jewish patients! Someone broke into my house, logged onto my computer, and made those posts under my name to smear me!"

What a fucking cowardly liar.

rosesonkittens

Every patient death under these monsters should be investigated thoroughly

#antisemitism #anti zionism is antisemitism #Anti Islam #Ex Muslim #fuck islam #Religion is a mental illness #religion is a cult #religion is a scam

Im not even suprised, this is how deep islam goes.

folklorespring

Can't help but laugh at the amount of people who claim to be anti-imperialist but in reality are only anti-west and will luckily lick the boot of non-western empires

folklorespring

The most sickening and horrifying thing that I have heard recently is The Voice Note Saga from c1ndema on Instagram.

To summarise, a man that she connected with on Hinge, who she has never met in person, whose only knowledge of her comes from her dating profile, decided to send a long voice note to her that was essentially real life fanfiction about them going on a date.

This includes the man fantasising about what she would say on the date, her slipping off a shoe to rub her foot against his leg to "tease" him, and them going back to his place, where his fantasy of her asked him to turn on the light and in that fantasy, he still refused, before he talks about them kissing and crossing the line into foreplay.

Not only is that the most unhinged and entitled behaviour, not only is that a perfect representation of how men view women as objects to use as opposed to actual people, possibly the most shocking part of all of it can be found in the last part, where he finishes the fantasy, with his reasoning being that they haven't had a chance to talk about "respect" and "consent," as though he didn't decide to write and verbally act out his fantasy, including an obvious foot fetish moment, and only moments before didn't talk about kissing her hips and both smelling and tasting her out of nowhere, without any consent at all, or any respect to her. No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

It's one disgusting (and common) thing to have men sexually harass through unsolicited photos, but the way that this man clearly wrote out a fantasy that he thought was appropriate, and then used manipulative language at the end to try and make sure that he didn't sound like a creep when he's one of the biggest creeps walking, shows just how manipulative men can be and are when it comes to trying to get women into bed. It's an entirely different form of sexual harassment, and that porn-brained fantasising of his shows just how much of a danger he is, especially remembering that he sat down, thought about it and then really thought that he would get a date and sex out of that poor woman.

#feminism #sexual harassment #Radblr #Disgusting

No, before he continues, he wants to hear about her kinks, her likes, her dislikes, as well as sensitivities or traumas so that he can "be very respectful of all of that."

He only wants to know so he can conjure up another sadistic and sexual story about him "taking care" of her or using those traumas and fears against her.

It wouldn't let me reblog so to took a screenshot

I must say, there is a real biphobia issue in the radfem community

#radblr #radical feminism #Biphobia #Biphopia #bisexuality #Bi

vampirefeminazi

people are unironically glazing male celebrities for not being on the epstein list i'm scared