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I have been informed my username is misleading, here are flamingos as is implied

softwaring

freedom of speech on twitter dot com

tgwdlmreprised

hey im getting a vibe this isnt about nicknames

littlespaceemissary

shinigami eyes have allowed for some wild enviromental storytelling

flamboyant-flamingo

I picked my own definitely-not-a-nickname-its-just-my-name and it's awesome and no one will tell me otherwise

But when they do (because people like this think they're the pinnacle of cool) I tell them to go eat their own ass 💖

(not that anyone who sees this would tell me my name isn't cool)

cock-holliday

Remembering the time my old nb roommate who went to an LGBT law conference and was heaping the absolute biggest bitchfit texting me cause “some cis guy” was talking about trans people and trans men in particular and my roommate refused to listen to what this guy said cause “why should I listen to him” and I said “are you sure he’s cis?” And then towards the end of the presentation he said something that indicated to the crowd he was a trans man and then suddenly my roommate started to consider what had been shared.

Absolute loser behavior, but not completely unique. We’ve all gotta stop saying only x people can talk about x issues for us to listen. Too many people in the in group will have dogshit takes no one wants to challenge because “well, they are x identity.” Likewise, plenty of people on the out group actually know what they’re talking about and have something to contribute to the conversation.

Especially when it comes to sexuality and gender, you relying on someone outing themselves or you clocking them to decide whether their words have merit is shitty, because you won’t always know if they ARE the group “allowed” to talk about it. And even beyond that, I knew a fuckload about transness before I realized I was trans, it helped me REALIZE I was trans. “Listen to x voices” got sooooo warped in the discourse.

#its so important to remember there's not one way to look or act as an lgbtq+ person #in my latest uni project i worked with other queer people and #and I specified i wasnt just looking for people who might be considered “visibly queer”#because there are so many ways to be queer and how you look or act isnt neccasarily representative of who you are or how you identify #and im so glad i specified because #(while lots of “visibily queer” people did work with me)#lots of people who arent as visible said to me that they wouldn't usually reply to a project about queer people #because they worry they wouldn't “look queer enough”#and thats such a horrible and alienating concept #people shouldn't feel excluded because they don't fit your expectations of who they should be #and their views and experiences shouldn't be discounted for it either

marklikely

put that hot topic spider punk merch down immediately and get out your diy supplies or i swear to god

#literally #draw #paint #collage #download a picture off the internet and edit it in MS Paint #cut out letters from magazines #movie studios are happy to create anti-capitalist content as long as it fuels their capitalism #at least once lets try to embrace the punk spirit #and just rebel

groupcritpowerdynamics

A Thing Like You and Me, chalk pastel on paper

2023

#chalk pastel??????#omg #insane skill

astrothenonbinary

deletedpeach-deactivated2023082

No offence but friendships are just as important as relationships

diane-nguyen-watches-cartoons-d

Guy who’s only ever seen Rocky Horror Picture Show watching his second movie with the word “horror” on the cover.

charlesoberonn

clockheartedcrocodile

micro-usb-deactivated20230625

diane-nguyen-watches-cartoons-d

reblog if your tumblr is more popular than the Metaverse

bell-mare

⚪️Man ⚪️Woman 🔘Oh You Know

queerdnp

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plumslices

“Saying i love you every minute lessens the meaning” um to YOU….freak.

silvadraconis

kalelraejepsen-deactivated20231

i’m taking the words “fetish” and “kink” away from the internet until you people learn what sexual attraction is

kalelraejepsen-deactivated20231

objectification too like it's called "objectification" because the subject of someone's sexual desire is being treated as an object with no desires of their own. there's nothing wrong with thinking a person is sexy as long as you don't forget they're a person. holy shit people

greensunzenith

"sexualization and objectification are the same thing” comes straight from “sex is an intrinsically degrading act” and frankly I’m not into that vibe in the slightest

renfield-did-nothing-wrong

dracula is considered a classic because it covers timeless human emotions such as "this food is not good for me but I'll eat it again because it's delicious" and "i ran to the train and of course it was late"

moon111111

afterword

idk who needs to hear this rn but suffering is not noble. take the tylenol

wahoo-shem

One time when I was younger I was refusing to take headache medicine and my mom said “the person who invented that medicine is probably so sad you won’t let them help you” and now every time I find myself denying medicine I just imagine the saddest scientist making those big wet eyes like “why won’t you let me help” and whoop then I take the medicine